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Starting point (I’m quite lost…)

Hi. As I have not had any progress, I am looking forward to some advice. So this is my story.

Last month I ordered a helix trident in order to have new experiences with it. I’m not new to inserting prostate toys, I bought a prostate vibrator last summer, but I didn’t really enjoy it and I wanted to “start again”.

The thing is that first sessions using the aneros were fine. I was able to ejaculate 3 nights in a row, but I don’t think it was because of the toy (I have been practising HFO for the last 5 years and I achieved my first wet orgasm 2 years ago. So I give credit to my experience and nipple stimulation rather than to the toy).

I’ve been trying to improve my performance with the aneros during the past few weeks, but nothing seems to work. I try not to touch my dick and watch porn. Besides, I always relax before a session and I try the “do nothing” technique, but nothing really happens. I’ve also tried to move the toy making use of my PC muscles, but it doesn’t feel confortable or pleasurable.

I am quite lost. Do you know any first step I could take?

Aneros is so far the biggest mistake of my life

Whatever you all think about your own experiences, it should be said that aneros is not for everybody. It wasn’t for me and I am still in pain from the experience.

I was raped at church when as a small child. Additionally I had been psychologically abused by mother who is a psychopath hell-bent on subverting the personal power of her subjects (which in her eyes were her children). She abused me so badly when it came time to mature naturally and take girlfriends, I had intense panic at even talking to the girls I liked. I can say that, having introspected deeply for the past 15 years on the matter (I am 30 now), I can safely say that I am naturally a very confident person and am 100% heterosexual. I am good looking enough, popular enough, girls like me sexually – it wasn’t me. My mother had effectively isolated me from sex by abusing me. She hit me, shamed the hell out of me, gas-lit me, threw my stuff out of the house when I didn’t bow to her demand I clean my room, would make me drink spoiled milk (and it’s not like we were poor, my dad owned his own airplane) because ‘she said so’, she would steal stuff that I liked, she would hide my things, etc…

I have a very powerful sex drive and every social humiliation with the objects of my affection just made the vicious cycle worse. Read more »

something new…

Hello Together

At my last session I chose the Aneros Helix Trident. Unfortunately I only had 1.5 hours to myself, but it’s better than having no time at all.
I took all the necessary precautions so that I could enjoy the Aneros to the full.
First I used enough lubricant and then I inserted the Helix Trident. Then I tidied up everything I no longer needed and couldn’t wait to get into bed. The Helix Trident felt very pleasant and stimulated my prostate a lot already. I’ve never had such a good start. As usual, I lay on my back with my feet flat on my bed. I used to watch porn for this, but this time I didn’t need it to get going. I just did my breathing exercises (nice in the belly) and let myself go with the feelings I was experiencing, which I guess is really the key.
After about 20 minutes or more, just like last time, my stomach muscles started to contract. The Aneros made itself independent again at this time and slid into me, out again and in again. The contractions again spread over my hips and they moved up and down rhythmically. Then it felt like the aneros is pushed outside of me as my body contracted more but i could feel that it is drawn deeper inside of my body and against my prostate. That felt very good. My prostate swelled and glowed (at least that’s how it feels to me) until a pleasant warmth spread throughout my body. Next, something strange happened that is difficult to describe. But it felt like I had a light orgasm that spread from my prostate to my urethra. It built up like a thin wire and I felt like I was ejaculating. But when I looked, I couldn’t find anything, which amazed me. Immediately afterwards, this wonderful feeling built up again. But now that I wanted to force it, it disappeared.
After that, I had a few more violent contractions and breathtaking sensations. But the orgasm didn’t happen, which I didn’t find too bad because I had a lot of fun. I assume that I couldn’t relax enough because, as I said, I knew that I only had 1.5 hours.When I removed the Aneros my prostate glowed for about 30 more minutes and it felt like the Aneros was still stimulating me. Now I can’t wait to play with my Aneros again.

I can cum handfree after less than a week…damn!

So my partner bought me my first Aneros after I heard about it on a Sex Podcast. I was very skeptical about it due to being a non vibrating toy. When it arrived I was pretty disappointed due to its size, but I had booked a day off work just to relax and give it a whirl.

After around 30 mins of watching my go to porn, and almost giving up, I started to feel all the promised effects of the toy. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life, or so I thought. After the initial excitement I left it in and carried on. Another 30 mins passed and I starter’s feeling all the same feelings I felt prior, but when it came, it came like a steam train….I was shaking and swearing. It was incredible. That day I left it in for roughly 2 and half hours and had 6 mind blowing orgasms, without actually shooting out a load.

Fast forward to two days later, I returned to work. On my way home I clenched my arse just to remind myself of how it felt, and it felt incredible. I carried on with my kegels, and after about 30 seconds, without the toy in, I stared cumming hard at 70mph around the M25. I was understandably I shock, utterly have since managed to have roughly 7 handsfree orgasms even without the Aneros inside me. I feel like I have a superpower.

Had tried something new technique wise

Started a session last night with the helix syn. Got a shower, prepped my bed and got lube and the toy and inserted it. Layed on my back with feet flat. Put on some porn. Rubbed my nipples to trigger involuntaries. Did this for about 15 minutes. Nothing built up beyond this point, so i switched to my side and continued on. Nothing really built up 10 minutes later, so i tried doing some different kegels. I kept my rectum muscles pushed out like i was pooping, but doing that lightly. And contracting my pc muscle to my breaths. Something built up fast and my abs, stomach and hip area was shaking uncontrollably.

