Tag: Relaxation

“My ASMR Experience and Amygdala Clicking”

Always in search of something “new” I set myself up for some relaxation on my favorite sofa. I discovered an ASMR session by “Heather Feather” and decided to give is a try. I must say first off that I am somewhat familiar with ASMR and have experienced some “brain tingling” before. So I expected nothing new this time. Was I wrong! Let me explain………

I set the volume low on my headphones, got comfortable on the sofa and started to relax. The soft ‘whispers” of Heather were intriguing and she was “whispering” words and sounds that were very soothing. Some of the words caused a slight “tickling” sensation along my spine. As I continued to listen, I found that there were more “tickling” sensations moving further down my spine and eventually, it seemed, was concentrated at the very base of my spine and even lower, toward my anus. I felt it almost constantly with every whisper or word sound and it was very pleasurable. So much so that I distinctly began to feel aroused and was developing an erection!

[Now I know there is some controversy whether or not ASMR is inherently sexual, but in my case, it definitely was!]

I listened some more, probably about 40 minutes in total of this hour-plus session, when I decided to do some “resesarch’ on ASMR (I stopped this session prematurely). I discovered that the feelings I had were not totally unusual. What was unusual was what happened next………. Read more »

Lingamans Story Chapter 1

As I approach 100 entries and 51,000 views in Lingamans blog I decided it was time for a change. Everything in this blog to date expresses experiences I have had. As many of my friends here know I love erotic writing, both reading it and writing it. So with the interest of changing things here and exercising one of my loves I am shifting this blog to my erotic fiction. Obviously even fiction is inspired by a writers experiences, feelings and desires so there is a lot of me in the work I will be presenting here. It is intended to inform, arouse and encourage you as readers and as members of the Aneros brotherhood. So to my friends and brothers in orgasm here … enjoy.

Chapter 1

Like many people I have been on a few forums on line in the last 12 years or so. I joined this one 10 years ago. I have seen the members of this forum come and go just as I have on many other forums. Senior members are active and then they fall away as the novelty wears off or the need they had of the forum fades or is replaced by something else in their life. I always feel a sense of loss when I longer see people that I chatted with every day no longer a part of my life. Sharing this feeling of loss I had with a few senior practitioners few years ago in the Aneros chat room we all agreed that the role and purpose of the Aneros Forum was different and that we couldn’t afford to lose senior members. Yes it was a place for beginners to get help and we glad to offer advice and assistance to achieve MMO, but we also agreed that the seniors in this forum had phenomenal wisdom; wisdom that doctors, sex counselors and professional sex workers did not have a clue about. Read more »

“A New Aless Experience: An Erotic Music Fantasy”

[This account is graphic but should not be offensive]

Oh my! Where to start?

I was up around 3 AM and looking online for something ‘new’. I was in the mood for some relaxing music with headphones and came across one on YouTube that looked intriguing: “Sex Music – 10 Passionate Melodies for Erotic Moments!” It was about 50 minutes long and was about the right length. So I settled in to my favorite sofa with headphones on at a low volume and started to relax……..I was not prepared for what came next!

Almost from the first track, I began to unknowingly “cup” my package with my right hand…. Why did I do this? I really don’t know…..I know this may sound strange, but it actually felt like it ‘belonged’ there and nowhere else! If I removed it even for a short while, it ‘found’ its way back home! With each passing track, I felt a warming sensation in my penis and it grew slowly to a semi-erect state. It felt so good! Track after track, I felt an incredibly sexy feeling all over….I was tingling, and then, one track (I don’t know which one in particular) kicked-in big time! I suddenly got this overpowering sexual feeling and immediately got a full, hard erection. I no longer was there by myself, but have fallen-into a very REAL fantasy! I am there on the sofa with a lover and she is beginning to caress me all over! She reaches up on my torso and I feel her lightly caressing my nipples; they are now very hard and sensitive. She begins to lightly ‘circle’ one then the other and then both at the same time. OMG! I feel her hands moving ever slowly toward my shoulders and then my neck. It feels so good! They slowly make their way back down to my penis and she is beginning to stroke it. OMG! I am quivering in my prostate. She is caressing my balls and they are so sensitive but her touch is so soft and wonderful! I am now throbbing in my groin and I can hardly contain my pleasure.,,.,,,I am getting wet……I am starting to squirm all over and beginning to thrust on the sofa into my lover……My mind is no longer on the sofa or even on the music…….I am enveloped in ecstatic delight……. Read more »

