Turned another corner?

Here's some of a post comment I made this morning then I added some comments at the end. Pasted it here instead of rewriting the whole thing.

Seemed to turn some kind of a corner last night and this morning.

I think my prostate was still warmed up from the last evening. I don't think I did any kegels first.

Guys, thanks for your posts! It was just at the right time to pick up something you said !

Turnrow, after I read your email yesterday, I followed some of your threads and came across this one.

I'd heard people encouraging to relax but )with my impatience( I never went anywhere with it.

I Probably haven’t experienced the super–O’s yet, but this evening I tried what you described smudgefish, and went into Dry–orgasms from it.

[Quote from smudgefish: I think it was @Canacan who described relaxing every muscle, and the relaxing even more, which is pretty much what I did; someone else has described it as going 'floppy'.]

So in my first try, After about a minute of trying to relax this way, I felt pwaves and the start of a dry–O. But then I immediately I lost it, like you mentioned Smudgefish, I just tensed up against them, and this kept on happening )which mad me more tense(… Read more »

Holy shit! I think I finally did it!

This literally just happened. I've been using Aneros products on and off for the better part of a decade, and although I've enjoyed the feeling and had some great super-ts, I've never been able to achieve a full on super-O. Today, that changed. I've been really getting more into of the "hands-off" approach to my sessions for the last few months, and I've come close but never been able to break through. Today I had my third session of the week with my Helix Syn after taking some extra prep time to trim the hedges and clean up real good. I took my time and relaxed thuroughly while inserting, and after taking a few minutes to get adjusted, began breathing deeply and lightly alternating my pc and sphincter. This time however I kept telling myself in my head, "you're not going to super, and that's ok." Also I tried to get a rhythm going so the contractions were happening naturally rather than something I had to actively concentrate on. After just a few minutes I started to get some involuntary buzzing, and slowly that buzzing began to spread throughout my entire body, growing in intensity. At it's peak, my abdominal muscles were fully contracted, and entire body was tingling very strongly. I would relate the feeling to the tingling that happens in your face when you hyperventilate, plus the buzzing numbness you get in your hands after mowing the lawn for a while, but both over my entire body. It kept going like that for probably five minutes or more, I feel like I could have kept it up, but I was getting exhausted at that point, so i let it idle down. Read more »

Think I realize now why it’s called “Riding”!

So last night, I wanted to have an A–Less O session, but things just weren’t working. I went through 600 PC contractions #1 1–9, #2 1–9, etc. and started getting a few little pwaves at the end, but nothing that would move into an O.

Was Frustrated, but figured there’d be other better days so dropped off to sleep.

Woke up 5 hours later, around 6am, and out of habit grabbed my dick with a couple fingers )I like to drift off to sleep like that occasionally(, but instead felt a pwave )!!(.

So followed it, and wound up with a 15 min rolling intense penis DO, and I kept my fingers around the base of my now erect dick because I was afraid the O would slip away otherwise, but it didn’t.

Waited a few min afterward to relax, and then another 15 min rolling DO started )!!(. OK, but as I was enjoying this one, I kept feeling pwaves as my dick head brushed the sheets as I was moving around. Hmmm…

So I moved my fingers to lightly touch the left & right edge of the glans and touched/rubbed the pee–hole occasionally as I had found in previous sessions, and the rolling O kept going… Whew. OK. Kept getting pre–lube drops from my dick and that allowed me to keep rubbing & touching the parts of the glans without chaffing anything. Also, used moving my hips around/rolling ’em to follow the prostate pwave. Read more »

First involuntary twitches during a Dry-O

Last night tried to have an Aless session and nothing worked. Dud.

This morning, was just feeling up my penis like I often like to do )enjoy feeling the shapes and different skin types, folds of skin, etc(, and noticed a pwave! So figured I oughta check it out.

Rubbed & tickled the outside edge of the glans for a minute and went into a mild penis dry–O, so figured the power's on! So enjoyed that one for maybe 5 min, then had 4 – 5 more really intense ones over 45 minutes. Testicals started turtling if I rubbed my frenulum or front of the glans )which for me always leads to ejaculation )or blue balls ARGH( (, but not if I only played with the left and right edges and top of the glans.

These Orgasms started with a strong PC contraction and pulling in of my groin, then thrust out with solid erection, then slow moving grinding/thrusting in/out, rolling side to side, etc. No semen, but drop or two of pre–lube with each orgasm or each major grind. My testicals weren't turtling up either.

Was really satisfying and pleasurable. Didn't need to stimulate my pee–hole this time to cause them, but the times I did, that would set off another round. During one of these, I spent like 5 minutes solid with a hard erection, just slowly moving my groin in and out with several drops of pre–lube coming out of the tip. Read more »

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN (follow-up)

I had not made a lot of progress since my last post until very recently. I decided to write a follow-up for people who are interested in other guy's experiences.

