hope i dont get hate for this but thought this woudl be a good place to ask a good way to stimulate my prostate without a toy.
technics or common household objects?
Prostate only feels good if I contract pelvic floor. Contractions eventually lead to standard penile ejaculation
I can feel prostate really well, but hitting a certain threshold always results in the onset of typical contractions that push the semen out in a few quick bursts. If I’m very lucky it starts as prostate orgasm and semen starts flowing out, but after few seconds my pelvic floor contracts on its own and it’s ruined.
Also, generally prostate only feels good if I contract pelvic floor during the session. Teasing prostate without contraction feels like nothing. Has anybody been where I am?
Because nerves of prostate are connected to penis, my penis is always hard during the stimulation, and ejaculates normally.
I go 1-2 months between the sessions.
Loki Wave vs Nexus Sparta vs Nexus Revo
I’m moving on from the Helix and see a lot of talk about the Wave, I’m wondering if people have experience with the Sparta http://www.nexusrange.com/product/sparta or even the Revo, which got a raving review here: https://thebiggayreview.com/nexus-revo-stealth-prostate-massager/
Also Loki has the Hugo? Looking for your input to make a good decision, thank you 🙂
“Semen Retention: This Ain’t Easy, Guys!”
I kind-of stumbled onto semen retention due to several personal factors: my recent experience with DE, discovering tantric sex and just no ejaculations for a week. I am on a new pathway now. It is now eight days and I feel I can go farther. However, IT IS NOT EASY! Let me explain…….
First off, my body is ‘adjusting’ to this newfound absence from ejaculation. Yes, the tantric sex sessions are extremely stimulating but since there is no expectation of climax, there has to be a sense of orgasm without ejaculation. This would be similar to an Aneros session! Have I experienced an orgasm yet? I don’t know for sure….probably not.
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Every day that passes now brings a new awareness of greater sexual stimulation (I’m climbing the mountain again and before long, I should be at the top, if I can hold-out until then!) Yes, there are some erections but not as many as you may think. I have done a fair amount of reading on the subject of semen retention over the past week and it definitely seems to “fit the bill” as far as my sexual progress is concerned. Some guys may be saying…..how can not ejaculating be considered progress? Well, it seems that the release of semen in males is draining in more than one way. By retaining semen, the energy is transferred or “transmuted” into other areas of the body. For example, it has been discovered that testosterone level increases, mental focus becomes sharper and sexual stamina is greatly increased since there is no ejaculation expected. At this point, however, I am making no advances toward experiencing multiple orgasms without ejaculation. That takes a great deal of control and I believe there are some risks involved. So for now, I’ll just stick with basic tantric cuddling which I like a lot. If I will happen to go-off during one of these sessions (through grinding or partial penetration) well, that will be it and I will start a new ‘clock’! I will not purposely ‘kill the mood’ in order not to ejaculate! I’m not that foolish!
“No Ejaculation For A Week: How Does That Feel?”
Well, I made it! It has been a full 7 days since my last ejaculation. Yes, I have had many erections and regular tantric sessions with my wife. But no climax. How do I feel? Let me try to describe it……
I am NOT:
– feeling horny all the time
– trying to suppress an erection during the day (they don’t seem to happen that often)
– thinking about penetration all the time
– developing a feeling of ‘blue balls’
– embarking on any Aneros sessions at least for the time being
I AM:
– producing a lot of precum during tantric cuddling
– getting aroused with a rock-hard erection very quickly when I’m in bed next to my wife
– noticing my package is longer and fuller
– sure I will be heading towards a wet dream soon if I continue to abstain
– able to trigger a nice Aless feeling when I want it
Frankly, I am surprised that I am able to refrain from ejaculating for a full week. Where am I on the arousal ‘mountain’? Right now, I don’t think I’m too far up.
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Conclusion: I was under the impression that I would ‘explode’ sexually after a week without ejaculation. However, that does not seem to be case, at least with me. Perhaps this is part of the re-wiring process? I guess the real ‘test’ will be when I reach the PONR and am ready to go-off. What will that erection feel like? How much ejaculate will I produce? What will that ejaculation feel like? Where will my cock be at the time (in or out?) Oh, the anticipation itself is very arousing!
Fathers Day session, 6/19/16 p.m.
Hi guys,
I arrived home from church exhausted from conversations with friends. In a way that was good although I felt famished. I changed out of my church clothes into casual summer clothes. I bought some light refreshment and went to Rose Park to enjoy the warm, yet dry weather with a glass of coke. Then back to the 7 Eleven for more groceries returning to my apartment.
