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Lots of pleasure initially but it fades quickly. Advice?

Been using my helix syn very irregularly for about 6 months. I live with other people and usually like to make a big thing out of it when I do use it so that makes it difficult.

Normally it’ll feel amazing when I first insert it after prepping and lubing everything up. I’ll get hard instantly, produce precum, and have involuntary contractions.

Then like most guides say I try and relax. Still usually feels good at this point. Do this for about 10-15 minutes.

Here is when everything starts to fade. It’s been inside me for around 20-30 minutes and no matter what approach I try (porn + contraction or no porn/do nothing) I lose most feelings of arousal. Sometimes I’ll still produce precum but I can’t say I feel any pleasure. What should I try/do?

Prostate orgasms with Aneros Vice

I have an Aneros Vice.

I have been using it a few times a week for the last 2 months.

About a month ago I figured out how to get myself off with it without touching my penis.

Once lubed and ready, I insert the vibrator about half way. Then insert the vice in me. I found if I insert it backwards from the picture that come in the box the toy hits my prostate better. So that’s what I do.
Next I put in my headphones (I do this on a military ship, so there’s that….) and turn on some porn. As I get more aroused I cycle through the settings on the vibrator and find one I like. Then I push on the vice near my tailbone and pull on the vibe sticking out so it hits my prostate better. Doing it this way I have gotten off in a matter of minutes!!!
I have also gotten off completely hands free with the vibe portion all the way in, but that was my first prostate orgasm and it took 4 hours to get there.

I have not had multiple orgasms in a session because I couldn’t invest that amount of time in one session. I can imagine how good it would be. That first prostate orgasm I had was after 3 weeks of not cumming and it was amazing. Totally felt like I was going to pee for a long time, then bam. Massive orgasm. Read more »

Fresh mentality, new milestones.

I’ve been using various models of the Aneros lineup for basically a year now and have made progress, but nothing along the lines of prostate orgasm, let alone super-o. The sessions have become more pleasurable as of late, but many times my own mind will get in the way. Frustration mixed with overthinking have been my own worst enemy until recently.

When I first got involved with prostate stimulation, I read everything I could find regarding the subject: milestones, how to achieve it, how long it takes, what not to do, etc. I had read that you must relax, and I took that to a whole new level. Many times, my anal muscles would ever-so-slowly contract more and more (while adhering to the do-nothing method), but I would try to make that stop by “relaxing”. Little did I know, my body was trying to slowly and incrementally position the device properly against my prostate. Read more »

After years of anal, we have finally achieved orgasm! (X-post pegging)

Spoiler! Oh well the title is already a spoiler, for people who hate spoilers, I’m sorry, not!

We can have a little fun can’t we?

Throwaway for reasons. My wife(also my mistress) and me have been doing anal play for quite a few years. Sometimes I am the one who initiate, sometimes she is. We are very daring and am always open to new ideas…the idea of prostate milking/orgasm has made me curious and we first started pegging 5 years ago.

Let’s just say anal play has improved our sex life by a lot. I am the quite type who doesn’t make a sound during sex, but when she’s got a finger stuffed up my butt it’s like there’s a switch to open my mouth there. It was fun and a finger turned into a butt plug, then into a dildo, strap on and many various things up my ass…

Thing is, I just can’t have an orgasm from my prostate. Anal just makes my ejaculation stronger, but Pgasms? Nope. We have done all sorts of research together, attending munches and seminars, getting advice from various experts even doctors.

And it’s not that we can’t find that sweet spot or anything. Truth is, my wife is very good. She found my sweet spot first try. Before you get jealous there’s a catch: no matter how hard and fast she hits my sweet spot, the pressure just keep building up, but it never gets released. We even tried a relay match with it, but after 30 minutes of building up we just gave up. Pegging is more of a kink for us than an attempt to milk me. Read more »

First Session

Excited to find my Helix was delivered when I got home from work. Husband is out of town, decided to try it out.

