Abstinence Struggle

I’m just over here as a super horny young 20-something, struggling to keep from masturbating for more than two days in a row.

I feel like I’m close to some real success, I’ve been going for almost a year and I’m at the point where I feel all floaty and warm and after a while I get a surge of warmth and a feeling almost like I’m high.

Mostly making this post to help motivate myself to be abstinent for a bit longer, which I feel like is a big part of getting success out of the aneros.

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My First Prostate Orgasm

I want to take everyone back. Think back to the first time you discovered your prostate could give you intense pleasure or a mind blowing orgasm. Think back to the first time it was touched, was it your finger, a toy or a partner? Do you remember the unfamiliar feeling of feeling of having something internal touched? Im going to go back to the first time I experienced prostate play. Honestly for me its kind a benchmark I used as I began my journey.
My first time was with a former girlfriend, she was adventurous to say the least. She found an article written in cosmo or somewhere like that talking about how to give your man a prostate orgasm. She asked my about trying it out. My first response was no, you’r not doing anything with my butt. She gave me a little bribe and I said ok, let’s try this. We planned it out to a degree, mainly to make sure I was fully prepped down there. She bought one of those bulb cleansers they sell at the sex stores and some thick lube. I prepped according to her instructions, I noticed the prep didn’t feel bad, and wasn’t as weird as I figured it would be.
She did an amazing job of making sure I was fully aroused, relaxed and ready when the time came. We started off, making out, she put her breasts in my face and slipped me inside of her just enough to be a tease. I told her I was ready, and I was, at-least as ready as I could be.
The rest of this is going to be in fairly great detail.

Complete beginner

Hello all, as the title says complete beginner here. I’m looking for something to stimulate the prostate primarily during partnered intercourse with my wife. Having never experimented with anything more than a finger in and around the anus should I look into an Aneros trident, peridise, or a small plug (b-vibe, or Maude cone)? I’m concerned a trident or other aneros products would hinder positions and mobility during intercourse. Thanks in advance.

Unwanted problems with the PC-muscle

Hi all, I’m looking for some advice, as I have some issues that are bothering me. I apologize if this gets a little long, but bear with me please.

I’ve had success with the Aneros before, as well as certain Aless experiences, such as dry full body nipple orgasms by way of nipple stimulation alone. At times I’ve had minor orgasms by way of thought alone, and so while it may sound like I got a good deal going on, which is probably true, after some experimentation many months ago, I feel stuck. Here’s why:

Before, I could do nipple stimulation only and get my body so charged up, that it was only a matter of “hacking the password” for each period of time, figuring out exactly what approach combined with mental aspect that would set me off into orgasmic la-la land at that point. But now this is not happening anymore.

The reason is that I was reading about flexing of the PC-muscle, and I realized I never really did this, unlike many others. So I experimented with this, where I squeezed it, and I don’t think it was too hard, then held for 10-30 seconds at a time, and released it. When I did, I noticed it did generate a surge of mild pleasure in my prostate, but nothing crazy. However, at one point, my PC-muscle went nuts, and just started moving constantly on its own. Initially for the first few days, it would do this when I went to bed in particular, and it caused me loss of sleep, fatigue, dizziness, and more. After this happened, it was almost impossible to do anything that had to do with nipple or prostate stimulation without triggering my PC-muscle to go nuts, and it never was in a good way either.

Mr. Nuts, my introduction…

I am a 67 year old male with an INTJ personality type. Married for 45 years to my high school sweetheart. I have a “virgin” prostate, except for two prostate exams, it has never been touched. (I’ll come back to that latter.) I consider myself as being very conservative and have been told that am too straight lasted. But yet I found my way here.

It started when I was about nine years old. During school months, my parents had us kids go to bed at 8:00 PM, which we through was way to early. After flopping around in bed for a while, unable to fall asleep, I would start playing around with my thing. This would make me feel like I needed to go pee. I used that as an excuse to get up, go to the bathroom and get a drunk of water before going back to bed for the last time.

