Tag: Wife

“Discovering Tantric Sex”

I have heard of the term “tantric sex” but never really knew what it was. Until last night……

My wife and I had a ‘romantic encounter’ that began in the usual way. She spooned me for a while (which felt really good! — I was hard as rock!) and then we changed positions. However, when I ‘spooned’ her, the most amazing thing happened! I suddenly felt no obligation to climax. Instead, I concentrated on pleasuring her and feeling her sexual energy. Let me explain……

This encounter seemed more than just foreplay. First off, I was in no hurry to get-off nor did I want to. When we spooned, I felt a great sense of sexual energy surrounding my wife and I began to completely ‘envelope’ her physically. I was in no hurry. I concentrated on her breathing which, I know now, is the beginning of tantric sex. Without getting too graphic, suffice it to say that I explored every inch of her body. I took my time and I know that she enjoyed the pleasure. At one point, my erection was strong and I demonstrated that to her without saying a word. She got the message!

As I said before, I took my time and I had no intention to climax. All the attention was on the sexual energy surrounding us in that moment. This encounter, it would appear, lasted well over an hour! It probably could have gone on for another hour. Since there was no expectation of ejaculation, the realm of sexual ‘pleasures’ was almost unending. Read more »

“Sexual Arousal Hypnosis: Awesome!”

OMG! Where to start with this ‘session’?

I was up early AM as usual and just searching online for something “new” and came-across a 20-minute hypnosis audio track called “Increase Sexual Arousal Hypnosis” by Walkingtall Ireland and decided to give it a try. I felt very relaxed going into the deep relaxation state. I liked the moderator’s voice: he had a nice Irish accent too! About halfway in, the moderator guided me into a deeper awareness of my sexuality and I believe there were a lot of subliminal suggestions embedded as well. I liked the feeling I was getting and actually began to feel a certain warm, pleasurable ‘feeling’ within my male package. Not really a stimulating feeling, just a nice warmth. Hard to explain – I didn’t even get an erection from this. I thought this hypnosis was a pleasant-enough experience although since nothing else happened (erection, ejaculation, etc.) I thought I would get back to bed to maybe to do a few contractions and see what develops. Well……something did develop…..

I TOTALLY WAS NOT PREPARED FOR WHAT HAPPENED NEXT……AND I AM F*****G SERIOUS!

I am trembling as I am typing this because this upcoming feeling was so overpowering……Please listen to my experience…..I am not making this up! Read more »

“Wired For Pleasure”

My recent experiences with erotic hypnosis and especially binaural beats have put excess stress on my heart and since I have had an episode of irregular heartbeat in the past (caused by excess caffeine) and have recently experienced some again, I feel it is best that I curtail my Aneros usage and binaural beats for an indefinite period of time….

That said, I have "renewed" my passion for my wife and we have had several great episodes lately. No details but suffice it to say that things have been progressively building up to a sexual explosion. I feel wonderful!

I worried that I would be deprived of my Aneros sessions. That all changed this morning. Let me explain……..

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Following a blissful night with my wife, I awakened early like I usually do and went on the computer to catch-up. While online, I began to experience a warm "glow" —hard to explain— it seemed to be a sexual "energy" that I began to feel and it was enveloped in the sexual passion I feel for my wife. It was a raw, sexually-charged, wonderful, delicious feeling and I am looking forward to more erotic encounters with her. I finished up with my online session, had a little pre-breakfast like I usually do and then went back to my bed (we sleep in different beds due to our "snoring"). Read more »

Beginings

This is my first blog. I little about me and the start of my journey. I am a 53 year old heterosexual male. I have been married for 23 years and have loved every minute. I have always had a auto sexual side and my wife has been fine with that. I have "toyed" with anal play during some of my solo sessions – fingers – too awkward – bought a small butt plug – did not care for it. Several months ago I started fantasizing more about anal penetration and I started looking for an appropriate toy. After a lot of research I settled on the Aneros products – but which to get?
I was not sure what size would be good for me so I purchased the Helix Syn and the DeVice – I could decide which to use once I saw them up close.
My purchase arrived over the week end:
First impressions – The Helix Syn seemed smaller than I expected – but based on the reviews I still had high hopes. The Device was larger than I expected and much larger than the Helix – I decided that I would put the DeVice away until I was much more experienced, (glad that I did not purchase that 5.5 inch x 1.5 inch Anal Fantasy model that I was originally looking at.) Read more »

An EMail Never Sent

It has been a while since I have emailed; couple that with the fact that it has also been several days since I have MMOed. My desire is at a fevered pitch. I have been so very busy with work eroticism was forced to the recesses of my mind until there is a lull and then it flares like a blast furnace. When it does erotic thoughts of our anticipated meeting teased my consciousness and tantalized my penis. Guilt has tried to keep my thoughts at bay but moral correctness cannot overpower arousal, desire is a very powerful adversary.

Then last night we chatted and you admitted to me that you think of us being together as the Aneros is inside you unlocking the doors to excruciating pleasure deep in your anus. It is the same with me; as I envisioned us in a steamy embrace cock to cock swimming in the mutual experience of blissful orgasms, my cock started getting hard.

