An Amazing Night

The calm before the storm is the best expression I can think of for this next ten days before Christmas. Last night conformed eerily to that description. It was deathly quiet in the house, none of my friends were on line, the dog was sound asleep on the futon next to me in my office where I sat cruising on the computer. J was upstairs in her studio working on a project. It has been several years now that all the kids are gone from the house; the current quiet has become the norm. The term “empty nest” has real meaning around here, it is very quiet at night. Add to that, early darkness and no one on line; it is no wonder that evenings have become a time for me to ruminate and write. So at 8 PM I began writing a section of my next erotic book.

Against this backdrop of the mind numbing calm, my rich inner sex life has become like the lights of Broadway. Last night was no exception; the events of last night were so amazing that I needed to get them written and posted before I forgot them. So instead of doing my work this morning I am taking this diversion to get this written so I can post it. Read more »

moving in the right direction

It has been a week since my last session. I think most of my problems are i am always sneaking around trying to find a moment when no one is home. The problem with that is in the back of my mind i am always thinking about someone coming home and finding me in bed in the middle of the day or at some other unusual time. If i hear a neighbors car door close i think its at my house and get up. Not good. I have been making progress however and have really been able to concentrate and be aware of my prostrate and feelings in between sessions a-less. Last night i decided to have a session in bed with my wife there. She thinks i use the aneros for health purposes in fact she got me started on it years ago from a article she had read. So with her there and knowing what i was doing there was no stress about being caught. It had been a week since my last session and release so i was ready to go. Since iwas so relaxed and not distracted the session started out great. I was relaxed in minutes and warm sensations and light pulsing was happening frequently. It felt so good i fell asleep. I woke up about a half hour later and laid on my back and pulled my legs up and tried a few contractions I could not get the warm feelings and pulsing back. I re lubed and tried some more but I was two hours in now and it was getting late so I pulled out and went to sleep. I woke up two hours later with a hard on, i put my hand down to feel and it was rock hard. i had used coconut oil during the session so the residual was stillon my perenium and in my ass crack. i rubbed my perenium snd could feel my cock shaft base hard all the way to the root started rubbing the cocunut oil from my ass crack up the perenium and was lightly coating my cock. I could not believe how hard I was. It was 2 am i should be sleeping. i peeled back the covers and started stroking away.could not believe how hard i was and how long i was lasting. I had a T shirt on and i finally blasted a load like i could not believe. Peeled the shirt off and laid back and went to sleep. The next morning i picked up the shirt from the floor it had a streak of wet cum from my collar all the way down to the bottom with a big pool at the bottom. It must have been a huge load. If nothing else the Aneros sessions are improving blood flow, feelings and increasing pleasure down there. Now that I feel comfortable having a session while my wife is in the room i think good things are on the way. She was not feeling well andslept through the whole thing. going to take a break for a few days feeling it today a little. good luck to all!

learning the hard way

Last week I did all the things you are not supposed to do trying to make something happen. It included four sessions in five days, trying different positions, trying different lubes. A all out newbie quest for the big one. Needless to say nothing exciting to report, however i learned from my mistakes. It happened in my last session, I had a bad cold so i took a hot shower and wanted to lay down in bed and rest I felt like crap, so what did i do I decided to put the Helix in before laying down. During my experiments this week I discovered coconut oil and find it do be a very effective lube. Easy to insert for pre lube due to its solid form when cold, just push a piece in and it melts away inside. Lubing the Aneros is a bit tricky but it gets the job done and stays in place. Iwas cold and achey so i just laid down to take a nap not even trying for anything with the aneros. Once I got warm under the covers and I was almost asleep my prostrate warmed up and pulsed a few times. It got my attention but I just wanted to rest. I was nodding off and on and in between was having warm flashes and pulses in the prostrate area every so often. Then the newbie in me started trying to make something happen and things went away. I took a little nap and woke up feeling like i wanted to release from my frustrating week. I grabbed a piece of the coconut oil and presed it on my penis just under the glands and started to let it melt away. I slide the melting piece slowly up and down the underside of my shaft concentrating on the upper half. I started to get hard and the oil was melting nicely. I had had the aneros in for over two hours at this point but i was now concentrating on getting the hardest erection i could. I would contract and push blood into my shaft the aneros pushing from behind, this went on for a while and the cocunut oil also makes a great hand job lube. I finally released with the Aneros pumping and pushing away it felt great and i just laid there for a while covered in cum and coconut oil. So what did i learn from the week. coconut oil is a good alternative natural lube. When they say relax they mean relax! almost like going to sleep. let the feelings build on their own and do not try to manipulate them. (all things I read in the forum but I guess you need to figure it out on your own) I have decide to obstain for four days until thursday and will take my new knowledge to heart. Looking forward to a nice relaxing time that could possibly lead to something more. Will keep you posted thanks for reading

How do you breathe during a session?

