“Semen Retention: Easier The Second Time Around?”

I decided to write this blog entry to indicate that my “second try” at the 21-day challenge is happening entirely by accident. I did not purposely embark on this mission like before. Rather, here I am in Day 11 and so far (haha!) I have not had an ejaculation nor a wet dream. The horniness comes and goes but lately, it is not too much of a bother. But when I am aroused, say in the night or early AM, wow! It is difficult to control it and, honestly, I feel like I really could use at least a wet dream. Like I have said in several blogs recently, I am prepared for one by lining my sleepware with a towel. It sounds strange but actually feels quite normal now.

I believe that this semen retention is as much a mental thing as it is a physical thing. You have to break-free from the ‘addiction’ of masturbation. Nearly all of us males are addicted in one way or another. It is when we are somewhat deprived of our ‘need’ (masturbation/ejaculation) we develop an INTENSE craving (i.e., horniness) and that is what keeps many guys from progressing very far in this endeavor. But for those of us who are persistent, we seem to develop a mindset that puts ejaculation ‘on the back burner’ so to speak. Is this normal? Is it a good thing? You can judge for yourself. In my case (and at my age), there are MANY BENEFITS to semen retention as I have outlined previously. Also, the net is loaded with info. on this subject. Is it a new way of life? Probably. Much in the same way that we are ‘re-wired’ by Aneros use, we are ‘re-wired’ for ejaculation response. Interesting comparison!……

Wow is all I can say!

I can only write a quick blog this morning as I’m pressed for time.

I had a session Wednesday night and tried a different internal lube (inspired by @BigGlansDC).  I injected 3/4 of a cc of Pure Virgin Olive Oil instead of my regular water-based liquid lube.  I lubed up my Helix-Syn as usual with water-based jell and went to work.  I should say, the tool went to work almost immediately.  This thing was floating and providing sensations I never experienced before.  Was it the lube or just natural progression of my rewiring process?  At this point, I must add that I performed a lot more Kegel exercises during the day, again inspired by my friends @BigGlansDC and @goldenboy. Who knows but it was great!

Last night, I repeated the process but with 1 cc of the oil and my Progasm Ice.  Again, the session was beyond any other I had before including the Wednesday one.  No Dry-Os but very very strong P-Waves where I thought ‘this is it, this is the night’.  Thinking about what @rumel wrote recently about over-analysing situations, I backed right down and used only very very very slight PC and Sphincter contractions and tried to relax as much as I could.  I finally had to end the session but my innards were objecting strongly.  They wanted more!

Darwin, Answer This

Having accepted the theory of evolution (anyone who hasn’t should at least try reading Darwin’s book), I’d like someone to answer me this, in evolutionary terms:

– Why is prostate massage so fucking wonderful? For hours on end, with the Aneros in the end, the pleasure continues, like no other. Is this a vestige of the genes that make the female organism?

– If so, is the anersos orgasm anything like the female orgasm? (Try setting up an experiment ot provde that one!)

– Why does getting rewried, getting massaged in the prostrate, make my nipples so sensitive to exstacy, like they never were before? Why does stroking my nipples with my hard middle fingernail cause the groin to spasm in sympathy?

– How is that becoming rewired has created a link between nerves of my face, lips, tongue and lower neck, all coupled to the prostate and penis? Now, I can make my tongue move so it creates a sensation that my dick is being licked.

– When I get things just right, and my shincter beings moving the Aneros in and out on it’s own, why dos that cause an erection and ejactulation.

– What is the evolutionay advantage to such an ocean of orgasms that do not lead to procreation?

I’ll keep enjoying all this without answering these questions, but I’d be entertained by answers.

And if you are a creationist instead, let me know why this is part of the Intelligent Design.

“Semen Retention: No-Spill Zones”

For those of us navigating through “Semen Retention”, know that it requires a great deal of discipline and focus. As noted in previous blogs by myself and others, one needs to “channel” the sexual energy (fire) into other parts of his life. We males do not live in a sexual vacuum, most of us are not celibate and we must cope with sexual stimulation every day of our lives.

