News, and Thoughts

News:

I just ordered a black Progasm! hee, hee
I can't wait to try it. I should have it by tomorrow.
I ordered it in the black color because I find that my white MGX and Helix have gotten stains on them that will not completely remove with normal washing. To me it's the same logic that goes with wearing white underwear. Why bother when you can just use a more appropriate color.

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Thoughts:

I've been noticing some of the changes in me since I've started getting pleasurable results from my Aneros sessions back in October. What strikes me as the most interesting, is that I no longer have this need or desire to masturbate frequently like I used to. And looking at porn on the Internet does not interest me as much as it used to. And I'm ok with all of this. A very different change in me. It's like I've been lifted above the "baseness" of those habits and/or desires.

Even with the imagined fantasies I use during Aneros sessions. I tend to prefer thinking up more stuff that displays affection and closeness with a loved one, rather than more nasty raw images/ideas.

Wow! Back to loving the Helix!

Hey People,

I had another session tonight. I decided I would try the Helix only tonight, as lately I've been into trying to relax, focus on breathing, and just breathing in general through whatever happens. Sort of the do nothing/meditative style of session. At least initially. That seems to be just the beginning part, and then from there it gets really hot and heavy! LOL

But I'm definitely liking the Helix all over again. I feel like I can get a better prostrate massage with less effort than the MGX. Although I do miss the ribbed stem on the MGX for the wonderful anal stimulation it provides.

Within a few minutes of insertion I started to have involuntary contractions. Being so used to the slimmer MGX lately. The Helix made me feel really full and snug back there. I had a whole bunch of really nice feeling mini-O's! Yay! I think I'm starting to understand what other users here have said about feeling like they are circling the drain towards super-O's. But haven't quite made it down the center yet.

newbee – question to others

My first experience is pleasent. Insertion is pleasent. Contractions are pleasent but no non-ejaculatory result. I feel like I would like to try every night. I am afraid if I go at this every night with too much trying, I am going to miss it. How often does a newbee try, once every two days or so? Is there a typical road to sucess to attain the non-ejaculatory response? Any comments or help is appreciated.

Side issue – is there a way to chat real time with others that use the Aneros?

Thanks,

plforino

Edging, and More Edging

This is a first. I actually started to write a blog entry on my great session from last night, but thinking about it gave me a buzz — so I had to have another quick session. When it's good, it's good!

But I'm getting ahead of myself. About three weeks ago, I discovered the joy of holding back. I was having a crappy, stressful week and couldn't jerk off for a while. By the time I was ready for the MGX on Friday it was 4 or 5 days since my last ejaculation. Although having a few dud sessions lately got me down, something stirring down there was telling me this one would be different. And it was. Mini-os, dry-os, Cheeri-os and just about every other kind of -o for about two hours with very little down time. The difference this time was that I was trying to re-create the fantastic super-T experience I wrote about a couple of blog entries ago. I know that Aneros tells users NOT to stimulate the penis during a session, but I've been getting fantastic results from gently rubbing or stroking the underside of the penis, then concentrating on anal contractions as the penis hardens. Let the penis soften a bit, then repeat. This sends me into beyond blissful waves of pleasure which are probably classified as mini-os (but not quite super-os, not that I'd know). At it goes on and I get closer to traditional orgasm, these waves get more and more intense. It's amazing.

Mistress Aneros MGX is my new love! :D

Hey People,

I just had a fantastic session! I started with the MGX and got some incredible sensations from it. So I thought I'd switch to the Helix, which is the model I normally prefer. But it wasn't doing anything for me. The MGX is the model I like the most now. It seems that the ribbed stem provides exquisite anal stimulation. And because it is slimmer, and not so aggressively curved, it is much more agile, and moves in and out me very easily when the involuntary anal contractions really get going. I believe the term for what it is doing is auto-fucking.

It seems I have started to figure out what brings on mini and dry-O's without it turning into a super-T. Here's what I figured out. Until my prostrate is sufficiently aroused and swollen. My penis is ultra sensitive, and prone to erections. So I have to avoid stimulating it. I tried laying on my back again. But the position is not the most ideal for me because the sensations are not as intense, it requires much more muscles strength to flex my PC and anal muscles, and involuntary anal contractions don't seem to occur as easily or as intensely as on my side. So I switched back to laying on my side, and made sure not to allow my lower torso to twist crotch side down, so to eliminate the majority of problems of inadvertently stimulating my penis.