The wiki suggests two types of breathing:

Deep breathing to relax, which I think is consciously breathing into the lower chest
'Valley' breathing, to "stimulate the abdominal and pelvic areas". I've done a bit of research but can't quite understand what this is. Does anyone do it?

I've tried deep breathing during a session but found it a bit of a frustration because the consistent conscious effort took my concentration away from other sensations.

Does anyone else pay attention to breathing? What do you do?

Session #2 this is different.

Aneros Syn, came in last week. The first night, just felt uncomfortable. Tried different positions, not much going on. Even tried som gonewildaudio and binaural beats. Nope.

Obviously knew that this was going to take some effort. Gave myself a couple nights off as my wife was home.(night nurse, she knows " I don't want anything to do with your asshole!")

Last night. Round 2. Lube it up, put it in and skipped through that xtube video. More binaural; No Hands Orgasm. Half hour later, nothing. Shut everything off. Keep breathing and lay on my back, feet together, knees apart and supported by pillows on either side. More breathing.

Some time later: feel a little tightening in my lower abs, not sure if I'm doing it or not, kinda like the same muscle group you tighten to push out a load. I don't recall doing this on purpose but I can relax it and let my butt rest deeper in the mattress. This happens for a couple minutes. I concentrate and think about my wife straddling me.

A little bit later, I notice it again. My mindset is that I want to be horny, like when you purposefully fantasize about that hot chick at work, but know you shouldn't. My muscles are contracting again and I can feel life if lifted myself off the bed a bit. It's like having been laying across hot coals while trying to keep your body off of it, but requires no effort on your part. A little stronger than before. Read more »

My Journey with Prostate Massage

Barely into my 20s, I experimented with solo masturbation. Meaning, I was already well-versed in jacking off, but…was there another way? One night, under cover of darkness (ha) I tried something new. I noticed when I jacked off, something "inside" would tighten. This, together with "rubbing" would produce the desired result. So, I figured, how about if I just "tightened"; no rubbing? It took a while, but paid off in a most sublime climax, lengthy and…peculiar. Delightful. It seemed to take a lot of effort, and what seemed like an hour, as delightful as it was, I wouldn't be going back there for a little while. My normal second-hand forays would have to do. And so they did. Of course, often after that, would you believe 40 years?.. I'd try to recapture that same feeling, with the same climax. The "feeling" was possible to recapture but it never crescendoed once into it's desired result. Not once.
Into my 60s I was going through a rough time romantically, sexually. One time, getting ready to have nap, I flopped down on the bed, on my side, knees bent. That "feeling" was there, quite strong. I realized it had something to do with my position (lying on left side). I noted this.
I noted this and "concentrated" on this feeling and while experimenting one day, my feelings rose to a pitch where it hovered and crossed over a point of no return and I dry-orgasmed. It was delightful. Aha! It was back. I tried over and over, over perhaps a year and had many pleasant experiences. I noted two major requirements: Concentration and Time. They usually took an hour to accomplish. Something I could only do if I had time and was alone. Business trips were good. I'd lie down for a nap and go to town.
My procedure was to lie down, on left side, remove pants and underwear, and bend my knees. And not do anything, but concentrate on the feelings, and perhaps let erotic thoughts waft into my head. Most times I'd get off, trip into a dreamy dry orgasm land and have multiple soft, gentle climaxes. Some sessions were better than others. Some were duds, one or two were so powerfully erotically, I have not been able to supersede them, even with a device up my butt.
I began to look up this phenomena on the web and somehow I got hooked up with Aneros and High Island. The experiences they portrayed sounded like mine, so I made the connection.
To backtrack a little. When I first started to experiment again, in my 60s, I was going through a rough spot even with my sex life, as I began to have lovemaking sessions with my wife that 'didn't work". First time ever, as for our 30 years or more this had never been a problem. Seems like my member, though initially it was eager, soon dried up sexually, with interest, excitement gone. So, this revelation was welcome. Somehow it kick-started me into being more turned on, more active, so it helped and to this day, thank God, that impotency problem has hardly every returned.
OK, so I discovered the Aneros website and wanted to "try one of those". I felt like I knew what they were capable of. All the talk of "rewiring" I immediately understood, as I had been, in a sense rewired.
I now have 5 models, the SGX, MGX, the Eupho, Heli and Prograsm Classic. And I still occasionally go device-less with comparable results.

Super-O…Check!

