Tag: Perineum

A Long Held Secret

Last night I did what can only be characterized as an “off the wall” intense A Less session. It started with my cock being docked in my wife’s derriere. The anal contractions and subsequent internal pleasure spasms began a few minutes after I was firmly buried deep in her crack leaving a slimy ooze to be absorbed by her tender anal opening. Usually I can lay still and continue them as to not disturb her. Sometimes she wakes and acknowledges me and sometimes not. Last night however, the pleasure was so intense it was really hard to be still. Moreover my cock was twitching with each anal contraction. I was sure I was going to wake her.

With my newly discovered technique I decided to forego the erotic stimulation of her cheeks and anal opening caressing my cock and lie on my back using the new technique to carry the orgasms forward. This technique is described in the entry that is two before this one, but for those who have not read it yet I do sulcus (cock cleft) massage as I tease my left nipple. Last night as always the technique induced very different sensations than other things I do to trigger MMO’s A Less. The contractions are deep and internal causing less anal flexing and more hard deep pleasure in my anal canal. Read more »

Helix syn or helix classic?

Planning to start out with one of these two and move up later.

Classic:

* Pros: $15 cheaper, supposedly easier to clean/retains less smell, potentially more aggressive on the prostate

Syn:

* Pros: Looks a bit better(imo), more comfortable, P-tab less annoying, maybe has design improvements

I’m having trouble deciding if the improvements are actually improvements or if the classic had it right and the syn has unnecessary changes. I realize that at the end of the day they are nearly identical so I’m not expecting a world of a difference, but if anyone has tried out both of them, could you share your experiences on which one you think it better?

As it stands, I’m leaning more towards the syn because it looks more luxurious.

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Also, lube recommendations? I was thinking sliquid sassy?

First mini-o?

I think I reached a milestone today, felt so good. This is probably about my 7th session?

I was lying on my back for this one. I’ve been doing some contraction exercises and deep breathing, and I put it in this morning because I was all relaxed from sleeping and horny, my libido always peaks in the morning.

I’m pretty sure they worked because around the 1 hour mark I was on my back riding the aneros while doing some contractions and pleasure started to build up and it felt really really good.

Then my ass clenched and I felt what was VERY like a traditional orgasm before you ejaculate but more based where my perineum was and it felt absolutely great! Lasted about the same length of time too, I dripped a lot of precum out too and then it started to die down and I felt quite calm again.

I played with it a bit more but it didn’t reach that level again. I did start getting quaking muscle shakes that rocked the bed without a huge amount of pleasure, still felt nice. I took it out and my anus was still contracting and acting as though the aneros was in there and it still feels good in there about 20 minutes later :P.

What do you think, have I had a mini-o? What are you experiences of them?

She'll be coming 'round the corner when she coms…

Another near successful evening.

Felt new sensations with a tightness developing and extending through my front pelvic area and into my cock. Could practically feel the mimicking prostate thrusting pressure at the tip. More precum than normal and several little Os.

I think i found my sweet spot and its incredibly important to do so! I need it extended slightly so i am considering mod'ing it for. 1/8-1/4 inch ptab. Maybe i try tomorrow – have several free quiet hours so less thinking on time.

No release either- so two sessions of excitement and I am still full of nervous energy.

Cant wait to enjoy the ride tomorrow.

New success!

Bought a Progasm (that thing is big!) and a Hugo Lelo yesterday- was excited to try them. The Hugo like all vibrating toys starts nice and then turns to numbness and a distraction. Just not convinced on vibrations. So went to the progasm and finished a super-t. The progasm doesnt move so also not convinced.

Had a short window today and as usual resigned myself to enjoying some pwaves and non-expectant fun. Well, that was nearly a mistake! Closest to a super-o ever and now i really know what a mini-O or two feels like.

I've switched up the p-tab placement to pull it much higher towards the balls- seems to find that ridge nicely and certain level of PC muscle contractions allows the feeling to move "through" to the penis and head. I've been able to find this spot consistently for the several sessions so believe there is excellent progress now! Also can bring back the sessions very quickly now- 15-20 minutes.

Feeling enthusiastic now!

Being quiet during sessions

Hey all, I've not long had my aneros. I've used it about 3 times and it's really really nice. I seem to be moving through the milestones pretty quick too. I've reached 'Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions'. I was playing with my nips and rubbing my perineum on my chair this morning and I really noticed it, had little mini contractions, not orgasmic though. Feels so good haha.

