Tag: Perineum

Expanding the Envelope

[Didn't proff read this…]

Had a 3 hour A–Less session last night. Then when I woke up this morning, my prostate was so hot yet that I just played with one nipple and went right into a Dry–O. So I kept it up for another hour this morning.

Highlights: All of the following happened AFTER my prostate was so hot that just about any groin move would cause pwaves and or prostate pleasure. And seemed like the prostate was engorged because I could always seem to feel pressure down there. In the morning, my prostate was still in this condition.

Also, FYI I kept checking my scrotum when I was using penis stimulation, and if it started turtling or the balls started pulling up, I backed off so I wouldn't build up to ejaculation or blue-balls.

So, Last night, I tried to progressively stimulate more of the glans, and by the end of the evening, found I could rub and touch all of the glans and the sides of the penis without turtling my balls. Grabbed it and rubbed it and handled it a lot. The only think I stayed away from is rubbing the frenulum since that caused pwaves that seemed close to jerking off for ejaculation. In the morning session though, I did try that a little and it's 50/50 in my mind whether I'll ever rewire the frenulum to the prostate instead of to eventual ejaculation… The jury's still out! Read more »

Bringing it On

This note is for my last 2 Sessions with my A friends. Monday I left work early for a home alone session for over 4 hours. A few folks were ringing my phone looking for answers. Well my answer is I am rocking this old man's ass like no tomorrow. It will wait. Session was amazing. I find now that I get to the swelling joy of my prostate a lot quicker. My Syn is reshaping my being and I am over the moon. Riding the Sweet spot. Jumped into the cool pool to quiet down my new love spot… OK Last night I was rested enough and after a nap I got up at 11 pm and rode the sweet spot of my new ass till I climbed in bed 1 minute before my wife's early 4:30am alarm went off. I am A less at work and rocking my new sexual feeling. I will go home early and ride 2 more hours. Yea I know rest the butt and patience. I will get plenty of that soon when I take a 2 week holiday with the Mrs. So now I am doing what I do and I must say that I think I have been doing extraordinarily well. I am on the happy team and my batting is solid. More rest to come after this day is through. SoFunLoving

Prostate Massage

My situation is the more I cum the more I need to cum. It is kind of a use it or lose it state of being. So after a ball draining hand job the night before last, my desire last night was steaming and hissing like an old radiator on a cold winter morning. When J and I got in bed I doused the light, and she cuddled up against me and put her hand on my chest. I reached up and put my own hand on top of hers in a reassuring pat. After a few minutes I kissed her forehead.

My sexuality has been evolving and shifting over time. The nature of my desire has swayed as it has increased each year. It has been a process of expanding need as I sought edgier and edgier experiences. The path has led me to the most extreme thing I have done so far, engaging in M-M sex a few times. Having reached that watershed I feel like it is the end of the experimentation phase of my sex life. The last few months have witnessed me turning to more and more inward and intimate relations with my wife and a move away from male involvement. It is a welcomed home coming to female intimate connection.

She began to be involved in my MMO sessions a couple of years ago as an active participant and has been a willing passive participant several times a week. We have never done anal sex on her but she does love both cunnilingus and analingus. Most of the edgier sex we have done has been on me. Read more »

I found the “Sweet Spot”, and a question

I highly recommend getting a Hemorrhoid cushion, and just sitting.

Really, that is all you have to do. It puts just the right pressure where needed. Besides, the cushion really is needed, because otherwise, sitting is some positions can cause a lot of discomfort, or outright pain.

Over time, the prostate get more and more sensitive, and the body seems to automatically seek the most pleasurable sensations.

Really, I think that is the most basic programming of ALL life.

Seek out pleasure. Ovoid anything that is not pleasurable.

It takes a while, but it slowly gets better and better, over time eventually the O hits. But it keeps on going. It still takes a little while, but much sooner the second O comes, the third even faster, the forth faster, until pretty soon it is almost constant orgasms.

At this point, it is nearly impossible to concentrate on anything other than the constant pleasure.

I've found a sort of solution to the concentration problem.

Try to stop the orgasms. It isn't easy. Then gently manipulate the position you are sitting in. I call it the Sweet Spot. It is not as intense as the O. But it is damned good. And it never stops. Anyway it is easier to concentrate on something else. Even then, it is very easy to slip back into the constant orgasms.

And now for a question. How long is it safe to leave this thing in? Read more »

Can’t believe it happened already

I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.

What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else. Read more »

One size does NOT fit all

My extensive experimentation yielded an epiphany. I tried to hold my Helix so it does not come too close and that's what made the damn thing work. I feel so stupid because I was complaining that it goes too far all the time.

Alas, I did not come, it was at the end of a very long session and I felt tired too. What I did was that I quickly made a P-tab extension. I cut off a cork from a Port wine stopper, made a cut wide enough to hold on and a quick try felt pretty good.

