So my (f)iance and I (m) are looking for toys to wear and use on each other. We really want ones that have either remotes or controlled by our phones so we can have control over each other when we go out to the bar with friends or on a date. We decided to get her the wevibe 4+ since it can also be used together in bed. As for the prostate massager we don’t know what to get. It’s between the nexus revo stealth, the lelos Hugo, or an aneros without a remote control. Which would be more comfortable to wear for a couple of hours while sitting down eating dinner or at the bar with friends and which one has the best battery life?
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To do or not to do, that is the question.
So, what should I do? Should I contract and relax the muscles? Should I mantain certain degree of contraction? Should I do nothing and wait?
So far, I’ve tried the contract-relax and the mantain-contract (I have to say that maybe I’m not “doing nothing” enough time, which might be the problem). It feels good, but no great pleasure so far.
Also, I would like you to tell me what are these: when I hold the contraction at a certain level, my sphincter (I think) like has involuntaries? I don’t know, it’s like the aneros is trembling into my ass. It’s pleasurable, but I find it hard to find the level of contraction and to mantain it. So, what are those and what do they lead to?
Thanks in advance 😀
Started with Vice, which model to get now?
I got the Aneros vice cause I wanted the vibration, it feels great but since I am a beginner to Aneros (not anal play I have experience with the nJoy pure wand, etc) I feel like I should have started with a beginner model because the Aneros devices require more learning than any other prostate device.
So I basically want to know which model I should downgrade too in order to learn the necessary contractions that I can’t do with the Vice due to its size there is barely any movement when contracting. Also, the Vice is meant for pros and when it comes to Aneros I am not a pro because the Vice is the only one I’ve used.
Which model is best for direct prostate contact and an inevitable rocking motion from the contractions?
TL;DR-(The rocking motion caused by contraction is what Aneros designed their devices to do and I’m not getting enough of it from the Vice due to its size and it being my only Aneros device).
Helix too small?
So I’ve had my helix for about a year now and I use it off and on. I should probably be more consistent but I have a pretty chaotic schedule. Anyways I’ve never reach the coveted super-O.
I try the slight flexing and relaxing and giving it plenty of time. I’ve found when I really relax I can feel the slight pressure on my prostate and get some body tremors from the pleasure but nothing sustained. It usually just teases and frustrates me to the point of finishing the deed the old fashioned way.
Compared to the progasm the helix looks small and I sometimes worry if the helix is simply too small for me (being a 6foot guy).
The only other factor that I need to try is abstaining from ejaculation for a few days before hand. This can be difficult due to my young hormones and my fairly active sex life.
These are just my thoughts and issues and I was wondering if anyone had a similar experience with the helix. I’d appreciate any input.
Holy shit. Holy. Shit.
Ok, so I’ve been trying to use my Aneros more lately. It’s tricky, being married with two kids, to find time to set aside an hour or so to just lay down, relax, and enjoy myself. I’m also trying to balance hobbies and such, and some evenings I quite simply have to choose between hobbies and aneros time. And I value my hobbies, so the Aneros is only getting love once a week, at most.
However, last night I decided to indulge. Kids went to bed, the wife was watching her dumb shows, and I went to lay down. And it was the best session I had experienced. I’m still getting mostly just P-waves, but it’s amazing how sticking with it has you make some progress, little by little. And I was laying down for about 2 hours, and finally I had to get up. Whew. It was amazing.
Until today.
You see, at work I got a little frisky thinking of my progasm. So I made some flimsy excuse about going home for lunch for errands, and I drove home for lunch (10 minute commute FTW). I got home and it was quiet. I laid down, carefully slipped it in, and put on my headphones with a binaural beat youtube video “designed” for prostate stimulation.
Yes, I realize that binaural beats are, basically, total bullshit, but the noise DOES help me block out outside noises and concentrate on the fun. So they might not sync up my tantric energy, or something else about universe energy, but they help in some way.
Working out with aneros?
I was wondering if anyone has done exercise with aneros popped in.
I have the intention to use it while working out. Maybe not in the gym (yet), but for home exercise rutines. I know that’s not the way aneros is meant to be used, but I figure it will hit the prostate. What do you guys think about it?
One thing for sure, it will make working out more fun ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
After sessions, does your penis feel weird?
Ok, I realize the question is an odd one. Hear me out: Last night I took another redditor’s advice and listened to some hypnosis files provided on the [Aneros website](http://www.aneros.com/accessories/hypnaerosession.html) for a nominal fee. It ended up being one of my best sessions so far! Awesome. Loved it. Want to do it again tonight.
However, and I’ve noticed this after other good sessions, my penis feels weird today. I don’t mean that it has odd sensations, or pains or tingling or anything. I mean…it’s like I’m holding it for the first time. Like, when I touch it it seems like my mind is asking: Is this mine? Are you sure this is what my penis feels like?
Now, it’s not TOTALLY alien. I don’t feel like it shouldn’t be there or something, but it’s really odd. A little surreal. I’m wondering if it’s because I’m touching myself sexually less, since now I’ve got the Aneros, and regular sex with my wife, regular masturbation seems less…necessary? I’m not sure how to word that properly.
Anyways, wondering if anyone else has felt like this?
TL:DR – Does it feel weird touching your dick after a good session?
I think I had a Mini-O!
As the title suggests, i think I had one.
I was breathing deeply, watching some porn and following a pattern:
-breathe in slowly while pushing slightly (as if I were about to have a bowel movement)
-focus on any sensations that formed
-breathe out slowly while releasing the push but also not contracting at all
-focus on sensations
I think the key that helped this session was my mindset. I came into it thinking that I would be successful. I was planning on having this session a few days earlier, but the past few days just didn’t feel right. This morning I woke up and thought “today is going to be a great day” (cheesy, I know).
Additionally, I had this feeling of being content with how I felt at the current moment – and this was before any obviously sexual pleasure had happened. Every session for the past two years has felt progressively better, but I never really had any p-waves or anything better than that.
This feeling is what I think really helped me tune into how I felt without really thinking about it, as if I were meditating.
As I breathed in, I felt a pressure start to form where my prostate was – it felt stable, as if it were the source of the waves that I was feeling (I know it is, but this spot producing real orgasmic pleasure has never happened to me before). This pressure felt sexual but not orgasmic.
How to overcome stigma around sex toys?
I’m 18M and in college so this is the first time I can get a sex toy discreetly. I want something different as masturbating with my hand is getting boring. I’m looking at the Aneros Helix Syn as my first toy.Â
I’m apprehensive for some reason. I feel like I might be weird for getting a sex toy. I know there’s nothing wrong with toys. I just feel like there’s a stigma around men using toys for pleasure and that stigma is stopping me.
Has anyone else felt similar before buying their first toy?
Also, how has using an Aneros toy affected your non-prostate orgasms? I want to explore because I’ll be a long distance from my GF, but I still really want to enjoy regular orgasms. Does it “ruin” your enjoyment of “regular” orgasms? I’ve only seen one question about this, so I just wanted some more opinions.
I really appreciate your responses!
-also posted on /r/sex for more answers
Chastity device to stop from touching penis
I’ve had problems with always getting the urge to stroke then once I start I have a hard time stopping. A chastity device seems like a good way to keep that from happening. Does anyone here have any experience with them or have alternative ideas for not getting the urge to cum.