Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

What model?

Hi, today I ask the age old question… What Aneros model should I purchase?

My back story.

I am not a complete novice when it comes to anal stimulation. I have taken dildos, plugs and other stuff of various sizes. Even my wife’s fist, but that was a while ago. I have milked my prostate manually with good success so I know where it is.

The reason I ask this question is that Aneros is unavailable in my country so I have to order it online. That takes a few weeks so I wanted to try and minimise the risk of ordering something completely wrong for me. Although I do realise that this could always be the case anyway.

Do you have any suggestions for me?

Almost

I was trying the tug of war thing out and managed to reach the edge of orgasm for 10 or 15 seconds. I held my contraction all the way through and the sensation subsided. Sure was cool though. I was in pleasantly surprised.

What should I try next time?

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Wednesday 6/29/16 session, there is always Aless sweetness no matter what the session!

Hi guys,

I woke up this morning in the 4 o’clock hour as I do usually. Often I’ll listen to the news on the BBC and NPR Morning Edition for couple hours. Most mornings though I rise around six to get ready for my daily routine. But this morning, I woke up feeling horny and randy. So around 5, I prepped for a session using in order models Helix Syn, Progasm Jr, Tempo, and Maximus as I did on Monday.

There is hardly a morning when I have session that my body is not psyched for a session. My randiness and horniness this morning made me receptive for my models. The “do-nothing technique” is now second nature for me. Relaxation through calm breathing, with perhaps an occasional Kegel or two, activates the motion of my models. It is so wonderful that I am rediscovering Helix Syn and Progasm Jr in new, exciting ways. Helix Syn works well with subtlety, especially for experienced Aneros users, which is so gratifying for me. Progasm Jr truly “locks” itself in place delivering direct stimulation to my perineum, anal canal, and prostate. It is not so heavy duty as its older, bigger brothers of the Progasm line. Actually I could wear it around the apartment if I wished for possibly fifteen or thirty minutes or even an hour! Read more »

“Sweet Aless Session Takes Me To Nirvana”

I was up early this AM and decided to retire to my favorite couch for a while. Usually, I put on headphones and dose on some stimulating binaural beats or erotic hypnosis. However, this morning, I just decided to forgo the headphones and relax with an Aless session. I wanted to see how far I could ride.

I am always amazed at the feelings my body can generate Aless. Yes, it has been several weeks since my last “official” Aneros session and I do miss them. But the feelings I began to get while doing some light contractions (and reverse contractions) just seemed to put me into a blissful (Nirvana–like) state. OMG! The feelings continued to build, gradually, until I felt a ‘shudder’ all throughout my body. All the while, I felt a ‘quivering’ in my prostate that felt so good…..

I continued this session for about an hour. I probably dozed-off somewhere in between. When I awoke again, I am reminded of the blissful sensations I just experienced, knowing that I can return to this place anytime I want! I’m delighted to be a man! Read more »

Helix Syn: help with sweet spot, contractions, and lube

I’ve had the Helix Syn for 5 months and have about 15 sessions. I’ve had some success with milestones such as pleasure through contracting, feeling the prostate, sometimes on the sweet spot, occasional involuntary muscle contraction, overall enjoyment, jerking, pleasure by blood pulses internally, and moaning during the sessions.

I’m feeling blocked, although i’ve spent a dozen hours reading wiki and forum posts for ideas. I seem to be the most successful while standing or sitting / over slouched on the couch with my butt hanging from the edge. Challenges:

1. I’m unsure where my Sweet Spot is. I’ve tried the tests in the Wiki, but I can’t seem to nail down. Sometimes during a session I reposition the p-Tab and know it’s the right place, because I immediately begin involuntary muscle contraction, but soon quit if the p-TAB moves. I try to secure it with my fingers, but it moves and I lose track of the right position and have trouble to find it again.