Frustrating sessions

After my last post I was fairly confident to make a lot of progress in my next sessions. But I was wrong about that. I had problems getting a tug-of-war going. The binaural beats did help, but I lost my concentration easily. I knew that I was trying too hard. I did the exact same things in my last sessions and expected some kind of breakthrough moment and never-ending pleasure. It was quite frustrating. But I was more frustrated about my high expectations than the lack of progress. I stopped using my Aneros for two weeks.

Two nice sessions on the same day

I had a cold and a bit of time on my hands. I spend some time watching porn without jerking off and thought about using my Aneros again. As soon as I was feeling much better, I started a session. But this time I did a few things differently. Read more »

I didn't wear a jockstrap. In my early sessions I was often distracted by my penis and pre-cum. When my penis was rubbing on my stomach it sometimes felt like jerking off. The pre-cum didn't help. I tried to avoid penile stimulation by wearing a jockstrap. For some reason I was confident to not get distracted by penile stimulation this time. I would just try to focus on anal stimulation.

Super O and then..

Since my first entry in May when I reached my first Super O, many other sessions have followed. Not every session was 'out of the world' but still good. But frequently I have had the gift of a Super O. Every time this has happened, it felt as good as the first time. The moment the orgasm happens it is like being in a dream, just amazing what my body can experience by simply letting go, relaxing, breathing. Key is observing rather than trying to achieve something.

The reason I decided to add a new entry to my blog is the following. Often after having had a Super O, the next day I am still so excited I want more. This however means expectations… And as I wrote in my first blog, rule number one is DROP expectations. Because as soon as I start a session with the idea of repeating with what I felt the day before it is most of the time not happening. The mind is very important in all this I realise more and more. I now try to limit my aneros sessions to once or max twice a week. Meanwhile Aless sessions become more intense. Which I enjoy more and more. Read more »

A major rewiring milestone

I apologize in advance for the length of this post. I’m still trying to collect my thoughts from what happened last night and need every word below to explain it.

Yesterday while at work, I started to feel my prostate swell, which eventually made my PC muscle twitch a little. This was quite pleasurable and my prostate started feeding on the motion of the twitching by swelling even more. A couple times during the day, I had to go to the bathroom to mop up the precum, which had made the tip of my dick stick to my underwear. By the end of the day, my PC muscle was twitching without me initiating it. Earlier in the day, I would feel my prostate swell, sit up straight to put pressure on the money spot and flex my PC muscle once. This would make that muscle twitch for about 15 minutes on its own. It was kind of like lifting the ball on the end of Newton’s Cradle and feeling the inertia of what I had set into motion. This was very nice. Read more »

Frequency?

Is there a safe frequency for anal play? As in, would I be able to play one night, and the next morning? One morning and later the same night?

Also, I feel a bit of..pain? The toys I have are bulbous, so the wider parts have a bit of pain going past the sphincter, and then a sense of great relief and some pleasure as it slides fully in (it kind of sucks itself in once past the bulbous part). Is this just an issue of needing to relax more, and get used to things? Maybe start smaller? (a finger has no pain, for example. So is it better to use that for quite a while, and see if the bigger toy is ok- or would using the bigger toy for a bit, eventually loosen things up and I'd get used to it?)

Clearly, I'm new to this. Thanks in advance!

I’ve just had the strangest session yet

I spent almost 80 minutes aroused, about 55 minutes in I added some lube and was back there very shortly, maybe even a bit higher for brief moments.

There was no orgasm though, not even a glimpse of it. I'm getting more confident in how to do this but still don't know how to push it past the threshold (I tried some contractions and angles but nothing worked).

It felt nice, I feel relaxed and soft now but also understandably unsatisfied. I don't want to ruin it by masturbating either. I'm not worried that it would prevent me from doing it again soon as my orgasms were always about a day or two since traditional orgasm so my worries are actually exactly opposite (now is day 3).

How often do you masturbate or have sex and how do you think it affects your prostate orgasms? Do you experienced people ever have such sessions or you just learned how to turn the intensity up?

My body doesn’t allow initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

Very recently (within the past 3 sessions), my body doesn't even allow me the initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

For the past few times, I've inserted the Aneros when I can feel my prostate begging for it. I'll be sitting in a chair or on the couch and start to feel things twitching at a more rapid pace than I've ever experienced. It's as if I'm sitting on the railroad tracks as a train is approaching.

So when I feel this begging, I begin a session but my body immediately starts going crazy…not Super-O crazy, as I've yet to cross that threshhold, but my PC muscle, sphincter muscle and everything in between just starts this crazy dance of pleasure. It will get pretty intense, which forces both my PC muscle and rectal muscles to involuntarily contract all the way. After each extreme contraction, it seems that the involuntary dancing that's going on gets less and less intense until…….nothing. Well, almost nothing– once in awhile I'll have a minor twitch, but that's about it. It's almost as if my session is going in the reverse direction of how it's supposed to.

My question is, should I try to stop my body from those extreme contractions, or does this have nothing to do with the "calming down" of everything? Is it that my body becomes used to having something in there and the initial shock of a foreign object creates that crazy dancing? I usually give myself around an hour or so of not doing much of anything after the twitching stops.