Tag: Prostate

My body doesn’t allow initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

Very recently (within the past 3 sessions), my body doesn't even allow me the initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

For the past few times, I've inserted the Aneros when I can feel my prostate begging for it. I'll be sitting in a chair or on the couch and start to feel things twitching at a more rapid pace than I've ever experienced. It's as if I'm sitting on the railroad tracks as a train is approaching.

So when I feel this begging, I begin a session but my body immediately starts going crazy…not Super-O crazy, as I've yet to cross that threshhold, but my PC muscle, sphincter muscle and everything in between just starts this crazy dance of pleasure. It will get pretty intense, which forces both my PC muscle and rectal muscles to involuntarily contract all the way. After each extreme contraction, it seems that the involuntary dancing that's going on gets less and less intense until…….nothing. Well, almost nothing– once in awhile I'll have a minor twitch, but that's about it. It's almost as if my session is going in the reverse direction of how it's supposed to.

My question is, should I try to stop my body from those extreme contractions, or does this have nothing to do with the "calming down" of everything? Is it that my body becomes used to having something in there and the initial shock of a foreign object creates that crazy dancing? I usually give myself around an hour or so of not doing much of anything after the twitching stops.

Dry–O Joystick

My prostate felt pretty full this morning and during the day, so figured I'd do a session this afternoon with my Helix.

I spent the first 15 min warming up without the Helix with PC contractions and low ab breathing till I felt my prostate getting electric tingles and starting to feel present. Then I inserted the Helix and spent like 30 min with nipple sims and slow/fast contractions and had a couple Dry–O's, but nothing extraordinary. Did a little with couple fingers on my upper corona with nipple stim and it really jumped the prostate into high gear. By this time my prostate was fully aroused & swollen so I could always feel it, and every contraction I made gave at least a small electric charge.

)I included nipple stimulation as an integral part during the rest of the session!(

So I figured I'd see what I could do with my penis again, same as the other night. I started rubbing the very tip of my glans at the pee–hole, and after a couple min, some lube oozed out, and made it easier to keep rubbing. Within a min or so started a Dry–O for a few min then ebbed. I waited a few minutes to recycle, then started again, and had another longer Dry–O. Ended up having like 10 over the next 30+ minutes. Some were short, some were very intense – double up pleasure. Read more »

I found the “Sweet Spot”, and a question

I highly recommend getting a Hemorrhoid cushion, and just sitting.

Really, that is all you have to do. It puts just the right pressure where needed. Besides, the cushion really is needed, because otherwise, sitting is some positions can cause a lot of discomfort, or outright pain.

Over time, the prostate get more and more sensitive, and the body seems to automatically seek the most pleasurable sensations.

Really, I think that is the most basic programming of ALL life.

Seek out pleasure. Ovoid anything that is not pleasurable.

It takes a while, but it slowly gets better and better, over time eventually the O hits. But it keeps on going. It still takes a little while, but much sooner the second O comes, the third even faster, the forth faster, until pretty soon it is almost constant orgasms.

At this point, it is nearly impossible to concentrate on anything other than the constant pleasure.

I've found a sort of solution to the concentration problem.

Try to stop the orgasms. It isn't easy. Then gently manipulate the position you are sitting in. I call it the Sweet Spot. It is not as intense as the O. But it is damned good. And it never stops. Anyway it is easier to concentrate on something else. Even then, it is very easy to slip back into the constant orgasms.

And now for a question. How long is it safe to leave this thing in? Read more »

Once more unto the breach!

All the recent activity here has made me feel like I need to get back into the saddle again with my Aneros.

I bought mine a few months ago, and in the first month or so, I was able to get some nice feelings going, but would always start touching myself after a while and finishing off using my hands. This was still very good and satisfying, and frankly, many times better than just using my hands alone, but not quite what I bought it for.

After that honeymoon period, I tried to go hands-free and see how far I could get, but I wasn't able to get back to even where I was before. It just felt flat using it. I'd get a little tingle every now and then, but not much else.

So, I stopped using the Aneros and switched over to using a dildo, which I kind of prefer, because it feels really sexy to ride and I love the physicality of thrusting it deep inside me.

But, like I said, all the talk here has made my butt lust for the Aneros and it's sweet promise of a super-O. So, I am going to go for it again.

I think I've got a few things that I'm going to try differently this time:

1) Use coconut oil – I usually use water-based lubes, but I think that before, it would dry up too fast and I wasn't getting the slickness that I need for the Aneros. Read more »

Can’t believe it happened already

I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.

