Tag: Relaxation

“Is There A Line Between Sexual Fantasy And Reality?”

Now, before you scoff at this title, I need to explain the background of this amazing “meditation”…..For the past few days, I have been dosing on various binaural tracks for wet dreams and erotic lucid dreams. They haven’t worked their magic yet (or so I thought!) I am in Day 6 of SR and I feel my testosterone level really starting to build. Well, this early AM, I started out again the same way and then discovered a good erotic music track on YouTube: “EROTIC SOUL- SLOW AND SEXY – Relaxing Romantic Sensual music ,SEX MUSIC MIX BUDDA LOUNGE” and was about 2 Hr 20 Min long. (I am still listening as I compose this blog).

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Well, I started out this “session” in the usual way. The volume is low and I am getting into some tantric self-massage which feels great. One hand is cupping my package under my boxers and the other hand is doing some nipple stim (my top is now pulled-up). Realize that I did not get an erection at all during this meditation, probably due to the fact that my penis “knows” it better behave due to my SR! I keep this up for a while, perhaps 20 to 30 minutes or so. Then, something unusual happened……I suddenly found that the tantric massage had stopped but the erotic thoughts going on in my head didn’t! What was going on here? Was I awake? Was I dreaming? Hard to tell….. Read more »

“Semen Retention: No-Spill Zones”

For those of us navigating through “Semen Retention”, know that it requires a great deal of discipline and focus. As noted in previous blogs by myself and others, one needs to “channel” the sexual energy (fire) into other parts of his life. We males do not live in a sexual vacuum, most of us are not celibate and we must cope with sexual stimulation every day of our lives.

Here are some examples how, when practicing SR, we must navigate through the “No-Spill Zones” —-
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First, as most of us males know, we have an average 3 to 5 erections every night. That means that usually at some point in time (in the middle of the night or early morning) we will awaken with a boner. How we manage these erections while practicing semen retention becomes the first test of our focus and discipline. Do we feel the need to masturbate and ejaculate? Do we want to have sex? You bet! But semen retention requires a more focused approach, a rejection of the normal male sexual response if you will, if we are to progress along the path. In time, the erection will subside and we will return to normal.
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“I Am Feeling Amazingly Sexual Today!”

I am feeling amazingly sexual today. Hard to describe exactly. But several things “came together” that have really skyrocketed my sexuality as a male. Let me explain…..

First, I am continuing my practice of semen retention and it is one of the reasons that I am feeling this incredible surge in well-being. I am “connecting” with people more than ever (men and women) and have a seemingly endless energy probably due to the increase in my testosterone. My wife has noticed this energy as well.

I have recently updated my resume and have begun a job-search in earnest. Had a very strong lead yesterday and applied. Hoping for at least an interview! My mood has increased ten-fold!

Listening to some relaxing music this morning and just had the urge to remove my boxers and place two fingers of my left hand on my perineum. Pressed in a little hard and just chilled this way for a while (perhaps 20 to 30 minutes). Oh my! The energy I could feel circling my body into my fingertips, into the lower groin and back around was incredibly stimulating. There was a distinct “pulse” that was not my heartbeat!

All-in-all, I am thankful I was created a male! There is this sexual “energy” pervading the air as well as myself now. If you can tune-into it, it is incredible! Combine this with the 24/7 sexual energy which is inherent in all males (and females for that matter), makes for a world that is “rocking” with sexual enchantment! Read more »

Lots of pleasure initially but it fades quickly. Advice?

Been using my helix syn very irregularly for about 6 months. I live with other people and usually like to make a big thing out of it when I do use it so that makes it difficult.

Normally it’ll feel amazing when I first insert it after prepping and lubing everything up. I’ll get hard instantly, produce precum, and have involuntary contractions.

Then like most guides say I try and relax. Still usually feels good at this point. Do this for about 10-15 minutes.

Here is when everything starts to fade. It’s been inside me for around 20-30 minutes and no matter what approach I try (porn + contraction or no porn/do nothing) I lose most feelings of arousal. Sometimes I’ll still produce precum but I can’t say I feel any pleasure. What should I try/do?

