My heart is beating out of my chest and my legs shake but the prostate pleasure only comes and goes. What do I do to get to the next level?

I had a very interesting experience last night but still feeling unsatisfied. I don’t get many chances for a longer session by myself so I was definitely looking forward to last night.

I started out by taking a 10mg pot edible like I usually do and taking a nice long shower while I wait for it to kick in. I put in my Aneros in shower to get it comfy before I laid down in bed.

Here’s the problem or the hurdle I’m looking to get over. I will get some generalized warm pleasurable feelings and I’ll get intermittently hard and aroused but I’m not getting the directly pleasure feeling from my prostate. I’ll get involuntary pulses but it isn’t exactly pleasurable and sometimes I think I press too hard to get those involuntaries going.

I even got to the point where I felt generally good, my heart starting pounding in my chest, and my legs were shaking but I couldn’t get to the next level. I feel like I’m so close. What should I do different next time?

Attempting to get past hfwo, avoiding penis stimulation

I’ve been using my aneros helix and progasm for a few years, and made a bit of progress (don’t get much free time) I get some great sensations which I think are p waves but after a couple it always seems to end in a hfwo, with my cock completely soft, which is always enjoyable but I feel like I’m missing out on getting further with the p waves. I often find I’m doing a lot of thrusting which feels great on my prostate but my cock flaps about and I think this stimulation is making me cum. Has anyone come up with a solution, I’m thinking maybe some briefs or maybe a jock strap but not sure if this will feel weird or make it worse as it will be touching my dick or stopping the motion of the aneros.

Woke up to a pulsing prostate

I’ve been at school for the past 2 weeks and been busy with work so I’ve had about maybe 2 times I’ve even tried to do anything. Each time was A less and really just some involuntaries before falling asleep. Yesterday I masturbated for the first time in awhile and let out one of the biggest and thickest loads of cum in a long time. Last night I went to bed feeling completely nothing, in fact I was thinking about orgo problems for my exam on Friday lol. When I woke up this morning my prostate was pulsing and I focused on it and did some squeezing and I eventually had a HFDO. I was well on my way to having more except my alarm went off which I had to turn off. Back to reality ig lol. Hopefully I’ll be able to try more today/tonight and see what I get

Laying on my stomach session

Ive started doing sessions on my stomach vs on my Side or back. Im not sure if this is the same for everyone or not but I have found it has some advantages for me. The cons are pretty minor. 1st con is that if I develop an erection its very distracting and not the most comfortable in this position. 2nd, this has Todo with anyone who is a leaker. I tend to make a mess, I usually lay on a towel or wear my jock strap. Now for the pros. I have little ability in this position to touch my penis. I struggle leaving it alone and this position helps. I also have found that laying on my stomach makes the massager feel more maneuverable with less effort. It defiantly puts more pressure on my prostate in that position. I get to orgasmic bliss faster in this position than others. That iss just something about this position that I really enjoy. Its comfortable and relaxing to stay in this position for a while. Sometimes I will lift my legs 90 degrees at my knees. This helps to take it up a little from a pleasure standpoint. Probably due to a little tighter core in the position. I love the feeling of the massager against my prostate, making me leak, I love the leaking feeling, especially the little tickle I get at the tip of my penis. I like the feeling of the massager moving, touching and dancing on my prostate. Sound off in the comments on your experience with this position.

What just happened 😳

Well, it was actually the other night. I had some edibles and was just fucking my sex toy to orgasm without my Aneros in. When I got to orgasm I was feeling the weed quite heavily. All of a sudden I felt a lot of contractions in my ass and it felt like something was pressing on my prostate from the inside. It felt very different than anything before. Every contraction resulted in a runny liquid spurting out even though I had already ejaculated. I guess it was prostate fluid.

I’m guessing this wasn’t a “real” prostate orgasm because it came from penis stimulation.

Thank you

I’ve been lurking for a few months and I just want to thank this community. I recently received a Helix Syn V and have been loving it these past few days. I have had it in since getting to the office at 11this morning just to get used to having it in for long periods of time. I decided to talk a walk to the local coffee shop a few blocks away and what an adventure I had! I barely noticed it while I was sitting in my chair, but once I set off walking I could feel it rub my prostate with every step. By the time I got there I was letting out a little groan every time I put my foot down. I made it back to the office with enough precum in my boxers to soak a little through my pants. I’m very very happy with my purchase and if it wasn’t for you all I would have never known about it.

How does it work + which one to get?

Hey friends!

I’m relatively new to all of this, have experimented a little with prostate play before. I have gotten some very interesting and pleasurable feelings so far. One session it even felt like I had an orgasm building.

How do those aneros work? I first thought theres some little motor in them that massages the prostate or they vibrate. Turns out they dont have any motor and only a few of them vibrate. I’m confused! Do you constantly have to flex your pelvic muscles in order to make the massage happen?

I have a chronic condition and therefore my energy is limited. I always felt sore and tired in my arms and legs after using a dildo. Would the aneros even be any different or do you really have to work hard in order to make the massage happen?
I’m thinking about just getting the vibrating model first but then where do I go from there? I don’t want to start with the most intense one right away.

Any input, explanations or tips will be appreciated!

Aneros Fears

Hi! I’ve never tried prostate play before but I’d like to try it.

I do have one main concern though. I’ve read some posts in this sub about people having uncontrollable tingling/pleasure AFTER the session is over.

I’ve seen people say this can last a week+. This scares me greatly since I do work full time and I can’t be distracted all day with tingling.

How often does this happen and if it does happen is there a way to get rid of it quickly?

Aneros is so far the biggest mistake of my life

Whatever you all think about your own experiences, it should be said that aneros is not for everybody. It wasn’t for me and I am still in pain from the experience.

I was raped at church when as a small child. Additionally I had been psychologically abused by mother who is a psychopath hell-bent on subverting the personal power of her subjects (which in her eyes were her children). She abused me so badly when it came time to mature naturally and take girlfriends, I had intense panic at even talking to the girls I liked. I can say that, having introspected deeply for the past 15 years on the matter (I am 30 now), I can safely say that I am naturally a very confident person and am 100% heterosexual. I am good looking enough, popular enough, girls like me sexually – it wasn’t me. My mother had effectively isolated me from sex by abusing me. She hit me, shamed the hell out of me, gas-lit me, threw my stuff out of the house when I didn’t bow to her demand I clean my room, would make me drink spoiled milk (and it’s not like we were poor, my dad owned his own airplane) because ‘she said so’, she would steal stuff that I liked, she would hide my things, etc…

I have a very powerful sex drive and every social humiliation with the objects of my affection just made the vicious cycle worse.