Showered, Put on soothing new-age music. Insertion was easy. Not much happened at first. This seems a lot like yoga (which I have taken up recently).. Seems like one Has to try to clear the mind and focus on the body. Started in the suggested position at first. Found squeezing – holding – releasing with measured breaths frlt nice.

Re-lubed after 30 minutes, and rolled over to my back. Played with my nipples a lot (something I usually don’t enjoy, so thats a surprise). Had a wave of pleasure which subsided. Watched some porn. Relubed again after an hour, rolled to side again, then onto my belly but with one leg to the side so my cock wasn’t grinding into the mattress. Found this position felt good snd continued the squeezing / releasing. Suddenly felt close and added some hip pumping, but trying not to press my cock into the mattress. There was a little friction. This probably contributed to my ejaculation, which happened with my touching my cock.

A fairly intense cum. I have felt hypersexual since then (2 days ago). Looking forwad to second session later tonight.

Progress or not?

Finally got a chance to enjoy a session last night and my tool of choice was my Helix Syn. The session was great but I cheated a little. Initially, I was not that horny so I tuned in on some good porn, something I have been trying to avoid. It’s hard to just watch a little; it’s like Lays chips, you can’t eat just one…
Anyways, the session was very good. I climb all the way up and seem to stay right on the edge for the entire session. I know, no expectations but you can’t help thinking; is this the night I bloom?
This old prostate needs more rewiring before yielding dividends I guess. Next one should be Friday night.

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

Re-Wiring Reversing?

For the first time in 6 months, I have been away from home, (travelling in our RV) and my Aneros toys; no sessions for 5 days. I am used to having sessions 2 to 4 times weekly so I was sure my re-wiring process would be reversing itself. Does it ever reverse itself?

During the trip, I practiced Aless contractions and abdomen breathing on a regular basis (while driving, eating etc.). The feeling I was experiencing were almost as good as the ones I was feeling with the toys.

One morning in the trip, I woke up (at dawn) with a very hard erection and I just quietly contract my PC muscle with deep abdomen breaths. I was rewarded with an explosion of feelings that were almost orgasmic specially in my glans and this lasted for about a half our until I fell asleep again. This makes me believe these feelings may be similar to the successful Aless sessions described by so many members. If so, the future is looking good!

We returned home yesterday and my prostate was screaming for action. After my wife went to bed, I lubed up and inserted my Helix Syn. The feelings resumed to exactly where I left off 6 days ago. Read more »

“My Experience With DE: Resetting the Sexual Clock”

I was hesitant to relate this experience at all, but I decided that I learned some valuable lessons and thought I should share it. So here goes……

I have never had an issue with DE (that is delayed ejaculation or retarded ejaculation) until recently. For some unknown reason, I was not able to ejaculate, even when greatly aroused. Frankly, I have not had this issue before; I always was able to cum relatively easily and at my discretion. I don’t really know what changed, only that this symptom was beginning to be very frustrating not only for me but for my wife. We have had some great sexual encounters lately (something I missed for a while primarily due to my Aneros sessions) which ended in my penetration of her. But after a short while, it became clear that I was not able to ejaculate within her and began losing my erection after a not-so short period of thrusting. It was very awkward and embarrassing to say the least.

Always willing to research a “solution” I began to explore DE on the web. What I continued to discover was that most DE “cures” involved abstaining from masturbation, porn and other forms of arousal for at least ONE WEEK! OMG! My first reaction was “NO WAY”! But ultimately, I decided that this was going to be the way, however ‘painful’ it would be. An exception would be an occasion Aneros session which would (ideally) involve no penile stimulation. Further, I should masturbate in the presence of my wife (preferably with my other weaker hand) and later, she should masturbate me. Finally, when I feel like I am near the PONR, she should guide my manhood into her for my orgasmic release. Well, I had a ‘battle plan’ in place and was ready to put it into practice……. Read more »