Helix trident syn arrived today, I was surprised at how small it was. I tried it and not much really happened, I’m used to bigger things. Is that the issue? I tried the clenching thing but got hardly any sensation. Do I just need a bigger model or am I just not doing it right?
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Went back to the progasm tonight
Been using aneros products off and on for 10 years, don’t think I’ve ever had a true super-O, but I have definitely had some crazy intense sessions leaving my legs and body sore the next day.
I used to use the Progasm years ago but recently have been using the helix trident syn, which has been great, but I wanted to go back to the big girthy progasm to see if I can have better sessions now that I have worked on my exercises and control.
So I bought a progasm today and cleaned myself up, and put the big boy in and WOW is it so much fuller than the helix trident. When this is in, you know it’s in. Im currently in bed reading some femdom pegging stories and it’s definitely a different feeling. The p-tab on the progasm is definitely more effective and I feel it a lot more. Im gonna do my usual thing and let the toy take over but I will be back for my post-session report.
Unpredictable Sessions
Im a 71 year-old about 2 years on the journey. I posted here a couple of weeks past about an amazing session I had just had; one of near continuous super-Os. Since then I’ve had some enjoyable sessions, with some OK prostate Os but no super-Os. And the best of those intervening sessions were when riding a dildo, not from Aneros toys. Yesterday I had some time for a quick session spur-of-the-moment, and was not expecting much from the session considering the rushed set/setting. I didn’t feel especially horny, but I love a session as much for the relaxation and meditation as from the orgasms, so I went ahead.
And this brings me to the crux of this post; the unpredictable nature of prostate play, at least for me. I can experience several sessions in a row with mind-blowing strings of super-Os, and then plateau for several sessions where not much happens at all. Then, out of the blue, the next session leaves me a quivering mess after an hour of near-continuous orgasms. That was the case yesterday from the moment I inserted the Eupho Trident. I was a little buzzed from a few puffs from a THC vape, and had a fresh bottle of poppers close to hand. I had just read a great long post from another Aneros user stressing relaxation over contractions and focus on being the observer, not the manipulator. I wanted to try some of his techniques and so was doing the Do Nothing approach and trying to resist any clenching contractions. I said out loud that I was committed to being the observer in the session.
Looking for feedback
Not sure how to ask what I want to ask, so I thought I’d share my experience and see if anyone had any thoughts/advice.
I bought Helix Syn Trident and Progasm together about 4 months ago. Did some reading and started playing and experimenting on my own. I’m used to ass play, so I don’t think I have any fears or inhibitions in that respect. Didn’t really start making any progress towards a prostate orgasm for a few months (found it difficult not to approach sessions like ass play or edging my cock, i.e. I kept ‘trying’ too hard, trying to pound my prostate fast and hard which I thought would get me there, which it didn’t). I’d play with these maybe every couple of weeks.
About a month ago I started to make some progress. I started using coconut oil, lay on my back with a pillow under each buttcheek (space in the centre) so the aneros wasn’t being pushed or affected outside of the control of my own muscles. Legs kinda spread, soles of my feet together. Made sure my flat was hot, no underwear or duvet touching my cock. I only did seassions when I naturally was horny, watched some light porn at first without contracting then moved to dirtier, louder porn and contracted slowly. I found I got involuntary muscle twitches and the start of ‘waves’ when I felt the aneros pressing into the sweet spot and I just held it there as long as possible rather than contract and release.
Recommendation for second massager
I have had my Helix Syn Trident (the old style – where the red handle curls instead of just coming to a nub) for about 3 years now and have made incredible progress to the point where most of the time as soon as I insert it I start having prostate Orgasms (I am not sure if they are “super o” or not. But they are powerful full body contractions with involuntary moaning and groaning and little to no time in between them).
Naturally I am curious what different experience I might have with a different aneros model, but the number of choices is a bit overwhelming. I tried taking the “what is right for me” quiz on their website but I don’t know what exactly is the right choice for me (is movement or balance most important to me? No idea. I just want to feel good!)
I see so many people on here raving about their progasm, but the size of that intimidates me. I was considering an MGX Trident. But honestly, I have no idea.
What should my second model be?
