Tag: Breathing

My Second Tryst

Part1
I obtained my Tempo by winning it here on the Forum. HIH was holding a contest some ten or twelve years ago. The challenge was to write what Aneros meant to you and how it changed you; the prize was a new Aneros Syn, which had just been introduced. I was urged by several guys in the Forum that read my blog to submit my personal story. I wrote my story and submitted it. To my surprise I won. When I was notified, I asked the company if I might get a Tempo instead of the Syn. Tempo had been out for a while and I wanted one; I had not gotten around to buying one yet. They agreed.

A few weeks later my Tempo arrived in the mail. Later that week I tried it. It was an instant success. It was vastly more effective and responsive than my Eupho which was my favorite Aneros device until then. From that first insertion my Tempo was my go to Aneros; now it’s all I use.
At that same time I did the contest I was communicating with a fellow Aneros user about meeting for a shared session and more. He was my second hook up with a bicurious married guy for sex. My first foray into M-M sex was quick and unceremonious. We were both too nervous to really explore the mental and full physical dimensions of our desires. this time it would be different. Also this time we would use Aneros together. Read more »

First HFWO

So I’m a beginner since I just started a month ago and like most beginners, I grew frustrated. I watched the mindgasm videos (highly recommended) and could feel something and get p shivers but that was it. When inserting the helix trident it would just feel like something was in there but nothing else, kind of uncomfortable especially standing up.

I have an open mind and if you’re a beginner you might know what I’m talking about. However, it happened today completely unexpected right after waking up. I read about how you’re less likely to orgasm if you’re wanting it. It felt like being in a half awake dreamy like state is the perfect opportunity.

I also read that edibles make a huge difference so I took two THC pills and I just laid back with my feet flat getting comfortable under the covers. I started get into a meditative state where all I could feel were my arms feeling heavy. I started focusing on breathing for 15-20 minutes while doing nothing, just breathing. Once the edibles started to kick in a bit I mentally contracted my PC muscle and held it. I started to actually feel my prostate. Read more »

Where Do I Go from Here?

I posted a few months ago about my first super-O ([here](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/noes6w/supero_induced_by_nipples_and_assisted_by/)) and I had some questions about my progress since.

As I noted in that post, under the influence of a marijuana edible and with an Aneros and manual nipple stimulation, I managed to have a continuous rolling orgasm that took the form of pleasurable muscle contractions starting in my feet and moving up my legs all the way to my head and back down again. At no point did I ejaculate, but I masturbated the conventional way during that orgasm and it felt incredible. Since then, there have been developments I wanted to run by the community here:

* I have been able to get to this state of muscle contractions running through my body with an Aneros and nipple stimulation without the use of edibles, but it’s not anywhere near as pleasurable when I’m sober. Is that normal? I imagine that it is, but that it could change with time and become more pleasurable.
* My first super-O moved up my body starting with my feet, and the feeling that began there is unmistakable. Now I occasionally get that feeling in my feet when I’m at work or sitting on my couch, and it’s accompanied by the urge to give myself another super-O. Is this rewiring, and what does it portend?
* I still have yet to activate my prostate so that it becomes a pleasure zone when I bottom, ride my dildo, or use my Aneros. Initially, my nipples were the same way, but then they came to life in a permanent way when I did acid back in June 2020. I plan to do the same sometime soon but focus on my prostate instead. Has anyone had any luck doing that themselves?
* I’ve recently been reading about the vagus nerve and its role in orgasm, particularly clitoral and prostate orgasm. What do people here think/know about how it relates to prostate play specifically? There are techniques for stimulating it such as holding your breath for a while, which may be why autoerotic asphyxiation is as popular as it is, but are there others, specifically ones that involve massaging some part of the body or relate directly to the prostate?

Sucking in Abs / Tummy pleasure

Anyone have a feeling of sucking in / tensing your tummy / ab area. It feels good but I feel like I stop breathing and hold my breathe doing it and it gets very exhausting also.

Not sure if its totally wrong and you should be relaxing more.

It’s almost the feeling of a huge wave of pleasure building in the lower abdomen, but then it tries to move above my tummy but then I run out of breath due to not breathing and it goes away.

Anyone had any problems like this and ways to move past it? It definitely is me suckling in my tummy while doing it and pleasure building behind it.

New user struggling with patience/focus

Hi! I got my Helix Syn V about a month ago and have done a handful of sessions. However they have all gone like this:

I start watching some porn until I’ve been aroused for several minutes. I insert the aneros, lie back, and focus on my breathing and sensations for about 10 minutes, then begin to play with contractions.

If I turn the porn off at this point, I just get sleepy and find it impossible to focus.

If I leave the porn on, I get dick-horny and run out of willpower within half an hour, finishing myself off with a traditional orgasm.

Did any of you experienced users struggle with this starting out? What did you change going forward to help with it? TIA

I’m soo sorry guys but I have to post again

I just got an orgasm without the aneros and it happened during the day in my chair!