As I write this I'm still coming down from my first ever Super-O, nerves are still on edge and my hands are a bit jittery. Roughly two years ago I began my journey with the Aneros Helix-Syn. I've had many breaks, and have probably only used it for maybe 3-4 months, at spurts of 2-3 weeks at a time. I'll try to catalog everything that occurred during my session first as I think most people are interested in that. Afterward I'll go into my preparation and events leading up to this. I have a very "engineering" approach to everything I do as such this may be a bit detailed.

I coated the helix syn in a very thin layer of vaseline, the way I accomplish this is by just globbing it on to ensure an even and full coat, wiping my hand off, then removing the excess with a clean hand until it's shiny and slick. Next I internally inserted 5cc (5ml) of astroglide sensitive skin gel. I have a sensitivity issue with glycerin and this is the only water based i could find without it. I then placed a very small amount over the entire length of the toy.

I moved to my bed and loaded up "Dreamgasm" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jK13_DlgFNo). This is actually one of my least favorite of the 5 in the series, i find some parts annoying, but its also the one I had my now second best experience with. Earbuds in, lights out, roll to my side, pillow between the knees, one under my head, one cuddled in front of me. Read more »

Holy shit! I think I finally did it!

This literally just happened. I've been using Aneros products on and off for the better part of a decade, and although I've enjoyed the feeling and had some great super-ts, I've never been able to achieve a full on super-O. Today, that changed. I've been really getting more into of the "hands-off" approach to my sessions for the last few months, and I've come close but never been able to break through. Today I had my third session of the week with my Helix Syn after taking some extra prep time to trim the hedges and clean up real good. I took my time and relaxed thuroughly while inserting, and after taking a few minutes to get adjusted, began breathing deeply and lightly alternating my pc and sphincter. This time however I kept telling myself in my head, "you're not going to super, and that's ok." Also I tried to get a rhythm going so the contractions were happening naturally rather than something I had to actively concentrate on. After just a few minutes I started to get some involuntary buzzing, and slowly that buzzing began to spread throughout my entire body, growing in intensity. At it's peak, my abdominal muscles were fully contracted, and entire body was tingling very strongly. I would relate the feeling to the tingling that happens in your face when you hyperventilate, plus the buzzing numbness you get in your hands after mowing the lawn for a while, but both over my entire body. It kept going like that for probably five minutes or more, I feel like I could have kept it up, but I was getting exhausted at that point, so i let it idle down. Read more »

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN (follow-up)

I had not made a lot of progress since my last post until very recently. I decided to write a follow-up for people who are interested in other guy's experiences.

Frustrating sessions

After my last post I was fairly confident to make a lot of progress in my next sessions. But I was wrong about that. I had problems getting a tug-of-war going. The binaural beats did help, but I lost my concentration easily. I knew that I was trying too hard. I did the exact same things in my last sessions and expected some kind of breakthrough moment and never-ending pleasure. It was quite frustrating. But I was more frustrated about my high expectations than the lack of progress. I stopped using my Aneros for two weeks.

Two nice sessions on the same day

I had a cold and a bit of time on my hands. I spend some time watching porn without jerking off and thought about using my Aneros again. As soon as I was feeling much better, I started a session. But this time I did a few things differently. Read more »

I didn't wear a jockstrap. In my early sessions I was often distracted by my penis and pre-cum. When my penis was rubbing on my stomach it sometimes felt like jerking off. The pre-cum didn't help. I tried to avoid penile stimulation by wearing a jockstrap. For some reason I was confident to not get distracted by penile stimulation this time. I would just try to focus on anal stimulation.

I found the “Sweet Spot”, and a question

I highly recommend getting a Hemorrhoid cushion, and just sitting.

Really, that is all you have to do. It puts just the right pressure where needed. Besides, the cushion really is needed, because otherwise, sitting is some positions can cause a lot of discomfort, or outright pain.

Over time, the prostate get more and more sensitive, and the body seems to automatically seek the most pleasurable sensations.

Really, I think that is the most basic programming of ALL life.

Seek out pleasure. Ovoid anything that is not pleasurable.

It takes a while, but it slowly gets better and better, over time eventually the O hits. But it keeps on going. It still takes a little while, but much sooner the second O comes, the third even faster, the forth faster, until pretty soon it is almost constant orgasms.

At this point, it is nearly impossible to concentrate on anything other than the constant pleasure.

I've found a sort of solution to the concentration problem.

Try to stop the orgasms. It isn't easy. Then gently manipulate the position you are sitting in. I call it the Sweet Spot. It is not as intense as the O. But it is damned good. And it never stops. Anyway it is easier to concentrate on something else. Even then, it is very easy to slip back into the constant orgasms.

And now for a question. How long is it safe to leave this thing in? Read more »