Being quiet during sessions

Hey all, I've not long had my aneros. I've used it about 3 times and it's really really nice. I seem to be moving through the milestones pretty quick too. I've reached 'Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions'. I was playing with my nips and rubbing my perineum on my chair this morning and I really noticed it, had little mini contractions, not orgasmic though. Feels so good haha.

I seem to involuntarily make noise when I use it though, does anyone else have this? I live in a house with paper thin walls and I can't be noisy, really annoying. I noticed that restricting being vocal reduces the pleasure, possibly because of the mental energy required to keep quiet? Is it possible to be quiet when you use it and reach orgasmic levels? I've really noticed that your mindset seems to make or break your pleasure with it so if I'm always worrying about being noisy I'm not sure I'll be able to cross over any time soon?

What to get (experienced)

I've been thinking of getting an aneros for a while now, but I have no idea which one to get. I'm fairly experienced with anal and I can use the njoy pure wand and a dildo 7,2" length 4,7" girth. I need something like the biggest ball on the njoy.

Also which techniques are best?

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Exercise to improve normal orgasm

Hi guys,

I was wondering if the aneros can also help with normal p-in-v orgasms? I have no problems with getting aroused or erections, but it takes a real long time to come when I have sex with my fiance. Possibly this could be due to being circumcised or death-grip-masturbation techniques. I often have the feeling that I'm just about to come during sex, but then at the final moment it's like I lose it. This can go one for a few cycles until I finally orgasm.

Do you think the aneros can help with this? Maybe just by training the pelvic muscle. I'm not really interested in multiple orgasm via prostate, just looking for a way to have better sex with my SO. Any particular set of exercises with the aneros helix syn would be highly appreciated. Thanks!

Some ramblings… Don’t try to force an orgasm, just enjoy the sensations

I just finished a really good session with my Nexus Revo 2 – my best one yet actually – and as I had an amazing time with it I thought I'd post a few ramblings about how to improve prostate play if anyone is feeling demotivated or that they aren't having as much fun as they'd like to have.

First of all, I should say that I've seen loads of posts talking about how brilliant it is to have a prostate orgasm. That's great, but I've found that actually focusing on having an orgasm isn't the way to get the most out of your sessions. I've been practicing for about 4 months now and haven't had one yet, but I've found that my sessions are so much better when I'm not thinking about whether I'll orgasm and instead thinking about fantasies and desires. Before I was getting really hung up on trying to orgasm and it was making my sessions worse. If anyone is in that position as well, don't worry about whether you'll orgasm. It might happen, it might not – who cares? It doesn't matter. Do it for the fun of it, not to reach a goal. Read more »

The Glow

Helps to have the day off, so I planned to chase my ride from 2 days ago. It was a "reclaim consistency" day, and I was ready to blow my load. After hitting the gym at noon, I unsuited and plugged in the Pro Jr.

Having the better lube definitely helps )Swiss Navy water base(, and I was well on my way to anal heaven within minutes. Normally, I don't watch videos during a ride, but I had come across this bearded guy milking his prostate with an njoy Pure Wand. He really got into it, leaking major precum and milky prostate fluid. I love that idea, the cock like a tap in a maple tree making a slow leak.

I think Aneros is just not compatible with my anatomy…

So I started off with a Helix Syn as my first Aneros and hated it with passion. No matter what I did all it resulted in was a sharp pain.

So I moved on to a progasm. I figured since I enjoy plug and dildos I would have a better time with it due to its size. And I was right, as soon as I put it in it was as comfortable as could be. But I have run into another issue.

I just dont think my anatomy is compatible with Aneros toys. While the progasm is comfortable to the point where it will feel like its not even there at all lies the issues. It feels kinda nice when initially sliding it in but after its in I have ZERO sensations at all. To the point where if im sitting there not touching myself I will eventually go soft and thats it, and nothing will happen and eventually the lube starts drying and removal becomes uncomfortable.