In my next session I continued where I left off, I was trying to lie on the floor (the hard surface does seem to make positions on my back not interfere with the handle). I tried various positions, unfortunately I got to pee after 30 minutes but I tried again. After another 30 minutes I tried my trusty chair position and that has caused me the most intense sensation, once I thought I am close to orgasm but the extension was pulled downwards from P-tab. I tried again and almost got on the same path but after 70 or more minutes total the lube was all dried up (I didn't use much by the way and it still worked!).

So what did I learn from this? Read more »

  1. It should at least feel nice all the time
  2. It isn't something you do, it's all about the position, angle and pressure (even all kinds of contractions suddenly felt good).

September 9

For quite a while I maintained two separate sex lives, MMO and sex with J. However, the last two weeks have witnessed a curious joining of the two. They have come together to entwine in a complex tango of sexual intimacy, sensual experience and mindful emotions. The wall between the very internally focused and intensely pleasurable sensation of MMO and its ability to turn my thoughts into molten waves of orgasmic rapture and the highly emotional intimacy of coupling with J or coaxing her pussy to convulse in orgasm with my tongue has broken down. Those two worlds now are twisted together like the strands of a rope. It is impossible to discern one from the other as I look down the rope.

I have also written many times about my sexuality being like a kaleidoscope. In MMO or in the sensual diversity of my sexual activity with J, each moment reveals an exquisitely pleasurable sensation, profoundly moving emotion or a riveting sexual response. Each day is a new experience; the magnetic pull of eroticism on my iron cock and the tender merciless song of sweet erotic rapture tantalize my prostate and anus changes from one day to the next. Read more »

Am I doing it right?

It’s my first time posting here and I’m very glad to see there’s an Aneros community presence here on Reddit. I first invested in an Aneros (MGX) maybe 6 years ago, but never really gave it a chance. I would overthink every motion, became frustrated and put it into a drawer to be forgotten until about a month ago.

My boyfriend has the same model and has had the amazing, desired results from it—not only can he quickly experience a Super-O every time, but when I rub his perineum, it sends him down the same path even though there’s no Aneros inserted. That being said, it definitely re-piqued my curiosity to work my way up to that point. He says much of it is exercise… that building up your PC muscle is a great way to get things going down there, just because when it’s a bigger muscle, it’s rubbing against the prostate more. So he basically would do a kegel and then a sphincter contraction (with the Aneros in, toward the beginning of his journey) to build up and better separate these muscle groups. Now, he has very sensitive nipples, so rubbing them would basically activate the PC muscles without thinking, which is a big bonus. I have noticed that his perineum area is larger than mine and rock hard when he has a hard-on. I’m guessing this is due to his exercising of that area. Read more »

Questions for users

Ok. So, I'm back with more questions. I got my helix syn last December. I use it on average…once or twice a week. And when I say "use" that's maybe not exactly accurate. "Try to use" I suppose is more accurate. It hasn't give me great feelings yet. One time I was one the verge something, but then it went away (I think I got too excited).

So my questions are these:

  1. If I'm doing it right should I be leaking precum? I've heard a lot of people say this is the case, but perhaps only if you're milking the prostate or applying a lot more pressure but not with the helix syn?

  2. I've also heard people say "Oh you'll know it when you hit it". Well, I don't really know it. Does that mean I haven't hit it? When I have the device inserted, it doesn't give me especially good feelings. It doesn't give me bad feelings, but generally it doesn't feel like much of anything. Someone suggested perhaps I have it in too far? And maybe its not as high up as the toy is reaching?

  3. I can't find my sweet spot. Believe me when I say I have read every post and every article talking about it. I've done what all the literature says to do, but I can't find any spot down there that does anything different than any other spot. And I've spent some time. Any thoughts? Read more »

I think I won the Lottery

I got the Helix just yesterday. My first thought at looking at it was that I can't believe I wasted my money on this funny shaped little piece of plastic.

At first I didn't like it. The pressure from the P-Tab was very uncomfortable. I've since at least temporarily solved that problem by using a foam earplug as a cushion. About 45 minutes into my first session, and things started getting interesting.

Then for a couple of hours it felt good, but I just couldn't quite get there.

Started second session. It got interesting much more quickley, and didn't take terribly long before I reached my first O. I wasn't sure that was what it actually was. Then the next won about five minuts later. And then they came quicker an quicker together.

Over and Over again. Nonstop pleasure, interrupted with frequent burst of pure ecstasy.

Thirst session. Almost immediate pleasure quick with the first O.

So I am one of the lucky bastards that can easily use this thing.

Well, I've been getting older and am having problems down there, so I was up to trying options, and this is it.

Damn it has been difficult typing this. It is hard to concentrate on anything other than the pleasure.

I don't ever want it to stop. This is so good, I can't believe its legal.