I seem to involuntarily make noise when I use it though, does anyone else have this? I live in a house with paper thin walls and I can't be noisy, really annoying. I noticed that restricting being vocal reduces the pleasure, possibly because of the mental energy required to keep quiet? Is it possible to be quiet when you use it and reach orgasmic levels? I've really noticed that your mindset seems to make or break your pleasure with it so if I'm always worrying about being noisy I'm not sure I'll be able to cross over any time soon?

Some ramblings… Don’t try to force an orgasm, just enjoy the sensations

I just finished a really good session with my Nexus Revo 2 – my best one yet actually – and as I had an amazing time with it I thought I'd post a few ramblings about how to improve prostate play if anyone is feeling demotivated or that they aren't having as much fun as they'd like to have.

First of all, I should say that I've seen loads of posts talking about how brilliant it is to have a prostate orgasm. That's great, but I've found that actually focusing on having an orgasm isn't the way to get the most out of your sessions. I've been practicing for about 4 months now and haven't had one yet, but I've found that my sessions are so much better when I'm not thinking about whether I'll orgasm and instead thinking about fantasies and desires. Before I was getting really hung up on trying to orgasm and it was making my sessions worse. If anyone is in that position as well, don't worry about whether you'll orgasm. It might happen, it might not – who cares? It doesn't matter. Do it for the fun of it, not to reach a goal. Read more »

Ridiculously high heart rate + other questions…

I've had my Helix Syn for about a year now but only just now started to use it regularly. I'm progressing pretty quickly and feel like I'm getting in tune with the subtleties, sensations and how to react to them. I feel like I can just get to below the crest and no further so I will keep trying and listening to my body more. But I have a few questions:

-When I begin to feel waves and respond to them my heart begins to pound harder and faster than it ever has in my life. I've never experienced such intense heart pounding, in fact it's a little bit distracting during the session. I haven't seen much about this here but wanted to see if it happens to others or if it might go away as I get more used to it.

-Tips to maintain focus during the waves? I try hard to keep my mind clear and focus on my body during the waves and build ups but frequently random unrelated thoughts pop into my head and throw me off. Any tips to avoiding this? I smoke weed before the session which seems to help me go to 'another world' during my sessions.

-I don't feel the P-tab much. I've found that using my finger to put pressure on the perineum has helped a ton and increases the force that the Aneros puts on the prostate. I can feel the contractions very easily here, and try to respond to them but I wasn't sure if this is a best practice. Could this mean that I might need to upgrade to a progasm? I like the stronger force much more but would love to keep my hands away from the area. Read more »

Yet another Corner Turned

After a while it begins to get redundant when I write these entries expounding that this session was the best or I discovered a new technique that pushed me even higher. But the truth is, that is what this journey is about reaching new heights each time. Each session I do does teach me some new technique as I get to feel the wondrous new pleasure that results. And yes every session does allow me to open a door to a new level of ecstasy that I never experienced before.

So that being said here I go again. It is necessary to keep in mind that there are certain triggers that are necessary for me to have a pleasurable A Less or A session. Typically they need to occur between 2-6 AM. They are usually best if I have had an emptying ejaculation within the last 12 hours. For me that image of thick semen spewing in rolling spurts from my cock slit is often stuck in my mind as an erotic image that will help to launch me. Also for me pressure on the underside of my cock head is also a trigger. Until now that pressure has been from pressing my cock head into my wife’s derriere or even better against the heat of her anus if I am erect to my full length and sufficiently hard, which is typically the case in the early morning hours. Read more »

Orgasmic Symphony

When I don’t make these posts I feel like a part of my sex life is missing. Describing the experiences I have is as much a part of my sexual response as is having them. There is an erotic excitement to writing these that I miss when I skip them. I savor all the things I write about as they happen to me, then I get to savor them again as I remember them and commit them to words. The act of recalling erotic sensations and experiences allows me to indulge myself like I woud with a favorite wine or chocolate that I have been craving. They satisfy me as they turn me on. Savoring the sensations, emotions and rapture I experience and describing them to readers is as sensual as the experience itself.

When I write these entries I am fully erect and dripping precum; I am now. I am embarrassed to say that I use ladies panty liners to keep from soaking through my pants when I write; indeed I have one in now. I have just learned that they have come out with a version of underwear liners for men. I will have to get some and see if they work as well as ladies. I must say however that the understated fetishist in me secret is turned on when I slide a women’s liner in my underwear. What can I say? Read more »