well, it's not as easy as i thought that it would be–thought i had it cracked the other day but i'm still a long way from being there–still worth the effort though–tried the methods of fleshjoe and thicktop4u, pushing the p tab as far towards the anus as possible and rocking the hips like climbing the stairs as described–helped some but nothing that takes off by itself and keeps going–there are some promising feelings of about 5 or 10 seconds duration, but they don't loop back on themselves–it's still mostly contractions and holding a very slight contraction while relaxing, hoping i get tired and go into involuntary contractions–but like i said when that happens it lasts only 5 or 10 seconds, but i know what it feels like so i know what i'm looking for
Tag: Involuntaries
ed's journey
i was at my local sex shop and they had the helix so i bought one–this was not a snap decision like when i bought the progasm while i was waiting for my mgx to arrive–i have read and thought a lot about getting the helix because of all the comments about its greater mobility and more robust massage than the mgx–i figured since i was having such small reactions with the mgx, maybe the helix would be better–anyway i tried it that same day but it was very like the mgx sessions–i figure i need a few days rest before i have another session as i have had many days in a row and quite a few with more than one session–i think i need to recharge and to"rewire"–i can tell right away now by how long it takes for some involuntary shivers to start after insertion whether i will have a profitable session or not–i'm still upbeat–only good things can happen cause nothing much has happened yet–after rereading the forum i see that complete relaxation will stop any motion, even if i imagine it starts motion–i think i have to do a voluntary contraction so slight that it is just about no contraction at all in order to start involuntary ones, that's probably why i thought that i was completely relaxed and why i couldn't relax any more when they started–sure wish though, that they would link together and start me flopping on my bed!!–ede_1943
ed's journey
since my last post i have had many sessions–sometimes with several days in between, sometimes daily and sometimes more than one each day–they are at least 1 hour in duration, usually 1 1/2 hours or more–also i've tried various times of the day–i've tried all kinds of different methods and at last i'm getting some results that indicate i may be on the right path at last–i've tried to force involuntary contractions by holding a contraction till i'm fatigued, which never happens–i've tried voluntary contractions till i spasm, but never reach that result–i've tried breathing and total relaxation, i've tried trying to sleep –and i've tried various combinations of all of these methods–my reward has been a totality of nothing to a bunch of shivers and tics–but these shivers and tics are what i'm after and i've noticed that they come only with total relaxation, with no forced contractions or motion on my part–some of the shivers and tics have been longer in duration, giving me another lesson, namely that they can't be controlled in any way to try to make them last longer–my problem is that when they take over i find it impossible to remain relaxed enough to permit them to continue as my legs in particular start to tense up–i think this is the way for me, namely total relaxation through to shivers and spasms–well, no one told me it was going to be easy–also i can't seem to remain aroused while i go for total relaxation and if i try to raise my arousal i become tense and feel nothing–the "feeling" of something happening only returns after i'm relaxed again, with the lessening of arousal–i think that the way i read the aneros instructions and the help on the forum caused me to believe that i could consciously control my contractions and that this would lead into the involuntary phase, which does not happen for me anyway–ede_1943
mttron's blog
Since this is the first entry i shall introduce myself. I allready did that in a forum post, so i'll just copypaste that:
I don't know if this is that unusual, but I discovered this whole meditative hands free prostate stimulation thing on my own, before I even heard about the aneros. I was 15 or so. English classes were very boring, but my teacher was hot. So i stared at her, undressing her in my mind and flexed those muscles. What I discovered changed my life. Finally I had a meaningful activity I could do in school. Since I spend a lot of time in school, I really could improve my technique.
When I'm really horny and relaxed the sensations I can archieve are similiar to what aneros users discribe. I get those involuntary convulsions and my state of mind is completely altered. I feel like I am just a big prostate and there's nothing on my mind but that incredible buzzing and twitching. Unfortunately this state isn't very sustainable after 20 min or so it goes away. I don't think I already experienced what you call the Super-O. I just need something that helps me to keep going; something that pushes me over the edge.
Rumel's Ruminations – Part I
This Blog is in two Sections : Part II is my periodic blog of experiences (most recent at the top), Part I (this one) is just copies of some of my earliest Forum entries (oldest at the bottom)
12/17/07 : I read in the newspaper today about the death of singer-songwriter Dan Fogelberg at the age of 56 due to advanced prostate cancer, boy did that bring a twinge of pain to my heart. He was an artist that I grew up listening to with a gentle thoughtful style I regularly enjoyed. It certainly gives me pause to think how fortunate I am that my own cancer was detected early enough for effective treatment to commence. I now have a very good prospect of becoming a long lived cancer survivor. To any of you guys who may read this blog entry, I strongly urge you to begin getting yearly PSA tests (especially if you are over the age of 50)to monitor for potential prostate cancer. It is a simple blood test, I would never have discovered my own cancer were it not for that finding of an increasing PSA level. Hopefully, upon conclusion of my own treatments, I can get back to enjoying the wonderful Aneros journey I began back in April.
My journey begins………
So, I thought I'd share my journey of discovery here to hopefully contribute to the collective, as well as learn from other users.
