If edging in the morning and you reach climax and leave it just a tiny bit late to hold back the spunk and a tiny bit leaks out, does this ruin the mood for the day in regards to prostate play? I’ve not ejaculated for several days to play today, is the opportunity now ruined and I should have just blew my load?
Tag: Prostate
Prostate milking
Hi everyone! I’m curious, do you think prostate milking with bigger toys can help or hurt the learning process of getting orgasms with the aneros (helix syn)? I had two sessions with orgasms in the last three weeks when I decided to invest time with the aneros but nothing more, even though I’ve been using it almost daily. I still feel like I’ve been lucky these two times and I struggle to understand what I did or didn’t do that could have helped, except that I remember humping.
Before I got into the aneros, I was anal stretching almost everyday but I’ve slowed down quite a lot since then. I’m thinking getting back into it more in the next few days to see it if makes a difference. Also, I got into prostate milking too and I’ve had two sessions so far with a dildo and managed to get that cum dripping (without any orgasms though). It was fun and I thought it could help rewiring my brain. I should also add that I’ve got a njoy pure wand and tried it too a few times but little success compared to the dildo. Do you think I should stick with the aneros only or should I stop playing with the aneros everyday, continue to try manual stimulation and go back to the aneros when I’ll be more in the mood?
Best Aneros + fleshlight combo for a new user?
I recently bought a 6″ dildo for anal stimulation, but it does not do it for me. The amount of preparation require for it not to hurt and the amount of finessing it takes to hit my prostate is just not worth it. After doing a lot of research, Aneros seems to be the most efficient way to stimulate the prostate. I have also been looking into fleshlights, but there are no clear resources for picking out a good one. I have seen recommendations for the Tenga 3D, but I’m not sure what makes it better than others. If anyone has recommendations for fleshlights, or has a better resource to find what’s right for me, let me know. I am also wondering what Aneros model is best for me. I am not very experienced with Prostate stimulation. It will mostly but used solo to enhance my orgasms when masturbating, but occasionally with my girlfriend during sex. The site somewhat walks through the models, but it is hard to find what is right for me. Any help would be appreciated!
EDIT: Also, what are some good reccomendations for lube to use with Aneros? I am purchasing some Sliquid Silk which is water and Silicone based – will that be safe to use with an Anerox silicon toy? I have heard some conflicting things about it. Also, what is the best type of lube to use with a fleshlight?
For my gay boys… Super Os replacing meaningless causal sex?
Speaking for myself… I’m a 31yo gay man who has been very sexual throughout my lifetime. I love sex. Love being a bottom and get compliments from every single man who has fucked my ass before. Some of them said it’s shaped to get docked down, stuff like that.
Ok… let’s move forward. I achieved my first super O about three months ago, which I had addressed in some posts here. YES – It does open a brand new world to you. It’s like cracking that bone you didn’t know you had the power to. Pretty intense stuff
I’m a single man. I used to look for hook ups every time I felt lonely, horny or just in need of some ass fucking. However since my first Super O all that desire for man has gone away… of course I am still super turned on by man. They are trash, but awesome in bed and man x man sex is really incredible. True raw connection
The fact is. No man in the world (and trust me, I’ve been with a lot of them) has ever taken me to the level of pleasure my Aneros does. I achieved super Os during sex with only one man in my life but it wasn’t 10% of what my Aneros provides me.
Just ordered my first Aneros – Helix Syn Trident!
Hey guys! For years I’ve been fascinated (okay, more like obsessed) with the idea of getting an Aneros toy to experience what I hope to be the bliss of prostate play. Besides the fact that I’ve never had the guts to share this with my wife, it was always the cost that held me back from taking that first step. Well gentlemen, today I found the Helix Syn Trident on sale at Lovehoney at 20% off and I couldn’t resist! If only my wife knew what’s about to land on our doorstep tomorrow. This should be interesting 😉[Helix Syn Trident (Lovehoney)](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/aneros-helix-syn-trident-silicone-prostate-massager/a24600g74478.html)
I turned my decade of experimentation and research into a guide
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1eZQw5mleV2FeqhkU26dkQmhpIOav6919KzWe3w9_dco
I created a free ebook with the techniques and ideas I used to finally achieve multiple, full body orgasms after a decade of experimentation and research. I learned a lot from this and other communities, but there are several points I differ on.
If you find your prostate journey “stuck”, give it a try.
Thanks for reading
My recent discoveries leading to HFDO, and the surprising results of am “upgrade” to a Progasm
Tldr, recently finally figured out some Aneros secrets and upgraded to a larger model that rocked me, but I still wouldn’t necessarily replace the smaller one, it wasn’t necessarily better, but a good difference.
The following was a lot voice to text trying to explain what I was feeling so I could use it as a guide later on, but when editing to make sense of it, I realized it was journalistic and informative, so I thought I would share.
A quick about me, I bought the Aneros Trident (MGX) many years ago after seeing a post on Reddit about the male gspot, and it seemed legit, so I ordered one. I enjoyed using it, bought a slew of different toys, found one kind of U shaped silicone toy that worked one time for a cum spurting, black out and wake up after, crazy prostate orgasm many years ago and my journey since then has been some good jerking off or sex sessions with some anal attention, and have not been able to find that magic again. It was a lot of intense rubbing, and after that all my attempts left me feeling like I had been pushing too hard, or not getting there and feeling like I was no longer interested and stopping.
My wife and I occasionally indulge in some pegging, and that’s kind of where my revitalized Aneros journey began anew.
Peridise use
How to get a prostate orgasm with the Helix Sun?
I’m a beginner when it comes to Aneros play, so I’m not really sure what to do. If I have it in while I masturbate normally, it feels great, but I heard about a hands-free prostate orgasm. How do I reach this with my Helix? Please be as detailed as possible, or if there are any specific steps with breathing or muscle contraction please share
Thanks!
What am I doing wrong here?
TLDR; Aneros toys only feel good when I wobble them around with my hand. Why don’t my muscle contractions make the same feelings?
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So I’ve been using Aneros toys for over a year now – I’m quite confident that I’m using the correct muscles and stuff to control the toy.
I’m also gay, so anal stuff is not new to me.
Yet a couple of times recently I’ve had sessions that fizzled out very quickly and went nowhere.
But, when I wobbled the toy around physically with my hand, nudging it from side to side, it felt AMAZING. Like getting fucked in just the right spot.
REALLY good.
I can never get the toy to feel so pleasurable with my muscle contractions – only if I physically nudge it around against my prostate.
Same is true with my NJoy Purewand and other similar toys.
Am I doing something wrong? Have I been using the wrong muscles after all?
I feel like this pleasure I get from physically wobbling the toy is the pleasure I’m supposed to get from my muscles, but it’s nowhere near the same 🙁
Help!