This is my first blog. I little about me and the start of my journey. I am a 53 year old heterosexual male. I have been married for 23 years and have loved every minute. I have always had a auto sexual side and my wife has been fine with that. I have "toyed" with anal play during some of my solo sessions – fingers – too awkward – bought a small butt plug – did not care for it. Several months ago I started fantasizing more about anal penetration and I started looking for an appropriate toy. After a lot of research I settled on the Aneros products – but which to get?
I was not sure what size would be good for me so I purchased the Helix Syn and the DeVice – I could decide which to use once I saw them up close.
My purchase arrived over the week end:
First impressions – The Helix Syn seemed smaller than I expected – but based on the reviews I still had high hopes. The Device was larger than I expected and much larger than the Helix – I decided that I would put the DeVice away until I was much more experienced, (glad that I did not purchase that 5.5 inch x 1.5 inch Anal Fantasy model that I was originally looking at.)
Tag: Helix
tempo
i have 2 favorite models the helix and the tempo. After using the helix and realising how much pressure our muscles put on the thing I wondered why the tempo or the paradise for that matter have ever slipped in without the tabs say like the helix has. A couple times i thought i could feel my tempo being sucked inside me but it didnt. I understand theses 2 different models are supposed to be used for different reason but at the same time the same effects can be felt with both or thats what i have found. Anybody ever had problems with the tempo or the paradice before?
How to use Helix Syn/Aneros properly?
I just got my Helix Syn and I’ve had 2 sessions so far. I’m confused on what I should be doing to get pleasurable sensations and orgasms. I haven’t really felt any pleasure from either session. I did precum quite a bit throughout both sessions but I didn’t really get any pleasurable feelings. And toward the end of my first session I thought I might have felt a few gentle muscle twitches.
Typically I start on my back with my knees bent since this position is comfortable. Then I spend the first 10 minutes trying to relax, not doing any contractions. Then after 10 minutes I start contracting then relaxing the contraction and then repeating the contraction process. I would also masturbate occasionally throughout both sessions but stop before I cum. Both of my session were a little over an hour long.
I guess I have a few questions. Should I be contracting or should I just do nothing (do nothing approach)? And if I should be contracting, with what intensity should I do it with? Do I need to focus on breathing at all? Should I refrain from touching me penis or masturbating during a session or does it matter? Are there any specific things/actions that I need to be doing in order for the Syn to work?
From the Aneros website forums, it does seem like it takes a while to master using this toy, but I want to make sure I’m doing everything right.
Aneros “Tunnel” Challenge
[This "mini-fantasy" was rather superficial]
A friend of mine (who also happens to be an Aneros-fan) and I found ourselves on a walk which we like to do. It was a warm summer day and we were dressed minimally. We were in a remote part of the state when we came across a fairly long but abandoned tunnel. You could see the end from the entrance so it wasn't too dark. It was pretty deserted and there was no one around except us.
Now my friend and I are a little 'weird' in that we 'carry' an Aneros and a small tube of lube when we go out together, for just an occasion as this one. My friend threw-down a challenge to me:
"I challenge you to an Aneros race. We will insert our Aneros' and the first guy to make it to the end of the tunnel WINS!"
"You're on!" I quickly said. "How difficult could this be?" [I usually do my Aneros sessions laying down so this will be a snap.]
So, crazy as this sounds, we both quickly had our Aneros' in and began the long walk to the end of the tunnel. "This will be a snap!" I thought.
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Now I'm sure I did NOT win this 'race'. Let me explain……..
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Aneros Helix Intense Charger broke.
Is there anyway to replace the charger on the aneros helix. I accidentally snapped the usb connector off into the magnetic charger adapter. And I was wondering if i could get it replaced before i go soldering away.
Few questions
Hey everyone, I have a helix syn and have been experimenting with minimal results, I have done 2 “sessions”.. The second session I manually came a few times and noticed when I did I would have a pulsing feel deep in my hole near the end of the syn, was that my prostate? Also, I can’t find a precise answer but how do prostate / vaginal orgasms compare? People say they are similar and I am curious.
Most important update
I have not updated in some time and I want to get this very important message to you. I have a session 2 or 3 times a week when I can have a couple of hours to be alone with myself. Knowing oneself this is the point. Each session does get better than the last. I now get into an orgasm very quickly and just mostly stay in an orgasmic state for an hour or so then let it go until ready for next time. My buddy Eupho Syn does have longest lasting orgasms. They are so good is why this one has become my favorite. I will be doing my Helix Syn next session as to get a different ride and maybe more intense. I will find out. Love my Aneros buddies… sofunloivng…
[Solo] play night by myself
Hi! I have a big night planned soon when the wife is out of town so ill be home alone. Im planning to have a massive solo session with my helix. Any ideas to: – maximize my arousal pre session – any preperation tips/ideas – set up and scene of action ideas?
Birthday Aneros Session, March 30, 2016
Hi guys,
Today I am celebrating 67th birthday. I observed it in part with my first Aneros session in over two months. There are two reasons for this long hiatus between sessions. First, we had a rather cold winter, and second, lingering affects from the flu. I just feel up for sessions on cold winter mornings. I felt despondent about thrown into old age.
I decided to have a birthday nevertheless as good luck for the coming year in some many ways, especially as to my general health.
The major take away from this morning's session that after long Aneros usage, you never quite forget how so good the various models feel working away in you. I call this Aneros memory.
I used my most favorite Aneros models this morning: Helix Classic, Maximus, Tempo, and Progasm Classic.
Helix Classic for a long time has been a session opener. I began my Aneros journey in early June 2012 with Helix Syn which I believe is a good introduction to anal play for guys totally unfamiliar to that experience as me. I like Helix Classic better because that model provides more direct stimulation. This morning I opened myself up to new sensations from Helix Classic and was richly rewarded.
“A Simple Fantasy”
This "ride" started out with a "warm-up" of the HIH PS-NEW for about 30 minutes. It really "milked" the prostate and got out quite a bit of prostatic fluid. This time, there was no discomfort except I couldn't take more than 30 minutes since it was fairly intense.
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Since I was lubed-up already, I switched to Helix and almost immediately began to feel P-waves. I started increasing the strength and frequency of contractions, when I began to enter this "fantasy"—
My wife was in bed with me and she also is nude. She lays alongside of me and takes hold of my upper torso. She begins to caress my nipples and my pecs. It feels so good!
[This "fantasy" deepens as….]
OMG! She has inserted her finger in my well-lubed anus and she "knows" EXACTLY where my prostate is! She begins to stroke it very lightly. I can feel every stroke! She keeps this up for a while and I am beginning to experience a state of agonizing "bliss" from her stimulation.
She stops the stroking for a short while but she keeps her finger in my anus. She is "teasing" me! She is still holding on to me and I love the feeling of her warm body against mine…..Then, suddenly….