Tag: Prostate

Frustrated

I feel like I’ve got pretty close to having orgasms (maybe I’ve done it already?), but I’m just not sure I’ve gone as far as I can. I’ve got to the point before where my body is shaking and there’s hot waves/blurry vision/insanely horny/tingling in my arms and legs etc. But I feel like I get in my own way overthinking about what I should be doing at each stage. If I’m progressing through a session and I start to feel like I’m getting there I immediately am conscious of e.g. how often I should contract now, what to do with my hands now, whether my body is relaxed enough and if not where I should focus on relaxing. So much so that it kind of snaps be back out of the rhythm. Too much pressure on reaching the goal? I dunno what to do about it.
I’m getting kind of impatient too, I only play once a week but recently found that after so long I end up kind of thrusting, the slight movement this makes to the aneros on my prostate feels nice but ultimately I end up trying to will the orgasm to happen and end up thrusting my cock into my duvet until I squirt. It’s annoying because I know I’m drifting off the right path but I’m frustrated at not knowing how to get to multiple prostate cumming. Any advice? Does thrusting help or hinder?

Been playing for about 5 months now.

My first P-waves!

So for context: I’ve lurked a while but decided to make my first post after my first major breakthrough. I owned the helix trident until I lost it on a trip recently like a fool. I never had a great experience with it. Minor sensations, comfort, but nothing crazy. This is entirely due to user error and a poor fit regarding what I need.

Which brings us to Monday. I ordered a progasm and peridise to replace my lost model and was excited to try them out. I warmed up with the peridise by using it manually (just rubbing it on the prostate, not the right way to use it but sue me). This was the first thing that really helped me level up, I wanted a better warm up and I got one. It was easy and felt great.

Then came the progasm. I opted for a YouTube link that hotel guy used for binaural beats, slipped it in, and tried to clear my mind. My plan is usually to do nothing for a while, then start manually operating it with my pc muscles if I feel like it. The do nothing portion was not like my helix sessions at all! Usually, my butt clenches involuntarily and randomly at the beginning of the session. The progasm was so snug that I had more control over what happened, thus no involuntary squeezes. I also felt less sensation at the beginning, which was weird. I felt it helpful to have this new found control because I could also squeeze with more intention. Read more »

First toy questions / recommendations

So most of the recommendations seem to vary but I think I’m going to go for helix trident as it’s more of an all around/beginner type from what I can understand.

Is the only difference between the white vs syn the material used? I’m looking for something that requires less maintenance, especially drying before storage which makes me lean towards the white version rather than the syn.

Also open to other recommendations from past experience. I have an njoy wand and want something else to compliment that as sometimes I don’t want to focus on actually moving the device and want something a bit more passive.

Also while i have a thread open, does anyone have experience with prostate play on multiple consecutive days? Does going back to back days make the second day any less pleasurable or more uncomfortable if you’re sore? Are daily breaks recommended ?

How long should I wait to try again

So about three weeks ago I had my prostate orgasm, leading up to that I had a lot of moments that it felt really good. Lately I can try stimulating my prostate for hours and I don’t get any waves of sensation, I got to almost doing it daily. I feel like I might need to give my prostate a break. When you hit a wall what do you guys usually do

Prostate stimulation and ejaculation

A little bit of background: I have been doing prostate play for about 3 years, mostly with toys and my wife’s fingering. However, I never experienced prostate orgasm that does not invove ejaculation. In other words, I always have had to stimulate penis to be able to cum.

So I was using my toy for solo play today. Instead of just relaxing and flexing, I actively put pressure on the prostate by grinding the head of the toy on it. I’m familiar with the location and feeling of my prostate, so it wasn’t hard to hit the right spot. After about 2 minutes have passed, I started to notice that there was a drop of cum on my penis. However, it was not typical pre-cum that would cone out; it felt as if the pressure on the prostate was “squeezing” sperm out of the prostate, and soon after a heavy drop of sperm actually fell on the ground (I was standing). Although it did not involve an orgasm, I was wondering if it would lead to a typical wet ejaculation orgasm.

My question is that is this how some men ejaculate through prostate play? I have seen men ejaculate only with prostate stimulation, both with and without “p-spot orgasm.” Can this possibly contribute to the conventional p-spot orgasm?

Interesting Sensations

So I’ve been on this aneros train on and off for about 6 years now, but only really in the last year have I given proper thought and effort to exploring this. I own two aneros products — the helix syn and the progasm.

After reading through various posts, it appeared to me that doing kegels were important, but mindfulness was more so than anything else. So yesterday, I tried something slightly different — I came into my session as relaxed as possible, and adopting a “curious” mindset to anything I felt during the session rather than trying to force anything. I started off by inserting the helix and scrolling Reddit for about 10 minutes to just get used to it in me. Then, I lay down with my knees up, feet flat on the bed and listened to some calming music/binaural beats.

In past sessions, because I’ve seen videos of guys basically flopping around on the bed, I thought that I had to try and imitate that kind of movement and deliberately squeezed/moved to try and emphasise that. Well, that would give me some feelings but it would often exhaust me and feel discouraged at the end of the session. Tonight’s session on the other hand, I really just focused on relaxing as much as possible and letting my body move when it wanted to. I focused on my breathing (5 seconds in, 5 seconds out) and tried to leave my body as relaxed as possible. Read more »

I have personally blocked a certain user

Hello guys.

As you may have noticed over the past few days, there has been a certain user on this sub who’s “feedback” leaves something to be desired.

On a personal level this user has weaponized my history of addiction against me (quote: “You are addicted” Quote: “You are obsessed’). I shared that history openly and without shame on this sub in the understanding that we respect each other and support each other. and i thank those of you that stood up to this users comments by downvoting him in such instances.

He has also been threatening (Quote: “You have been warned, I am watching!”)

He has also been sexist and misogynistic (Quote: “You would write great chick-Lit”)

On a general level he has been trying to scare other users with something called “Kundalini Syndrome”, which, as far as i can tell, is something to do with the East Indian Mystical Tradition. This sub is about the Aneros Prostate Massager and Prostate Orgasms and has nothing at all to do with ones spiritual awakening.

Do not get me wrong, i am not discounting the truth of “Kundalini Syndrome” or of any spiritual practice. we are all entitled to believe whatever we choose. But, to state it again clearly for the record: THIS SUB IS ABOUT ANEROS PROSTATE MASSAGE AND PROSTATE ORGASMS. Read more »

Tenth session and I feel so close! Advice?

Hey guys, I’m looking for some advice to hit that next level.

I’m at the point now where I can get involuntaries of the muscles that move the toy, but they don’t dominate the session, just appear now and then. I’m also consistently getting some very nice pleasure in my session at times.

The session kind of goes like this (I’ll try to make this not sound like fap material 😆) – I watch porn with my toy in and I’ll generally contract the muscles, it’s kind of voluntary, kind of not, I just follow what my body does and sometimes that can set off the true involuntaries. The pleasure that I get kind of comes in ‘waves’, by which I mean that after the toy has stimulated my prostate sufficiently, it begins to feel very nice. Usually at this point my dick gets hard and it’s like my body is trying to cum and I’m at the edge, then it dials back. It can feel very, very nice. The pleasure subsides for a little while, then another wave will come and often it can be stronger. Are these what pleasure waves are?

The toy brushing against my prostate begins to feel amazing and as the pleasure builds and it lifts off my prostate, that’s where the respite comes to feel that wave of pleasure. Read more »