Here are some examples how, when practicing SR, we must navigate through the “No-Spill Zones” —-
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First, as most of us males know, we have an average 3 to 5 erections every night. That means that usually at some point in time (in the middle of the night or early morning) we will awaken with a boner. How we manage these erections while practicing semen retention becomes the first test of our focus and discipline. Do we feel the need to masturbate and ejaculate? Do we want to have sex? You bet! But semen retention requires a more focused approach, a rejection of the normal male sexual response if you will, if we are to progress along the path. In time, the erection will subside and we will return to normal.
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Super-T attempt late Saturday night, 8/6/16

Hi guys,

I tried to achieve Super-T tonight. Getting lots of sweet, delicious feelings first with Aneros Syn and then Progasm Jr. More later.

Here is the text from Aneros Wiki on the Super-T: (This I should try to put into effect and aspire to)

“Super-T
“This approach is predicated upon an individual already having been rewired and having had a Super-O just previous to this attempt. It is for this reason that it is classified as more of an advanced user’s technique. This method involves an exquisitely intense, traditional penile ejaculation mediated by the Aneros, hence the name Super-T. Make the Aneros a more active participant in the orgasm as opposed to letting it passively massage your prostate as the involuntary contractions of the ejaculation hit you. Stroke your my penis until you just start to feel the very beginnings of the orgasm building. At this point take your hands off, and start executing some moderate to large anal contractions, the idea being to have the Aneros by itself, propagate the ejaculation. Within 10-15 seconds you may find that the ejaculatory sensations will ebb somewhat so then switch back to the hands on approach to build it back up. What you will find is that it builds back up very quickly, and does so to a higher level than where you’d started (the Aneros had added something). Working back and forth, on again and off again, in short order you’ll find that less and less of the stroking is necessary to keep everything going. Finally, just barely touching your penis, but using the Aneros to greater and greater effect such that the Aneros now mediates a tremendous penile orgasm. It is like a tango between your hand and the Aneros; each one taking turns enticing and coaxing an ejaculation from your penis. You can actually feel your prostate swelling inside of you. The effect of this is as if one was inhaling in deeper and deeper to accommodate an enormous sneeze. Finally when you feel climax is imminent, let the Aneros have the last word with several strong contractions. This should lead to a powerful and intense traditional orgasm, a Super-T.”

Nearly a month’s hiatus from Aneros and then Wow! Sessions 7/30 and 8/1

Hi guys,

Some things intervened in my life which caused me to suspend my Aneros sessions for nearly a month. But they were resolved this past Saturday, so I had a session late Saturday evening to celebrate with Helix Syn and Progasm Jr. It lasted mostly 1.5 hours and was mostly a warm up session. I used Helix Syn as an opener for a return to Aneros activity. When you are rewired by Aneros as I am, it was like meeting an old buddy. I am rediscovering Helix Syn in new ways, likewise Progasm Jr.

But when this morning rolled around, Monday in a new workweek and a new month, my hole was really horny for Aneros. I chose in order Eupho Syn, Maximus, and Progasm Jr. Eupho Syn has the same soft texture as Helix Syn but is slender like its older brother, Eupho Classic. Eupho Syn danced around is it massaged my anal musculature and prostate. I must have spent a good 30-45 minutes with Eupho Syn lost in surges of pleasure. Maximus seemed to burn when I inserted him, but I used the “do nothing” approach as I let him work his magic first on my side, then on my back, and finally two or three times with my knees next to my chest doing sets of Kegels and Reverse Kegels. I tell you when you do those Kegel sets it’s like fuel being poured on the fire of sexual delights which Aneros is famous as a “fuck tool.” Likewise,with Progasm Jr my man cunt sucked it to the hilt. My man cunt was really hungry this morning and these three Aneros models were happy to oblige.

“Is Rewiring Permanent?…..Hell Yes!”

