Tag: Relaxation

For those of you that complement your aneros use with marijuana, what are your experiences? Any tips?

Hi all, I was just wondering if anyone else here also used marijuana in conjunction with their aneros. Now after graduating college and having my own job and (gratefully) own place, I feel like with my freedom using the aneros as well as weed is well within the possibility as I don't have to worry about roommates walking in.

That being said, I was not one to smoke daily, at most once a week, as it was always more of a relaxing, lone activity for me, as I tend to get pretty quiet and introverted when high (not to mention extremely horny at times!) and just spend my time browsing reddit and just being content with myself.

I was just wondering if there were any aneros users that do in fact get high before they use the aneros? If so, I was wondering if there were any tips you would recommend as well as experience with it? Cheers!

tl;dr: Starting to live on my own, have the privacy to get high in conjunction with aneros, want to hear others' experience with it before diving in.

Orgasmic Symphony

When I don’t make these posts I feel like a part of my sex life is missing. Describing the experiences I have is as much a part of my sexual response as is having them. There is an erotic excitement to writing these that I miss when I skip them. I savor all the things I write about as they happen to me, then I get to savor them again as I remember them and commit them to words. The act of recalling erotic sensations and experiences allows me to indulge myself like I woud with a favorite wine or chocolate that I have been craving. They satisfy me as they turn me on. Savoring the sensations, emotions and rapture I experience and describing them to readers is as sensual as the experience itself.

When I write these entries I am fully erect and dripping precum; I am now. I am embarrassed to say that I use ladies panty liners to keep from soaking through my pants when I write; indeed I have one in now. I have just learned that they have come out with a version of underwear liners for men. I will have to get some and see if they work as well as ladies. I must say however that the understated fetishist in me secret is turned on when I slide a women’s liner in my underwear. What can I say? Read more »

Just one problem

I've had 20 or so sessions feel like I'm close. I just figured out that when I pull my helix syn in just slightly, the smallest amount I can, it helps, but it's hard for me to concentrate on breathing, relaxing, enjoying myself, and pulling it in slightly all at the same time.

Has anyone else had that problem? Is there a position that would work better for me? I've been lying on one side mostly. I'm tall so maybe it's just slightly too short for me.

Sorry for the clicky-baity title. I wasn't sure what to write.

progressing

It has been 3 weeks since my last blog and I have probably had 6-8 sessions since then. Not keeping track of every session which i feel is a good things. In fact I am treating some of my sessions as practice sessions keeping them short and not expecting to much. Most of my pleasure seems to be in the first 30 -45 minutes and then i seem to try and start making things happen. I now am getting subtle pulses in my prostate during my sessions very faint almost like a heartbeat. Just one pulse and a little twinge. They are becoming more frequent now during a session and I think I am moving along. I start out on my side as reccomended and usually get good feelings within 10 minutes and some pulsing and then it subsides after about thirty min. Recently i have started rolling on to my stomach after the thirty minutes and in my last session was having increased pulsing at closer intervals. They are definitly involuntary and feel nice but short. At this point it is very difficult to not let my mind think that something good is ready to happen and try and force the issue and lose the feeling. i am getting better mind control and can get back but man it is easy to lose the relaxed focus needed. Then the phone rang i looked at who it was, looked at the clock started thinking about i should be doing something else and it was over. Got up and took a hot shower and left the Aneros in during the first half of the shower. never realy walked around with it in before. It felt pretty good in the hot shower and then it was easy to take it out and clean up right there. So going to give it a couple of days rest and try again but i am confident know that i know how to get to that point and enjoy what is coming to me. know to relax and try to omit the distractions and hope for great things to cum.

Just wanted to express my excitement.

Just really wanted to post about how excited I am!

Im not new to aneros, as about 2 years ago I bought a Helix Syn. I fucking HATED it. It was just simply painful to use. I was told to relax, drown it in lube, reposition it, blah blah blah. But no matter what I did it felt like someone was gently stabbing me with a knitting needle or something. I attributed it to the things size and shape. Really small, slender, and a softly pointed spot on the end.

So I gave up on it and tossed it aside, with it being the biggest disappointment in a sex toy ive ever had, and a very expensive one too. I went back and looked at all the different models aneros has and saw that the progasm was the largest, and at not even 2" around its still small for a butt toy. Well I just bought one through the %50 off sale.

Well it finally just came in the mail. So I tried it out. And omg im so excited! I ACTUALLY FELT SOMETHING. Immediately after inserting I felt a dull, but really nice sensation right where it was pressing. I left it in for about a half hour or so and then just got off by hand since I was too eager. However im totally stoked about FINALLY getting into the realm of prostate stimulation. Ive never been able to find it by hand, but im positive the progasm hits it. Read more »

A Less Nirvana

I was born and raised in New York City. At 11 years old I learned how to ride the NYC subway and figure out where it took me. From that point on the greatest city in the world was my oyster. Almost every week from then until I was 18, I used the magic carpet of the subway to take me to some new neighborhood, street or destination that needed discovering.

