Questions about boners, precum, vibrators, and getting turned on

I've got some general questions that I've been wondering lately as I continue to figure out the prostate orgasm.

I feel like I've hit a bit of a dead end doing handsfree stuff. Whenever something is in my ass, I have a hard time getting turned on. I close my eyes to visualize, and sometimes watch porn, but it's hard for me to get horny if the Aneros is inside.

When I first start, usually fresh off a movie, I can keep turned on. It feels good early on – I thrust the air a little, and sometimes the tip of my penis feels tingly. But after about 10 minutes it starts to go away.

I have no clue why I can't focus and get horny, other than maybe worrying about the ensuing mess I'll have to clean up. By that I mean lube and other fecal stuff that comes out. No matter what I do (evacuating 60 minutes prior, showering), it's always a chore to clean up. I tried using a enema bulb but holy shit that thing was sharp and really hurt my ass.

Some other things I"m pondering:

1) What does it mean when you get a boner maybe 10 minutes into a session and then it goes away?

2) What does precum mean when using an Aneros? Sometimes a little dribbles out, and then other time I get these long thick strings. Read more »

How close am I getting and how can I go further?

Hopefully someone can tell me what I need to be doing to get past this tingly stage so I have detailed my sessions as best as possible.

There have been around 10 or so times now during sessions where I will get to the point of a warm tingly feeling building up for a few seconds and then fading.

But yesterday I was using my Nexus Revo 2 with the fast pulse mode while watching porn, it had been about 2 hours and nothing major had happened. Then I started to feel more sensation through my prostate, and had the tingly warm feeling build up, instead of fading within 5 seconds, my hands became tingly and were twitching (like a nice pins and needles), this lasted about 20 seconds and left.

The way I got there was by using the pulse settings on the second speed, lying on my back with my legs slightly raised and practiced flexing my PC muscles and holding them. This is what usually makes me feel sensations increase in my prostate. After doing this for a little bit I get semi involuntary twitches in my abs and occasional involuntary humps. After about a minute of this I start to feel a build up but quite often quickly lose it.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN (follow-up)

I had not made a lot of progress since my last post until very recently. I decided to write a follow-up for people who are interested in other guy's experiences.

Frustrating sessions

After my last post I was fairly confident to make a lot of progress in my next sessions. But I was wrong about that. I had problems getting a tug-of-war going. The binaural beats did help, but I lost my concentration easily. I knew that I was trying too hard. I did the exact same things in my last sessions and expected some kind of breakthrough moment and never-ending pleasure. It was quite frustrating. But I was more frustrated about my high expectations than the lack of progress. I stopped using my Aneros for two weeks.

Two nice sessions on the same day

I had a cold and a bit of time on my hands. I spend some time watching porn without jerking off and thought about using my Aneros again. As soon as I was feeling much better, I started a session. But this time I did a few things differently. Read more »

I didn't wear a jockstrap. In my early sessions I was often distracted by my penis and pre-cum. When my penis was rubbing on my stomach it sometimes felt like jerking off. The pre-cum didn't help. I tried to avoid penile stimulation by wearing a jockstrap. For some reason I was confident to not get distracted by penile stimulation this time. I would just try to focus on anal stimulation.

Sessions without toy

As it appears I have much easier time in session without any toy. I recommend it especially to beginners because it's so easy to recognize the good kind of feelings.

With help of porn I can push it to incredible heights, but not into orgasm so far. This isn't entirely new to me, before my prostate journey I've experienced those when I was viewing porn for other purposes than masturbating and I actually like to let it build like this when I masturbate (I always assumed this would escalate into ejaculation because it's just a few strokes away but maybe not without penile stimulation).

This time I also quickly tried to insert Aneros when I got tired of it (I was still comfortable), it was going on for a few minutes but then I lost it. Overall I could say that this level of arousal was fairly ecstatic and the whole episode left me shaky, but there were no orgasms like before. This is about the same level that I can achieve with Aneros but it's much easier without it. This left me wondering if that which I'm chasing isn't some rare event, rather than the norm.

BTW tongue movement is incredibly erogenous. If you don't have a partner to do it with you can just imagine whatever you like (french kissing, pussy, dick).

