Frottage

Def: “Frottage is a physical act that takes place between two people of either the opposite or the same sex involving the contact of genitals against genitals. The genitals of the two participants are interlocked as they rub against each other with the intent of arousing sexual desire. The genital stimulation produces increasingly pleasurable sensations; if it is done for significant enough time and the partners are sufficiently aroused, orgasm will result.”

J and I began our relationship doing vagina – penis frottage many years ago. I used to call it “buttering her muffin”. Sorry, what can I say …… I was 22 years old. I would lie on my back and she world straddle my hips and nestle my shaft lengthwise against her vagina so that my cockhead would rub on her clit. She became very adept at rubbing her clit on my shaft, eventually moving her clit to my cockhead when she was just about ready to cum. She loved to see me ejaculating thick streams of my cum on her erect clit. She was a master at timing our orgasms.

Weak week, strong end

Things work well for me on Sundays. Other days, not so much.

During sessions on post-work weekday evenings, after an initial jolt and a fast spazzy run-up to a pale, weak, anemic orgasm, I didn't get much going. Any waves that came around felt like two or three dissonant notes that warbled around but never quite synced into one pure tone. When I got that far, I either couldn't relax well, or I relaxed too well and fell asleep.

That's not entirely bad. A quick early evening nap is pretty satisfying in its own way.

I don't completely understand what my problem was on this Saturday, or previous Saturdays. Figure it should have been a good time for recreational activity, especially one like this that is, so to speak, open-ended. Perhaps because I see Saturday as my day to finish the previous five days of neglected tasks, that's carrying over into areas where it's not useful.

But Sunday was delightful. I get three sessions in, starting almost as soon as I awoke, and none of them was a real dud. Each session on its own feels good enough to make me come back for more. I can't yet achieve waves consistently, but even my inconsistently occurring and short-lived ones are astounding.

Frustration, Perseverance, Success! Finally had 10+ orgasms after months of failure.

After 3 months of experimenting, disappointments, and confusion, I’ve finally had myself an experience that justifies the cost of an arenos. Through my life I’ve been anally-oriented, with a fascination going as far back as middle school, developing post-college into a love of pegging. So when stumbling across the Aneros, I figured that it would not be that much of a jump for me to achieve a prostate orgasm. Expectations, of course, are not always realized. For the past 3 months I’ve used my arenos, almost weekly in an effort to achieve the elusive prostate orgasm, and I was admittedly close to giving it up.

Sure, I had experienced a few sessions of pleasure and intrigue, and the ending of such sessions with a lubed hand made for quite the powerful penile orgasm, but it never seemed to get to the point that I’ve been reading about online. But, reading the literature associated with it, it would seem that some men take months and months to get to that fabled point, so I figured that I’d just keep persevering – the sessions were enjoyable nonetheless.

Is weed a must?

I keep reading that many aneros orgasms are marijuana assisted. I've never smoked in my life, but if it really changes things that much I think it'll be worth a try. What's the experience with and without weed?

Crossing the finish line

Well, it finally happened. Session before last I had my first Super-O. I know I've speculated that I might have reached that before, but there has always been some doubt in my mind. This time, there is no doubt at all. It felt exactly like I've read on the forums and wiki. And it is as wonderful as I could have imagined. I actually ended up having three Super-Os that session, and two more the following session. Now that I know how to achieve one, I am hopeful that this will be a regular occurance. I am also excited to see what else lies in store for me and the Aneros.

-Since I've been using regular )non-rechargeable( batteries, I have been making more use of the 'light-steady' setting on the vibrator, as it's now plenty strong enough to achieve orgasms )including one of the Super-Os mentioned above(. I suspect part of that has to do with my prostate being more sensitive as well. But now that all three vibrations strengths are effective, it's making my sessions more enjoyable….and a bit longer.

-In addition to my Super-O breakthrough above, I also have my first a-less orgasm. I was driving in my car on the way to a night out during the week when it happened. It was small, so not terribly distracting, but still enjoyable. But I had to adjust the way I was sitting, because I really didn't want it to become too much of a distraction while driving. I've been feeling my prostate quite a bit while sitting in both my office and home computer chairs, though nothing beyond that.

Don’t know where to get it

So… I'm 17 and I am really interested in getting an aneros project. Ive done some anal play but I want something more substantial than a finger. The problem is I can't really go into a store and get one because you usually have to be older than 18. And I don't think I can ship it to my house because my parents usually get the packages while I'm at school and open them.

Ideas? Also which ones would you recommend I purchase? Programs? Helix? Etc?

Edging both with Aneros and also in Aless

Hi guys,

Most young males when they discover masturbation or are shown it by a buddy encounter one of the most thrilling experiences of their lives. The very first orgasm with ejaculation of semen is a profound experience which happens to most guys in their adolescence, although quite few young males experience dry orgasms even earlier! Masturbation is autoeroticism at its best because masturbation gets a male in touch with his genitals and his body in a most profound way.

