Am I doing something wrong?

Throwaway for privacy issues… So I bought the helix syn and have used it twice. I put it in watch my desired porn or browse my desired reddits and just kind of sit there and relax. I do the contractions and eventually go faster and faster. I get a really good feeling that is hard to describe but it feels great and I try to focus on that. Both times I have had a regular hands free orgasm where I ejaculate. Im guessing this isnt a prostate O or a super O.(Not sure if there is a difference) Both times I stopped after I ejaculate. Do I need to keep going after I cum? Or should i be doing something different. Basically I am contracting my muscle and feeling it push against my prostate which feels amazing, but I am not sure if maybe I should be doing something different?

Am I on the right track?

Hello everyone,

Back in September I bought the Helix Syn as my first toy. Ever since I've gotten it, during good sessions I get a feeling of my body sort of "building up" to something, but not sure what. It seems as though this is a build up to the super-O? However just as it gets good, the feeling just…disappears. As if it didn't happen. The build ups make me feel like I'm ready to explode.

It feels good and everything when that happens, and I love using the toy even when I'm not actively trying for the super-O because I LOVE the way it feels on my prostate (indescribable feeling, warm, tingly as it rocks back and forth, but I'm sure you veterans know all about it). However, it's kind of disappointing because for such a big build up that makes me moan involuntarily nothing really happens.

I don't use the toy super often, usually just when I get that "itch" that needs to be scratched maybe once a week. I have had a dry, hands-free traditional orgasm from it, and that time it felt as though my ass wouldn't let go of the toy. Once in a while I'll feel my eyes rolling back as that build up I describe happens, or a feeling of vertigo. I've also tried using a Vice, to see if the vibration keeping stimulation while I'm built up would do anything, but I've had very little success in even getting too built up by that toy.

The first session.

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Just so I don't set up bad expectations for people looking to get into things with an Aneros, let me set down the ways in which I had kind of a leg up on getting the most out of the Aneros experience. And there are quite a few ways.

I have been maintaining kegel muscle tone through casual use for about 15 years

I have experienced hands-free orgasm before without the aid of any sort of toy, tool, accessory, or substance

I am incredibly relaxed person–massages do nothing for me because there simply isn't any tension to massage out )side note, the bafflement of people who try to give me a massage anyway is priceless(

Since puberty my most frequently consumed sex-related viewing material by far is fairly academic in nature–I know a lot of things about a lot of parts, and a lot of ways to be safe in sexual situations, including ones that I frankly never plan to be involved in

So, my girlfriend tripped across mention of the Aneros online, sent me the info, and so today I received my Helix Syn. What follows is a pretty detailed account of how I used it for the first time.

Had a lot of fun tonight with my girlfriend and a MGX.

Hey Reddit Aneros people,

I just started using an aneros again last night, after having purchased an MGX years ago and using it for a bit with limited success, and then sticking it a drawer to collect dust. I definitely had some pleasure using it, but not enough to keep my interest.

The main reason I decided to bring it out of retirement is that I finally have a girlfriend I feel comfortable enough with to bring up the idea of me using something like that with her.

I had enough fun with her and the MGX last night, that I went only and ordered two more models to try. The Helix Syn and the Progasm Jr. The MGX mostly seems good to me, but the narrow P-tab exerts an uncomfortable amount of pressure. I think I'm going to modify it if I keep using the MGX.

Earlier today we had talked about our thoughts on last night. My girlfriend was totally fine with me using the Aneros, but was a bit disappointed that I hadn't paid much attention to her the whole time I explained to her that I had been focusing on feeling new kinds of pleasure I'm not used to, but that I would be sure to pay more attention to her tonight.

I jump started this by getting us unclothed and starting to kiss and caress her body. I like to have her lay facing away from me like we're spooning. I kiss her neck and run my hands lightly up and down the front of her body. I also breath and whisper into her ear.

Aneros Helix user

I've been using the helix for about 3 months now. I never got the Super O yet, but feel I'm really close. I tried laying on my back with pillows under my legs. I get the best feeling on my knees bent over with my head down. I've tried something different last week. I bent over on my knees leaning into a computer chair and that felt good too. I'm not sure if this is working against my relaxing though.

After coming close for about a two hour session, I used a massager on the helix and that worked out pretty good. After about an hour of that, i sat in the chair with the helix in and used the massager on my prenium. I held the massager tight against my prostate from the outside. I suddenly had an orgasm which hardly had any cum. It was definitely different. Was that a regular traditional orgasm or something close to the Super O?

Is the Eupho Syn just too subtle for beginners?

I recently decided to jump into the Aneros train, and was able to find the Helix Syn on Amazon for about $50. However, when I recieved the package, it turned out there was a mix-up by the seller and I recieved a Eupho Syn instead of the Helix Syn I ordered. I had read that the Eupho line was more for advanced users but decided against attempting to replace it, thinking it would be close enough.

After some lube troubles (damn you, glycerin), I've been trying it out over the past week, and while I originally felt the peeing sensation that is said to come when the prostate is stimulated, it has faded away recently and I honestly don't think I feel much stimulating occuring on the inside. I can feel the p-tab and very rarely some pressure within, but neither are necissarily pleasureable and I end up masturbating normally with it in, where I can begin to feel it slightly more intensely, but nothing notably pleasurable.

