Involuntaries only happy to certain people?

I just spoke with someone at Aneros who said that not all people get the involuntary contractions, which I thought were imperative to achieving a MMO state. Have some of you had a prostate orgasm using the Aneros, but never have had involuntary contractions?

Also, I keep hearing people say you’re supposed to voluntarily contract your sphincter muscles, and others say you’re suppose to contract your PC muscles (to get things going in there). Which is it? Some people refer to the “do nothing” method, which is nice for a little bit, but then things just sort of die down. I’ve been going at this regularly for a year now and am fighting with impatience.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

A Binaural “Surprise” Session

One interesting thing about listening to binaural audio particularly on YouTube: when a selected track is completed, frequently the next audio queues up automatically. This happened to me today……

I was up not too early but had some time to dose on some binaural beats. I selected a couple for male arousal (I felt the need) and was really starting to relax and get-into-it. Before I knew it the track was over. Rather than get up and select something else, I just relaxed and let the next track start. Little did I know that the next track was entitled ‘Euphoria and Bliss’. OMG! I started to get a strange sensation mid-way into it and before I knew it I was deep into an orgasm! It felt amazing!

One interesting thing about this process: you really don’t know what is coming up in terms of expected response. Usually, the next audio in sequence is similar to the one just played. It’s just that you don’t know EXACTLY what it is going to be. It is somewhat mysterious!

I let this track play-out and (guess what?) I let the next track play. it turned-out that that the next track was called ‘Euphoria and Orgasm’. I didn’t know it at the time but it was really meant for female orgasms (but males can experience this as well). This one was fairly long (1 Hr 15 Min) and I didn’t have time to listen completely. But it certainly felt a little different from the “usual’ male erection and orgasm doses. As I said, I really didn’t know what I was to expect. This is an intriguing way to ‘dose’ on binaural beats (if you are so inclined!). I’ll certainly do it again! Read more »

First time with any type of anal/prostate play

As a straight guy (29/m), I’ve never had any experience with anal play or direct prostate simulation. I find myself “in-tune” with that area when I’m aroused and frequently apply pressure to my perineum subconsciously when I masturbate. However, I typically feel a “pressure” in my prostate area after I ejaculate. It almost leaves me feeling unsatisfied…Like the job was only halfway done. That’s what got me curious about prostate orgasms.

My new Helix arrived today and I couldn’t wait to use it. I thoroughly lubed up with a water-based lubricant and coconut oil to be safe. Laid on my side with one leg raised and inserted the toy.

I must admit, I really did not enjoy my first experience. Not that I disliked it necessarily, but I felt little sensation other than the feeling that I had to take a shit (I didn’t, that’s just the sensation the toy was giving me). I waited maybe 10 minutes but this feeling really didn’t subside. I really wasn’t aroused at any point and figured I would try it again another time.

I should mention I had cum twice already today and so maybe that had something to do with it…

Any insights or tips greatly appreciated!!

“Unexpected Erotic Bliss”

While not strictly an Aneros session, or even an Aless session, this ‘session’ was for me one of the most erotically-charged ones I have had in a long time! Let me explain how this happened…….

I was up not too early in the AM and ‘dosed’ on some binaurals like I usually do. Following those, I searched for some relaxing music and found one about an hour long called ‘Erotic Chill Music For Sensual Seduction’ and started listening. It was very relaxing but not too stimulating (or so I thought!) Well, what happened next sent me into ecstatic orbit! Here is what happened…….

While listening for about 10-15 minutes, I suddenly got the urge to ‘cup’ my package, specifically my scrotum. I took my left hand and firmed-up the skin. With my right hand, I began just the slightest ‘touches’ on it and all over it. I could feel the hairs on my scrotum. I continued to ‘explore’ my package, but ever so SLOWLY. Slight touches, slight strokes, ‘whisper’ strokes, and so on…… I can’t really describe the feelings as I continued to do this only to say that it probably was the most sexually and erotically-charged sensation I have ever felt. Nothing like I felt in any masturbation session or even during intercourse. It took me to a private place where I wanted to be forever. I had shivers all throughout my body……My mind is almost in a stupor-like state but in a good way…….Can’t really adequately describe this feeling, it just had to be FELT! It was SEX in its most basic, primitive form. Read more »

“A Down-And-Dirty Session”

Nice session with my wife last night. Another long handjob that blew me away! I had to tell her to stop (I was in f*****g agony!) But (deja vu) no ejaculation. Even I failed!
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Fast-forward a few hours…… I am up in the middle of the night. Still need to get some sleep but just had the urge for a session. I still feel very aroused from the previous night’s activities. This ‘down-and-dirty’ session (in my own bedroom) seemed to be over before it started but I liked it that way! Here is how it went —–

Eupho Classic – about 20 minutes. Great-feeling but really not enough time for intense pleasure
PS-NEW – about 20 minutes. Like the feeling; a lot of precum in a short time
Silicone Anal Beads – only about 5 minutes. Really “fills-me-up”. Went in so easily (since I was already greatly lubed-up!). I could have kept them in for a long time (maybe next time?)
Great ejaculation – no problem this time! Ahh! Relief!

As I said, this session was ‘down-and-dirty’!

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Away on a trip

It’s already been 5 days since my last session and I am departing for a 5-day trip. It could be 10 to 12 days to my next opportunity and my prostate is already screamoing for action! Oh well, I will practice Aless until then. Boy thi stuff is addictive.

“(Almost) HFWO With Peridise”

[Sorry, this blog is a day-late due to Aneros website issues]

Well, it was a new 5 days for semen retention. My wife gave me a great handjob a couple of days ago. One problem: due to my
DE, I was unable to ejaculate. I tried after ‘our’ session for about 5 minutes but, alas, no-go! To top-off everything, I have been horny all week.
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This morning, I was up REALLY EARLY and decided that I was going ‘off’ one way or another and in style! I set myself up to dose on an orgy of binaural beats: prostate health, erectile dysfunction, ejaculation (two), male orgasm, erotic lounge music; you name it, I did it! I had my tissues nearby since I really thought I would need them. But, alas, still no-go!

After about 4 hours with no ejaculation, I am feeling a little sleepy so I retired to my (private) bedroom and decided to finish-myself-off with a Peridise (Large) session. I used Slippery Stuff Gel since I used it recently and liked it. I inserted it most of the way, rolled-over on my side and relaxed…… Read more »

Semi-noob questions.

I tried the aneros about a decade ago in my 20s & things didn’t go great, but now that I’m in my 30s, I decided to give anal stimulation another try.

Long story short, I got another & had a successful prostate orgasm [I believe]. I felt a wave wash over my entire body followed by what felt like a 2 minute orgasm followed by ejaculation.

The ejaculation was different than normal. It looked like it was mostly precum [clear mostly]. Was it? Are multiple orgasms possible?

I’m very glad to have given it another shot. Any insights that might makes things more enjoyable?

Anxiety Meds and Aneros?

So I just started taking paxil, and was wondering if this would effect my experience with the aneros? Would it help because it’s helping my be more relaxed, hurt because it’s altering how my brain process some things, or have no effect?