However, most adolescent males live at home with their parents and siblings where there is little privacy. So they have "quickies," masturbation episodes in as short a time as possible. That sets them up for premature ejaculation later in life which may impair conjugational relations with the woman they may marry.

However, more experienced masturbators will prolong their sessions as long as possible in order to maximize the pleasure derived from stimulation of their genitals. They learn in many cases a technique called "edging." A guy will ride the edge or threshold of ejaculatory inevitability in order to achieve a bigger "bang" in his orgasmic and ejaculatory pleasure. He will cum big. At the same time, he develops a powerful technique to pleasure his wife first, before actually cumming himself.

With summer approaching here, dawn arrives earlier. This morning, I rose early and got some groceries from my neighborhood 7-Eleven arriving back at 6:15 a.m. Then I prepared my favorite Aneros models for my session which I began around 6:45 a.m.

First time, want an idea as to how far i got.

So I always liked the idea of anal play and in my teenage years I did some minor play with my fingers.

This year I [24] finally bought myself a dildo (7") for myself and really enjoyed the feeling it gave me when I would cum. I finally got around to dropping the extra money on an Aneros. I bought the progasm because I am 6'3" and its extra length was recommended for taller guys. The extra width was no issue for me (see dildo size).

I used it a few hours ago and followed the advice of starting on my side, but then I moved to my back. I was watching porn and focusing on deep belly breaths when I started to get tingly all over. Every time I breathed all the way in I could feel the pleasure in my prostate.

Every time I breathed in it felt like more and more of my ab muscles were contracting and locking in. My breathing became ragged and faster, and I was rocking my pelvis with my breathing. Then it intensified. All my muscles throughout my body started contracting, in partcular my eyes were forced shut and my hands locked up with my fingers extended (I could not make a fist or anything). I was starting to moan with my breaths and tried biting the sheet (neighbors). Then during an intense contraction the Progasm popped out. By the time I regained enough muscle control and popped it back in, the intense contractions had ended.
I kept breathing for a while and was getting large muscle quivering on my exhales, but nothing nearly as intense as the contractions. Felt great and ended with a Super T.

This time it did something inside my butt

After a couple lackluster sessions with my Helix Syn, which I got a few months ago, I was starting to lose motivation with my purchase. I'd always get a little but of pleasure out of it, but would always end up finishing myself off through masturbation.

After hearing about the Aneros again recently, i decided to give it another shot. I spent a good amount of time on my back, tickling away and try to relax before insertion. I couldn't get it in very far, even though I was expectant; it felt like pushing it further would be painful, so I resorted to getting on my side, and managed to push it up to the middle of the toy, after the larger of the bumps. I then focused of my breathing, trying to forget everything but that slightly cool surface inside of me. Eventually, I started feeling tiny movements, and began contracting to about 1/4th of my maximum (my PC and BC muscles are well developed so it wasn't a problem). Then I got into it and started to rock my pelvis forward, clenching around the Aneros harder until the sensation evoked the soreness of an orgasm, gradually increasing, and I kept going, definitely aware that my breathing had turned to sharp gasps timed with my rocking and contracting. I finally started shuddering all over, which I would classify as my first orgasm; it felt more like a wave overtaking me than a discharge experienced through a penile orgasm, but it still felt like it could be greater still. It was late, though, so after recuperating I finished off wth the same motion while masturbating. My penis felt completely secondary, but I still had a god damn mess to clean up afterwards.

First time in years, and first time ever

On May 3, I set to try the “do nothing” method. I lay on my back with knees up, and waited for whatever sensations might visit.

Doing nothing wasn't strenuous, but the minimal effort still got to me. My legs fatigued, so I stretched out and lay flat.

An odd, tiny tickle occurred somewhere in my abdomen. I didn't think anything of it, but it was intruding on my focus. Just to make it go away, I rotated my hips backward, raising my lower back a little off the bed. I held there for a second until the tickle dissipated, then flattened myself back out. The tickle returned, so I rotated my hips again, waited a moment, and flattened again. That repeated a couple more times. Then a most peculiar thing happened.

My hips kept up the slow rocking motion after I decided to stop. It was going at a frequency of about one cycle every ten seconds. I wasn't making it happen, but it was still happening. Of course, I could have made it stop, but I chose not to, mostly because things started feeling pretty good. The familiar tingle of early-stage orgasm had sneaked up on me, and it was growing. After a few more pumps, my pelvis spazzed and drove my cock upward, just like when a girl's on top and I'm thrusting it into her all the way to the hilt.

Holy hell! That was an orgasm!