I have a lube shooter myself. When I apply lube I have usually inserted what I feel is almost a reservoir up my butt (I’ll also lube the toy up as well). I reapplied every 30-45 minutes. A bit graphic, but after the session, I would have to visit the toilet at least 3 times to release the remaining lube. Recently, since I am kinda low on lube, I didn’t put as much lube up my butt and the end result is that I didn’t have any discomfort from the toy. Granted, I haven’t had any kind of orgasm from prostate play, but the session was one of my better ones. Is there a thing as too much lube? If so, could that inhibit the success of a session? Have I been throwing my money down the toilet from using too much lube? How much lube do you guys use and is there a general time or a feeling you get inside that calls for relubing?
Tag: Prostate
Success! Questions. Confusedish? Newbie Post.
TL;DR: Do I have superpowers now?
Prelude – Last Friday I decided to start experimenting with mindgasm, I’ve experimented before but I feel as though I’ve failed to truly identify my prostate as a, or rather the primary sexual organ. Reading the posts there and here led me to really desire focusing on and expanding these feelings. On Tuesday my Aneros (progasm ice) arrived, I certainly felt a massive difference in stimulation from that and any other toy I have used previously… everything until this point has felt good (like my other experiments) but nothing really clicked. Untill….
Yesterday morning… I had previously read about sleeping as a method to relax and experience. Around 130am when the wife left lubed up and laid back down to sleep for a few more hours. I fell asleep, and I specifically remember mid dream I was feel great, but it pulled me out of the dream save for a rogue voice that I clearly heard say “until you learn to relax you will never be able to use this perfectly designed too to its fullest extent. Snap back to reality, I do wake up to great sensations but my exploration quickly killed the connection which I could not then recreate…
Effect of working long hours on sessions
I’ve had the helix trident syn (my first toy, total beginner) since December and was making good progress I thought but have recently regressed to a place of less sensation. I was on furlough for a while and not working until six weeks ago when I started back at my restaurant.
I have been working 60 hour weeks and a lot of the time feel physically and mentally drained. I’m assuming this is the cause of my progression stalling and was wondering if anybody else can relate?
Does work life get in the way of your prostate enjoyment?
Do you get more success when less stressed and better rested?
If not could this just be a natural flux in my journey?
Thank you for sharing any thoughts
Prostate sensitivity and desensitization
So, I wonder what the general consensus, if there is one, is on how long one should rest without any sexual activity, to have a possibly desensitized prostate return to top-form?
I would like to give my prostate some rest, but two weeks ago, it really started to get active, and I’ve only managed one or two days of no sexual activity here and there, before it starts to buzz and tingle again.
Today was supposed to be rest day #2, but two hours ago my prostate just went nuts and said “NOW!”, and I caved in. Laid down in bed, no toy or anything, just relaxed, and everything kept building up on its own, and coming and going in waves with increased pleasure over time.
Still nowhere near where I was several years ago, but there’s constant progress. And I felt that I was pretty damn close to where it just explodes into overdrive.
I’m trying not to ejaculate for at least a month, and want to have 4-5 rest days at the very least but it seems a little difficult right now. I know that when your body wants it, it will tell you, but I want to optimize sessions for best possible results.
How long then should I wait to have everything return to “default”?
I was so close…
I have tried all kinds of toys over the years to get the super-o, all except aneros. I ordered helix trident today and wanted to use my lelo loki as a prostate massager as I was waiting for the post office to deliver my new aneros. Usually I use the vibrations but they don’t give me much feelings so I decided to just leave the vibrator in and “do nothing”. As i was laying on my back loki pressing on my prostate I remembered what I had read about nipple stimulation here. I started touching my nipples and insantly I felt this warmth and pleasure in my thighs and lower abodmen, it felt like originating from my prostate. I listened to binaural beats and I almost felt like in a trance, I could picture my prostate pulsing in my mind like it was a visual show in my minds, pulsating warmth and pleasure from the base of my penis. I had some contractions but after some time I couldn’t just get over the edge. I didn’t get the super-O but I had that promising feeling I’m getting close. I’m excited for my new aneros. BTW my nipples got really sore and the skin around them startedt to get red and painful, even tho I used lube. I quess I need to be more careful with them xD.
Explaining Aless to Partner?
So, I recently let my wife in on my ability to have multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms by meditating, muscle flexing, etc. We here call them Aless or w/o toy.
She would most likely not be comfortable or open to talking about the toy just yet and honestly I have better success w/o. I think for me the toy just helped me become aware/re-wire. I CANNOT find any research or articles online to describe the Aless process of prostate O’s.
My wife is in the medical field and a “lifetime learner” so a coherent article that describes the process/science behind it would be great!
There seems to be 2 types of articles/literature…using a prostate toy OR kegel exercises/NEO’S (non-ejaculatory orgasms) through penis stimulation (edging).
My Aless process involves no toy, no fingers, and no penile stimulation and has led to insane pleasure that I would love to be able to explain to my significant other.
Any help or links that aren’t all about prostate milking/toys would be greatly appreciated.
