Author: Aneurosis

Fresh mentality, new milestones.

I’ve been using various models of the Aneros lineup for basically a year now and have made progress, but nothing along the lines of prostate orgasm, let alone super-o. The sessions have become more pleasurable as of late, but many times my own mind will get in the way. Frustration mixed with overthinking have been my own worst enemy until recently.

When I first got involved with prostate stimulation, I read everything I could find regarding the subject: milestones, how to achieve it, how long it takes, what not to do, etc. I had read that you must relax, and I took that to a whole new level. Many times, my anal muscles would ever-so-slowly contract more and more (while adhering to the do-nothing method), but I would try to make that stop by “relaxing”. Little did I know, my body was trying to slowly and incrementally position the device properly against my prostate. Read more »

Frustrating lack of involuntaries

When my partner first started using his MGX, he inserted it, thought about something really sexy, and the device basically started doing its thing. Many different muscle groups started to contract in a rhythmic motion, and to this day, all he has to do is think about something sexy, and they will start without anything inserted.

I’ve been using several models for about a year, and the only involuntaries I get are within my sphincter (in a subtle swooshing, circular pattern), which slow down once my body gets used to the foreign object within. What happens next is that my PC muscle will contract in a manner that’s not abrupt, but slowly. Through time, the PC muscle contraction has been increasing slightly in intensity, but I’ve only experienced a p-wave maybe twice, and a build-up once.

I wish there was an x-ray or something whereas I could see if these devices are hitting my prostate properly. It’s getting frustrating, which is counter-productive, so I’m trying to curb that.

I just wish there was a way I could get my insides to involuntarily contract in a manner that would spawn something else. I hope this doesn’t take 30 years to accomplish. *sigh*

ANY advice would be appreciated in getting these involuntary contractions to start.

Involuntaries only happy to certain people?

I just spoke with someone at Aneros who said that not all people get the involuntary contractions, which I thought were imperative to achieving a MMO state. Have some of you had a prostate orgasm using the Aneros, but never have had involuntary contractions?

Also, I keep hearing people say you’re supposed to voluntarily contract your sphincter muscles, and others say you’re suppose to contract your PC muscles (to get things going in there). Which is it? Some people refer to the “do nothing” method, which is nice for a little bit, but then things just sort of die down. I’ve been going at this regularly for a year now and am fighting with impatience.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Involuntaries– which muscles?

I’ve been enjoying my aneros collection for about 6 months and each session has become more and more enjoyable.

I do experience involuntary muscle contractions, but only in my pc muscle. When I do, it feels like my dick is being pumped so hard, that it tests the expandability of my shaft skin. It feels SO good and carries over into my every day life. While sitting at my desk at work, I’ll experience a muscle jerk in my left leg. This means that my pc muscle is about to go into steady, repetitive contractions for the next half hour or so, which even outside of sessions feels very nice, pounding at my prostate while seated.

For people who experience the illusive involuntaries: which muscles are the ones that contract for you?

Deviating from the recommended method

My partner is multi-orgasmic, in the sense that he is able to regularly achieve prostate orgasm, even without anything inserted. A tweak of his nipple or a long kiss will start involuntaries and in a matter of a minute, he’s basically cumming on the inside.

His Aneros path was a bit different than what most people recommend within this subreddit and also within the aneros forums. Most everyone says to not touch your dick at all, which will in turn separate your mind from your dick in terms of one’s primary source of arousal and pleasure.

When he first started using the aneros, he would basically manipulate the device manually, almost as if it were a secondary pleasure source while masturbating. He would rub his insides, sometimes “thrashing” it around, as he says until he was about to cum. When he was right on the edge of cumming, he would let go of his dick, slide the aneros in and out slightly in a fucking motion, or apply intense pressure with it. After a short time (a couple weeks), he was able to consistently conjure a euphoric “build-up”… Something I have only experienced twice within my 6 months of aneros use (using it in a more traditional sense, without penile stimulation) . He would do this multiple times per jack-off session, always being able to reproduce it by either rubbing or with extreme pressure while on the edge of ejaculation. Read more »

How long did it take you to achieve prostate orgasm?

