Tag: Concentration

Not quite getting it…

TL;DR:
* Bland session.
* Some P-Waves here and there.
* 40 minutes of no nipple stimulation, didn't change much.
* Still no sensations from anus/prostate.
* Possible p-tab problems.
* Shaking is nice but doesn't add to anything.
* P-Waves when staying completely static.
* Need to concentrate the mind on more specific feelings for longer.

Yesterday I finally moved into my new place for my final year of University.
Before venturing off to do so, I decided to give another session a go in the morning. Switched from MGX over to Progasm like before but didn't get the same surprise as before. Mild and weak session as a whole.

Recently I feel I haven't been understanding the core of Aneros use – stemming from the sensations of anal and prostate. No noticeably nice feelings come from either, which to me is a little jarring since I'm certain most users with good sessions and usage report such a case happening. So I want to work a little on this field and see where things can improve.

With that said, this morning I gave the MGX a go! This time I wanted to go for roughly 40 minutes of 'doing nothing' – particularly no nipple stimulation. I recently felt that nipple stimulation has become too distracting due to the overpowering vibes, almost on par with penile counterpart. I wanted to see if anal and prostate pleasures could emerge and be sensed without such. Read more »

Experiences of a Self Deluded Fool

So. I decided it's time to tell my story.

I am 18 years old, I feel young in this community, most of what I've read has been from older gentlemen. Anyhow. I have a very high sex drive, as I imagine most 18 year old men do, and I quickly found masturbation became stagnant and boring. The first time I experimented with anal stimulation was a couple years ago. I used my fingers at first, then an old dildo I'd found in a box of old stuff in our garage. I imagine it was my mother's. (don't worry, I washed the thing like 20 times by hand, then ran it through the dishwasher twice.) It was okay, but nothing great. I messed around and explored my anal cavity for about three months, but then gave it up from lack of explosive feelings. I never told anyone about this.

About a month ago, I told my girlfriend. She's the most amazing person.. She's what I live for. I knew she wouldn't judge. I knew she'd not even bat an eye. The only reason I hadn't brought it up sooner was simply because it didn't occur to me. So we had a talk. Then she offered to give me a prostate massage. I eagerly accepted. And I mean eagerly! So we got naked, and she proceeded to give me a blowjob. She then inserted a lubed finger, and got to work. It was, up til then, the most intense orgasm I've ever experienced. We did that a few more times, had sex afterwords once or twice, and during this process I was researching online. I came across this site almost immediately, and was impressed. I read about 100 testimonials before I came to the decision I'd buy a Helix. So me and my girlfriend went down to the local sex store! "Castle: Knights and Damsels welcome!" Read more »

A New Decade

At the start of a new decade I find myself wavering between two extremes to understand the Aneros Effect (1). Is but a catalyst, eventually this phenomenon of increasing / developing levels of body / mind bliss becomes self-sustaining without the catalyst – which begs the question what exactly is happening – is the prostate and the complexity of nerve endings once massaged by Aneros appropriately or eventually a learned set of subtle muscle contractions (analogous to riding a bike, kind of muscle memory auto-take over) doing the equivalent of sticking probes in the brain at the appropriate location and feeling you've encountered Universal mind – the prostate being in Artform's sense some kind of centre to a second brain and the probe being literally the Aneros. This is the perspective of a kind of pragmatic biology explanation.
(2). Is the Aneros a technological amplifier, a tuner in for the human being to a Universally accessible continuous orgasmic / bliss energy frequency and represents some kind of physic breakthrough for everyone on the planet?

