Tag: Relaxation

Insertion depth of Aneros

Been using the helix trident for about a month. Get some decent feelings and learning a lot. However it sticks out an inch when inserted. Even when I clench it only pulls it in a little more. I understand we are all slightly different and my personal anatomy plays a factor.
But how deep should I expect the helix trident to stick out in a relaxed or clenched state?
I have read on the forums (when they were working) some guys need a bigger unit. I went with the Helix due to it be recommended beginner model. I like it but want to be sure it is the right one for me. The MGX looks nice but is only .08 inches longer. The Progasm is .68 inches longer but also much bigger throughout, which is slightly concerning. I’m sure it is easily worked up to though.

Side question: Anyone know what’s up with Aneros forums?

Thanks guys for any advice and help!

Do nothing or do light contractions?

Been using the helix syn a few times now with little progress, and it seems the more I ask the more confused I get. People have told me to do light contractions about halfway and hold, though I will do that for 20 minutes and barely feel anything. Others tell me to simply do nothing and let the aneros work its magic, though I’m not sure if that can happen if I do nothing right from the start, and as far as I know the only involuntary contractions I have had only lasted for a few seconds when I started to feel a sort of tingling feeling coming from my prostate (whatever you want to call that). It then subsides and nothing happens. I also noticed if I push the aneros closer towards my stomach when I breath in I get a sort of warm fulling feeling in my stomach, but it’s only very minor and brief because I have to hold my breath and concentrate hard for that to happen. I think I might try the do nothing approach from the start, I just need some relaxing audio or something perhaps. Can anyone give me some tips for someone who is confused as to what I should be doing to make progress?

Recognizing a prostate orgasm?

I’ve had an Aneros — one of the basic models — for years now, but I’ve generally only used it when I’m doing things with my wife. I finally decided “What the hell” and tried giving the HFO a shot.

Until last night, I’ve not had much luck. I’ve been practicing my muscle control but it’s still very difficult for me to clench in a gradual and controlled fashion. It feels nice, but it doesn’t do much beyond that. Plus, for some reason it’s sometimes difficult for me to remain hard when I’m being penetrated: I have to be *very* turned on for that, and concentrating on the aneros makes it difficult to maintain that level of arousal.

But last night, I put it in early and left it in place for an hour or two ahead of time. We had some pot last night, and I was feeling nice and relaxed, and was in just the right mind space to keep myself good and hard. And then something happened. I was convulsing a little, making noises that I don’t normally make, but it didn’t feel…orgasmic. It felt really good, but not nearly at the level of a full-blown orgasm. Nor was it as satisfying as a regular orgasm, not by a long shot.

So, not sure. Am I on the right track, do you think? And what can I do to achieve something better?

Making progress, but still not sure what im doing wrong

I had a session using my aneros helix syn today for around 2 hours. Completely relaxed, I stared to feel things rather quickly, I could feel a light tingling feeling/numbness coming from my prostate and penis. This was on and off rather randomly for an hour and a half I imagine. Eventually I discovered if i pushed the aneros up towards my belly with my muscles and held it there (think this mightve had to do with holding my breath) I could feel a buildup in my prostate and what I thought was in my stomach too. This buildup was slightly stronger than the small feelings I had before and quickly went away. I also put my butt up on a pillow and it didnt seem to become much better.

Im confused to what im doing wrong however. People have told me to relax and just let the aneros do its thing and to not tense up, yet they have also told me to not “do nothing”. I dont know what to do now when i start to feel these sensations building, keep doing the contractions exactly like I am? Try and push the aneros closer against my prostate? Or just stop doing things and let the aneros do what it wants?

14 month Journey… but tonight was the first Hands Free Super O

It’s been one hell of a journey. I didn’t think I would ever get there and at times have been on the brink of throwing it away and giving up! I likely tried a minimum of 2 to 5 times a month each month for that long! I had some weed tonight though…. not the first time with weed to at least try to achieve, but on weed just the same. I can’t describe what happened except to say that my whole body lost control, and the waves of pleasure just about put me through the roof. Largest spasms of my life, and dry like they say…. I didn’t think it was possible.