I saw that @GGringo had posted a blog entry about his first session with Progasm Ice. So I prepared for a late Sunday afternoon session with Tempo and Progasm Ice. Tempo worked well once again on my right side and on my back. However, I fell asleep with Tempo still inserted. When I came to, it took a minute or two to realize this. Fortunately I exercised caution and withdrew Tempo. When I did this, I had intense, yet pleasurable Aless.
Then I worked with Progasm Ice, first on my right side and then on my back. I used Kegels and Reverse Kegels with Progasm Ice in a couple sets. Progasm Ice performed much better than ever before. So I will add Progasm Ice to my regular lineup of Aneros models. I should do the same with Progasm Ivory.
I must say that for the last month or so after each session I have that satisfied, well-fucked feeling that comes with Aless, to be ever savored as I work with Aless and that well-fucked feeling. It is so beautiful and makes me glad that I am a man! So that is my salute to Fathers Day!
First encounter with the Progasm Ice
Well, last night I had my first encounter with my new Progasm Ice and and here are a few details.
First, I lubed up, lubed the monster and slowly started inserting it. My anus, being used to the gentle curvature of the Helyx Syn started questioning my sanity as I was gently pushing it in further. Not a comfortable feeling at all. Eventually, it slid all the way in and now my rectum was screaming “who parked a nuclear sub in here?”. At that point, I was tempted to pull it out and cancel this session altogether but I persisted. It took a few minutes to get somewhat used to this new toy and as I settled down and relaxed, the feeling got better. There is no doubt the differences between the HS and the PI are very noticeable.
At first, I was laying on my back to get the feel of it and things immediately started to get agitated. I got p-waves in my lower abdomen and penis. I could really feel the added pressure on my prostate and this is what I was seeking. Soon after, my session was interrupted and had to run upstairs. I did so with the ‘sub’ still inside; (I was even able to pee with it parked inside). When I resumed, I tried laying on my side.
First Blog
My first massager was the Helyx Syn bought 6 months ago. Although I feel I have made great strides with my 3-4 weekly sessions, I have yet to achieve the Dry-O and Super-O levels. Even being at the level i am, I feel I am way ahead even if this is all I would ever get from my Aneros experience. I feel better, I discovered feelings I never knew I had before and from a health point of view, I feel younger than my 61 years of existence. I wake up in the middle of the night far less to urinate and far more to feel a huge erection. Great!
Yesterday, I bought a Progasm Ice which I will road test tonight. I like the Helyx Syn for what it does but I feel I crave a little more direct contact with my prostate. I might love it or toss it back into it’s box in favor of my first friend. I will post progress updates.
Friday 6/17/16, Feeling well “fucked” after morning session
Hi guys,
I feel well-fucked after my usual 1.5 hour session with Helix Classic, Maximus, Tempo, and Progasm Classic. I have never had that kind of sex with a gal or guy in my life. Although I am a confirmed bachelor at 67, I have enjoyed masturbation over the years, but my Aneros sessions lately have sent me into orbit.
This morning with each of my models, I first used the “do nothing” technique letting my body take over. Once again, I let the pleasure build as I let each model work in its own way. Letting go and focusing my attention upon Aneros massaging upon my prostate and anal musculature magnified my pleasure. Then with each model, I used the same approach upon my back. The pleasure produced was sending me out of world. Finally with model, still on my back I drew my knees to my chest while performed concentrated Kegels and Reverse Kegels. Wow!
I used same order of techniques and positions this Tempo. Normally I sit at my PC with Tempo inserted and Tempo just rhythmically work away. Tempo worked wonderfully this morning in a new way as described.
Now I have Aless beyond comparative to be treasured for the rest of the day. I love getting fucked by my Aneros buddies! Take care!
“Short Refractory Period?”
Following just one day after my Super-T, I thought things would ‘settle-down’ for at least a couple of days. NOT! Things were hot and heavy with my wife this AM (quite unexpectedly but very intensely arousing). I didn’t climax but came really close. Following a nice swim, and entering this blog, I now have an amazingly STRONG anal/prostate pulsing which is blowing my mind! I thought there would at least be a refractory period during which time I would be at the ‘bottom’ of the arousal mountain! NOT AGAIN! I am actually going into erection mode just with some simple, easy kegels. What is going on here?
It is as if my body is in tune for a greater frequency of arousal and is rewarding me with unimaginable pleasures!
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I realize now that this was a ‘tantric sex’ session without climax. It started slowly but continued to build. It could have gone on longer but we ran out of time after about an hour.
PS: Had to lie down. Still experiencing anal/prostate pulsing. OMG! Experiencing at least three Dry-O’s in succession (with moaning).
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