Perhaps best just to go on the journey 🙂

So Artform suggested blogging about my experience of combining attempts to "click amygdalae forward" and usage of Aneros (focussed at present on use of Peridise advanced set, just ordered Eupho). This started on early morning of 30th December 2009 – along with the combination two other factors may have been playing a part here – approaching full moon and having a soup at lunchtime with corriander (Tiphereth tip on increasing libido here – http://www.aneros.com/forum/tips-to-increase-libido-t4207.html – ingestion of a few corriander seeds I have felt in the past amplifies orgasmic activity). Read more »

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Went to the gym. I had the progasm in my bag. I was thinking about putting in at the gym. After a good work out, the boys and I decided to go out. After I got dressed, I snuck into one of the stalls and put it in. I started feeling it immediatly. It was a long walk to the car. It felt great every step of the way. When I got into the car and sat down, wow. The push of the seat sent the progasm deeper and it felt great! I started gyrating on the car seat and the movement really enhanced the feel. I started squeezing as I was moving around. ugh! I started to climb. I pull out the car and drove to the bar. All along the way I was starting to build. We spent over an hour eating and drinking. The whole time I was rocking in the chair. Nobody noticed. It was getting hard to carry on a conversation and concentrate. The progasm was diving me nuts. The orgasms started to slowly build. My participation in talking started to slow down. It was time to leave and now I had to drive home. As I was driving the push of the car seat and the bumps in the road along with gyrating started to send me off. The building started to climb. I was half way home and then it started. I squeezed and the O was starting. The building got stronger and I had to maintain control of the car. The O kept climbing as I stopped at a red light. All of a sudden I was convulsing in the car. I hit the super O and wasn't home yet. I kept squeezing and gyrating and holy shit! I kept going and going and queezing and building. I didn't want to stop. I was floating when finally I reached home. I went to attack the wife. She knew I had it in me. She played with it for a while giving me more intensity. Finally I exploded and collasped on the bed. She asked me if I felt better.

Less is More

Session 2 – Thurs 29 Oct

Began with the primary aim of exploring movement of the Helix and Progasm – any other experiences that came bye would be a bonus.

Firstly with Helix and laying on tummy. Trying to push it out and then draw it back in – used a little manual assistance to get the feel of it moving out and, in particular, firstly how far it had moved
and secondly how far it could be pushed out and still be pulled in again (ie where was the point of no return). I found this point when the Helix was rather explosively expelled!!

After this exercise and some practice at moving the device aroud and experiencing a range of prostate stimulation I rested for awhile and started contracting my buttock muscles. This began some involuntary contractions – a new experience and it stopped after a short time, but was enough to wet my appetite to try again a little later. Well WOW, it progressed from involuntary buttock activity to include involuntary thrusting like motions and as the involuntary muscular activity came to a fairly abrupt end there was pulsing of the perineum region like that of an ejaculation, but I did NOT ejaculate. I guess this was my first dry-O – a very pleasant and unexpected at this eary stage of using the aneros. New experience 1 for the session!! Read more »

The Driving Force

Last night I had an experience, which was new, although I’m sure I have been close to this on a few occasions before.

For most of the past month I have been experimenting with the use of the Eupho and the Maximus, so last night’s session was the first with the Helix since the end of last month. By way of preparation, I inserted a small plug of unrefined Shea Butter into my anus and followed that with an eye-dropper filled with ‘Wet Stuff’. I also covered the Helix with a thin coating of Shea butter.

Soon after beginning my session, and having rested for about a quarter of an hour after insertion, I became aware that the Helix was driving muscles deep inside my rectum, that were pulling quite forcibly on the device and literally pushing it into my prostate. There was almost no effort on my part, but within seconds, I could feel what I am now sure was a prostate orgasm that continued without variation for about two minutes. A conscious effort was required to come down from that state, but as soon as I relaxed, the process began again. This happened repeatedly over the next half hour.

I had been lying on my right side, so decided to take a break by rolling over onto my left side. Within about three or four minutes, the whole process began again. If anything, the orgasms seemed even stronger than before. Following about half an hour on my left side, I moved again, this time onto my back. Lo and behold, within a few minutes, it started up again, although this time the orgasms didn’t feel quite as strong. Read more »

Where I'm coming from

10/24/2009 3:20:35 PM

Ten years ago I bought an Aneros. At the time, I believe they had only one model, what’s now called the “Classic.” I read the directions and experimented with it over a period of weeks, but I had no success. It was trouble to fool with, since you had preparation and clean-up time involved, and that had always steered me away from any kind of anal play, so I eventually left it in the nightstand drawer. Every couple of years I’d pull it out and try it again, but I never made any progross toward the special sexual thrills it was supposed to convey.