It was like I was just in a whole other world…. I relaxed more and more and more in my recliner gently girating my hips and flexing around the toy. All of a sudden I was slowly shaking…. and I couldn’t control it. Then it was like my whole body exploded as I was shaking violently. I spent the session strongly concentrating on the feeling of my Helix Syn rubbing on my prostate…. and I mean strongly concentrating on just feeling the rubbing only without thinking about having a wet orgasm…. all I can say is OMG. I ended the evening with three Super O’s tonight…. I just kept having more after the first one. Shit I’m getting horny just typing this out right now. I might have to go start all over again!

Unlocked the gates to endless pgasms

I have an aneros knock off kind of a toy, hard plastic with a p tab and a loop on the back. I think you can find them online under the name Ignite. Anyway, experimenting for about a week. Lots of great feelings and got the building toward orgasm feeling but it was like a wave that never crashed. But last night I did a bit of weed before my session. With the relaxed state due to the weed I found it much easier to just roll with the sensations and not worry about reaching orgasm as a goal. Well, that did the trick. I reached a crashing dry orgasm in maybe 10 mins. The most amazing thing is that after the orgasm I felt myself building to another immediately, like nothing had happened yet. Zero refractory period as with a traditional orgasm. Anyway I stayed in that state having orgasm after orgasm. Probably had 40 in a half hour. I even had two right in top of one another. And I could have just kept going but I was starting to get fatigued. A bit sore down there today. So the oft repeated advice about being totally relaxed is very true. Hope to accomplish this without weed now. If somebody had told me a week ago that there was a way for a man to orgasm over and over and over again, I wouldn’t have believed it. By the way, these were all dry Os. Flaccid, no contact with penis. Felt very similar to a normal orgasm but more internal and much more intense.

My path to Super-O

TL;DR:

1. Avoid jerking off watching porn
2. Let go of control
3. Size of toy may not matter that much

Hi there, since a few weeks I got the point I can reliably summon Super-Os. So I thought it is a good idea to share what worked and what did not for me.

Like many of us, I read tons of guides, some of which were contradicting others and kept me confused. Moreover many guides are written by experts who already achieved Super-O and are somewhat harder to interpret by people who are in the beginning of the journey. I hope this will be useful.

2019:

### Jan

Received Lelo Bruno. Manual toys are oldschool and cool kids should get battery powered toys, right?

### Feb

Had around 5 sessions with Bruno while watching regular porn in front of the PC. No luck. Jerking off with vibrator in did somewhat improve orgasm but nothing to write home about. Realized I needed to research more and there is not going to be a delayed gratification thing, again.

### March

Got MGX trident. Tried steps from the wiki (breathing, contractions, CaveOfMystery method, donothing). Absolutely no pleasant sensations whatsoever. I did notice sometimes during exhale combined with some very specific PC contraction there was a “feeling”. It was not pleasurable but not unpleasant either. Motivated by some progress, decided to help my prostate awake by ordering another gadget. We all know ordering stuff online is the way for the win. Read more »

Am I close?

So I had a session yesterday and it was extremely pleasurable. I was moving my Aneros Progasm with my anal sphyncter for about an hour and it made me feel like I was about to ejaculate (don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to feel). I was really aroused, but I wasn’t relaxed. The point is that the more aroused, the less relaxed I become. However, I didn’t ejaculate (which is not my goal) neither had an orgasm. Have any of you had an orgasm without being relaxed? I always go to a peak and then go down again with no sucess. I can’t go beyond that point. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Multimode Super O

Try this:

Lube up a Helix and send it in. Lie down and relax. Widen your ass hole. Let the Helix roam free.

Cue up this audio track and poke in your earbuds

[https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/low-power-electro-session-41624471](https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/low-power-electro-session-41624471)

Bring this video full screen

[https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59f5d8af8c444](https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59f5d8af8c444)

Diddle your nipples.

If this doesn’t bring you to bliss, you are trying to hard.

Sleepiness, Boredom, and Arousal

Hello everyone,

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for the past 5 months with some decent results.

Relaxation and arousal are often cited as key elements to success. However, I have been having two issues with this. First, I can easily relax, but this causes me to quickly fall asleep in the middle of my sessions, which is not exactly conducive to making progress.

Second, if I instead concentrate heavily on maintaining arousal and focusing on sensations, I become mentally exhausted rather quickly.

Many users report that they require 2-3 hour sessions to make progress, especially at the beginning of the journey. I can barely last an hour without either falling asleep, becoming bored, or becoming mentally exhausted and distracted.

Any tips on how to overcome this challenge would be greatly appreciated. Thanks !