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Looking for a Skype partner for training!

Hi! I am relatively new to the world of prostate massaging but am, and have been, genuinely interested for about a year now.

About three months ago, I purchased an Aneros Helix Syn and have been using it when I have free time. I love the idea of having something in my ass, and I LOVE the idea of achieving a prostate orgasm. I am however, having immense trouble getting there. Im trying to remove the penile-centric mindset but I think I'm having difficulty!

I have read the many resources on how to acquire positive feelings from the aneros, but I feel like a verbal lesson while someone either used theirs, or watched me use mine would help quite a bit. I am not looking for an additional "turn on" from watching, or having someone watch, I just feel like I am a combination audio-visual learner.

If anyone is willing to help today please reply! If not today, we can at least be skype buddies and perhaps arrange something for the future.

Thanks!

K-tab and pilonidal abcess

Hey guys,

I've been an aneros user for a little over a year, and the journey has been amazing. I'm moving my way up to comfortable pegging with my gf, and I'm looking to purchase a new aneros to help me along with the experience. I currently own an mgx and a helix classic. I'd like to move to a bigger size for a "fuller" experience. My first thought is the progasm, but I have a problem. When I was younger, I was diagnosed with a pilonidal abcess. Google if you need to know what it is. It was an incredibly painful experience, and the last thing I need is a repeat of that situation. I'm worried that the k-tab on the progasm might exacerbate the situation. Are there any pilonida aneros users out there, and have they had any experience with problems due to the k-tab? Should I just settle for a maximus?

Kinds of coconut oil, what am I looking for?

Title says it all really. I want to try the whole coconut oil thing that everyone keeps mentioning, but i'm unsure what kind I should be looking for or if there is anything specific to keep in mind.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

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Stuck in a rut :(

Unfortunately I've managed to get myself stuck in a bit of a rut with prostate stimulation.

I've been practicing it a couple of times a week for about 6 weeks now and still haven't reached orgasm from it – every time I feel like I'm getting close I start overthinking it and immediately lose the moment. It still feels good and the silver lining to all the effort I've made has so far been that I can always masturbate and have an orgasm which is way better than 'normal', but I don't last very long once I get the dual stimulation going and I often end up feeling like I've put in loads of work for what ends up being a pretty mediocre orgasm. Then I get grumpy because I'll have to wait a while until I next get horny and I can try again. When I'm not horny, I often just think 'urgh, when will I next get horny' and it frustrates me.

In a nutshell, I think my problem is that I'm hitting all the right spots, I'm just really struggling to lose myself in the moment due to overthinking. How do people get over this issue? It is frustrating me generally because my solo sessions aren't as fun as they should be.

Just one problem

I've had 20 or so sessions feel like I'm close. I just figured out that when I pull my helix syn in just slightly, the smallest amount I can, it helps, but it's hard for me to concentrate on breathing, relaxing, enjoying myself, and pulling it in slightly all at the same time.

Has anyone else had that problem? Is there a position that would work better for me? I've been lying on one side mostly. I'm tall so maybe it's just slightly too short for me.

Sorry for the clicky-baity title. I wasn't sure what to write.

Just wanted to express my excitement.

Just really wanted to post about how excited I am!

Im not new to aneros, as about 2 years ago I bought a Helix Syn. I fucking HATED it. It was just simply painful to use. I was told to relax, drown it in lube, reposition it, blah blah blah. But no matter what I did it felt like someone was gently stabbing me with a knitting needle or something. I attributed it to the things size and shape. Really small, slender, and a softly pointed spot on the end.

So I gave up on it and tossed it aside, with it being the biggest disappointment in a sex toy ive ever had, and a very expensive one too. I went back and looked at all the different models aneros has and saw that the progasm was the largest, and at not even 2" around its still small for a butt toy. Well I just bought one through the %50 off sale.

Well it finally just came in the mail. So I tried it out. And omg im so excited! I ACTUALLY FELT SOMETHING. Immediately after inserting I felt a dull, but really nice sensation right where it was pressing. I left it in for about a half hour or so and then just got off by hand since I was too eager. However im totally stoked about FINALLY getting into the realm of prostate stimulation. Ive never been able to find it by hand, but im positive the progasm hits it. Read more »

Aneros chat?

Or just general prostate play chat. Whatever. Always up for a chat. Feel free to PM me, I have Kik or we can keep it in PMs.

I just had my first hands-free orgasm using an Aneros, came buckets, and have some questions!

Guys! I did it!

After over 20 sessions, I was able to have an orgasm with my Helix Syn. The secret was listening to this audio from /r/gonewildaudio. It worked like a charm!

Now, I don’t exactly know what type of orgasm this was. I came buckets, which might have been because I haven’t came in over a week. It was everywhere.

I never touched my cock with my hands, which was rock hard, but my legs were brushing up against my balls and lower cock. It was very slight and I definitely wasn’t fucking my cock with my legs, or anything like that. This largely happened with nothing touching it.

The buildup was fantastic – I came before the audio even got the part where she talks about touching me. It felt really, really good.

What I don’t understand is why I ejaculated, when everyone talks about a prostate orgasm not causing that, and they usually don’t have an erection when it happens, right?. What was I doing differently that caused me to spray everywhere?

After 20+ sessions with the Helix Syn, I’m stuck. Would I have better success with a different model?

I bought a Helix Syn earlier this year. It's currently my only hands-free model, but I also have an Njoy Pure Wand.

I generally get much better sensations from the Helix Syn – the Wand doesn't do much for me, and I have a hard time finding my prostate. Plus, I have a long torso, so it's hard for me to get into position to make it work.

I get the best results when I lay on my back with my feet flat and rub my nipples. It feels good and I get a small amount of precum out, but nothing like what I've seen here. I get even better results if I lift my feel off the ground like a missionary style.

More often than not, I just don't feel anything at all. Sometimes I wonder if it's even hitting my prostate. If I decide to start jacking off, then it feels good right as I'm about to cum and during it.

Would I have better success if I switched to something like Progasm? With something that large, it's practically guaranteed to hit my prostate, right? I feel like I've hit a wall and don't know what can help.