Eupho or MGX? Helix too intense
Im sorry if this has been covered since there are already posts on here about eupho vs. helix, but I see most people asking about the helix vs. the eupho. I have the (original) helix, and while I its ok, I noticed two things: the pressure is either too intense (mostly the dime p-tab, which has been taken care of in the trident), and that it feels like it falls a cm short of my prostate. Sure, if I contract hard, I can feel it sort of go further and sit in a nice spot, but it won’t really stay there on it’s own. I also like that feeling of that movement, but wish it didn’t require some much effort to work. Does the eupho go that little bit deeper? it looks like its designed to move more, which I think id like, so long as the depth was there as well. I was also wondering how the MGX stacks up, since the base is a little different as its ribbed and has a different shape. i dont think id like the progasm, but Id be happy to be convinced otherwise. Opposing opinions welcome!
Figuring this out – my journey so far
I’ve been using the helix syn trident for about 6 months. My progression was: I’m excited by something new (first couple of weeks) —> hmm, that’s a nice feeling (first month) —> those nice feelings are making my whole body twitch a little – is that in my head? (First couple months) —> are dry orgasms real or is everyone full of shit? I’m really getting impatient…this still feels pretty good though (month 3) —> whoa, I’m getting close but I can’t quite achieve what I’d call an orgasm. It’s like when I feel a sneeze coming on and then for some reason it fades out (month 4) —> holy shit…I think I’m going to cum (mentally high fives self)…finally!…oh, a WET HFO…ok, that was an amazing orgasm but not what I expected…I was clenching too much. Ease up on the clenching! (month 5) —> don’t clench, don’t clench, damn this feels good…DON’T CLENCH!…yes, yes, yes…this feels amazing…orgasmic feelings and clenching of my core muscles…that was definitely a dry HF…oh shit…I’m not done yet…here comes another one…mmm-yes-unfff…and another smaller one…oops, fuck it…I want to cum…clench…clench again…clench…amazing wet HFO (month 6) —> focus on not clenching…this is happening quickly…this is a dry orgasm (after 10 minutes)…OMG…that was amazing…another one? Yes, yes, yes!!! In a two hour session, I counted 20 DRY HFOs! Just incredible and completely satisfying. I have not had a wet orgasm in weeks and feel incredibly satisfied. I don’t think I had what I’d consider a super O yet but it gives me something to look forward to.
Questions on the Progasm
How are the tabs for the progasm? I have the helix trident and after a while they can get uncomfortable. I haven’t seen much about those tabs but wanted to ask directly. Also what have been your experiences with the Progasm vs the Progasm jr? I understand the jr is smaller but I’m wondering if people prefer that. Since I have been using the helix trident for a while, I am leaning more towards Progasm because I feel like it is more likely to be a different experience from the helix trident than the jr is.
First time with the Trident Syn
I figured I would share my first experience with you all.
I’ve been curious about my P-spot for sometime and recently have been playing with some of the beginner toy sets. It’s been fun, getting the first P-waves and having my legs shake. After reading such great reviews with Aneros Trident Syn, so I decided to give it a whirl.
I’ve found that taking a bath, smoking some weed, and relaxing beforehand helps get my mind right. Then I drain the tub and have the ability to play right in the bathtub not worrying about getting lube anywhere and some of the beginner toys have a suction cup so it provides a surface for some additional leverage if needed.
So I get in the mood, reading sex stories and watching some videos online. Then slide my new aneros in. Really easy to slide in and no discomfort, almost thought it was two small at first. I started letting it move around a bit, and then it started… my hips were trying to gyrate, legs flinching and heavy breathing. I had a super intense erection, i tried not to touch it but felt like i was going to go mad, forced me to make one grab and squeeze before leaving it alone. As I continue to let it move while I started cumming without really contact. As that happened I caught my breath and decided to revisit this session again later.
Tabs: the position importance and movement
The two tabs of the Trident, how important are their locations? I’ve had many successful sessions. I’m going to have another soon and was thinking of putting a little Vaseline on the ends of each tab so they’re free to do whatever they want. Do you think that’s a good idea? Or is it really about just putting them in the right spot, leaving them dry, and having them never move?