Tag: Relaxation

ED “Cure” With Peridise?

I have "suffered" with ED for a while now, since my college days. I found that I just could not "hold" an erection for very long. It became very embarrassing. When I had a "hot" date, following a nice dinner, for example, when the opportunity presented itself, and I found myself in an intimate situation with the girl, I just couldn't get hard enough to satisfy her. I couldn't even get hard enough for a handjob! That usually was the end of the date and I resigned to the fact that my body was "different" than other males who could get it up and keep it up until the point of ejaculation. I was not so fortunate.

I had tried Viagra once but found that it was not working well for me. It also had some side effects that I would rather not endure again.

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I was intrigued by an ad I saw in a local newspaper advertising a "new" treatment and possible "cure" for ED! I copied down the phone number and the following day, decided to give them a call.

The person who answered the phone was very nice and asked me a few "personal" questions about my ED and my sexual habits and told me that, yes, it sounded like I would be a good "candidate" for this "new" treatment option which involved no drugs. I was intrigued and very encouraged. Read more »

I Love My Helix!

Even though it was only one day since my ride on Pro Jr and Peridise (Small), I just felt "ready" for another ride. I selected the Helix since I have had some great rides with it.

I got myself ready, lubed-up and was ready to ride.

I am writing this not in real time but the following morning, so some of the details may be a bit "sketchy". I'll try my best to remember. This ride had several "firsts" as I will explain……

First off, I decided to "time" my contractions by my breathing. As I took a deep breath, I wanted to feel it in my abdomen as well. When I did this, I increased the contraction ever so slightly. Upon releasing the breath, I released the contraction as well.

All was going fine and this continued for, I believe, 20 minutes or so. I felt very relaxed.

However, this relaxed state was punctuated at times by a sharp abdominal spasm which "jolted" me and the helix. At the same time, my breath became more of an exclamation point and was anything but regular! Wow! I did not expect this so early in the ride.

I tried to resume my "normal" breathing technique. What happened next? I felt the helix literally go into "auto-fuck" mode. My breathing became anything but regular. I felt more extreme P-waves which continued to build. I recognized the feeling and I know I was building to a dry orgasm. Read more »

Oh My! What A “Do-Nothing” Ride!

Oh My! Where to start? I found myself alone in the house for at least two hours so I "planned ahead" for an uninterrupted "ride" on Progasm Jr. I had not really used it much to-date since I usually felt that it "filled me up" a little too much. Tonight was different.

I decided in advance that I would make this session a "do-nothing" session and I just planned to relax with Progasm Jr. nicely snuggled in my you-know-what. I lubed up nicely and took my time with insertion. It is a little more difficult than the helix or eupho. Once in, I just turned over on my stomach and relaxed for about 15 to 20 minutes.

Very relaxing so far…..and I got an almost immediate erection with precum. Not a bad feeling!

But then, something happened to disturb this peaceful ride…..

I began to auto-contract ever so slightly. I could feel the Pro Jr. very slightly "tickling" my prostate with P-waves and I could even feel it with every pulse.

Every now and then, also, I began to experience a powerful abdominal spasm. Oh yeah, the moaning, THE MOANING seemed to be non-stop during this ride. Since I was alone in the house (except for the dogs) I didn't have to muffle my moans and I didn't. The moans became so loud at times that I believe that they actually helped increase the auto-contractions. Read more »

A Hot Peridise Fantasy

I'm a newlywed and have only been married for four months. I had my first overnight business trip and really didn't want to be away from my sweetheart. I know I will be missing her in a lonely hotel bed. I want so much to be close to her body tonight, feel her silky smooth skin next to mine, feel myself hardening up for her…..

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I had a good flight and began unpacking at the hotel. I was getting my clothes out to hang up when I found something surprising in my suitcase which my wife had packed. It appeared to be an Aneros "Peridise" and a tube of lubricant gel. Attached was this note:

"Hello dear, I thought you might try this out tonight and think about me waiting for you tomorrow night, luv u."

After my meetings during the day, I returned to my hotel, and after dinner, took a nice hot shower, and very relaxed, got undressed and hopped into bed. I got ready for this Peridise "adventure" and, since I had not experienced it before, I was eagerly anticipating the pleasure I could receive from it.

I took off my clothes and neatly folded them. I took out the Peridise, opened up the lube gel and with my finger, put a generous amount of lube in my anus and on the Peridise. I turned off the lights in the room, climbed into bed, got on my side and slowly inserted it. Ohhh! It just slid in and felt so good….. Read more »

Some basic info and some sexy thoughts

I’ve thought about starting a blog so many times. This incredible family of devices has taken up so much of my thought and effort in the past four years. There is so much to say.

First, some basic info about me and my style of play.

Late 30s. Northeast USA. Happily married. Heteroamorous but newly cock curious (you can read my forum posts to find out more about that).

Routine =

Coconut oil.

Nest. Must create a restful, comfortable environment. Mostly clear mattress. Lots of pillow props and – this is really useful – a heating pad!

Position. Lie on back. Legs out a bit, sometimes splayed. Like to put either left or right leg up on a pillow.

Prelube (coconut oil) and insertion. The smaller models are best for me. I own all, but mgx and ProJr have the best effects.

Do nothing technique. Complete and utter relaxation is necessary. Any hint of contraction kills all sensation. It has to build naturally.

Wait and Enjoy. Then just wait patiently for forty-five minutes and let the sensations build. The best part is that I let my mind go and I hallucinate the craziest things. Sometimes its images and sometimes even sensations or memories or smells.