Am I still in the "rewiring" stage and need to just stick through it or should I look into getting another model? I never expected instant results but I keep reading about how subtle the Eupho is compared to others, and I can't help but feel I might get a little more out of a more beginner-friendly model.

Journeys

Realized that 3 years have come and gone without me logging any events. Time flies. For the first couple of months aneros really didnt do much for me and but kept remembering what I had read in the aneros blogs and discussions so I pushed forward. As most folks the water based lubes were not good for me and took over a year for me to make the change to silcone lubes and now coconut oil. I had a reaction that created digestive problems and flared up gaseous problems to point I thought I was having a heart attack and had difficulty breathing. The doc said I had acid refllex, but after several visits and different types of acid meds it was something else- took trial and error on my behalf to figure it out. So now after using coconut oil it seems better. My aneros days I thought were over.
Now after three years I'm starting to actually have a better feel of the aneros and think I have a better understanding on what I should be concentrating on and when to stop. Starting to have better sessions now. In the past I focused to much on trying to get sexually excited vs paying attention to what the aneros was doing. I also listen to trance music (electronica) while on my knees and butt up in the air so it better hits the prostate and to totally relax and let the aneros do it's thing. I usually stick my helix in the freezer for a few minutes and the apply the coconut oil so the oil stays in place during the session. I also now take t- booster supplements daily and drink with pur-erh tea with maca and ginseng. I'm 56 years old and the sexual drive needs a boost.

Helix syn – how far??

I just got a helix syn and have tried it twice. My question is about insertion depth. There are two "narrow" areas by the base – one that is somewhat contoured, and one that is really narrow, but very "short." How far should this thing go in? All the way to the very very narrowest point, or just the more contoured narrow spot, which is where it likes to get "sucked" up to naturally? I tried briefly to go for the narrowest point, but it seemed like it wasn't going to happen. Any thoughts? pic for reference:

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I decided to start a blog here so i could someday look back on my experience and also to share with the aneros community how it goes for me. I'm Brazilian so my english won't always be what it might need to be, so i ask for your patience on it.
I'm a 31 years old, straight, married guy.
I bought recently my first Aneros which was a Helyx Syn, and had my first session with it last tuesday.
The forum is very helpful and i understood i shouldn't have expectation as result might take time.
The Helyx Syn is very smooth. i was surprised how bendy the P-tab is. I heard the P-tab could be painful, and i doubt that it is the case with the Helix Syn. Also thought it was smaller than the pictures.
I don't like the whole idea of an enema, and i didn't do one. I won't Wax, won't enema….
I was somewhat aroused by the new experience that i was about to undergo but not highly aroused.
I used water based lube and the aplicator, and lubed the helyx too
I was impressed on how easy insertion was. It wasnt disconforting even though i don't have experience in the anal departament. About half way through insertion it was sucked in by my ass unintentionally. It was like it said "Give me that!!" and i was like "what the fuck?!?"
It wasn´t disconforting with it in me
I tried to breath throught my belly and relax as much as i could but sometimes when i thought my esfincter was relaxed it was really not, it kept coming back to a somewhat tense mode.
The aneros kept poking me inside, sort of like ringing a bell constantly, especially when i relaxed more the esfincter. That didn´t feel neither good nor bad. The orgasm did not feel like answering the door. But i was impressed it did that inside me, as i thoght nothing would happen, i thought it would just sit inside me, i thought to myself "That shit is alive for sure"
Tried some positions and it seemed to move more when i'm on my stomach
I was hard about two times which was dificult lying on my stomach, made a disconfort pressure. It moved faster inside me when i was hard.
There was a moment i thought i was gonna shit myself. Thank god it was not the case.
I tried some light contractions, that did nothing for me that time.
At some point, my ass started to throb a little, quick ones. It was a nice small feeling. Like i get when i stop myself so i won't cum when i'm just on the edge to, or the one when i´m having a dry speel and in need for sex )i don't know if that is common or not(
I thought i did not have any pre-cum, but found evidence otherwise. But it was not much at all.
It was an overwall surprising experience, but i would't call it good. I was happy with it. I wanted to stay with it more time but it was past 1 hour of session and i was a good student. The Wiki said don't overdo it, 1 hour in the begging tops, and i did not want to have bad consequences as i was just starting with that, so i called it quit. Afterwards I did not feel like finishing it off the usual way.
As i did not do an enema it came out dirty, and no matter how much i cleaned it, it stayed with a bad smell. I won't do enemas anyway.
The next day i got a feeling. You know when you are on the see for a while and you come out and you still feel the waves are moving even though you are not in the see anymore? I got kind of a feeling the aneros was moving there. My ass was hangover, it was neither good or bad. I wasn't hurt there either.I did want to have a session that day but thought it would be wise to take it easy, especially with whatever the hell was happening there.
That night i woke up to a feeling of pleasure going from my ass to my balls going through my perinium, when i contracted,)it scared me( it went away. That happened sooo fast that i am not even sure that it happened. did it happened, was it a dream… i'll never know.