“Anal Tease”

Background: I had a recent flare-up of hemorrhoids and thought that a lengthened session with the Peridise may be helpful. I did a recent session with the small one and found relief from it. (It is 2 AM and I am up and somewhat aroused). So here goes……

I decided to use Boy Butter since I had a goal of at least one hour for this session. I know the Peridise can be extremely stimulating but I was prepared for the pleasure. I used a generous amount of lube, and inserted it only about half-way as recommended. After that, I rolled-over and tried to relax…..

It wasn’t too long (and I knew it was coming) that the familiar ‘ache’ started in my anal area and to be honest, it felt really good! Of course, with a full hour ahead of me, I am expecting much more anal stimulation and I was right! The Peridise continued its ‘tease’ and continued to pleasure me until I started to moan in delight. I felt it moving mostly on its own like it was on ‘auto-pilot’. Periodically, I ‘felt’ for the Peridise and was surprised to find that it had been pulled-in almost completely!

If I relaxed my anal sphincter muscles (and did a ‘reverse-kegel’), the Peridise would again be pulled-in, giving me another round of intense stimulation. It was non-stop ‘anal teasing’. I love the feeling. Toward the end, I am moaning and almost crying from the agonizingly pleasurable sensations. Read more »

“Sexual Arousal Hypnosis: Awesome!”

OMG! Where to start with this ‘session’?

I was up early AM as usual and just searching online for something “new” and came-across a 20-minute hypnosis audio track called “Increase Sexual Arousal Hypnosis” by Walkingtall Ireland and decided to give it a try. I felt very relaxed going into the deep relaxation state. I liked the moderator’s voice: he had a nice Irish accent too! About halfway in, the moderator guided me into a deeper awareness of my sexuality and I believe there were a lot of subliminal suggestions embedded as well. I liked the feeling I was getting and actually began to feel a certain warm, pleasurable ‘feeling’ within my male package. Not really a stimulating feeling, just a nice warmth. Hard to explain – I didn’t even get an erection from this. I thought this hypnosis was a pleasant-enough experience although since nothing else happened (erection, ejaculation, etc.) I thought I would get back to bed to maybe to do a few contractions and see what develops. Well……something did develop…..

I TOTALLY WAS NOT PREPARED FOR WHAT HAPPENED NEXT……AND I AM F*****G SERIOUS!

I am trembling as I am typing this because this upcoming feeling was so overpowering……Please listen to my experience…..I am not making this up! Read more »

“Eupho Dance & HOWO”

What a session! First, a little background. I had been ‘dosing’ on some penis stimulation binaurals for about 45 minutes so I was hard, wet and horny. Since it still was early AM, I decided to “do” a quick non-stimulating ‘session’ with my Eupho and maybe finish-off with an ejaculation later-on. What could be the harm? As it turned out, plenty! Let me explain……

I lubed-up, got the Eupho where it belonged and turning over on my favorite right side position, I relaxed and waited. Well, about 3 minutes in, the Eupho made up its own mind that IT was going to “finish-me-off” whether I liked it or not. So for the next 40 minutes or so, it was a quiet march for me to the ‘edge–of–the-cliff’! Let me further explain…… Read more »

Continuous contraction got me to orgasm rather than rhythmic contraction

The typical beginner method that people seem to follow is rhythmic contractions. However, I found I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions. I wasn’t getting *any* pleasurable sensations from the massager and I couldn’t tell whether the massager was even contacting my prostate.

I did some reading and I discovered that the intent of the rhythmic contractions is to tire out the anal muscles so that they naturally spasm. The muscle spasms then result in a positive feedback loop for stimulation, hopefully leading to orgasm.

Since I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions, I decided to employ continuous contraction instead. I kept a continuous contraction going for about five minutes, at which point my muscles tired out and started spasming. I then quickly found myself having a full body orgasm!