What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else. Read more »

September 9

For quite a while I maintained two separate sex lives, MMO and sex with J. However, the last two weeks have witnessed a curious joining of the two. They have come together to entwine in a complex tango of sexual intimacy, sensual experience and mindful emotions. The wall between the very internally focused and intensely pleasurable sensation of MMO and its ability to turn my thoughts into molten waves of orgasmic rapture and the highly emotional intimacy of coupling with J or coaxing her pussy to convulse in orgasm with my tongue has broken down. Those two worlds now are twisted together like the strands of a rope. It is impossible to discern one from the other as I look down the rope.

I have also written many times about my sexuality being like a kaleidoscope. In MMO or in the sensual diversity of my sexual activity with J, each moment reveals an exquisitely pleasurable sensation, profoundly moving emotion or a riveting sexual response. Each day is a new experience; the magnetic pull of eroticism on my iron cock and the tender merciless song of sweet erotic rapture tantalize my prostate and anus changes from one day to the next. Read more »

"Satisfied…"

Whoa! Interesting night. Last evening around 8pm, had a session with the Helix with very intense rolling DO's. Took 20 min to warm up the prostate before inserted. After maybe 15 min, had a series of very intense Solid FULL ON prostate DO's that just wouldn't dissipate for I suspect 20 min. That was followed by series of strong running DO's for the remaining 15 min. Then I got up removed the Helix, and continued my evening with family.

Later at midnight when I went to bed, wondered if my prostate was still warmed, and decided to see what would happen A–Less.

Did some kegels to start off and kept them up occasionally. Felt like the prostate was still active and after short time, had another long rolling set of intense DO's, but this was different, because afterwards I just felt good and satisfied. Think it was actually a mild Super–O, because I could just feel a slight overall body warmth, but just barely perceptible. At one point I wondered about my poor right nipple. I'd been pressing it pretty hard, the orgasm feelings wer quite strong, I wondered it it would feel hurt, but no foul! Just very sensitive later on.

After I tired out, I just felt really good, rested, peaceful, and went off to sleep soundly. Read more »

My Aneros Adventure

Started with a Helix Classic several monhts ago. Masturbation pleasure immediately MUCH better than it had ever been. I strove for super o but am not sure if Ive attained it. Have spent time trying for a hands free. With the helix syn I finally had an explosive combo orgasm )not hands free at the climax(, penis, anus and maybe prostate. My left arm and leg were vibrating! This went on for a bit. I have been doing it almost everyday and noticed )of course( that the most powerful sessions occurred after a day of no aneros. I suppose I am addicted. I ordered deVice. Unfortunately even with a lot of lube I couldnt quite get it all the way in. If any one can suggest a solution?????

Am I doing it right?

It’s my first time posting here and I’m very glad to see there’s an Aneros community presence here on Reddit. I first invested in an Aneros (MGX) maybe 6 years ago, but never really gave it a chance. I would overthink every motion, became frustrated and put it into a drawer to be forgotten until about a month ago.

My boyfriend has the same model and has had the amazing, desired results from it—not only can he quickly experience a Super-O every time, but when I rub his perineum, it sends him down the same path even though there’s no Aneros inserted. That being said, it definitely re-piqued my curiosity to work my way up to that point. He says much of it is exercise… that building up your PC muscle is a great way to get things going down there, just because when it’s a bigger muscle, it’s rubbing against the prostate more. So he basically would do a kegel and then a sphincter contraction (with the Aneros in, toward the beginning of his journey) to build up and better separate these muscle groups. Now, he has very sensitive nipples, so rubbing them would basically activate the PC muscles without thinking, which is a big bonus. I have noticed that his perineum area is larger than mine and rock hard when he has a hard-on. I’m guessing this is due to his exercising of that area. Read more »

Questions for users

Ok. So, I'm back with more questions. I got my helix syn last December. I use it on average…once or twice a week. And when I say "use" that's maybe not exactly accurate. "Try to use" I suppose is more accurate. It hasn't give me great feelings yet. One time I was one the verge something, but then it went away (I think I got too excited).

So my questions are these:

  1. If I'm doing it right should I be leaking precum? I've heard a lot of people say this is the case, but perhaps only if you're milking the prostate or applying a lot more pressure but not with the helix syn?

  2. I've also heard people say "Oh you'll know it when you hit it". Well, I don't really know it. Does that mean I haven't hit it? When I have the device inserted, it doesn't give me especially good feelings. It doesn't give me bad feelings, but generally it doesn't feel like much of anything. Someone suggested perhaps I have it in too far? And maybe its not as high up as the toy is reaching?

  3. I can't find my sweet spot. Believe me when I say I have read every post and every article talking about it. I've done what all the literature says to do, but I can't find any spot down there that does anything different than any other spot. And I've spent some time. Any thoughts? Read more »