Prostate Massage Orgasm

As the dimensions of my sexual response are intertwining and evolving I find myself thinking a lot about the nature of my sexual pleasure. So it was earlier this week on my drive home that I had plenty of time to ponder on the complexity of my experience of erotic bliss. The inspiration was an intimate liaison I had the night before.

As a guy I am biologically programmed to see erotic pleasure as an external thing. My psyche is hard wired to experience pleasure as a joined visual and physical event; in both visual and physical perspectives my sexual pleasure is experienced predominantly through my cock. The sight of J alluringly nude, or a guy with an erection illicits an immediate physical response; my cock hardens and lengthens and the welcomed erotically warm desperate itch of arousal caresses my cock and tugs on it. As arousal tugs on my cock it fills it with the tingling urge to cum; visual pleasure evokes physical pleasure. That physical pleasure is centered pretty much on my cock. When I fuck, or when my cock is being massaged or sucked my pleasure from orgasm is generally focused on ejaculation whether it is in the caress of warm wet pussy or a sucking mouth.

Aneros: One Month In- – What Have I Learned?

Having experienced Aneros for little over a month now, I feel it is time to "explore" all that I have learned thus far. It is an extensive list!

The Male Body:
Our bodies are truly incredible! Besides the "necessary" functions of heart, lungs, eyes, brain, etc. to keep us alive, there is this "optional" pleasure function….sex! I have learned that sex is that mysterious "organ" that pervades our lives in numerous ways. As males, we are "enrobed" in the sexual experience: hardly a moment goes by in our lives that we are not thinking about it nor acting upon it. How many times have I masturbated? I couldn't even hazard a guess! Did it feel good? You must be kidding! There is no feeling on earth that compares to ejaculation (right guys?). At least, I haven't found one yet! Add in the pleasurable feelings of the aroused prostate (and rectum and anus) and related orgasms and….well, you get the picture!

The Aneros Experience:
With the advent of Aneros and prostate stimulation, I have become to realize that the prostate gland is the "master sex gland" of the male body and is responsible for so many things "sexual": erection, testicle and perineum stimulation, nipple arousal. I have found that by Aneros' stimulating the prostate, besides the obvious ejaculatory response (numerous times!) there is this "deliciously" sexual feeling inside my body that is hard to put into words ("buzzing prostate" for example). I can "feel" more alive (in a sexual way). This is how I was created and I love it!

Memory of Frotting

It took me until my 60th year to come to grips with my bisexuality. It was always lurking just below the surface but it took until I was sexually confident and wise enough to let my demon out of its box. In all the tests I have self administered on line, I come out 70 – 30; seventy percent hetero sexual and thirty percent homosexual. I find it elegantly erotic that I can be aroused by a man or a woman or even myself with no one.

While I have shared the exquisite erotic sexual pleasure of women for most of my life, I have also recently come to enjoy the exquisite intimacy of sharing pleasure with men, first on line then in person. The on line experience hardened my cock as I exposed my most secret forbidden urges to men on line in chat and eventually in real time on camera. As we exchanged mutual mental and visual images of lurid desires and homoerotic lust our cocks grew hard in our separate silent spaces. Expressing things that we could never say in person or look each other in the eyes as we said them, sharing fantasies, safely separated by distance and media provoked our cocks to harden and eventually to erupt for each other’s visual enjoyment. Some of the stimulation to ejaculate was visual but I venture a guess that much of the reason for my hot eruption of cum was the admission of vulgar desire and the raw male beauty of his sexual arousal. Seeing his rigid cock pumping ropes of cum inspired my own cascade of hot semen.

“What is Sex? Why Does It Feel So F***** Good?”

This session became the ultimate "do-nothing" Aless session!

I was laying in bed in the early morning hours just wondering if I should begin an Aneros session? I took off my clothes, was just laying there and began "exploring" my body and my thoughts drifted to this whole "sex" thing for us.

Now I am not a philosopher so I will not even attempt to give a philosophical viewpoint of this subject. I will, however, give my own "male interpretation" of it.

[I must say right off that I am interpreting this discussion as a "straight" guy and do not in any way disparage alternative sexual relationships.]

