The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 2

The Inflation Cycles

Over time, Mrs. a and I found that we really enjoy taking the M/F Energies Balancing experience further and in a counter-intuitive direction. As we began to experience the energies exchanges more clearly and quickly, we also felt my flaccid penis taking that stimulus back to an ejaculatory circuit, or more frequently, a mixed circuits response and starting to erect, at least to semi-soft or slightly firmer state, what I have earlier here described as the "leatherman".

As this happens we do some "old fashioned" higher speed humping, until we have teased up anticipatory pleasures and more aroused excitement. This too does not take as long as it used to. Sounds a bit like premature ejac about to go off, yet Mrs. a is also getting this more rapid buildup. There is even a hint of edging to it sometimes. Very delightful for both!!

Right about then my body says: "Hold it!" (in every sense)! And wanting a great chain of Super-Os before anything ending in ejac, and wanting the mounting and distracting pains from earlier injuries to ease off, and having the ED timer run out of buzz; my penis deflates and we both are thrilled!

J4’s Eupho Review

For a fall treat I splurged and got myself a Eupho. It has been since January that I last got a new Aneros product – then it was the Progasm. I was curious how much it would be different from the Helix (my first product) – since they are approximately the same dimensions.

Boy was I in for a pleasant surprise! Upon insertion, it felt different – it seemed to go right up to nestle and rub the prostate. I immediately felt like I had to pee. In the “lying on back, knees up” position I experienced strong abdominal muscle contractions and all the right kinds of tinglies. It was very difficult to maintain my initial 15 minutes of relaxed breathing with all the great sensations and shudders.

The best position was on my left side. Suddenly I felt the Eupho go were no Aneros had gone before. I got a great sensation of the prostate being rubbed in a previously unreachable spot. Nice. Finding prostate sweet spots and “rubbing the shell” was far easier with the Eupho than the Helix. I seem to respond well to the added length. The P-Tab is in a better location for me also. Those little changes in configuration really add up.

Through 3 Eupho sessions I would have to give this device a solid “thumbs up”. Its configuration hits my p-spot the best of all my little white friends. I was wondering if it would feel different – in a good way – and this product delivered results immediately and keeps on giving.

BPH and the Aneros user

During a visit to a doctor a few years ago I was diagnosed with BPH. I had just turned 52 and though I am in great shape the aging process is taking it's toll on my body in some way. My enlargened prostate is one of them. Now the typical method for dealing with this in the medical community is to prescribe drugs to shrink the prostate. These drugs have so many negative effects. At first I studied which one might be best for me but afterloooking at all the options I was not happy with what I was reading. I went to a family friend who lived a distance away (a urologist) and he examined me. At that time he gave me a prostate massage which quickly if not instantly relieved my symptoms. I was amazed and that sent me back to the computer to find out more about this treatment. It seems that prostate massage had been used before these new BPH drugs had been developed. Now this is what brought me to the Aneros site. It really isn't convenient to visit a doctor every 2 or 3 days for a prostate massage which is about how long I had relief from his massage. I read different articles about self prostate massage but I just couldn't successfully do it. I purchased the Aneros Helix and found that DID successfully massage my prostate and releaved my symptoms for 2 to 3 days. WOW, no drugs and side effects!!! Not only that but it felt so good to use. A year went by and I not once went to my urologist other than regular checkup checking PSA ect….As I read I did become interested on the super-o but it seemed elusive and not really why I was here but it did catch my interest. After about a year I purchased a Progasm but it was really big and I didn't use it much. My final purchase was a Eupho. Now at first I didn't like it because it just hit me in a very sensitive area. I did use it though and then one day I followed it with my Progasm which was sitting in the bottom of my drawer. The result was my first super-o. Now even though I was not seeking a super-o when I started this, I have found that having super-o's super massages my prostate giving my even more relief. I no longer suffer from having the peeing feeling. I usually can feel that feeling coming on and I know what needs to be done. To relieve that feeling a session every 2 or 3 days does the trick. I find it also a great benefit to also masturbate at the end of each session which also relieves the pressure from BPH. Quite often a session ends with my wife and I having sex which is even better. LL

So Much To Talk About

Such has gone on with my journey I don't know where to begin. First I have had several sessions since my last post. Each has been incredable. Last Friday I received my Helix and Progasm. I have been using the Helix since then and it is really different than the MGX. As others have written, I get stimulated and aroused much faster. Mini orgasms start immediately after the relaxation period. I then build up to much larger super Os and the just keep coming and coming. I change positions and I get another wave of please. I am so much in contact with my body, I can tease out all kinds of sensations. The disappointing thing is that I look at the clock and it is has been only 30 minutes.

As I have said before, what really gets me is the post session orgasms. I went to dinner at cafe and I had a big one at the table. Going up to the cashier I felt another one coming on, so I rushed to my car and just let go of a big O. Sitting here writing this entry, I have had at least two.
Still I do not know what tomorrow will bring in the way of pleasure.

Well this session will be my last for about four days. I don't know what I am going to do without some anal/prostate stimulation.