So i decided to try willing it around. Nothing. However I did finally find something. I have to pull the toy out by 1/3rd or so and push firmly forward with the tip of it. I found a spot that I can only assume is my prostate. Grinding against that spot gives the slight sensation of needing to urinate in the tip of my member. Continuously working this spot just ends up with drops of semen leaking out but no real sensation other than the urination feeling. I would have kept going longer but I again run into the lube drying and not long after that really cramped hands/wrists. Letting it go and naturally settle into place leaves me again with the no sensations at all. I think it just pulls into me too deep. Read more »

have you ever tried to imagine being a woman?

i am not saying it will work for you but if you are anything like me then it will work wonders.

get comfortable and give it a try. it took me some time but now i have no trouble with it as i know what i'm trying to achieve. i just imagine being a passive woman having sex or doing any thing that doesn't bother me or turn me off, just anything that i wouldn't mind doing. i would like to know if that works for anyone, particularly straight guys that never wanted to have sex with a man and do not take pleasure from anal penetration.

i know there are gay people here too, i'm guessing that it will not work for you but by all means please prove me right or wrong.

you can let me know if it doesn't work after first try either but feel free to revisit the idea any time and update.

you do not necessarily need an aneros session to test the waters. also don't forget to mention your sexual orientation and whether you have success with lesbian or straight sex. pm me or create a throwaway if you don't want to disclose this stuff.

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Acid Reflux/Heartburn after Using the Prograsm

I'm a total noob to the Aneros and have started with the Progasm. Each time I've used it, after half an hour or so I start to get acid reflux and abdominal discomfort. I've tried searching other forums to see if anyone else has experienced this sort of thing but haven't found anything. Was wondering if anyone here has. If so what advice do you have? As far as I know, I'm using the Aneros correctly, lying on my side with my knees up. I can't for the life of me figure out why this is happening. I've had four sessions and each time it has happened without fail. Any feedback is welcome.

desire and new technique

Holidays are over, kids back to collage today, finally a opportunity to be totally alone. Until now my desire has been to insert the aneros and wait or try to make something happen. Since i have had no alone time for a while I have been practicing a less techniques in bed at night and early in the morning. i have become much more in tune with this practice and could not wait for the opportunity to have a session. For the first time my desire was not to have a session and make something happen, i had a strong desire to just have the Aneros inside of me. It had been so long I was mentally and physically craving for it. This went on for about a week until today when I finally got the opportunity. Thanks to a blog from Lingaman I have been practicing a technique he describes in his last blog. (Thank You again) I practiced the technique a less while I was waiting for my opportunity to be alone. Today it Happened! The desire was there, the arousal was there and I just wanted to get the Aneros inside of me and enjoy, and boy did i! Did not try to make anything happen just let the Aneros fill me up and do its job. I started in the usual position on my side one leg up per protocal and the pleasant pulsing started. This has been the norm for me at the beginning of my sessions so i just laid there and let it go. The feelings subsided after about twenty minutes like always for me. This is when I usually try and make something happen and spend the next hour or so overthinking the whole process. Today I rolled on to my back and decided to go with ligamans technique I have been practicing a less for the last week. I took a small piece of coconut oil and placed it on the underside of my cock just below the tip and rubbed ever so lightly in small circles, I also did the same thing to one of my nipples and rubbed both at the same time in rhytham very lightly with a thin film of slippery coconut oil. It took a few minutes and then i could feel something building in my prostate and cock. I had several involuntary prostate pulses and then my cock started to warm up and it felt like i was going to cum. I continued the circles even though I thought i might ejaculate. To my supprise i did not ejaculate and had a nice but not powerful dry o. First time for me! I started again same results a slow build up felt like i was going to cum and a nice dry o again. Not as intense as a regular orgasam but similar in that my prostate and cock pulsed several times and no ejaculation. There was a good amount of precum the second time and my cock was about half hard now. I rested a few minutes and started again I was able to use the pre cum and the coconut oil to create a slippery surface and started the small circles and the nipple circles, after a couple of minutes the wave built again and felt like it was going to be stronger this time. I thought for sure i was going to ejaculate but did not care i wanted to see what was over this edge and it had been about a hour and a half since i started. My prostate and cock pumped away and this time i had two strong anal contractions that startled me. This ended the orgasam and no ejaculation, just more pre cum. I was about three quarters hard at this point and very supprised. I decided to end my session because i have been having a minor hemroid problem recently and i was afraid i would aggrevate the situation. Looking back I wish i would have tried one more time. Getting back to the begining of my post i can finally channel my desire into the Aneros and let it do its job with just a little stimulation to set things off. Can not wait to try again. Thanks again to Lingamans creative writing and helpful tips.