I'm trying to use this site, but not sure how Please come back so I know I know how to communicate.
New question, that might explain a lot to me
I have ordered and have received a Eupho and have not had the chance to try it yet. But I am more concerned about something else. I saw in here a fella (don't remember his name) who shot a video of his aneros use. There it looked like he was pushing and contracting alternately with his anal muscles to make the MGX go in and out. Am I suppose to be pushing as well as pulling (clentching) at the aneros. I have had some success, mild to say the least, with just clentching, but if I am to push and pull that would make a lot of sense in the the aneros would move more. Someone give me some advice here? Please.
thanks
mwhoim
Sessions 6 and 7, plateau
Okay, so I've tried to use a washcloth to keep the tab in place, and I haven't really noticed any improvement. My perineum still gets sore, but not quite as much. I think I will try to pinpoint my perineum "spot" and check the alignment of the tab.
I definitely enjoy my sessions, but nothing major to note at this point.
When I do experience the pleasureable sensations, they seem similar to when I need to pee, but deeper.
Okay, time to go get ready for another session……..
Cheers!
My journey begins………
So, I thought I'd share my journey of discovery here to hopefully contribute to the collective, as well as learn from other users.
I have had my Helix for about a month now, and have had about 5 sessions with it. I have not yet experienced an orgasm, but have definitely noticed some wonderful sensations and have begun discovering some of the more subtle muscular movements.
SOME HISTORY:
I have been very sexually-oriented person since childhood, and started masturbating at the age of 5, in the form of rubbing on my bedpost. Since then, I've tried just about everything under the sun, but, of course, the majority of it was (is) "penile-centric".
I'm now 41, married to the same woman I started dating 22 years ago, and we are mutually expanding our sexual horizons.
I started reading books on Tantric / energetic / spiritual sexuality about 5 years ago, and began experimenting with perineum massage in combination with penile masturbation, which is what spawned my desire to learn more about prostate and perineum orgasms.
I also began learning about the incomprehnsible scope of the female orgasm (beyond the normal orgasm) at this time, and have learned of the female prostate in the process. Although the female prostate (g-spot) is located in a different place (it surrounds the urethra), it can be massaged in much the same way that the male prostate can be massaged to bring on new levels of enjoyment, beyond the typical rocket-O associated with the g-spot.
It is interesting that I am now a fledgling student in this pleasure for myself, after having learned (and continuing to learn) how to bring about ecstatic prostate orgasms for my wife.
My fisrt Aneros
I've had a mini – O
I bought my helix some time ago and had very little success in my first several attempts. It sat unused for several months. Last night I got it out, cleaned out my rectal canal really well and spent time just relaxing with it in place. I lay on my side for a while, did the recommended deep breathing and got comfortable with the helix in place. I delayed contractions for a while too. Still not much happened in the way of sensation.
I then rolled onto my back and put my feet flat on the bed. I contracted the scphincter a few times and then lay still. Quietly, waves of delightful sensation started to build. I held perfectly still for fear that movement might break the spell that was coming over me. I don't think it actually lasted that long and it wasn't a body wracking experience but it was like nothing I've ever experienced before. As the sensations subsided I contracted a few times but the whole experienced passed.
Nevertheless, I take it as a first success. If I can duplicate and intensify that sensation over time, I'll be very satisfied. I feel like I've crossed into a new frontier of sensation that I've never experienced before, in many ways similar to the first orgasm I had in my early teens.
I'll keep this forum posted.
My KIT arrived and wanted to report
Well after nearly two weeks of waiting my aneros kit has arrived. was able to find time almost immediately to try the SGX. First thing I must state is that I was very surprised at the size of the SGX and for that matter of the MGX. I have to admit I have had anal play with other items and both of the aneros seemed so small. I thought this can't possibly make me feel anything. Well I followed the guides on the package, the instructions from this sight, and all the advice I had read before receiving my toys.(I use the term toy loosely, because I see now this will be more than a play time, but a total adventure in mental and physical control)
I just finished cleaning up and wanted to write so thoughts are clear and to the point. But first thing I saw was a blog from Ashlen, and he let me see some of what didn't work for me on this first try. Patience being the biggest problem, being able to focus, and knowledge about contractions, (how long how hard etc.)
god's truth now
ok I have to admit it now, cause I need to be open and honest, I am afraid of aneros because I am keeping it a "secret" from my partner. I know I shouldn't but I don't want to have him think I am weird or that I am off on some wild tangent. I want so much to discover the pleasure of the prostate adventure, so I can share it with him, but I have to prove it to myself first. Still waiting for it to arrive.
I have made many refreences to it in our talks but not told him completely about ordering it, or that I will want to try it for a while before I let him know about it. any suggestions?
Mwhoim
Maybe too early to ask
I know this is my second kind of entry, and I do thank the fellas who have sent comments from my first. I am still being taught patience because the mails have not yet gotten my "starter kit" (a SGX and a MGX in one package)but I thought I would try to learn some of the breathing and exercise techniques. But after reading more I am a little confused. Again not having my aneros to work with yet makes a difference, but with anal contractions and sphincter contractions the same or different. Having read a few more items it would seem one is a closing of the sphincter(like trying to retain), the other a pushing (like to expell) action. Are both of these to be included in the excercises? I know once I have my own aneros, it might become clear to me, but I still must wait for that.
I intend to start with the SGX since it was stated it was originally desinged for men under 5'6" (my height) and for those not use to any kind of anal insersion. Since the MGX is included with my "kit" I guess I figured I could work up from there.
Any help you have, or discussion that has already been presented, and you can point me to it, would be greatly apprieciated.
mwhoim
New and waiting for it to arrive
I am still waiting for my kit to arrive, but I am nearvous and excited at the same time. I want to get going but have read enough to know to go slow, be patient, let muscles develop etc. My main concern is the cleaning prior to use, and finding time in my busy schedule to use these new and exciting instruments. I would so dearly love to have orgasim that dosen't leave me excited for "seconds" and then flat emotionally and physically.
I am curious if the sgx can be "worn" for a great deal of time , (like all night or all day) and what effect it has during daily routine. Please help me cause I would hate to have wasted all this money and find out that I am the .0001% that this will not work for.
I am more than willing ot contiune to update what is happening with me but I guess I am looking for a lot of feedback. I have read and re-read the instructions and almsot have them committed to memory, but still some questions to come I am sure.
Looking forward with great anticipation,
mwhoim