I think continuous contraction works for me because there’s significantly less to focus on and it’s easier to control, so I can completely relax. With rhythmic contraction, I found that I had to focus on the contractions in order to control them, preventing me from actually relaxing.

So if you’re having trouble with rhythmic contractions, maybe give continuous contraction a shot instead? I’d say it’s worth a shot if you haven’t been making progress otherwise.

“Deep Subconscious Relaxation: An Adjunct to Aneros”

Following a day of sexual “tension”, I felt it was necessary to “cool-down”. I searched for some ‘relaxation’ audios and discovered one by Paul Santisi: “Deep Mental Subconscious Mind Relaxation Massage”. It was about 1 hour and 10 minutes long. I didn’t know what to expect and I have never listened to anything like this before. But I decided to “do it”! I set the headphone volume VERY LOW, got comfortable on a nearby sofa, turned off the lights, closed my eyes, and began to relax.

“Relax” is not the right word for what I experienced. This audio, as I discovered later, contains the so-called ‘Solfeggio Frequencies” as well as binaural and high-alpha beats. Also included are soothing water, rain, wind and thunder sounds. The combination of soothing sounds sure does relax the inner mind. It is hard to describe–you have to experience it. Near the end of the ‘session’ I began to experience ‘visions’ of people I long forgot (but must have been buried in my subconscious mind!). For example, past friends, neighbors, lovers (!) and so on. It is as if these long-forgotten memories were brought to the surface in a most quiet way.

When this session was over, I felt completely at ease both mentally as well as physically. I can truly say that this was one of the most relaxing moments I have ever experienced. What is amazing is that this is not self-hypnosis. It is a truly calming, inner mind experience and I would recommend it highly. I certainly will do it again! Read more »

“New Aless Experiences: Erotic Hypnosis and Binaural Beats”

I recently "discovered" two "additions" to my repertoire. One is "erotic hypnosis" and the other is "binaural beats". Each one has their pluses and minuses. I want to detail my limited experiences with each one so far.

EROTIC HYPNOSIS –
These videos (they are really audio files) are readily available online. Some are better than others. The ones I am interested in generally lead me towards an erection with an ejaculation. For the most part, they work and they are mind-blowing. I do feel though that I usually am NOT in a sufficiently relaxed state to experience all that these videos have to offer. But the experiences in general are very relaxing and stimulating. They can even stimulate to ejaculation if you are in the right frame of mind. One in particular simulates intercourse and is extremely realistic. It actually brought me to ejaculation (with just a little bit of help on my part). I would recommend giving them a try. Keep in mind that you are always in control of yourself during these hypnotic "sessions". You can turn them off at any time (but who would want to?)

I don't see too many "negatives" for them at this time. Give them a try and see for yourself! Most run for about 45 minutes to 1 hour or more.

BINAURAL BEATS –
Oh my! Where to start? These "audio doses" as they are sometimes called are readily available online. They are truly powerful and I feel it is necessary up-front to caution non-users (and I am f*****g serious about this): Read more »

“A New Way To The Super-O?”

[Please do not read ahead of the story as it contains a spoiler. Some readers may find this story to be slightly disturbing.]

I have been having difficulty achieving a whole-body "Super Orgasm" in my Aneros sessions and it felt like I hit a "brick wall" in my progress. I have the Eupho and I like it, but so far, I have been unable to progress to anything resembling a Super-O!

I was intrigued when I found out about a "new" technique to help guys like me achieve this important milestone. It involves a combination of relaxation meds and hypnotic orgasmic suggestion. The best part of this is that it is FREE! Apparently, this technique is in the "trial" stage and volunteers were needed to "validate" the process!

This special "session" was to be held in a local "clinic" not far from where I live. I made arrangement to participate. I was to be prepared to spend the night and to bring my favorite Aneros model and some lube. I like my Eupho so I brought it along with Boy Butter.

I showed-up on a Saturday night about 8PM. This was to be an "overnight" session. There were about three other guys there also participating but I didn't know any of them. We all met in a "conference room" beforehand and the "moderator" explained to us how this "session" was going to work. We would go to one of the clinics' "private rooms" (which were set-up like small bedrooms each with a bed, table, light). We were to get relaxed (I generally do my Aneros sessions in the nude), and insert the Aneros as we normally do. Read more »