My First Two Super Sessions

Here are two entries from the first sessions that took me to Super O Land. Both are from August 2009, only three months after receiving my Helix and only a few sessions. These were from my first Aneros screen name. I no longer use that account. Rather lengthy, but descriptive.
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Three and a Half Hours –

I had today off. My wife and kids went to school and work. I was given a whole day alone. Perfect time to take a LONG stride on my journey.

I'm in my early fifties, married to a wonderful woman who is so supportive of my explorations with my Helix. Usually I put the Aneros in when I go to bed, it does its magic, then my wife does her magic and I have multiple, dry orgasms. We pleasure each other and I have a huge, tremendous traditional orgasm. We continue to cuddle and she knows what to do to make my mini-orgasms continue. Her touch is amazing. Well, you'd think that was amazing enough. Oh, no…

Back to today.

I took my son to school and returned home about 7:30 AM. My wife was just about to leave for work and my daughter was spending a few days with a friend. I had the house to myself. Carpe diem.

Morning Super-O

Howdy. Been away from here for a while. I noticed the last time I wrote here was last May. In the months since then, I've had a few good sessions, and a long dry spell in which I was ill and had absolutely no libidinal desires whatsoever. That has changed in the last few weeks, culminating in a session this week that was bar none the hottest one yet.

This was a morning session, and the first time I've ever had a super-o in the daytime. My prostate had been going crazy in the days leading up to it. It was in the kind of heightened state where you could summon up wild p-waves at will. Really bizarre, and exciting. Still, I wasn't expecting a lot when I decided to sit down with the MGX inserted that morning. Within minutes, I was getting p-waves. It surprised me, getting such strong feelings so soon. A few minutes later, the sensations escalated into mini-os. I was alternating between rubbing the "sweet spot" near the base of my penis and the penis itself, coaxing out stronger and stronger feelings. As the mini-os escalated into a more consistent dry-o sensation, I vaguely thought "hmm, interesting" as I let myself go and surrendered to the feelings, wherever they led. Pretty soon I was moaning and squirming around. And then the super-o came. Wow. Best one ever. I was able to ride it along for who knows how long. The sensations were so incredible that, when it came to finishing off with a traditional orgasm, it literally was an anticlimax.

Undies

So I went out and purchased some speciality underwear that I could feel sexy in. I think it was a great way to feel good about yourself know you got some awesome underwear on.

They felt so great to wear that I was getting pretty horny just from wearing them. And if I pulled them up tight against my butt my butt started to ache for a session. I loved it.

So I proceeded to go home and have an awesome session with my Progasm.

I was getting great feelings right from the get go and was able to have a silent (no vocal sound) Super-O.

I was lying down on my stomach and I started to feel as though I was going into a different/lower state of consciousness. Every other thought, concern and feeling faded away and there was just this point in my minds eye to concentrate on. It was just the prostate and it being rubbed. I just silently concentrated on the feeling and let it continue. I was just content to have this feeling and let it continue, I couldn't even think of doing anything different.

Eventually I faded back to reality and breathed a sigh of relief for such a wonderful experience.

I also proceeded to jack-off normally and ended up with a very powerful penile orgasm. I actually shot up past my head onto the pillow which doesn't happen often. Very satisfying.

no-Aneros double show!

So as of yesterday I seem to finally be back in peak arousal. It's probably been somewhere around one week since I last ejaculated. And it doesn't take much to get me aroused and for the pleasure sensations in my perineum, anus, and prostate to occur. 😀

So yesterday my anus was a little sore from what I think was just too much Aneros action that I was doing daily. So I consciously made a decision to give myself a day off from it. But in the mean time that day, I once again had two amazing no-Aneros sessions in the morning and evening! These are by far, once again, my best sessions yet! Really pleasurable! And I remember at one point in the first session where I felt a sense of sexual satisfaction. That was a first for not ejaculating! I don't really understand why the sitting position with no-Aneros gives me better results than an Aneros session. But I guess I'm not really complaining at this point. Just curious. So I'm starting to wonder if I am perhaps experiencing some sort of mini or dry orgasm already without really knowing it. I feel like there is certainly further to go with this. But perhaps I am closer, or already there.

Buster clued me into this idea during last weekends chat session. His thoughts were that the circling the drain feeling is where you need to be. That is the super-O feelings, or what becomes them as you become more conscious and observant of the sensations. Any thoughts?

How long I've been at this.

So today, during some back forth e-mails with Aneros Support. I found out that they have on record the date of my first Aneros purchase, the Helix. Turns out my prior estimates of usage were short by about 3/4 of a year. I purchased my Helix 12/04/06. So it's been close to 2 and 3/4 years I've been using Aneros prostate massager's. And still I'm grinding away towards super-O achievement. 😀

If I had known in advance it was going to take this amount of time, I'm not sure I would have started the journey. Thankfully I'm in a good state of mind and can just chuckle about it. And it's been fun and down right fascinating to observe the changes and sensations in the mean time!

weird sensations?

yesterday I was watching porn, and I was really really horny, and suddenly anal contractions started, like my butt needed the aneros…am I getting used to it????

today I tried again, and the anal contractions started too 🙂 and I can feel like something swollen inside me..finally I think I'm understanding the sensations of the prostate swelling 😀

can't wait for my next session!