Some basic info and some sexy thoughts

I’ve thought about starting a blog so many times. This incredible family of devices has taken up so much of my thought and effort in the past four years. There is so much to say.

First, some basic info about me and my style of play.

Late 30s. Northeast USA. Happily married. Heteroamorous but newly cock curious (you can read my forum posts to find out more about that).

Routine =

Coconut oil.

Nest. Must create a restful, comfortable environment. Mostly clear mattress. Lots of pillow props and – this is really useful – a heating pad!

Position. Lie on back. Legs out a bit, sometimes splayed. Like to put either left or right leg up on a pillow.

Prelube (coconut oil) and insertion. The smaller models are best for me. I own all, but mgx and ProJr have the best effects.

Do nothing technique. Complete and utter relaxation is necessary. Any hint of contraction kills all sensation. It has to build naturally.

Wait and Enjoy. Then just wait patiently for forty-five minutes and let the sensations build. The best part is that I let my mind go and I hallucinate the craziest things. Sometimes its images and sometimes even sensations or memories or smells.

When it’s happening it’s like I fall into a realm of pure sex. Every fantasy I ever had or could have comes to life. Sometimes I experience it first hand and sometimes I can almost see myself in the midst of the action. Read more »

“What is Sex? Why Does It Feel So F***** Good?”

This session became the ultimate "do-nothing" Aless session!

I was laying in bed in the early morning hours just wondering if I should begin an Aneros session? I took off my clothes, was just laying there and began "exploring" my body and my thoughts drifted to this whole "sex" thing for us.

Now I am not a philosopher so I will not even attempt to give a philosophical viewpoint of this subject. I will, however, give my own "male interpretation" of it.

[I must say right off that I am interpreting this discussion as a "straight" guy and do not in any way disparage alternative sexual relationships.]

Here goes……

First off, I understand that lofty discussion about that "continuing the species" aspect of sex as it relates to our Maker. It sounds so logical but so cold. Of course there has to be a deeper meaning behind it all. I will attempt to put into words what I was feeling.

Male Aspect: Our male bodies are truly unique. It has been said that the entire male (and female) bodies are erogenous zones, every square inch. And I believe that to be true. Of course, we can explore our most erogenous areas at length: the penis, testicles, scrotum, anal region, nipples and so on. These are all highly erotic. We are "wired" to elicit this sexual response to external stimuli such as touch, smell and taste. Visually, we can see our erect members and they are wonderful to look at! A newfound pleasure can be found in the prostate. If we never had any contact with females, we could remain in a "blissful" state regarding sex for the rest of our lives. However, there is so much more to this subject….. Read more »

Aneros-Less Ride

I had a little trouble sleeping after the "Do-Nothing" session. So while I was lying in bed, I decided to do a few contractions. What could be the harm in that? Let me tell you—-plenty!

-The contractions (without the Aneros) seemed to cause an immediate hard erection (including my balls which became engorged as well) and as I continued to do some contractions, it definitely felt like I was headed for a Dry-O! Didn't last a great while but I know from a previous A-Session that it was a Dry-O! I lay there is disbelief what had just happened. I didn't think it was possible with no Aneros inserted! I stopped the contractions and eventually went back to sleep.

-About an hour later, I woke up and my instinct was to do a few contractions to pass the time. What do you think happened? Apparently, my penis has a direct connection to the prostate, and within a minute, yep, I had a rock-hard erection including my balls. Since I had cum not that long ago, I just ignored the urge and tried to go back to sleep.

Time passed: 5 minutes, 10…, 15…, 20…, 25…, 30 minutes and I was as rock-hard as ever. All the while, I was lying on my stomach hoping the erection would subside. It didn't and I lay there aching, writhing in erectile agony not really wanting to ejaculate. I rolled over on my back and had yet another Mini-O at that time. Read more »

A Self-Challenge: Do-Nothing Session

I have been reading about the "Do-Nothing" Session and decided to try one. It was a quiet evening and I was expecting……nothing! Boy was I wrong!

Let me explain…

Here were the simple ground rules:

-Absolutely no anal contractions!

-Must lie in the same position perfectly still

-Normal breathing throughout

-Minimum time: 45 minutes

Following this initial phase, contractions will be permitted as in a regular session. However, the same position must be maintained. Simple, right?

Here's how this session unfolded:

PHASE 1=
I lubed up, inserted the helix and assumed a right side position which felt very comfortable. I was in bed naked but with the covers drawn so as not to be chilly.