First time

I didn't really know what to expect. This was a new and intriguing thing for me, and I was anxious to expand my horizons into something totally new and different. I have been a pretty avid Fleshlight user for at least three years, using it about once a week.

Oh, BTW, I'm married, in my 50's, and, no, wife doesn't know about my toys, any of them. I plan to keep it that way.

Anyway, for my first time, I was home alone and prepared my place on top of the warm water bed. I had the impression that the whole thing was going to be much messier than it was. In fact, using the Fleshlight is a lot messier than using the aneros. With great anticipation and moderate anxiety, I lubed up the toy and found it was pretty easy to insert. I was amazed how once it's half way in it just seems to pull itself the rest of the way in. My heart was pounding, and I tried to lay as still as possible for 15 minutes. Time seemed to stand still. I kept looking at the clock after what seemed like 5 minutes, and only 1 minute had gone by. I had read the forums and wiki, so I wasn't really expecting any great miracles the first time, and nothing miraculous happened. It felt good, though, and after 45 minutes, I decided to stop and wait until next time.

Just when you thought…….

I am just amazed how different each session can be. Today I was just taken to places that were wonderful. The deeper I go the more relaxed I seem to become. Some of these super O experiences can last 10 or 15 minutes and then bam! another round begins. What an amazing experience feeling my prostate firm up and become engorged only to give me a wild ride where I can just hold on!! Thanks again Aneros!

New positions and techniques

I was able to have a session last night. Although I had to change up my technique to try and avoid having hands free super-T's. I want super-O's instead! 😀

I laid on my back with my legs straight and spread apart a bit. I find this to be a better position for me as the position with my legs bent and feet flat that a lot of guys use here, the Helix does not touch my prostrate very well. And it also makes it more difficult for my anal muscles to manipulate the Helix.

I found out rather quickly that my penis is highly sensitized during Aneros sessions, even when flaccid. So the bed covers became an issue. They had to be pulled down so nothing would touch my penis. But then I found that even the movement of my flaccid penis flopping all around as I convulsed caused too much sensation in that area. So I put on my underwear, and that seemed to work. But it left shea butter stains on the backside of them. 🙁

I can't wait to try another session on Friday. 😀

Tried Shea Butter!

Keep trying new things, right? After a wonderful Vegas vacation and 5 aneros free days, I thought I’d give one of the forum suggestions a try. Thanks to Love_is’s fine description of Shea Butter usage I went out and bought some. Found some 100% pure Shea Butter at the local Whole Foods. I dug out about a teaspoon full and shaped two little balls about the size of raisons and stuffed them in manually. I then spread a thin coating over the Helix and it slid in easily. I even tasted a little Butter first – if you can’t eat it, you shouldn’t insert it. I don’t think it would be very appetizing on toast but it didn’t gag me either.

I had been using Maximus lube for the last couple of months with fine results, but let me tell ya, the Shea Butter is the schnizzel.

Some comparisons:
Maximus is liquid, Shea Butter is solid at room temp – like cold butter in the refrigerator.
Maximus disappears after two hours, Shea Butter (just a small amount) lasted the entire 2.5 hours session and was still going strong!
Maximus is better right off the get go, I gave Shea Butter an extra ten minutes to soften.
– I usually get involuntaries quickly with Maximus, took much longer with the Butter.
– Though one times usage is not enough to form a qualitative session sample, I got no gas with the Butter. Maximus, maybe because I’m injecting 4 ml. of the stuff, can bring on a reaction. The Butter never mad my stomach flutter. It was a very gastric event free session. This, and the long lasting lube overcome the slower start in my mind.

Lack of arousal and interest

So tonight was a scheduled night for an Aneros session. I'm not feeling at all aroused or into even trying. I'm not sure if it is either from my onsetting depression, or my marathon four ejaculations on Sunday consisting of three hands free super-T's and one via masturbation. Could be both. I'm not all that worried about it. But I am a little bit bummed to not be getting the practice in. Well, I'm not going to force anything. So I'll wait until I'm interested and aroused.