Superabundant Aless –> Wednesday morning session, 8/10/16 –> Oh, that sweet Aless!

F–k, short Aneros login times again, I lost another blog post! 🙁

Yesterday morning I laid off having Aneros sessions altogether. For a week before yesterday, I been having nearly daily sessions with close to five Super-T attempts in the late evenings. With that kind of schedule, I didn’t want to full into utter sexual depletion nor to become an Aneros addict! Moderate Aneros use suggests that you have sessions with days set apart for recovery and relaxation. This approach is analogous to a weight training regimen. Lifting weights every day actually impairs muscular development, so also with the Aneros. Plus one’s body knows what it wants. Pay attention to your body when you use Aneros. You may save yourself from serious injury.

Masturbating your penis with an Aneros inserted is the heart of the Super-T, but also anal contractions are called for in this pursuit. The coveted goal of the Super-T is an intense, sustained orgasm coupled by a monumental ejaculation of semen! Guys on the Aneros Forum have reported to me that Super-T’s hence are exhausting. Many avoid Super-T’s as much possible and concentrate on achieving Super-O’s and MMO’s. That has been my approach from the outset of my sessions leaving my penis out of the Aneros equation. However right now, I feel the unfulfilled, unrequited goal of the Super-T which has revved up even more so my Aless. Read more »

“Are Energy Orgasms Real?….You Bet!

After dosing on some binaurals for sexual energy, I decided to remove the headphones and just relax. I started to perform some light kegels just for fun. This action quickly changed into what I like to call “thought contractions”. This is really directed tantric energy towards my rectum and eventually, my prostate. Well, it didn’t take long before these thoughts became “swirls” of energy starting with my anus and SLOWLY working its way up towards my rectum. When it hit the part of the rectum that abuts my prostate, I felt an extremely pleasurable “quiver” with every “touch” of energy near my prostate just like I would during an Aneros session! This was unreal but VERY REAL! (I did not have a lot of time during this “session” but I experienced several Mini-O’s throughout.)
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I have heard the term “energy orgasm” and have seen it demonstrated on some videos. But the best teacher of all is your own body! Here is a portion of a relevant article I discovered online:

“Sexual energy is available to men twenty-four hours a day, but most men starve themselves because they believe they can satisfy sexually only during a few minutes of intercourse. The most liberating thing for men is to realize that they have total access to and control of their sexual energy at any time.”

Think about it! This sexual energy is available to us men 24/7. We should take advantage of it! Being able to orgasm at will is a powerful, mind-blowing experience! Try it!
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Oh that Aneros feel! Early Monday evening session, 8/8/16

Hi guys,

Once again I had that irrepressible hankering or horniness for an Aneros session, a mere twenty hours after the previous one, very early Monday morning! Oh my body wanted it and I was happy to oblige. So early last Monday evening prepped in order the following models: Progasm Jr, Maximus, and Progasm Ivory.

I cannot tell you all how much I have come to value Progasm Jr. Although it has Aneros “slippery” Ice material, it locks into place when I ride him. Progasm Jr has joined my team when I engage my attempts for a Super-T shoot. But last evening, I rode him just because I just like his feel as he massages and exercises my anal canal and musculature and also my prostate. Likewise I did the same with Maximus also part of my Super-T team. I performed sets of Kegels and Reverse Kegels on Maximus last evening.

I just love the feel of Progasm Ivory as well which, I believe, is a happy marriage between the sleek feel of Program ICE and the rugged feel of big bruiser, Progasm Classic. I rode Progasm Ivory for over thirty minutes last evening, also performing Kegels and Reverse Kegels with him. Progasm Ivory felt so good and I felt so relaxed that I fell asleep. When I came to, it was already 9:10 p.m. past dusk. So I brought the session to the end. Read more »

What my body wants, very early 8/8/16 session *

Hi guys,

Late last night, I was chatting with a straight guy, a Midwesterner, who was sharing details of his sexual life. He is like many married guys who still has a sexual verve in his mid age, while his post menstrual wife doesn’t. So he has found a healthy outlet in his Aneros sessions and having safe sex with some of his buddies. He also work outs at his local gym about six days a week which keeps him physically and sexual fit. I discovered also that we’re both circumcised and thus have large cock heads/GLANS. He enjoys JO with his buddies and having his cock sucked but doesn’t reciprocate.