First time experience – HF wet orgasm
Hi all, new to this thread. I recently bought the Aneros Helix Trident model, which is my first Aneros product. Whilst I’m not a novice with anal sex toys, I’m hardly a pro, but given the smaller size I wasn’t particularly worried. I did a lot of research about how best to use the aneros, tips for beginners etc, so I knew the importance of feeling the moment and not to expect too much at first. I set aside a good couple of hours for my first go, and after getting myself relaxed and aroused, I popped it in. At first it felt a little uncomfortable, but this sensation quickly subsided as my muscles adjusted and it fit very nicely. I started touching my body and focusing of my breathing for a while, before I started gentlly flexing my muscles and feeling the sensations this led to. At first, I wasn’t really getting much, apart from some involuntary anal twitching, and the contact against my prostate was a very strange feeling to me, but as I kept tensing, I started occasionally to get some mild pleasurable sensations, and some mild spasms. My error at this point was to keep trying to get these sensations and not focussing on what I was feeling and I spent about half an hour not really achieving anything. At this point I was starting to lose interest, and my mind was wandering and I barely felt aroused at all. I decided that I would put on some porn to help, I watched my favourite video – and this made a huge difference. Even without flexing my muscles I was feeling pleasurable sensations, which I didn’t realise at first because I was focusing on the porn. Slowly I started flexing, which felt really good, and I really tried to focus on the porn which was helping. I was doing this for about 20 mins, and this pleasurable feeling was really building up, and it felt like I was getting close to a regular orgasm, I could feel it building up. My technique at this point was lying on back, with my knees bent and feet on the bed, and as I tensed I put my legs together and squeezed and pulled my bum off the bed, which stimulated my penis slightly as I was pulling my balls back with my legs which stretched the skin of my whole penis – which felt very pleasurable. I should say that whilst this was happening, I had a very clear goal, which was to reach this peak that I was feeling, I wasn’t doing as advised and taking the pleasure as it was coming, but I could feel it building up and I was really enjoying it. Eventually, I got to a peak, and my stomach starting convulsing and I started spasming as I felt an orgasm come, which turned out to be wet, and I came over my stomach. This was all without touching my penis with my hands. The orgasm was very good, but nothing mind-blowing, and to be honest, whilst I enjoyed the experience, it was a lot of work, and I’d rather just jerk off normally. My question is, is there anything I could/should do differently to maximise this experience more? Is there a method or such to be able to not have a wet orgasm, Whilst I experienced lethargy after ejaculation, I did notice that it wasn’t as much as normal, and I was horny again in perhaps 2 minutes after, which is much faster than normal. Any tips/advice would be really appreciated!
Do you want to join some experiment?
I have some other band massager. And going th get a aneros.
Well I find that there is some way to massage.
I need groups of people using different skill. (I’ll told you what to do or you just select it freely then after some time just report it back.
If it get archived. You PM me and I open another post to record our progress.)
It’s basically the research of pressure.
I find when you have different **angle of body/thigh** then you get different pressure.
Because it will affect the tension of internal muscle. (Those muscle is around the prostate)
[https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png](https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png)
From those 3 position You can massage it very gentle(almost don’t move) / gentle to moderate / hard
Hard = use all your force but no need to over done. And it usually won’t last long because you will tired.
The position is also work for do nothing way. Because when you do nothing.
There still exist at least 3 very different pressure that mentioned above.
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It also work when you lie on your side.
Whoa, what was that?
So I put my Progasm in for the first time in weeks and was feeling super horny.
I’ve heard so many of you guys take about the “do nothing” method, so I tried it. After about half an hour, it did start to feel like my whole pelvic region was throbbing. My penis was involuntarily jerking back and forth.
I was on my back and it started to feel really good. Then I got the idea to flip myself over onto my stomach. I had laid a towel down so I could enjoy the experience without worrying.
I felt this rush come on and although I’m quite embarrassed about this part, I’ll say it anyways – I kept calling myself a slut under my breath. Over and over. It was so hot. I started grinding my dick into the bed and it felt so fucking good. I was bucking my hips and definitely felt like I was reaching some sort of sexual peak. Once this wave of pleasure passed, another one started without warning. “You’re a slut.” Same thing, reaching a crescendo.
I was thinking, “I just came for the first time ever. Apparently once you start, they keep coming.” So I kept grinding and waiting for the next one, imagining myself in the throes of pleasure for the next few hours.
Then, nothing else came.
Do you think I had my first prostate orgasms? I’ve never so distinctly felt two separate waves of pleasure come on the way they have tonight.
One step forward, dozens of steps back
Writing this mostly to vent really, and also for help and advice. I go into some gross details so read at your peril. Hopefully the nice people here can pick out the problems or what I’m doing wrong.
To keep it short, I have been using my Trident on and off over the past 12 months for little to no results. My sessions often have days to months in between due to lack of motivation or not wanting to commit the large time investment to it, but as of recent I’ve been going at it more and more. I have only had one truly pleasurable session, but that was so far in the past now that it might as well have not happened.
I’ll section my process and shortcomings to make it easier to write out.
**Preparation:**
Currently I try to make time for a session after returning from the gym (I treadmill daily) and showering. I make sure to have a bowel movement 30-60 min before I douche with warm tap water using a rather large bulb I bought for the job. I used to fill this bulb as much as I could before douching which was a very big mistake. I would have an unpleasurable session, then find out when removing the Trident that I had residual poo water inside me. It was as gross and messy as it sounds. I figured that out, then started filling the bulb with very little water which ultimately stopped that from happening. Trident removal is now very clean aside from some lube.