One night, while messing around, trying to stir up some pee, something different started to happen. My thing started getting really hard and a sensation was going on that I never felt before. My heart started to beat really hard and fast and my breathing was too! This time it didn’t feel like pee, it was something new and it was fun! And soon enough, I ejaculated for the first time!

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Best weed for p-play?

I’m finally in a place where weed is legal and there’s so many choices.

I’ve used edibles and vaped before – no idea what strain or strength, but it definitely helped me get into the zone.

What should a buyer be looking for to get the best weed-enabled prostate sessions?

Trouble getting over the curve

I’ve been using a Helix Syn for a few weeks now, maybe 8-10 “sessions” and while I’ve felt some good and never-before-felt sensations, I’d like some feedback as to whether or not I’m approaching it correctly.

My last go with it seemed the most productive. I got myself pretty horny for a couple hours before insertion, with no sick touching. Then took a hot shower, laid in bed, did some meditative breathing, lubed up and inserted the Aneros. Tried to let it just rest for a period of time before contracting. After maybe 15 mins of listening to some chill EDM and breathing exercises I started doing some waves of PC contractions.

I started pumping out a lot of precum, but didn’t feel any sense of needing to urinate or any real pleasure sensations.

After maybe 10 minutes of contractions and using my pelvic floor muscles to literally “pull” the Aneros deeper into my asshole, I started to feel some nice warmth in my pelvic region and felt the muscles in my hips, abs, and legs starting to quiver. I could also feel my dick “jumping” and the Aneros felt like it was being pulled in and out by my asshole.

Then something new happened; my heart started beating like crazy, my breathing quickened, my eyes were closed and it literally felt like I was floating and spinning and things felt mildly good, but no where near what a normal cumming orgasm feels like. I didn’t cum or experience what I believe was an orgasm, only my usual pool of precum.

Process question- Helix Syn Trident

I’ve had about nine months with my unit, and while I have definitely improved my orgasm both with and without it in, I haven’t had the mind-blowing multiples that some people descibe. I am thinking it is my process.

I make sure to time this when I haven’t eaten for a bit and have had a good solid bowel movement.

I start off by watching some porn or paging through some NSFW reddits. I focus on content that features a man experiencing what I am about to experience, except at the hands of a woman. I will usually stroke myself with coconut oil as lubricant, but try to focus more on touching my nipples and perineum. The stroking is mostly just to maintain an erection and arousal. Should I be attempting to maintain an erection throughout?

After about ten minutes of that, I will start preparing myself for insertion. On goes the coconut oil and in it goes. I insert the device all the way, until the red tab makes contact with my perineum and the white my tailbone. I have tried inserting a shorter distance, but there has not been as much sensation- am I doing this wrong? I will usually lay on the bed, sometimes on my back and other times on my stomach, focusing on moving my pelvic floor. The sensation is nice, but not as intense as when I can hit my spot with my thumb.

Blogging with my Aneros toys

Honestly I’ve always wanted a blog. But never found myself a writer or had anything worth blogging about. I figure that my Aneros toys are worth sharing about. They are my little secret. As a straight man who has spent the last decade putting stuff in his but for pleasure I find the blog concept kinda exhilarating and actually kinda hot. I have been chasing prostate orgasms for years. Honestly Information the subject is lacking, especially from men. I see videos from women about how to have a prostate orgasm or how to give your man one. It’s not like they have a prostate to play with. How would they know? Men are almost quite about it and I see why. As a straight guy things in your rear are taboo. To me, it’s pleasure and feels amazing. And that’s not wrong. I wish us guys could have more info and resources on prostate play. I’ve even consulted porn on the subject and find most of it exaggerated and fake.
I’m going to write about my prostate play, and for those who want to read it and follow along great.

I’m currently laying on my back, with my helix in. Doing some contractions and enjoying it. Im soft, but I’m dripping.
Trying to hold off the shaking to finish typing.

Would it be more effective to:

A. Edge for 5-6 days before a session?

B. Abstain from masturbation entirely for 5-6 days before a session?

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