Can you move the aneros with your hands?

I get that the point of the toy is too move it with your contractions but I’m really struggling to feel anything that way. It just kinda feels like a butt plug. If I put it in and gently move it back and forth using my hand to move the toy would it still work/could I give myself prostate orgasms that way?

After rewiring

Hello buds. Currently making progress but i have question about the rewiring or more accurately after the rewiring.
Lets say you rewired to the point of having regular orgasm with the aneros and aless. Does other things trigger spontaneous orgasm, like bumpy rode or touch to the skin that kind of stuff. I mean things not connected with the anus,penis or prostate.
Also do you feel a change in your sexuality in some way?
Do you notice any change to your mood and etc.?

Thank you guys 🤙

I Can not Have a Dry O…

Hi, this is a throwaway account for obvious reasons.

About 2 or 3 months ago I purchased a Aneros Helix (the white plastic one) and I’ve been trying to explore parts of myself that I have neglected. For the past 3 weeks I’ve been going aless because of convenience and now I’m able to achieve a wet hfo consistently (every session) both aless and with aneros, they are seriously the best orgasms of my life but I want to progress myself to dry orgasms that everyone talks about. If anyone could give me advice or a tip I would deeply appreciate it. I don’t know if this is important or not but hardly every touch my penis sexually anymore, and I have sessions usually every 3-4 days.

Progasm / Jr / Helix?

I’ve had the njoy pure want a couple of months now and like it. Did not achieve the super-O but gave me mini-Os and good feelings.
I can fit the small end without any issues any time also no lube necessary thanks to its smooth surface. The big end i cannot fit yet.
Anyways, I want to extend my collection with an Aneros. I’m thinking about getting an Progasm since I like the shape and the size, but maybe it would be too big for me? I think I could fit it because the shape of the tip is formed for easier entry compared with just the round ball of njoy.
Or should I go smaller first with the Helix? I’m afraid this won’t do much for me because i usually stick the njoy inside quite far for a good feeling.
Or choose the middle ground with the Progasm Jr.?
I’m not particularly tall with 5’10”.
Thanks guys!

Had an amazing session last night, but need some advice

I had a FANTASTIC ride last night. I smoked a little (probably a tad more than I should’ve tbh lol ) and I had my emerald DS poppers ready. I inserted the MGX and turned on my side both legs bent. I could immediately feel a bit of pleasure. Started doing some VERY light contractions of the PC muscle only, and I feel a buzzing start and get more powerful with every contraction. Soon my prostate felt like it had swollen up to the size of a baseball and I was in ecstasy for about an hour before I decided to end things by jacking off. But it was a surreal experience after the initial few contractions I felt waves start come and go on their own. At one point I sat up to take a sip of water and a wave started when I was taking a drink lol

This was really amazing because I had started to lose faith in the aneros massager it hadn’t done much for me until last night, and I was starting to think it was some sort of hoax. But after what happened last night, I’ll be keeping it haha

The reason I say it might have been too much is because when I would get REALLY into it I would feel my heart pound and go a Lil lightheaded and this kinds scared me so I would tone it down a bit. Anyone experienced this before? Should I continue? Was I right to hold back?

Can achieve dry O, but how to reach hands-free ejaculation?

Hi there. Longtime lurker here. 29 years old and have been exploring prostate play for a decade. The first toy I ever bought was a pink vibrating Aneros when I was 19. They don’t even sell the model anymore, but it was far too big for my first toy. A couple years later, I experienced my first and only hands-free wet orgasm to date. I was riding my boyfriend’s dick and suddenly just came hands-free. I started looking into hands-free orgasms at that point and purchased the Aneros helix. I have had dry orgasms on a couple of occasions since then, maybe about 4 times, but I’ve never cum from it. Last night I got really close. My eyes were closed, and I had the most amazing orgasm. I could feel all my muscles contracting and my cock was pulsing. It felt really amazing. The feelings came and went for a couple of minutes, but I never opened my eyes because I didn’t want to be pulled out of my orgasm. Once the feelings died down, I opened my eyes expecting to see multiple loads of cum running down my cock, but there was just a small amount of precum.

I feel like I’m on the track to reach hands-free ejaculation, but I’m not sure what to do. Any tips or suggestions? Should I just keep going? It took me probably an hour to get to the point of dry orgasming and I was pretty tired at that point, but I really want to reach hands-free ejaculation.

Just a little heart broken

So after realising weed and poppers were a short cut to the Super O I’ve been working on calming techniques and recently managed several super O’s with just meditation breathing and the do nothing technique… I was thrilled and amazed. Ok it takes longer than vaping a little weed, but it’s awesome to do this stone cold sober.

And now my wife say’s she finds the whole thing ‘ick’ and thinks I don’t want her. Which is odd given we still have an active sex life and she’s previously been supportive of my quest or at worst neutral. Kind of sucks to find someone you hoped to share this with finds something so wonderful (to me) ‘ick’.

So we’ve talked. At length. She isn’t asking me to stop. But she doesn’t want me doing it when she’s home (which is a major block on play time as she’s almost always home). She doesn’t want me to talk about it either.

I view this as controlling behaviour and while I am not angry at her I am deeply saddened by her U turn. And quite hurt. I really don’t want to wind up resenting someone I’ve given 20 years of my life to – and I also don’t want to give up Prostate orgasms.

No sensation?

I’ve tried other prostate toys to no avail, but I thought this would be different. I’ve tried things and I don’t know that I’ve ever found my prostate. Things say it’s this little spot that’s really sensitive and you’ll know when you’ve found it, but I’m beginning to think I don’t have one.. I’ve been trying my aneros helix trident like they’ve said and noting. Anyone else have this problem?

Is this a me thing or is it just a coincidence?

I jerked off and ejaculate via penile orgasm couple hours (12 hours ish) before my aneros sessions and my sessions turn out to be good.

Some people here say to let the prostate fluid build up for an aneros session

Just weird that I find ejaculating and emptying out the fluid helps me to concentrate more on prostate orgasm (if i go on nofap for a period of time Im more tempted to penile orgasm instead)

Just curious if some of you feel the same way?

Self massage?

So. I have done prostate play for almost a year. I have three aneros toys and have tried the lelo Loki and Hugo. I’ve also listened to mindgasm.net along w the aneros. Done the aless muscle clenching exercises and all. So far, nada. So, I was thinking that I really need to try finding my prostate with my finger to recognize how it feels and the massage it myself without a toy to learn how it feels and the signals. Has anyone been through this journey before? Any recommendations on what’s the best position to do this since you really have to contort your arm and hand to just to get your middle index finger in. Any help would be appreciated!!!