In the past year, however, I’ve begun to enjoy anal play more and more. I’ve gotten over some of my aversion to it on hygienic grounds, and I’ve begun to add light touching or insertion of fingers to my masturbation routine fairly often. Then something I read somewhere made me think that prostate massage just might be beneficial for my erratic PSA scores. No looming health crisis, thankfully, but a urologist who worries about me (bless his heart). And I remembered the massage therapist who once told me I carried a lot of tension around my anus. So I thought again of the long-disused Aneros, and I fished it out and went to the web to read about it again, since I’d long ago lost the directions. Read more »

Another step

So it seems that I've moved on from what I was doing with rubbing my penis lightly during my Aneros sessions to achieve dry-O's. It was a useful experience. But now I find that it is too much of a distraction from the prostate sensations. And in my more current sessions seemed to become too much like edging.

So my last session I did not do any penis stimulation, and just concentrated on the prostate and energy sensations while deep breathing and relaxing as much as possible. I would hold that slight voluntary PC contraction that hits the sweet spot of pleasure on the prostate, and concentrate on growing that sensation through putting my attention on it, and also thinking really exciting fantasies.

I had enough moderate success with it to think it is a good path to follow for a while. No orgasms. But really nice pleasure that I liked. And there was very little distraction from sensations in my penis as it hardly even got erect at all. Which thankfully did not give me any desire to stimulate it. I felt my prostate swell with arousal quite a bit. And it was a much more calm session. Less movement, more concentration on relaxing. Very meditative like. Even though I still had smaller involuntary anal contractions occurring. I can now understand what other users have mentioned about interfering with the process by contracting to hard. As I noticed that as I held that slight PC contraction, as the pleasure increased, it was far to easy to unknowingly contract harder, which seemed to have the effect of making the pleasure disappear. That was difficult to be aware of and not do. It will take some practice. Read more »

Lube change!

So I was running low on my standby lube KY Jelly, so I dropped into my local sex shop and was looking for a new tube. But I couldn't find KY and not wanting to leave empty handed, I bought version of Astroglide.

I was a little disappointed that I couldn't find the KY but I am now a convert. While the KY was thick and stayed in place, its got nothing on the slipperiness of the Astroglide I bought. Its really thin but man it makes everything slippery.

It also lead to an excellent session. It was like night and day compared to the KY. I was getting great feeling right off the bat with new lube and things just seemed to happen effortlessly. With the KY I would have to concentrate more to get the same experience.

I wasn't really trying it was just happening the progasm was rubbing all over the place and I was just trying to take it all in rather than concentrating to find the feelings like before.

Soooo, now I guess I realize everyone's concern on the forum on finding the optimal lube. This made a huge difference for me. Now I'm gonna have to look for something that's just as slippery (or more ;)) and a little bit thinker. Research time!

Undies

So I went out and purchased some speciality underwear that I could feel sexy in. I think it was a great way to feel good about yourself know you got some awesome underwear on.

They felt so great to wear that I was getting pretty horny just from wearing them. And if I pulled them up tight against my butt my butt started to ache for a session. I loved it.

So I proceeded to go home and have an awesome session with my Progasm.

I was getting great feelings right from the get go and was able to have a silent (no vocal sound) Super-O.

I was lying down on my stomach and I started to feel as though I was going into a different/lower state of consciousness. Every other thought, concern and feeling faded away and there was just this point in my minds eye to concentrate on. It was just the prostate and it being rubbed. I just silently concentrated on the feeling and let it continue. I was just content to have this feeling and let it continue, I couldn't even think of doing anything different.

Eventually I faded back to reality and breathed a sigh of relief for such a wonderful experience.

I also proceeded to jack-off normally and ended up with a very powerful penile orgasm. I actually shot up past my head onto the pillow which doesn't happen often. Very satisfying. Read more »