At this point the aneros felt like it dissapeared and i could feel where my prostate was and it felt tickly but in a good way. Then i stopped breathing and it built up more but when i exhaled, the feelings went away.

At this point it was getting too late so i inserted a vibrating plug that has a massaging tip. Put on some pantyhose. And did the same thing with that plug. Felt really good but layed back on my back and moved the toy in and out while pushing out and i came just a little, which i barely felt. Then i thrusted my hips and grinded on the toy and got a hfwo which felt amazing.

Any tips on what to do from here? Anyone else do the reverse kegels?

My Transformational 1 Year Journey and Method [Useful for Beginners]

**Introduction:**

Hi everyone – I would like to share a little bit about myself and my experience of an unexpected journey of healing and personal transformation from this little piece of plastic we call the Aneros. As a fair warning, this is going to be a lengthy write-up and I will attempt to keep it to the point, however I feel that an understanding of my journey can help beginners and intermediate users understand some of the deeper intricacies of Aneros to assist in their development.

I am a straight, 25 year old male with a long-term relationship and stable professional career as a Management Consultant in a major US city. Although I have known about the mysticism/potential of prostate pleasure since I was very young (thank you 4chan shitposts), I never experienced or experimented with this potential until recent years. I did not begin serious practice with the Aneros tool until late 2020. Like most of you, my day-to-day experience was deeply impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic. I am still recovering from what was the darkest period of my life, consumed by addictions and a desire to escape from the horrors we were seeing unwind on the news and in our personal lives. These addictions were in the form of marijuana, porn, food and internet consumption, and at my lowest point they were very close to taking everything away from me that I had built and loved. Prior to the pandemic, I was a very motivated, fit, successful 23 year old who had zero worries and a promising future. When lockdowns started and the world changed forever seemingly over night, I fell into a dark spiral that would make that 23 year old a very distant memory. Read more »

What do you think about?

Not sure what to think about, like lets not think and have a good time? What So I’m hearing Mindgasm and no porn. Be more of a meditative state of being aware of my body. I really want to watch porn though.

Beginner, first time with anything. Helix Syn V just came in and is just about done charging. Sigh… Learn to use without vibrations, don’t rush it…

Making progress i think.

Hi, so i’ve owned a helix for years and more recently a progasm, i enjoy both even though i don’t get to use them very often due to not having much “alone time”. I’ve been able to achieve a HFWO pretty consistently with both for a while but i’ve always felt this was not the main goal for me, however enjoyable.

The other day I had some time to myself so I thought i’d try to relax and see what happened, gave myself a good clean, popped some lube in and the progasm, then watched a bit of porn to get in the mood. I started to get the usual pleasurable sensations, when in the past i’ve been tempted to thrust my hips which results in the HFWO, this time i just let things go a bit more slowly. After a while i was finding the porn distracting so just closed my eyes and enjoyed what was happening. Pleasure started to build in my prostate kind of like an orgasm building, i got a slight tingling in the head of my penis and the pleasure built up, (it felt pretty great) this then ebbed away, whas this a P-wave? it seems like it. I then continued, trying to get to that point again, the wave of pleasure came again but then i felt cum pouring out of my flacid cock and i’d had another HFWO. This was a really enjyable session but i would have loved to carry on longer, does it sound to you experienced guys like these were p-waves? Read more »

Process question- Helix Syn Trident

I’ve had about nine months with my unit, and while I have definitely improved my orgasm both with and without it in, I haven’t had the mind-blowing multiples that some people descibe. I am thinking it is my process.

I make sure to time this when I haven’t eaten for a bit and have had a good solid bowel movement.

I start off by watching some porn or paging through some NSFW reddits. I focus on content that features a man experiencing what I am about to experience, except at the hands of a woman. I will usually stroke myself with coconut oil as lubricant, but try to focus more on touching my nipples and perineum. The stroking is mostly just to maintain an erection and arousal. Should I be attempting to maintain an erection throughout?

After about ten minutes of that, I will start preparing myself for insertion. On goes the coconut oil and in it goes. I insert the device all the way, until the red tab makes contact with my perineum and the white my tailbone. I have tried inserting a shorter distance, but there has not been as much sensation- am I doing this wrong? I will usually lay on the bed, sometimes on my back and other times on my stomach, focusing on moving my pelvic floor. The sensation is nice, but not as intense as when I can hit my spot with my thumb. Read more »

Blogging with my Aneros toys

Honestly I’ve always wanted a blog. But never found myself a writer or had anything worth blogging about. I figure that my Aneros toys are worth sharing about. They are my little secret. As a straight man who has spent the last decade putting stuff in his but for pleasure I find the blog concept kinda exhilarating and actually kinda hot. I have been chasing prostate orgasms for years. Honestly Information the subject is lacking, especially from men. I see videos from women about how to have a prostate orgasm or how to give your man one. It’s not like they have a prostate to play with. How would they know? Men are almost quite about it and I see why. As a straight guy things in your rear are taboo. To me, it’s pleasure and feels amazing. And that’s not wrong. I wish us guys could have more info and resources on prostate play. I’ve even consulted porn on the subject and find most of it exaggerated and fake.
I’m going to write about my prostate play, and for those who want to read it and follow along great.

I’m currently laying on my back, with my helix in. Doing some contractions and enjoying it. Im soft, but I’m dripping.
Trying to hold off the shaking to finish typing.