When it’s happening it’s like I fall into a realm of pure sex. Every fantasy I ever had or could have comes to life. Sometimes I experience it first hand and sometimes I can almost see myself in the midst of the action. Read more »

A Peridise Fantasy

I found myself in need of some money, so I checked out a local sperm bank to see what I could do to quickly pick up a few bucks. The receptionist was very nice and took some information from me, including my age, my weight and my approximate frequency of ejaculations (I thought this was a bit strange) and then looked over my "application" and said that I am "qualified" to donate today. She game me a large clear plastic "tube" with a cover and told me to go to one of the "numbered" rooms nearby (I believe it was #3) and lock the door. Inside, it was very comfortable with a "table" covered in a nice white material and a fluffy pillow, almost like a "bed". The lighting was very low and relaxing.

I thought that I would be able to masturbate quickly, collecting my semen in the "tube", get my money and be on my way. However, that was not the way things worked in this particular sperm bank.

The "aid" who came to visit me said that they have found that by additional sexual "stimulation" of the anal canal, they can obtain a much "better" sample of semen for the bank. Thus, they will use this technique out on me today. She asked me if I was okay with this and I said sure, why not (I needed the money). She asked me to take off my pants and my underwear, and my shirt and climb-up on the "table" and lay on my left side. Read more »

This Eupho Session Was A “Dud” – Or Was It?

Nothing unusual about this Eupho session. I did have a major distraction from television the entire ride. However, I managed the best I could. As with previous Eupho sessions, it took a while to get the prostate "buzzing". Even after about an hour, there still was no orgasm. I did feel only one Dry-O during the latter part of this session.

One interesting thing which I did in this session was put my finger at the "back end" of my anus and "explore" a little. The lube was really slippery and my finger was able to glide back and forth within the anal opening with ease. It felt so good! However, I actually felt like it was "accelerating" an ejaculation, though, not a prostate orgasm. I didn't know if the stimulation of the anal nerves was going to trigger a penile ejaculation, but it sure felt so. I did this only for about a minute or so then stopped it. I did not want to "short-circuit" a prostate orgasm.

Since it was obvious that nothing else would come of this session, I ended it and chalked it up as a "dud".

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Note: As is usual for most of these sessions, I awoke about five hours later with a most powerful erection and precum. As I am sitting here, I am feeling a slight ache in the lower abdomen and a "twinge" in the prostate followed by another erection. The head of the penis is wet. The testicles are starting to get very sensitive and I am experiencing a toe-curling spasm in the prostate region. I think I'll go back to bed……. Read more »

Damn. First time went better than expected.

So I tried my aneros for the first time today- first actual toy I’ve ever owned. I bought the progasm on Amazon, and abstained until it got here. Turned on a warm shower, worked it in there, and just relaxed. After 10 minutes, I started to hold a very light contraction. After a while, the toy seemed like it began to move on its own, rubbing up and down my prostate. It felt reeeaaally good, and I couldn’t contain myself after 20 more minutes, so I TO’ed.

I didn’t know my first time would be so great, especially after reading about the amount of time it takes to adjust to the progasm and how to adjust to the feelings. Anyone else had a particularly awesome first time?

Prostate Massage Orgasm

As the dimensions of my sexual response are intertwining and evolving I find myself thinking a lot about the nature of my sexual pleasure. So it was earlier this week on my drive home that I had plenty of time to ponder on the complexity of my experience of erotic bliss. The inspiration was an intimate liaison I had the night before.

As a guy I am biologically programmed to see erotic pleasure as an external thing. My psyche is hard wired to experience pleasure as a joined visual and physical event; in both visual and physical perspectives my sexual pleasure is experienced predominantly through my cock. The sight of J alluringly nude, or a guy with an erection illicits an immediate physical response; my cock hardens and lengthens and the welcomed erotically warm desperate itch of arousal caresses my cock and tugs on it. As arousal tugs on my cock it fills it with the tingling urge to cum; visual pleasure evokes physical pleasure. That physical pleasure is centered pretty much on my cock. When I fuck, or when my cock is being massaged or sucked my pleasure from orgasm is generally focused on ejaculation whether it is in the caress of warm wet pussy or a sucking mouth. Read more »

Memory of Frotting

It took me until my 60th year to come to grips with my bisexuality. It was always lurking just below the surface but it took until I was sexually confident and wise enough to let my demon out of its box. In all the tests I have self administered on line, I come out 70 – 30; seventy percent hetero sexual and thirty percent homosexual. I find it elegantly erotic that I can be aroused by a man or a woman or even myself with no one.

While I have shared the exquisite erotic sexual pleasure of women for most of my life, I have also recently come to enjoy the exquisite intimacy of sharing pleasure with men, first on line then in person. The on line experience hardened my cock as I exposed my most secret forbidden urges to men on line in chat and eventually in real time on camera. As we exchanged mutual mental and visual images of lurid desires and homoerotic lust our cocks grew hard in our separate silent spaces. Expressing things that we could never say in person or look each other in the eyes as we said them, sharing fantasies, safely separated by distance and media provoked our cocks to harden and eventually to erupt for each other’s visual enjoyment. Some of the stimulation to ejaculate was visual but I venture a guess that much of the reason for my hot eruption of cum was the admission of vulgar desire and the raw male beauty of his sexual arousal. Seeing his rigid cock pumping ropes of cum inspired my own cascade of hot semen. Read more »