Tag: Relaxation

Prostate Massage and Hand Job

Last weekend was the first “down time” weekend in our house in several weeks. The relaxed time paved the way for some together time watching TV and cuddling on Saturday night. That kind of contact in a relaxed environment always translates to intimacy in bed later in the evening. By 10 PM there was no doubt that when we both got in bed later that night, sex was in the offing. I am lucky in that J relishes exploratory foreplay and extended intimate tantalizing.

So on Saturday night with candles burning and the bed turned down with both of us naked, kissing the tender cuddling turned decidedly sexual in a relatively short time. It started with her taking my soft nipple in the tender grip of her lips. She drew my softened teat into her mouth, pinching it between her lips and flicking it assertively with her tongue. My dark pink nub hardened to the taunting prodding of her tongue. When my nipple was throbbing, tingling and hard it rigidly protruded begging for more stimulation. She released her pinching clasp and drew my entire nipple into her mouth, firmly stroking it with her tongue as she kept a gentle tugging suction on it. Jolts of erotic pleasure shot directly from my nipple to my prostate. Since rewiring there is a hot wire connection between the two. The erotic shock made my prostate harden and begin to throb. With my nipple and prostate throbbing in arousal my cock was warmed and awakened to join in the glowing chorus; it stiffened and lengthened as I closed my eyes and surrendered, suckling her and sliding into a nipple induced erotic stupor. Read more »

“Aless Orgasm: Micro-Contractions”

I didn't have time for a regular Aneros session so while I was in bed, I began to ponder the thought of achieving an "O" Aless. My prostate was not "buzzing" for over a day and I didn't think it would be possible. Boy was I wrong! Let me explain…….

I began to do some "regular" light contractions but something crossed my mind: I remember (years ago!) doing penis stim for a long time, just lightly "stroking" or "tapping" on the underside of the head, while erect. This used to go on for quite a long time and usually left me in agony with a considerable amount of precum until I 'came'. So I thought, why not with the anal contractions?

While laying on my side, I began to do 'ever-so-slight' contractions, almost like a 'whisper'. I kept this up for a while, perhaps 15 minutes or so without any feeling. At the same time, I tried to relax my mind as much as possible and "imagined" only the thought of a contraction, not a real contraction. I kept this up for a while as well. Read more »

“A New Way To The Super-O”

I have been having difficulty achieving a whole-body “Super Orgasm” in my Aneros sessions and it felt like I hit a “brick wall” in my progress. I have the Eupho and I like it, but so far, I have been unable to progress to anything resembling a Super-O!

I was intrigued when I found out about a “new” technique to help guys like me achieve this important milestone. It involves a combination of relaxation meds and hypnotic orgasmic suggestion. The best part of this is that it is FREE! Apparently, this technique is in the “trial” stage and volunteers were needed to “validate” the process!

This special “session” was to be held in a local “clinic” not far from where I live. I made arrangement to participate. I was to be prepared to spend the night and to bring my favorite Aneros model and some lube. I like my Eupho so I brought it along with Boy Butter.

I showed-up on a Saturday night about 8PM. This was to be an “overnight” session. There were about three other guys there also participating but I didn’t know any of them. We all met in a “conference room” beforehand and the “moderator” explained to us how this “session” was going to work. We would go to one of the clinics’ “private rooms” (which were set-up like small bedrooms each with a bed, table, light). We were to get relaxed (I generally do my Aneros sessions in the nude), and insert the Aneros as we normally do. Read more »

First Ride: HIH PS-NEW

I decided to buy the HIH PS-NEW and gave it a "ride". First off, the PS-NEW is the "original" prostate stimulator and was designed as a therapeutic "medical device". It is recommended for men 5 ft 11 inches and over. Since I am 6 ft 3 in, I am 'qualified'. Let me say that it lives up to it's reputation!

I lubed myself up with Wet Platinum and the HIH with a generous helping of Boy Butter. One thing I notice right off is that the P-tab on this original design is further toward the testicles than the other Aneros products. Not sure if this will have any bearing on the resulting ride, I'll find out soon.

