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What if the wall is too thick?

I’ve tried many many times to find my prostate by fingering myself and using the Helix Syn. I have never felt it because the wall dividing the prostate is quite too thick and strong. I use the Helix Syn, perhaps it’s too small or is actually touching the right spot but I can’t feel anything? I’m debating on whether or not to get the Progasm because it’s a bit larger so that it can push more onto the wall diving the prostate. I do believe that I’ve found the prostate though with my finger if I push hard enough on the wall, because when I do I get a feeling or urination. At least now I know I might need a toy that can push hard enough onto the wall between my prostate.

Also, I’ve stuck my finger in there as well while my Helix Syn was in me. Attempting to push the head of the Syn forward towards my penis attempting to stimulate the prostate. I do believe I felt something? But now I know that the Syn might be too small for me

First mini-o?

I think I reached a milestone today, felt so good. This is probably about my 7th session?

I was lying on my back for this one. I’ve been doing some contraction exercises and deep breathing, and I put it in this morning because I was all relaxed from sleeping and horny, my libido always peaks in the morning.

I’m pretty sure they worked because around the 1 hour mark I was on my back riding the aneros while doing some contractions and pleasure started to build up and it felt really really good.

Then my ass clenched and I felt what was VERY like a traditional orgasm before you ejaculate but more based where my perineum was and it felt absolutely great! Lasted about the same length of time too, I dripped a lot of precum out too and then it started to die down and I felt quite calm again.

I played with it a bit more but it didn’t reach that level again. I did start getting quaking muscle shakes that rocked the bed without a huge amount of pleasure, still felt nice. I took it out and my anus was still contracting and acting as though the aneros was in there and it still feels good in there about 20 minutes later :P.

What do you think, have I had a mini-o? What are you experiences of them?

Made a breakthrough! Need input on what step I am at on the journey!

Hey y’all!

I had a major breakthrough yesterday. After years of trying, I finally decided to just put in my aneros (the Helix Syn) and lay down while I catch up on an erotic graphic novel I have been reading. Within 30 minutes the aneros was knocking on my prostate and I was feeling tingles all over coming in waves through my body. It would happen again and again, and felt fantastic! After about an hour of this the need to cum became too great and I finished off the traditional way. However, later that night while laying down I suddenly started having the waves hit me again. It sounds weird, but the only way I can describe it is as if my prostate and lower abdomen were yawning. It felt wonderful! It even happened on the way to work the next morning!

I am curious, have I reached the super-O or am I still on the path to discovery? I will continue to enjoy my aneros regardless, and the sensations were great, but they weren’t the ‘spiritual epiphany’ described in other posts.

Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

Deviating from the recommended method

My partner is multi-orgasmic, in the sense that he is able to regularly achieve prostate orgasm, even without anything inserted. A tweak of his nipple or a long kiss will start involuntaries and in a matter of a minute, he’s basically cumming on the inside.

His Aneros path was a bit different than what most people recommend within this subreddit and also within the aneros forums. Most everyone says to not touch your dick at all, which will in turn separate your mind from your dick in terms of one’s primary source of arousal and pleasure.

When he first started using the aneros, he would basically manipulate the device manually, almost as if it were a secondary pleasure source while masturbating. He would rub his insides, sometimes “thrashing” it around, as he says until he was about to cum. When he was right on the edge of cumming, he would let go of his dick, slide the aneros in and out slightly in a fucking motion, or apply intense pressure with it. After a short time (a couple weeks), he was able to consistently conjure a euphoric “build-up”… Something I have only experienced twice within my 6 months of aneros use (using it in a more traditional sense, without penile stimulation) . He would do this multiple times per jack-off session, always being able to reproduce it by either rubbing or with extreme pressure while on the edge of ejaculation. Read more »

Too much?

How much is too much use? I know Aneros says 2-3 times a week but, some blogs I have read I get the assumption that some people do it a lot more. I have done it more than 2-3 myself and have not had any draw backs yet from it but at the same time I’m thinking of taking several days break from it to let my body have some rest from it.

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Being quiet during sessions

Hey all, I've not long had my aneros. I've used it about 3 times and it's really really nice. I seem to be moving through the milestones pretty quick too. I've reached 'Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions'. I was playing with my nips and rubbing my perineum on my chair this morning and I really noticed it, had little mini contractions, not orgasmic though. Feels so good haha.

I seem to involuntarily make noise when I use it though, does anyone else have this? I live in a house with paper thin walls and I can't be noisy, really annoying. I noticed that restricting being vocal reduces the pleasure, possibly because of the mental energy required to keep quiet? Is it possible to be quiet when you use it and reach orgasmic levels? I've really noticed that your mindset seems to make or break your pleasure with it so if I'm always worrying about being noisy I'm not sure I'll be able to cross over any time soon?

What to get (experienced)

I've been thinking of getting an aneros for a while now, but I have no idea which one to get. I'm fairly experienced with anal and I can use the njoy pure wand and a dildo 7,2" length 4,7" girth. I need something like the biggest ball on the njoy.

Also which techniques are best?

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Exercise to improve normal orgasm

Hi guys,

I was wondering if the aneros can also help with normal p-in-v orgasms? I have no problems with getting aroused or erections, but it takes a real long time to come when I have sex with my fiance. Possibly this could be due to being circumcised or death-grip-masturbation techniques. I often have the feeling that I'm just about to come during sex, but then at the final moment it's like I lose it. This can go one for a few cycles until I finally orgasm.

Do you think the aneros can help with this? Maybe just by training the pelvic muscle. I'm not really interested in multiple orgasm via prostate, just looking for a way to have better sex with my SO. Any particular set of exercises with the aneros helix syn would be highly appreciated. Thanks!

Some ramblings… Don’t try to force an orgasm, just enjoy the sensations

I just finished a really good session with my Nexus Revo 2 – my best one yet actually – and as I had an amazing time with it I thought I'd post a few ramblings about how to improve prostate play if anyone is feeling demotivated or that they aren't having as much fun as they'd like to have.

First of all, I should say that I've seen loads of posts talking about how brilliant it is to have a prostate orgasm. That's great, but I've found that actually focusing on having an orgasm isn't the way to get the most out of your sessions. I've been practicing for about 4 months now and haven't had one yet, but I've found that my sessions are so much better when I'm not thinking about whether I'll orgasm and instead thinking about fantasies and desires. Before I was getting really hung up on trying to orgasm and it was making my sessions worse. If anyone is in that position as well, don't worry about whether you'll orgasm. It might happen, it might not – who cares? It doesn't matter. Do it for the fun of it, not to reach a goal. Read more »