Interesting developments. As you know, I have been continuing my practice of semen retention and intend to ‘lengthen’ the times between ejaculations. I hit a new Day 4 yesterday and intended to go farther…….However, for some strange reason, my wife seemed to be really in the mood last night. Suffice it to say that I became greatly aroused and easily. Things progressed with a great intensity (I thought her libido was shot—NOT!) and after an hour later, I am begging her to STOP! I need to finish-myself-off! Well, it wasn’t easy but I was able to get-off with a huge amount of cum on the towel. That was nice but still not the end of the story……

This morning, as I usually do, I dosed on some binaural beats, some for male orgasm. I didn’t feel anything at the time. But about an hour later, I am laying down and just decided to do some kegels and reverse kegels and……O-M-G!……I am starting to tingle and shake all over and MOANING (I hope not too loudly!) and I began to think to myself: this reaction is as good as my last “official” Aneros session about two weeks ago! Then I began to think: Is the prostate re-wiring permanent? My resounding response: Hell Yes!!! There is no turning back, nor do I want to…….
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PS There definitely is something to semen retention and it’s effect on the opposite sex. I have had several women I know recently approach me (close enough to make body contact) and they seemed very eager to get closer to me. Other women (strangers) seem to want to talk to me just ‘out-of-the-blue’. I am wanting to continue SR and obviously lengthen the intervals between ejaculations. I read that a goal of SIX WEEKS is realistic! OMG! I don’t know if I can make it THAT FAR but it will be nice trying!

New Sensations

Ever since my first session my body is full of new feelings and sensations. My bottom area (anus), both externally and internally is “tingling”. Is this the beginning of the “re-wiring” described in the Wiki?? My penis seems to have developed new nerve endings which feel so much more alive and sensitive. My whole body seems to have that extra electric charge.
When lying in bed on Sat morning, I took the opportunity to practice some anal contractions and build the muscles up. A few mins in and I felt a slight change in heart rate and “butterflies” in my stomach. There was all a small amount of leakage. Again, part of the “re-wiring” process?
A small window of opportunity presented itself on Fri morning for a quick practice with the Progasm – nothing to be expected from it other that getting used to having it inside me and to have a quick experimentation. As soon as I inserted, a felt a wave of pleasure. Getting some contractions going and there was a small leakage after about 5 mins – nothing too great but enough to feel both pleasurable and satisfied.
I then tried the Progasm standing up in the shower – pleasurable enough but I feel that this is not the position for me. It may work for some but for me there is little at the moment to be gained from it – but it was worthwhile in terms of eliminating what won’t work for me.
The opportunity for a couple of good sessions will be available for me this week. My body is already feeling the anticipation of what is to come.

Progress or not?

Finally got a chance to enjoy a session last night and my tool of choice was my Helix Syn. The session was great but I cheated a little. Initially, I was not that horny so I tuned in on some good porn, something I have been trying to avoid. It’s hard to just watch a little; it’s like Lays chips, you can’t eat just one…
Anyways, the session was very good. I climb all the way up and seem to stay right on the edge for the entire session. I know, no expectations but you can’t help thinking; is this the night I bloom?
This old prostate needs more rewiring before yielding dividends I guess. Next one should be Friday night.

Progress in the Bedroom

All day yesterday, I was looking forward to my planned session for last night. In the evening, to my surprise, I got a wink from my wife to step in the bedroom for love making, something that had not happened for months (yeah, I know!). Well she was surprised at how hard my erection was while it is usually almost non-existent. I really had to work hard to get one as this 61 year old prostate had been lazy for quite some time (probably a case of BPH). She was also surprised (and so was I) at how long I was able to last before orgasm to the point where I had to speed thing up when she was getting sore. Another surprise for her was the load I delivered but I was not due to my occasional Aneros Super-T sessions. Not being aware of my curricular back door activities, I did not venture to explain the reasons for my signs of rejuvenation. More to come with progress in the future.