We have chatted about the naked pictures we have sent of each other. The act of exposing my naked arousal to you in pictures transforms my penis into a cock; it gets heavy and stiff with lust. Ultimately the thought of me sharing the vulnerable and erotically embarrassing reality of taking that step beyond virtual nudity and being physical intimate with you made me even hotter. The thought of your eyes scanning my naked body as we stand in from of each other turned my cock into a hot heavy stone. That has been the lingering thought in my mind. Read more »

[Solo] play night by myself

Hi! I have a big night planned soon when the wife is out of town so ill be home alone. Im planning to have a massive solo session with my helix. Any ideas to: – maximize my arousal pre session – any preperation tips/ideas – set up and scene of action ideas?

“A Simple Fantasy”

This "ride" started out with a "warm-up" of the HIH PS-NEW for about 30 minutes. It really "milked" the prostate and got out quite a bit of prostatic fluid. This time, there was no discomfort except I couldn't take more than 30 minutes since it was fairly intense.

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Since I was lubed-up already, I switched to Helix and almost immediately began to feel P-waves. I started increasing the strength and frequency of contractions, when I began to enter this "fantasy"—

My wife was in bed with me and she also is nude. She lays alongside of me and takes hold of my upper torso. She begins to caress my nipples and my pecs. It feels so good!

[This "fantasy" deepens as….]

OMG! She has inserted her finger in my well-lubed anus and she "knows" EXACTLY where my prostate is! She begins to stroke it very lightly. I can feel every stroke! She keeps this up for a while and I am beginning to experience a state of agonizing "bliss" from her stimulation.

She stops the stroking for a short while but she keeps her finger in my anus. She is "teasing" me! She is still holding on to me and I love the feeling of her warm body against mine…..Then, suddenly…. Read more »

Some Reflection On The Super-Orgasm

I thought this would be a good time to stop and reflect on the Super-O as it is called. I already have experienced quite a few of these. Although no two have been exactly the same, there are some similarities.

First off, the Super-O is similar to the normal penile ejaculation only for a few seconds. Since it is a "dry-orgasm" for the most part, there is no refractory period. Thus, it is possible to have multiple sequential prostate orgasms in one "session" and I in fact have had probably up to ten at a time.

What happens during a Super-O? That is really a mystery of my body, since no two have been exactly the same. I have experienced at one time or another: involuntary muscle contractions, whole-body shaking and movement, uncontrollable erections, total body paralysis (a little scary), out-of-body experience, complete memory loss (or fog), flashing colors, uncontrollable emotions such as crying, extreme warmth of body, foggy vision, 'phantom' ejaculate discharge, and probably a few things which I experienced but did not remember clearly.

During a recent Super-O, I distinctly felt the pleasurable interaction between the stimulator contact with the prostate and the P-tab. These two pleasurable "feelings" set-up a feedback loop that continued to build into the Super-O. Read more »

Dream, Fantasy and MMO

There are certain things that just go together, like milk and cookies, beer and pretzels, baseball and peanuts and movies and popcorn. Beyond food there are also things that elegantly complement experiences in my life.

The matching of the complement and the activity makes the experience seem even more enjoyable. While the food related examples are ones that I have certainly enjoyed, there are some emotional / sensual ones that also resonate with me. Examples are sitting by the warm crackling glow of a fire while camping in the black of night, enjoying the flickering golden hued intimacy of candles surrounding a hot tub or remaining in relaxed sleep in bed with the windows open on a warm summer morning while grey sky dims the sunrise and soft rain patters on a roof or window.

Beyond food and sensual life experiences there are several sexual ones that also affect me in profound ways. One of the sexual ones for me would be savoring the sensual eroticism of humping J's hot pussy as it sucks on my cockhead while she grinds her pubis on mine in a sinuous dance of erotic abandon. This visceral sexual experience is complemented by candles making sinuous shadows around the bed as we fuck. Or it could be soft music and scented candles in a dimly lit room creating a relaxed sense of sensual privacy while my oiled hands explore her body and stroke her intimate places in erotic massage that culminates in her having a shuddering orgasm. This marriage of mood and experience is perhaps one of the most magical aspects of my sensual and sexual life and experience of pleasure. Read more »

“Only One Night”

[This story is quite graphic by nature]

My wife and I have been "trying" for about a year to make a baby. We have been married about a year and a half. It is difficult for us mostly because of me. I cannot use Viagra or any similar products due to an allergic reaction to sildenafil. I also have an "ongoing" issue with my erections. I can "get it up" okay but it does not stay very "hard" for long. Consequently, according to my wife's gynecologist, upon penetration, my semen is not deposited "deeply" enough in her vaginal canal, which apparently is longer than usual. Although we have "fun" trying, we desperately need to get pregnant since I found out recently that I will be spending about a year overseas for my work. I am a petrochemical engineer and we are constructing a new plant.

My wife has begun to "track" her most fertile days and would you believe, her "next" best day is the day before I am scheduled to leave! What a quandary! What can I do?

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I began to do an online search for "natural" erection "cures" and was a little skeptical what I would find. I was intrigued by one ad I saw for a "natural" erection solution that did not involve any drugs or herbals. It was listed as a device that was inserted rectally that would cause the "hardest erection ever"! Again, I was very skeptical….. Read more »