Here goes……

First off, I understand that lofty discussion about that "continuing the species" aspect of sex as it relates to our Maker. It sounds so logical but so cold. Of course there has to be a deeper meaning behind it all. I will attempt to put into words what I was feeling.

Male Aspect: Our male bodies are truly unique. It has been said that the entire male (and female) bodies are erogenous zones, every square inch. And I believe that to be true. Of course, we can explore our most erogenous areas at length: the penis, testicles, scrotum, anal region, nipples and so on. These are all highly erotic. We are "wired" to elicit this sexual response to external stimuli such as touch, smell and taste. Visually, we can see our erect members and they are wonderful to look at! A newfound pleasure can be found in the prostate. If we never had any contact with females, we could remain in a "blissful" state regarding sex for the rest of our lives. However, there is so much more to this subject…..

Sixty Nine

Every couple has a repertoire of sex acts. Like favorite meals it is easy to fall into a rut. I love Chinese food, Italian and Thai; I eat them whenever I travel and want to indulge myself. However, even though I don’t particularly care for steak, every once in a while it has a mouthwatering appeal to me. When that happens I will buy an over the top cut of beef and put it on the barbeque with a favorite rub and some barbeque sauce and go to town with an ice cold beer and some potato salad.

After 45 years of intimacy we know each others sexual preferences, orgasmic responses and erotic anatomy very well. Getting into bed aroused has become an opportunity to choose from the “chinese menu” of sex for the best way to expand erotic pleasure and get each other to an orgasmic conclusion quickly yielding a maximum flow of cum and quaking torsos.

Sixty nine is one of those sex acts that is “on our menu” of preferred acts. I must admit that it is me that took it off our sexual menu years ago because having her sucking my erect penis distracts me from giving her open dewey pussy mouth the orgasmic pleasure I would like to. I love making her cum and I can’t pay attention to the intricate responses of her pussy when the warm sucking of her mouth on my cockhead enshrouds my mind in orgasmic rapture.
I love the effect of long slow licks on her pink flower cause it to drip, bloom and open. As her arousal escalates her vagina opens, her pussy lips thicken and darken and glisten with her honey.

long layoff and transitioning

As seems to be the case for me since I started this journey is finding the time and the privacy to be able to relax and enjoy. It has been four weeks since my last session, lost a week to a nasty virus and then it took three weeks before i had the house to myself with three hours alone. Started with the helix synn same as usual things started out nice got relaxed got some good prostate pulsing going and things calmed down. Rolled over on my back and started with nipple stim and slight touching of the tip of my cock like I have been doing. Things got going good like usual and my prostate swelled and pumped and a pool of ejaculate came out of my soft cock. Instead of getting up like in the past i layed there and relaxed and was still getting some nice feelings. I stuck my finger in the pool of cum and rubbed some on the tip of my cock on the under side. I started to get hard and began nipple stim and light touching of my cock tip again. Got up to a full erection and felt like I was going to cum again and then had a incredible anal dry orgasm 10-15 hard contractions like I have never felt before. It could of possible gone on longer but i think i stopped it by being so supprised. Two days later had another window of time Used my high island health model PS New supposed to be good for taller men, slightly longer. Similar results as last time. although the build up was much longer, did not touch the cock this time only nipple stim. My legs where lightly trembling and abdomen shivering for about twenty minutes with waves of prostate pulsing that would come and go but no orgasm. I did not want to lay there and shiver for an hour so i started with the light stimulation of only the tip of the underside of my cock again along with nipple stim. The wave started immediatly cock started getting hard and the feeling of ejaculation started to build, my prostate pulsed 3 or 4 times and released a pool of semen but not in spurts like a normal cum, then I went immediatly into a incredible anal dry orgasm I was making breathing and moaning noises like i have never done before my ass was convulsing and it felt like the Aneros spun around a few times (but i know it did not) I did not think it was going to stop and my anal muscles got fatigued. I had a tear running out of my eyes from them watering. I have no idea what is going on but I think i might be transitioning. I am still getting a release of what appears to be excess cum and then going into a dry anal orgasm. At least that is what I think is going on or I am having some other major form of traditional orgasm like I have never experienced before. Looks like I will have another opportunity later this week to try again. The goal will be to go hands free for as long as possible and hopefully I will cross over to the other side. If not i am sure it will be worth it.