He lit my sexual fire last night becaise he enjoys masturbating with his Aneros inserted and loves achieving Super-T’s. That poured fuel on my sexual ardor. So I quickly prepped for a session just after mid night last night. I used models Progasm Jr, Helix Classic, and even Progasm Ivory.

It was to be another Super-T shoot. Both Progasm Jr and Helix Classic are ideal partners in my pursuit for a Super-T. I used Progasm Jr last night for that. My chat with the hunky Midwesterner gave me an erection which I tried to use with the Progasm Jr. I found the ejaculatory build up but couldn’t maintain that momentum through beating my meat. So I relaxed and reverted to delicate touches and strokes on my still plump cockshaft and bulbous glans. Again sexual sweetness emanated from my pulsating prostate and sexually charged penis throughout my body. Last night I had to break off from my Super-T shoot because it was not working. So I submitted to what my body wanted and settled for usual Aneros session. Read more »

a-less pleasure

Hello been a while since i have blogged nothing real exciting to discuss until today. It has been two weeks since my last Aneros session and about one week since my last ejaculation. Needless to say i am a bit horny. I was doing some work in my office and cant stop thinking about getting a opportunity to go with my Helix. It is not in the cards today and i needed a break so i just laid back in my chair and relaxed and started thinking about nice feelings in my prostate. the more I relaxed the better it felt. I was able to generate a couple of mild pulses in my prostate.I started to rub my nipples through my shirt and got a few more pulses, then I realized i had a muscle shirt on and had full access through the arm holes to my nipples. I was able to stick my thumbs in through the armholes and toggle my nipples. The whole time i just let myself go and totally relaxed. The pulsing picked up in frequency and a warm feeling was building in my prostate. The more i relaxed and moaned the better it felt. I then tried a few anal contractions, not much at first so I tried some more and clenched a little more intense and sped up the frequency. The prostate feelings went away but now my cock wanted to get involved and it started getting hard. The feeling of major hornyness was taking over. I toggeld away at the nips and continued contracting a little harder and was getting a good erection at this point. I had to stop because I was in my office and i did not want to lose control and have someone show up and walk in. I cant believe how horny I am now and looking forward to my next aneros session. I was never able to reach that level of relaxation and excitement at the same time with the Aneros in. Always trying to make it happen or expect something to happen. I truly believe I am well on the way to being re wired. I can generate prostate pulsing and good feelings by relaxing and with nipple stim. whenever and wherever I want now. Going to take this into my next session and just see what happens. Looking forward for more posts to cum.

“Sexual Metamorphosis: Are Others Feeling It Too?”

Background: I dosed on my usual prostate health binaural for an hour. I found some ‘oriental sex lounge music’ as well and it was very different and actually seemed to trigger some erotically stimulating fantasies in my head. After that, I removed headphones and just started to relax. I am now feeling an unusual sensation in my male package, particularly the testicles. I am avoiding stimulating them too much for fear of having to ejaculate. I am now into Day 7 of semen retention (a new relative high!)
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I am feeling a different kind of “Aless” sensation from my prostate today. I don’t know if it is directly related to semen retention and/or a boost in testosterone. But whatever it is, I am feeling it!

That leads me to another question: If I am feeling this so strongly, will others around me be feeling it too? Will there be a male sexual “aura” surrounding me? It is hard to describe but it seems to me to be a different manifestation of male sexual energy, a metamorphosis if you will, one that pervades my entire body. Perhaps I am just horny after all but this feeling just won’t go away today. Do I need to ejaculate? I am trying hard not to….I will persevere as best I can today and provide an update later on.
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