Also, what was the frequency of use in terms of prostate toys / sessions? Did you find yourself getting frustrated?

I've been using various aneros devices regularly since July and have made markable progress. I can feel my prostate swelling during the day, which is an amazing feeling. It will swell, which causes a heavy feeling in my groin and will often times cause my pc muscle to jump a few times. During traditional sex, I can actively hold off ejaculating by redirecting my focus inward and when I do ejaculate, it's strong and intense.

So I'm seeing the benefits of prostate stimulation, but have been feeling frustrated at times because I have not had a prostate orgasm. I think that's because I'm obsessing over it and not enjoying the session as pleasure, but as actively working toward a goal. I've had a build up twice, whereas my mind will switch to an altered state of consciousness, causing blurred vision and a perpetual falling feeling. It left me feeling shaken, like I'd just been in a fight or something, and my prostate felt like it was vibrating for 2 days afterward.

Any feedback as to how long your journey was until reaching that blissful state would be appreciated. I suppose it will help me gauge where I am in this amazing quest of a second sexual awakening.

A major rewiring milestone

I apologize in advance for the length of this post. I’m still trying to collect my thoughts from what happened last night and need every word below to explain it.

Yesterday while at work, I started to feel my prostate swell, which eventually made my PC muscle twitch a little. This was quite pleasurable and my prostate started feeding on the motion of the twitching by swelling even more. A couple times during the day, I had to go to the bathroom to mop up the precum, which had made the tip of my dick stick to my underwear. By the end of the day, my PC muscle was twitching without me initiating it. Earlier in the day, I would feel my prostate swell, sit up straight to put pressure on the money spot and flex my PC muscle once. This would make that muscle twitch for about 15 minutes on its own. It was kind of like lifting the ball on the end of Newton’s Cradle and feeling the inertia of what I had set into motion. This was very nice. Read more »

My body doesn’t allow initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

Very recently (within the past 3 sessions), my body doesn't even allow me the initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

For the past few times, I've inserted the Aneros when I can feel my prostate begging for it. I'll be sitting in a chair or on the couch and start to feel things twitching at a more rapid pace than I've ever experienced. It's as if I'm sitting on the railroad tracks as a train is approaching.

So when I feel this begging, I begin a session but my body immediately starts going crazy…not Super-O crazy, as I've yet to cross that threshhold, but my PC muscle, sphincter muscle and everything in between just starts this crazy dance of pleasure. It will get pretty intense, which forces both my PC muscle and rectal muscles to involuntarily contract all the way. After each extreme contraction, it seems that the involuntary dancing that's going on gets less and less intense until…….nothing. Well, almost nothing– once in awhile I'll have a minor twitch, but that's about it. It's almost as if my session is going in the reverse direction of how it's supposed to.

My question is, should I try to stop my body from those extreme contractions, or does this have nothing to do with the "calming down" of everything? Is it that my body becomes used to having something in there and the initial shock of a foreign object creates that crazy dancing? I usually give myself around an hour or so of not doing much of anything after the twitching stops.

Am I doing it right?

It’s my first time posting here and I’m very glad to see there’s an Aneros community presence here on Reddit. I first invested in an Aneros (MGX) maybe 6 years ago, but never really gave it a chance. I would overthink every motion, became frustrated and put it into a drawer to be forgotten until about a month ago.

My boyfriend has the same model and has had the amazing, desired results from it—not only can he quickly experience a Super-O every time, but when I rub his perineum, it sends him down the same path even though there’s no Aneros inserted. That being said, it definitely re-piqued my curiosity to work my way up to that point. He says much of it is exercise… that building up your PC muscle is a great way to get things going down there, just because when it’s a bigger muscle, it’s rubbing against the prostate more. So he basically would do a kegel and then a sphincter contraction (with the Aneros in, toward the beginning of his journey) to build up and better separate these muscle groups. Now, he has very sensitive nipples, so rubbing them would basically activate the PC muscles without thinking, which is a big bonus. I have noticed that his perineum area is larger than mine and rock hard when he has a hard-on. I’m guessing this is due to his exercising of that area. Read more »