I have had my Helix for about a month now, and have had about 5 sessions with it. I have not yet experienced an orgasm, but have definitely noticed some wonderful sensations and have begun discovering some of the more subtle muscular movements.
SOME HISTORY:
I have been very sexually-oriented person since childhood, and started masturbating at the age of 5, in the form of rubbing on my bedpost. Since then, I've tried just about everything under the sun, but, of course, the majority of it was (is) "penile-centric".
I'm now 41, married to the same woman I started dating 22 years ago, and we are mutually expanding our sexual horizons.
I started reading books on Tantric / energetic / spiritual sexuality about 5 years ago, and began experimenting with perineum massage in combination with penile masturbation, which is what spawned my desire to learn more about prostate and perineum orgasms.
I also began learning about the incomprehnsible scope of the female orgasm (beyond the normal orgasm) at this time, and have learned of the female prostate in the process. Although the female prostate (g-spot) is located in a different place (it surrounds the urethra), it can be massaged in much the same way that the male prostate can be massaged to bring on new levels of enjoyment, beyond the typical rocket-O associated with the g-spot.
It is interesting that I am now a fledgling student in this pleasure for myself, after having learned (and continuing to learn) how to bring about ecstatic prostate orgasms for my wife.
But Wait! That's not all you get!
First a big thank you is due to B Mayfield, Buster, Darwin, Onthepath, Rumel,grateful and many others too numerous to mention! I have been meaning to do this for about a week but all my free time has gone into rewiring courteous of my Helix and MGX. I am fully addicted and have been averaging about 2.5 sessions per day, whenever I have had a free hours time. Too much you say….not for the full addicted.
After working my way through full body muscle contractions and a host or other detours, I was finally able to get anal contractions going about 4 days ago.
But Wait! That’s not all you get!
I have been to the edge in several sessions and have had a nice taste of the p waves but not the Super O and it still alludes me. I have put a days rest in between sessions several times but my addiction won’t let me do more than that. I’m working every other day so I just have too much free time.
But Wait! That’s not all you get! Call tonight and you get …..
catchemup
Well I think I can say I am on my way. Purchased the aneros (maximus) in February 07. The first few sessions were successful. Good feelings, some precum and more volume when jacking off. Then came a long dry spell with mostly dud sessions. In the last month things began to slowly improve with a better effort at lubrication and breathing technique.
I am married and have to be circumspect with the aneros. I showed the site to my wife but she is not interested. She has been away lately so I had more time to use the aneros in a relaxed situation.
The last four sessions have been wonderful. On 5/14 in a 1 hr 45 min session I experienced 6 2-3 minute mini O's of whole body shaking and the feeling I was on the verge of coming. Positon was on my back with a bit of cloth between the tab and me. Most of the action came within the first 45 minutes.
This was in the morning.
That afternoon I tried again with the maximus. I used plenty of lube and within 5 minutes of the start the whole body shaking O's began. plenty of moaning and groaning. Then the maximus began moving on its own for the first time. This produced about an hour of intense feelings with contractions. Best experience yet. Some precum maybe 3-4 drops. Abdominal breathing seemed to really help get the contractions going.
Hornsby's Journey
I'm starting this blog as a means of chronicling what i learn about the use of the Aneros and my own internal workings as i start to use the Helix.
I've been reading the Forum rather voraciously over the last 3 or so weeks while i've been waiting for my Helix to arrive. This is my first excursion into the use of any form of anal or prostate play. But the comments in the Forum and testimonials on the webpage were just too good to not give it a try.
As a result of some of what i've read, i've spent the last few weeks exploring the various muscle contraction types that Darwin, B Mayfield and others describe in detail. I wanted to be learn both where my sweet spot was located and also how to identify and isolate the various muscle groups involved. I'd been quite aware of my PC muscle and sphincter before – but never realised what good uses they could be put to.
So today my parcel finally arrived and i was fortunate enough to have a lengthy period of time to myself. I took B Mayfields advice and had a lengthy warm shower to relax after having cleaned out my anal passages with some warm water.
My journey to the Super Orgasm
My journey to the Super Orgasm.
I have been suffering for years with prostate discomfort; if I get aroused it feels like something is poking my prostate, ED problems; reduced sensitivity in the penis and trouble ejaculating, and sore testicles.
After years of going to Doctors for various tests, they could do nothing better than prescribe Viagra. Last year I went to a sex therapist who started me with testicle massages, when I mentioned this to my doctor he said “don’t do it, I could damage them”. Well they already hurt, so I felt I had little to lose and continued massaging them. This was very painful but I kept at it for about 6 months and gradually noticed less pain and now have it down to a dull ache. I went back to my therapist in September 2006 and she recommended starting self-prostate massages and gave me High Island Health’s website. I don’t like to order online so I did a search for Prostate massagers and found Aneros’s website, did a search for retailers in my area, and found one 50 miles away that carried the Helix.
So I greased up the Helix and shoved it up my butt, then grabbed my wife and said lets do it. Having something up my butt for the first time during sex gave my penis a nice jumpstart and when I was feeling ready, I clamped down hard on the Helix and came like I haven’t done in years. I was thinking the Helix was great and that was all there was to sex.