What to do after getting involuntaries?

I’ve been trying to explore more feelings with my Progasm Ice. I seem to be able to get to a point where I’m feeling pretty relaxed and able to manoeuvre the Progasm around handsfree. I am able to trigger some involuntary spasms in doing this which I believe to be a step in the right direction. It feels ok but I can’t seem to break through to anything further.

After a while I get either bored or it starts to feel onerous in continuing moving my kegels. Then I find it tricky to maintaining flexing kegels and therefore can’t relax.

I sometimes feel like I’m getting some tiny flecks of pleasure, but I think this is more of a kind of placebo effect, I’m expecting pleasure so constantly looking out for it.

Can anyone help me move on from getting involuntaries?

Sleeping with it in gets me nothing

I’m not looking to have a “while sleeping” experience and I rarely plan on sleeping with the Aneros. Sometimes I’m just too tired and the slow breathing and relaxation exercises knock me out.

I’m just wondering if anyone gets pleasure or is awakened by feelings when sleeping with one in. This month I slept with the Tempo, MGX, and last night the Progasm. Nothing.

Prostate orgasms for HOURS everyday for a week in a hotel. Here’s what I did…

About me: I’ve posted on Reddit before about my experiences, so feel free to read through those. I’m <30 y/o. Gay male. Bought my first Aneros SGX in 2009, forgot about it for a few years, and then in 2013 started picking up more Aneros models until now. My new fav models: Eupho Syn Trident, Progasm, and Peridise.

**tl;dr:** I used my Aneros everyday for a week in a hotel room and orgasmed for hours everyday. I did some great things and learned some great things. Sessions are only getting better with each use. Life is great.

A few weeks ago, I was away on business and stayed in a hotel for a week. I brought my Aneros ended up using it every night with incredible results (I have videos that I will upload at some point). It was during this time that I really had a chance to discover myself, my body, my prostate, and how to really use the Aneros to its fullest potential. I had back to back dry orgasms lasting 1-3 hours every night, and finished off with hands-free wet orgasms every time because I get really bad blue-balls if I don’t cum. I alternated between Eupho Syn Trident and Progasm.

What I did:

1) Got myself really horny throughout the day by watching porn and surfing Reddit, but never touched my dick

2) Practiced kegels throughout the day

Crash Course for Frustrated User?

Hello,

I appreciate the openness of some of the folks here, so I thought I might reach out. I own 3 different devices (Helix, Progasm, MGX), and tried on and off for the better part of 10 years, to virtually no effect. I have read many different forums and guides, and I think I am getting mixed messages. Some users recommend cannabis or poppers or some such nonsense, and I am not interested in doing these things. Others have recommended using ‘hypno’ files, but those just leave me confused and disoriented with a headache. Some users say Kegels are key, and another fellow I was chatting with recommended ‘light’ Kegels, as if trying was not the point. I have tried both.

My question is, assuming I am starting from a fresh slate again, what is the best way to proceed with this? Is it just clean, relax, pop it in, and wait? Is it a lost cause at this point?

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Does porn distract me? Where to go from now on?

Greetings everyone,

I bought the aneros helix trident back in august 2018 and have been using it once a week. I also bought the Progasm and my newest purchase the eupho trident. At the beginning of my journey i had mixed results and no orgasm in the first 6 months, so I thought that its because im not aroused for the whole session, just at the start, so I started to browse porn on reddit and sometimes watch longer videos 15 min+ . Because of that I was basically aroused the whole session and had some wet orgasms thanks to the helix and the eupho (progasm is a bit to big for me). Now I can force a wet orgams nearly every session if I want to, but since the holy grail of prostate orgams is the super o or rather a dry orgams im not quite satisfied yet. Of course it feels really good having it inside me and making it move, but i didnt have much progress since that. Last session which was a week ago, i had a suddenly a strong pleasure which was something different. Am I to focused on the porn im browsing? How can i stay aroused even without it? What else can i try? Im thankfull for any help 🙂

Advice on keeping Progasm in place

I have a Progasm and last night I had the best session I have ever had. It lasted about an hour total. There were multiple periods several minutes in duration where it felt like I was in the middle of an orgasm that just kept going. I was quivering and having involuntary contractions.

The problem was that sometimes my abdomen would strongly contract involuntarily. My cock would stand up and feel like something was going to come out. Every time that happened the Progasm would be pushed part way out. I would have to reach back and push it back in.

I was on my back with legs closed. I tried spreading them and I tried lying on both sides but it did not help. I can’t do on my stomach because of bad knees.

I’ve tried more lube (that made it worse) and less lube.

Is there anything else I could try or could a different model of Aneros work better?

Struggles

I’ve had my Helix sun and proha for about 2 months now. I’ve definitely enjoyed my Progasm more due to size but it takes forever to get there in terms of his tidle enjoyment.

I get into the awful habit of fallings asleep with it in and about half and hour later it irritates the fuck out of me.

However I found while instead of just immediately taking out the progasm, I just thrust it in and out. And this is where I get those great sensations but can quite get ahold of them.. and I wonder if I should just find another you. Since aneros seems like a very slow burn. But I’m gonna try edging myself up to enjoy those sensations more

Aneros Helix Trident vs Helix Syn (or some other model) to supplement Progasm

I have a Progasm but it isn’t quite doing the job. I am thinking about getting a Helix Trident.

What are the differences between the Helix Trident over the Helix Syn? Is it just the flexibility and softer surface?

I am comfortable with the size and firmness of the Progasm. Am I wasting money getting a Helix?

What other model might be better?

Just got the progasm ice

Ok after a lot of reading on this forum and elsewhere online, i decided that the progasm ice looked like it was going to be the one for me so last week i ordered one online. The day it arrived i wasnt that horny so i didnt know if i should give it a go but i got too excited, so later that night i decided to try it. First impressions were good, it looks good, the hard plastic is good and the shape and size looked perfect (ive got a few toys already so decided that the larger one would be appropriate). After preparing myself properly, i put some silicone lube on it and put it in, and it felt awesome straight away. It slid straight in and both the tabs rested perfectly where they are meant to. I ended up doing a heap of relaxation kinda stuff and figured on my back with my knees up, feet flat on the floor was the way to go. I mostly tried the do nothing method to not much avail, and kegals seemed ok, i ended up getting some shooting pangs of pleasure rarely but i ended up jerking off and going to bed, pretty happy with how my first time had gone.