2. I often get the most pleasure from the combination of moderate to severe rectal contractions with anal and clower pelvic/kegel contractions. But pleasure seems mostly to come from when the Aneros comes out and the p-tab is an inch or two from my perinium. As if my body wants to push it in and out, but if I’m not careful it ejects and I have to keep a hand there to keep from coming out. Does this mean that my prostate is more shallow than the Helix Syn and I should try another model? Read more »

Re-Wiring Reversing?

For the first time in 6 months, I have been away from home, (travelling in our RV) and my Aneros toys; no sessions for 5 days. I am used to having sessions 2 to 4 times weekly so I was sure my re-wiring process would be reversing itself. Does it ever reverse itself?

During the trip, I practiced Aless contractions and abdomen breathing on a regular basis (while driving, eating etc.). The feeling I was experiencing were almost as good as the ones I was feeling with the toys.

One morning in the trip, I woke up (at dawn) with a very hard erection and I just quietly contract my PC muscle with deep abdomen breaths. I was rewarded with an explosion of feelings that were almost orgasmic specially in my glans and this lasted for about a half our until I fell asleep again. This makes me believe these feelings may be similar to the successful Aless sessions described by so many members. If so, the future is looking good!

We returned home yesterday and my prostate was screaming for action. After my wife went to bed, I lubed up and inserted my Helix Syn. The feelings resumed to exactly where I left off 6 days ago. Read more »

Monday, 6/27/16 session, the power of Aneros subtlety *

Hi guys,

Wow, what a hot session I just had this morning, and wow, what sweet, powerful Aless as I type this entry!

I began with Helix Syn. My well-educated hole and prostate this model, my very first purchase Aneros product, rode it with such finesse and verve that it was uncanny. I didn’t need to prompt its motion. But I did perform Kegels and Reverse Kegels, which fueled my Aneros horniness.

Then I switched Progasm Jr. The same thing, only my smaller black version of the much larger Progasm Classic, Progasm Ice, and Progasm Ivory did something unique. I let Progasm Jr of its own accord massage a special area down there. It could have been my prostate or my anal canal, but it was sweet, powerful, subtle sexual energy that seemed like electricity, a buzz, which I am stimulating with Kegels as I type these words. I also used Kegels and Reverse Kegels on Progasm Jr. and what I produced was indescribable sexual sweetness.

Next I used Tempo, and again I didn’t to do anything. My anal musculature and prostate handled Tempo in their own way. The heavy stainless steel of Tempo magnified its action and its effect.

I concluded this morning’s session with Maximus. Maximus always slips easily and hits its target(s). This morning however Maximus seemed aggressive. So I had to go easily with Maximus. Read more »

need some help/tips.

ok so i bought a loki wave. i started off with smaller toys before that have slipped in rather easy. i can get it about halfway in and its just feels like its stuck there after. what should i do? should i push a little harder? im scared i might hurt something down there. i used plenty of lube. not sure sure if this happens to other but i was bleeding a bit after trying to get it up there. not a lot of blood just tiny spot on toilet paper. is that normal?

separate question how exactly do i know where my prostate is. it all feels the same in there to me. this toy is pretty big how do i know if ive reached the spot? im 5’11 will i be able to get the whole thing in to take advantage of the 2nd vibrator.

as you can tell im still pretty new to this all. havent really been able to find my zone yet. any advice helps really. sorry for the long post.

6/25/16 session, rediscovering Helix Syn and Progasm Jr

Hi guys,

Early Saturday morning I had a 1.5 hour session with Maximus, Tempo, and Progasm Classic. It was an OK session, thought not one of my best. However, I am really enjoying using Tempo first on my right side and then lying on my back. Tempo in those positions does feel like working with a pair of dumbbells, especially while performing the Kegels.

Afterwards for the rest of the day, I had moderate Aless.

However, early last night, I decided to have another session, this time with Helix Syn and Progasm Jr which I hadn’t used together in a very long time. When I performed the Kegels and Reversed Kegels with these models, I gained a new appreciation for them. They seemed to “fit” perfectly. Today, Sunday, I had periods of exquisite, sweet Aless. Take care!