Once more unto the breach!

All the recent activity here has made me feel like I need to get back into the saddle again with my Aneros.

I bought mine a few months ago, and in the first month or so, I was able to get some nice feelings going, but would always start touching myself after a while and finishing off using my hands. This was still very good and satisfying, and frankly, many times better than just using my hands alone, but not quite what I bought it for.

After that honeymoon period, I tried to go hands-free and see how far I could get, but I wasn't able to get back to even where I was before. It just felt flat using it. I'd get a little tingle every now and then, but not much else.

So, I stopped using the Aneros and switched over to using a dildo, which I kind of prefer, because it feels really sexy to ride and I love the physicality of thrusting it deep inside me.

But, like I said, all the talk here has made my butt lust for the Aneros and it's sweet promise of a super-O. So, I am going to go for it again.

I think I've got a few things that I'm going to try differently this time:

1) Use coconut oil – I usually use water-based lubes, but I think that before, it would dry up too fast and I wasn't getting the slickness that I need for the Aneros. Read more »

Can’t believe it happened already

I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.

What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else. Read more »

Aneros + Cock Hero?

For those who don't know, cock hero videos are a combination of porn and guitar hero like prompts telling you went to stroke. There is a little indicator on the bottom of the screen and dots that move along to the rhythm of the music, and you're supposed to stroke when the dots cross the indicator, keeping rhythm.

I decided to try this with my aneros in place, but instead of stroking my cock, I was doing kegels to the beat. Or trying to, as the beat was pretty fast.

Anyways, I found it quite enjoyable, and wondered if anyone else had tried this.

How horny are you when starting a session?

I'm having a difficult time getting turned on during an aneros section.

Normally, porn or imagining something hot instantly gets me hard. However, I find it difficult to get sexually excited during aneros sessions. Porn doesn't excite me, and it's hard to focus on something sexy when I'm trying to focus on my breathing and contracting.

I'm just wondering how horny you guys are when starting a session, or if it just involuntarily happens as a result of the aneros being inside you.

My First Aneros Helix Syn Experience…where do I go from here?

I don't know how it came up, but one day for some reason I decided that I wanted to buy a prostate massager. I had never had any experience with anal play at all, not even fingering myself during masturbation because I was always afraid of it. Never ever having ever heard any thing about prostate massagers I started to research them and quickly realized that aneros is one of the best ones to buy. One thing led to another and I kept researching and reading, researching and reading and a week later I took a leap of faith and ordered an Aneros Helix Syn.

For someone who had never experienced any anal play before I was very eager to try it out. First impressions out of the box, it did not appear as intimidating as I had thought it would be. It was much smaller than I was expecting it to be, which was good because I was afraid it would be too big and scare me off and that would be it.

From what I found from all the research I did before I had these few things in mind: 1. I wasn't expecting anything to happen during the first session, I was just expecting at most to get used to it and maybe have a nice masturbation experience 2. I needed to make sure that I had set adequate time aside to relax before and for the session as well Read more »

Progress- mini-Os

have been traveling the Journey for a while now and this week am alone, so I treated myself to a new Progasm Jr.

Had some good p-waves immediately with it but then was interrupted. Returned after soaking in a hot bath and some porn. I continue to break my no-porn rule… Seems the only way I can help distract the mind.

After the bath, back to PJr and went for a seriously long ride.
On left side, knees together, bent as in a chair generated some great p-waves again but flipped to right side after a couple hours, same position.

The PJr seems to fit me well- can control it for various movements. Found a really good porn clip as my p-waves were hovering, and then concentrated on making a 'come hither'/g-spot movement on the prostate. Slowed my thrusting even further to just below a subtle rocking… Let it build and enjoyed 5 or 6 mini-Os over probably 3/4 hour.

Wanted to see what the eupho would do for me, so swapped and flipped back to left side and almost had another mini. Swapped back, flipped back but could not regain and was very tired. Finished with a whopper of a super-T.

The minis were dry and great. It was nice to ride without the recovery from a normal O.

All in, pleased with the session and satiated for a while – until tomorrow probably!