For all the hundreds of places I was in the City in those years and the hundreds more that I have been there since then, there are still many, many more places that I have yet to discover and visit. New York is a large city and there are thousands and thousands of fascinating and diverse places each promising its own nuanced experiences. Even today when I go to NYC I am always finding someplace new and exotic to experience that I have never been before.

I have come to realize that my experience with MMO is just like my experience of NYC. The Aneros is my subway system. Every time I insert I am transported to some new place and each of those places has a nuanced sensation of ecstasy. A few years into my MMO journey I learned to do A Less MMO’s; these subtle and elegant orgasms are yet another part of my orgasmic landscape that beseech me to visit frequently. I have been doing massager less MMO’s for many years now. The last couple of years I have been doing them just about every night. That translates to 500 sessions more or less each year. It continues to amaze me that each one of those sessions is distinctly different. And just like a trip to NYC, each time I get on the orgasm train I find a new stop with different sensations and a different experience of each place. Read more »

An Amazing Night

The calm before the storm is the best expression I can think of for this next ten days before Christmas. Last night conformed eerily to that description. It was deathly quiet in the house, none of my friends were on line, the dog was sound asleep on the futon next to me in my office where I sat cruising on the computer. J was upstairs in her studio working on a project. It has been several years now that all the kids are gone from the house; the current quiet has become the norm. The term “empty nest” has real meaning around here, it is very quiet at night. Add to that, early darkness and no one on line; it is no wonder that evenings have become a time for me to ruminate and write. So at 8 PM I began writing a section of my next erotic book.

Against this backdrop of the mind numbing calm, my rich inner sex life has become like the lights of Broadway. Last night was no exception; the events of last night were so amazing that I needed to get them written and posted before I forgot them. So instead of doing my work this morning I am taking this diversion to get this written so I can post it. Read more »

Maybe not a super-O, but…

This post comes fairly soon after my last one, but I'm still giddy from my experience.

Last night, I felt the stress of the week accumulate and wanted to take a moment to relax. I figured I'd lay on my side with my Helix Syn in, and just focus on my breathing for a while.

It took me a little longer to get there than the last time, but I started feeling as if my prostate was filling up, gorged with liquid, swishing around with every tiny movement of the toy inside. I reached the plateau stage of fairly intense shivering and muscle clenching, a heat wave pulsing through my stomach. My thougths drifted between this and my girlfriend pegging me, and I eventually felt my lower abdomen clench ridiculously hard. My body felt as if suspended in midair, and I could very vividly feel a few drops of precum passing through my urethra.

I came down from this state of euphoria after maybe 30 seconds or so, felt myself drained, stayed there, and the dirty thoughts claimed me again. I quickly rose to the plateau stage again. This time it was a bit shorter, and less intense, but left my pelvis sore with happiness. I almost got there a third time, but I called my girlfriend into the bedroom and stroked away in front of her, shooting everywhere. Shit, that was hot. Read more »

Progress update #4

So I've been on and off with my Helix Syn, but lately I've felt the increased craving for prostate simulation. Until now, I was doing the same routine of inserting the toy, relaxing for 5 to 10 minutes, then contracting my PC and BC muscles, figuring out what felt good, eventually getting to a fairly intense plateau. My heart would start racing, my breathing would shorten, and a sort of heat wave would develop from my pelvis and spread through my legs and abdomen.

Tonight, I tried something a little different. I had the apartment to myself and decided to go for a meditation session, but with the toy inside. I lay on my side, knees bent, and focused entirely on breathing out, letting go of everything else.

After some time, I couldn't feel the toy anymore (it always feel so damn cold in the beginning because of the lube). Shortly after, I felt the general area of my prostate clamped between the toy inside of me and the tab pressed against my perineum. Then it started to feel good. Like, really good. A very slow, but purposeful wave of arousal began to grow, and as much as I tried actively relaxing my muscles, I could feel them gently contracting, bringing the toy inwards and upwards. I reached the plateau stage this way, held it up for some time, heart pounding away, legs gone completely numb, pelvic region gone completely numb. It was all about that damn heat wave. Read more »

weird feeling just wanna know what stage I’m at

Just wondering about my progression been on and off for over a year. I've been able to have this feeling a couple of times which is a step up from just feeling the motions of the aneros.

I relax my body as much as possible, and I stop kind of feeling the toy and more feel like my body is being shook by someone else. it kinda feels being dizzy. anyone else experienced this at any of their stages?

Feels alright, but like people have said before 'you'll know when it happens'…