Small Success!!! First Dry Orgasm!!!

I'm not much of an author but I'd like to record my successes in the hopes that I can learn from my rides. Although they are short I hope as others read them they may be helpful.

I few days ago I went for a ride on my Progasm Ice. As before I prepared the room with the lube and towels. I found a video on YouTube that helps me relax (Erotic Hypnosis for an Intense Orgasm). It helps me relax and gets me in the mood. After I'm relaxed and in the mood I inserted the Progasm.

The contractions as always are intense. Forty five minutes go by and all this time I can feel my prostate swell and the toy keeps pushing in and pulls out on it's own. I started teasing my nipples then all of a sudden I felt my prostate swell and pulsate. The feeling was awesome. The next thing I know my dick was getting hard. My balls were swelling up also. I started feeling like I had to ejaculate. Then it started. I started orgasming but not ejaculating. It was a dry orgasm. I rode it through and at the end I did have a lot of precum.
I think the nipple teasing helped push me over the hump.

Welcome Aboard!

A fitting title for this ride. Please excuse the vernacular, but welcome aboard the "Auto-Fuck" express would be more suitable!

I was awakened in the middle of the night with a now-familiar erection that would not quit. Quickly decided that another session was in order! Since I was ready for the ride, it didn't take but five minutes to start the P-waves. Almost immediately, the auto-anal contractions began and I swear did not let up for the next one and one-half hours. My contractions were not forced at all: they seemed to be generated from some internal pleasure "clock". I fastened my seat belt, held on and was ready to enjoy the ride.

Along the way, I tried a new position or two but eventually settled on a left side or right side position. It felt so good to massage my nipples and this time my underarms became very erogenous.

It seemed that the penis was just along for the ride this time. He really did not have any interest in this trip at all. Maybe that's the way it should be!

When the ride was over (I knew I had reached the station), I had a great sense of peace and a rewarding admiration of the male body which I continued to explore and caress. The scalp, ears, shoulders, torso, nipples, arms, and downward toward the penis, scrotum, perineum and then further down the legs to the toes. The male body, I concluded, is a wonderful creation! There is so much more that is stimulating besides our obvious external sexual tools.

OMG Edging Toward Orgasmic Bliss!

OMG – Best session ever (session #6 I think)! Just got the Progasm Jr. and tried it out. However, quickly discovered that it is difficult to keep it in. Don't know why just yet….Anyway, switched over to the helix. It didn't take long for the prostate to become engorged. I felt it building and building like never before! I couldn't stop it.. Toward the end, it felt like I was full of semen and would explode! Penis was generally soft, but it did go up and down. I found near the end of the session that by caressing my nipples and then my scrotum, I could magnify the feeling. So close to a huge O. Feel a little weak now but very good. OMG – if this is a typical session from now on, I will be going into orgasmic orbit!

Note for this session: I switched back to ID Glide instead of Boy Butter (which I used for the Progasm Jr).
No problems.

pretty sure it just happened

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/3up2qf/weird_feeling_just_wanna_know_what_stage_im_at/

so this was my last post 2 months ago. going by what was described reading about it, it feels exactly like a wave. I wouldn’t say its like an traditonal orgasm imo it feels different and I wouldn’t say its overly crazy where I would just lose it. I would describe it as my brain blinking on top of the wave metaphor.

as to how I got there I would had tried many things from listening to binaural hands free audio as mentioned here. watching videos and stimulating nipples. my relaxed position would be sitting up against a pillow with legs bent. both of these while feel good didn’t quite push me over.

my last session would be my 7th day abstaining from masturbating. I did the usual but I took a few breaks from watching porn and just rested with legs splayed out flat. I kept the audio going, and I found after awhile what triggered something was thinking about something totally unrelated. like shopping online or imagining walking through somewhere. I was able to replicate this maybe 3 – 4 times lasting a minute on average, I’m thinking maybe if I keep at it something further would happen. anyway I got tired and just took a rest, overall it took me maybe 3-4 hours.

I’m not sure if its a mini-o maybe? are mini-o’s similar to a super-o just on a smaller scale?