The PS-NEW has a distinct "head" and has been designed with two "nodules" or protrusions on the top of the head. These are designed to provide more direct pressure on the prostate and the seminal vesicles.

The PS-NEW inserted much like most other Aneros stimulators. It felt 'longer' going in. The 'ribbed' bottom felt different but once in use, it didn't seem to be too bothersome. The P-tab location definitely felt 'different' that usual. It lies further back towards the testicles.

Now here comes the actual "ride" sensation……

First-off, I experienced an IMMEDIATE erection with the PS-NEW. The instructions say to wait about 15 minutes before doing any contractions, and it is recommended to perform 30 contractions. Session "lengths" are recommended to be 30-45 minutes including relaxation. Recommended frequency is 2-3 times per week. Read more »

“Something New”

I thought I would start out with the Pro Jr. I lubed myself up with Wet Platinum. Then I lubed up the Pro Jr. with a generous amount of Boy Butter. This "extra" lubing will become significant as I move on into this session.

I slowly inserted the Pro Jr. and it felt really good. I began this session as a "do-nothing" and just started to do some light contractions. Several times during this part, I "felt" the Pro Jr. wanting to "slip out" and in fact it did slip out I believe twice. I didn't want to abort the ride but I was unable to continue it with Pro Jr.

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I decided to "switch" to Helix. Since I was already thoroughly lubed-up, I decided to just "go for it" with the Helix. It slid right in (without any lube on it) and felt so good! I laid back and just relaxed in the moment……[I am continuing anal contractions and feel great. However, I am not yet experiencing any tendency toward an orgasm and I am a little disappointed].

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What happens next is a "transition" to this sessions' lifelike "fantasy". Let me try to share………

While I have my head buried under the pillows, I developed the very real sense of being "approached" in bed by…….a woman. I don't know what she looked like or even how old she was, but I could feel her warm naked body next to mine and could smell a faint scent of perfume. (I imagined that she was gorgeous and sexy). Read more »

Dream, Fantasy and MMO

There are certain things that just go together, like milk and cookies, beer and pretzels, baseball and peanuts and movies and popcorn. Beyond food there are also things that elegantly complement experiences in my life.

The matching of the complement and the activity makes the experience seem even more enjoyable. While the food related examples are ones that I have certainly enjoyed, there are some emotional / sensual ones that also resonate with me. Examples are sitting by the warm crackling glow of a fire while camping in the black of night, enjoying the flickering golden hued intimacy of candles surrounding a hot tub or remaining in relaxed sleep in bed with the windows open on a warm summer morning while grey sky dims the sunrise and soft rain patters on a roof or window.

Beyond food and sensual life experiences there are several sexual ones that also affect me in profound ways. One of the sexual ones for me would be savoring the sensual eroticism of humping J's hot pussy as it sucks on my cockhead while she grinds her pubis on mine in a sinuous dance of erotic abandon. This visceral sexual experience is complemented by candles making sinuous shadows around the bed as we fuck. Or it could be soft music and scented candles in a dimly lit room creating a relaxed sense of sensual privacy while my oiled hands explore her body and stroke her intimate places in erotic massage that culminates in her having a shuddering orgasm. This marriage of mood and experience is perhaps one of the most magical aspects of my sensual and sexual life and experience of pleasure. Read more »

Waves Of Pleasure

I had just returned to bed after my usual early morning rise. I was trying to get some more rest. As I was lying there, I felt one distinct "twang" deep in my lower abdomen (I think I have felt this before just before a Super-O). Perhaps it was my prostate, I thought? I decided to do just some voluntary anal contractions as I tried to drift off to sleep.

As I kept doing these light contractions, I began to drift-off into a deep, relaxing thought……what if I can achieve a Super-O right here, right now. But after all, I had not had an Aneros session in over 2 days now. It probably was not possible. Anyway, I continued to do the light contractions when the most amazing thing happened…….