I was feeling horny the whole day, so I thought of training my pc muscles. I’m surprised but I felt a lot of pleasure just doing this, so I kept going and going and going.

I was breathing hard and my body was twitching but I had to keep it discreet. I was also moaning, but I had to keep it extremely low, this was my biggest struggle. The same p waves came over me many times until it just became way too intense, the moaning just got louder and louder, I seriously had to keep it down real bad, I think that my brother might have heard, and maybe even my dad 😓 this went on for maybe 30 minutes of constant pleasure.

I was light headed and my body was exhausted, I was surprised coz when I looked down I didn’t realise my pants were completely wet like a puddle, I was like wtf? I needed to change my pants straight away.

Still can’t believe that even happened, this aneros journey just keeps getting better and better. My brain feeling kinda numb too

Ok I think I did something

Used the aneros again.

This time an hour in and I was twitching and shaking with waves of pleasure, these were just happening on its own.

Then maybe 30 minutes later nothing was happening too much, only felt pleasures or tension building up inside. Then it happened. It’s not just some intense p wave, and it wasn’t like a BOOM either 😂 I went to the floor and kneeled against my bed, I prepared a makeshift gag to hopefully quiet down the moaning.

I just let the motions happen from here. I was breathing hard, body twitching all over the place, omg the pleasure just hits soo gawd damn nicely. This went for like a whole 5 minutes, then a 1 minute pause then it happened again and again and again. I loved every bit of it, and the gag wasn’t helping too much, I had to press a pillow against my face.

I didnt want to make this sound like some porn read but I felt the wetness drip down my leg dude. And by this point it was hard to breath in the gag so I decided to fukin take it off, and i just moaned soo loud and didn’t give a shit anymore, I just lost it. One bit went on for a whole 10 or somethin with me just moaning so goddamn hard, seriously couldn’t help it. My ass contracted soo hard it popped out, and even after it popped out I was still still twitching and moaning for a few seconds after 😂 Read more »

Some crazy as p wave or somethin

I used the aneros again last night. And it was the most intense session Ive had. I didn’t get any orgasms from it but I got a lot of intense pleasure which is good.

I was like 2 hours in I felt myself twitching and shaking like crazy, breathing hard af, my muscles where squeezing hard and then relaxing then squeezing again, this happens fast it all happening on its own. My body was super tired. And waves of pleasure going across my whole body, I was seriously dripping wet. It was like 5 mins of constant hard twitching and faded over 10 mins or more. I tried to relax but my body just wanted to twitch. This felt soo good.

But what interest me the most was that I just couldn’t stop moaning, I just couldn’t help but moan so goddam loudly, I was embarrassed hoping nobody heard me. I’m usually a quiet guy, but this helix trident is a dangerous weapon which caused me to go absolutely wild. I’m almost a little afraid but excited to use it again.

I think I got to this point by abstaining for 1 or 2 days, the night before I used the aneros but decided to not masturbate traditionally, this helped. But last night I was too horny after the aneros and I broke the 2 day streak. I think if I kept abstaining even after using the aneros for longer, then maybe I can finally reach an orgasm

Great session – slowly getting there..

Yesterday, I was feeling in the mood, installed the Aneros Helix Trident and put on some binaural beats.

I relaxed, did some nipple play, and within a few minutes, I started feeling tingles and muscle shaking.

Fast forward 30 minutes, and I was a shivering mess. Not orgasming, exactly, but involuntary shaking all over, and the Aneros was – for lack of a better word – going on almost full auto mode. It felt amazing. Not Super-O, I am quite sure (not that I’ve had any yet), and not fully up to speed with a penile orgasm either. But the prostate was pulsing a bit and I definitely did not want it to stop. Pleasurable and intense.

Tried to relax into the feelings, and every time they subsided, it was possible to restart a new “cycle” after a few minutes of deep breathing, light contractions and a bit of nipple play. Kept going for far too long and I feel quite tired today.

Anyway: No drugs/weed/poppers, and the beats was from YouTube, creator is called SSEM Binaural-sexual Stimulation Erotic Meditation (look it up). Lots of playlists, and it really worked (for me at least). Kept my hands off the hardware at all times – and did not finish, either.

I feel that I am finally moving in the right direction.

Thanks for all the tips in this forum, BTW 👍🏻

Edit: Grammar

Just a p wave? Idk

I used the helix trident for a while now.

Last night I was using the aneros, maybe about an hour or two in I get subtle twitches and heavy breathing that last for a minute, I’m guessing that’s a p wave.

But then later on I start breathing really hard, my whole body is twitching really intensely, I’m squeezing into the pillow and I’m also moaning, surprisingly.

I didn’t feel an explosion of an orgasm though like the traditional way, but the whole feeling felt really full bodied, felt really good, it was like a long orgasm, kinda, but not fully.

This last for maybe 5 to 10 minutes? Or longer? I felt relaxed after and very out of energy but still horny

Was it just a p wave?