All was going well for about 5 minutes when I noticed an involuntary "twitching" in my rectum alternating with some very powerful involuntary abdominal contractions. These abdominal contractions were completely unexpected and powerful and I reacted to each one with an audible moan. They occurred on a fairly regular basis for about 15 to 20 minutes or more. With every "twitch" and contraction, the prostate was getting a "jolt" from the helix. So much for "do-nothing" huh? It seems that the prostate just wouldn't stand for "nothing" (is this part of the re-wiring process?)

Around the same time, although I was covered and warm, I developed an uncontrollable shaking head to toe. This was also quite unexpected. The shaking lasted about 5 to 10 minutes I believe and eventually subsided. Read more »

Success after much trial and error. Don’t give up!

Hello everyone,

I got my first aneros a little more than a year ago, and my experience with it has definitely had it’s ups and downs (heyo). I have the original helix classic as well as later acquiring the progasm (I’m rather tall so I figure it might hit my prostate better). Anyway, I essentially tried pretty much everything in the book: do nothing, contractions in rhythm with my breathing, taking a bath/yoga before a sesh, hypnosis, etc. You name it, I’ve probably tried it. Having seen many posts about not trying to force the issue and what not, I decided to get really serious about the process and refrain from any sort of penile contact for a week. In this time period, I did about 2-3 aneros sessions (without any sort of climax) before eventually getting too aroused and finishing in the traditional way. This week definitely did help “awaken” new sensations. Read more »

Anerosing highs and lows

First couple times I used my progasm I could feel my body shaking and then about a week later I did not have the shakes but I could feel the energy in my spine several times but it never moved. Fast forward another week till today and there are times I get those shakes and times I don't I feel like a couple sessions were duds. I know I'm still at a noob status only doing it for a couple weeks but sometimes I feel like I lost the new ness of the ride. Maybe I have my expectations too high? Maybe I should get another model? Maybe I should try it for a couple more weeks? I have been doing the do nothing approach so far. I'm not new to anal play but I am new to the Aneros. I have tried different positions maybe I should change positions and see if that works

A little help

I've been using the helix syn for a few months now, but tonight was the first time I used the 'do nothing' approach. After a while I felt my muscles clench and the syn was pulled in. It felt amazing, but I couldn't hold it for long. Any tips on how to last longer – I think I'm close to the super-O. Thanks guys.

10+ orgasms in one session (follow-up)

I didn’t count them, but I just had more than 10 orgasms in one session with my Aneros Helix SYN and it was awesome!

This is a follow-up to my first post and my second post.

Experiments with coconut oil

After my last post I started to experiment with coconut butter but I didn’t like it very much and soon returned to water based lube. I may try coconut oil again in the future. This tip from anerothon was helpful. I can recommend to prepare some scoops in the fridge or freezer. Keeps the fingers from getting too sticky. Using the freezer may be too cold, be careful!

No progress

Since my last post I tried multiple sources for audio stimulation. I tried some moaning from /r/gonewildaudio because I like to hear moaning (even though I don’t really moan myself). But at some point I always lost my horniness. I also listened to different binaural beats. The ones with deep bass worked best. But sometimes it didn’t work at all. I often got a bit frustrated and changed the audio in the middle of my session. This didn’t help at all. I decided to start over with the do nothing technique and this time I would do it right. I needed to relax. Read more »

Orgasmic Symphony

When I don’t make these posts I feel like a part of my sex life is missing. Describing the experiences I have is as much a part of my sexual response as is having them. There is an erotic excitement to writing these that I miss when I skip them. I savor all the things I write about as they happen to me, then I get to savor them again as I remember them and commit them to words. The act of recalling erotic sensations and experiences allows me to indulge myself like I woud with a favorite wine or chocolate that I have been craving. They satisfy me as they turn me on. Savoring the sensations, emotions and rapture I experience and describing them to readers is as sensual as the experience itself.

When I write these entries I am fully erect and dripping precum; I am now. I am embarrassed to say that I use ladies panty liners to keep from soaking through my pants when I write; indeed I have one in now. I have just learned that they have come out with a version of underwear liners for men. I will have to get some and see if they work as well as ladies. I must say however that the understated fetishist in me secret is turned on when I slide a women’s liner in my underwear. What can I say? Read more »

Getting discouraged

Have the progasm and I love the way it feels inside of me. I love the fullness and sensation of having it in my ass. I guess I am just not getting this whole retiring deal everyone talks about. I never seem to get erect…go from limp to semi. Fair amount of pre cum. I follow the guides on Aneros website … Never touch my dick but just don't seem to get those feeling everyone else writes about. I can get instead feelings from the in and out motion of a real dick or dildo but not from this Aneros plug. I would love to hear from any of you guys that have had success. I have had mine for sine February. Have used it a fair amount of times but ended up pushing it to the back of my underwear drawer as it was doing nothing for me. I have brought it back out and giving it a try agin. Hopefully you guys have some spot on tips for me.