OMG! I am beginning to feel the beginnings of a prostate-induced orgasm! I began to feel it build, ever so slowly, but it distinctly was building. I had the urge to put a few fingers of my left hand back near my anus. Much to my surprise, the anal contractions now were "automatic"! I could feel the "pulsing" going on as the orgasmic feeling continued to build…..and build…..I realized that I could not stop it!

I I am now in the middle of a whole-body Super-O! I am starting to shake and convulse on the bed (Aless!!) I exhale a slight "moan" now with every breath. I feel an orgasmic "bliss". Read more »

A Mostly “G” – Rated Session

[This session is graphic and is definitely NOT G-rated]

I began this session with Helix and I am starting this as "do-nothing" or more appropriately "do-little". I took a long relaxing hot shower beforehand and got really comfortable in bed. The Helix went in nicely and I began to settle-in on my right side.

I read in a recent post about trying to return to a "more relaxed" state during these sessions instead of an all-out orgasmic "frenzy" and that is what I did. After a few powerful involuntary abdominal thrusts, I returned to the relaxed state. I got an erection almost immediately upon insertion and was already starting to moan.

Things were going pretty well for 15 minutes or so (I guess) when I began to experience several "weird" sensations from the prostate. OF course there were the auto-contractions that were light at first. But there were a few odd "tickles" near/on the prostate that I don't really remember feeling before. These would not stop and I began to feel more regular but light auto-contractions. Oh BTW, during this time, I had to get up to close the door again (the dog had opened it up!). The act of walking seemed to wake-up the prostate more and as I crawled back into bed, I realized that the prostate had begun to "buzz". I really had a hard time coming back to the relaxed state……

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I completely lost track of time…… Read more »

“Only One Night”

[This story is quite graphic by nature]

My wife and I have been "trying" for about a year to make a baby. We have been married about a year and a half. It is difficult for us mostly because of me. I cannot use Viagra or any similar products due to an allergic reaction to sildenafil. I also have an "ongoing" issue with my erections. I can "get it up" okay but it does not stay very "hard" for long. Consequently, according to my wife's gynecologist, upon penetration, my semen is not deposited "deeply" enough in her vaginal canal, which apparently is longer than usual. Although we have "fun" trying, we desperately need to get pregnant since I found out recently that I will be spending about a year overseas for my work. I am a petrochemical engineer and we are constructing a new plant.

My wife has begun to "track" her most fertile days and would you believe, her "next" best day is the day before I am scheduled to leave! What a quandary! What can I do?

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I began to do an online search for "natural" erection "cures" and was a little skeptical what I would find. I was intrigued by one ad I saw for a "natural" erection solution that did not involve any drugs or herbals. It was listed as a device that was inserted rectally that would cause the "hardest erection ever"! Again, I was very skeptical….. Read more »

Suspended Between a Man and a Woman and Reality and Fantasy

The well spring of my sexual response flows both from the depths of my aroused mind, from deep in my anal canal and under the base of my cock inside my groin; the desire that inspires those responses is a result of real time visions, recalled images, personal intimate memories and imagined fantasies. My desire and response are fickle. Orgasm may choose many different paths as it exerts its power over my body. The mental images may be a memory of a friends erect penis in my mouth or J’s sodden – hot vagina sheathing my own cock and sucking it lasciviously or it may be of my cockhead rubbing against a cockhead, oozing my precum on him as I straddle him and hump him to ejaculation. In the peak of MMO it is often the image of me frotting a guys cock until we both ejaculate on each other that inflames my MMOs to incendiary levels. All of these images will indeed cloak my mind in eros, stiffen my cock and make my anus twitch hungrily.

In the tempest of MMO I often fantasize about the extreme possibilities such as being vulgarly penetrated by a long hard cock; as orgasmic rapture clouds my mind I imagine I am being fucked by a handsome younger man. My mind is often filled with all kinds of lascivious thoughts as my prostate pulses and my anus flexes in anguished euphoria. The paths my sexual ecstasy chooses to expresses itself inside me is one of the wonders of my sexuality. Each sexual journey is a mysterious event that leaves me wondering when I will settle down and be “normal”. Read more »