What if the wall is too thick?

I’ve tried many many times to find my prostate by fingering myself and using the Helix Syn. I have never felt it because the wall dividing the prostate is quite too thick and strong. I use the Helix Syn, perhaps it’s too small or is actually touching the right spot but I can’t feel anything? I’m debating on whether or not to get the Progasm because it’s a bit larger so that it can push more onto the wall diving the prostate. I do believe that I’ve found the prostate though with my finger if I push hard enough on the wall, because when I do I get a feeling or urination. At least now I know I might need a toy that can push hard enough onto the wall between my prostate.

Also, I’ve stuck my finger in there as well while my Helix Syn was in me. Attempting to push the head of the Syn forward towards my penis attempting to stimulate the prostate. I do believe I felt something? But now I know that the Syn might be too small for me

Made a breakthrough! Need input on what step I am at on the journey!

Hey y’all!

I had a major breakthrough yesterday. After years of trying, I finally decided to just put in my aneros (the Helix Syn) and lay down while I catch up on an erotic graphic novel I have been reading. Within 30 minutes the aneros was knocking on my prostate and I was feeling tingles all over coming in waves through my body. It would happen again and again, and felt fantastic! After about an hour of this the need to cum became too great and I finished off the traditional way. However, later that night while laying down I suddenly started having the waves hit me again. It sounds weird, but the only way I can describe it is as if my prostate and lower abdomen were yawning. It felt wonderful! It even happened on the way to work the next morning!

I am curious, have I reached the super-O or am I still on the path to discovery? I will continue to enjoy my aneros regardless, and the sensations were great, but they weren’t the ‘spiritual epiphany’ described in other posts.

Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

Exercise to improve normal orgasm

Hi guys,

I was wondering if the aneros can also help with normal p-in-v orgasms? I have no problems with getting aroused or erections, but it takes a real long time to come when I have sex with my fiance. Possibly this could be due to being circumcised or death-grip-masturbation techniques. I often have the feeling that I'm just about to come during sex, but then at the final moment it's like I lose it. This can go one for a few cycles until I finally orgasm.

Do you think the aneros can help with this? Maybe just by training the pelvic muscle. I'm not really interested in multiple orgasm via prostate, just looking for a way to have better sex with my SO. Any particular set of exercises with the aneros helix syn would be highly appreciated. Thanks!

I think Aneros is just not compatible with my anatomy…

So I started off with a Helix Syn as my first Aneros and hated it with passion. No matter what I did all it resulted in was a sharp pain.

So I moved on to a progasm. I figured since I enjoy plug and dildos I would have a better time with it due to its size. And I was right, as soon as I put it in it was as comfortable as could be. But I have run into another issue.

I just dont think my anatomy is compatible with Aneros toys. While the progasm is comfortable to the point where it will feel like its not even there at all lies the issues. It feels kinda nice when initially sliding it in but after its in I have ZERO sensations at all. To the point where if im sitting there not touching myself I will eventually go soft and thats it, and nothing will happen and eventually the lube starts drying and removal becomes uncomfortable.

So i decided to try willing it around. Nothing. However I did finally find something. I have to pull the toy out by 1/3rd or so and push firmly forward with the tip of it. I found a spot that I can only assume is my prostate. Grinding against that spot gives the slight sensation of needing to urinate in the tip of my member. Continuously working this spot just ends up with drops of semen leaking out but no real sensation other than the urination feeling. I would have kept going longer but I again run into the lube drying and not long after that really cramped hands/wrists. Letting it go and naturally settle into place leaves me again with the no sensations at all. I think it just pulls into me too deep.

A little help

I've been using the helix syn for a few months now, but tonight was the first time I used the 'do nothing' approach. After a while I felt my muscles clench and the syn was pulled in. It felt amazing, but I couldn't hold it for long. Any tips on how to last longer – I think I'm close to the super-O. Thanks guys.

Ridiculously high heart rate + other questions…

I've had my Helix Syn for about a year now but only just now started to use it regularly. I'm progressing pretty quickly and feel like I'm getting in tune with the subtleties, sensations and how to react to them. I feel like I can just get to below the crest and no further so I will keep trying and listening to my body more. But I have a few questions:

-When I begin to feel waves and respond to them my heart begins to pound harder and faster than it ever has in my life. I've never experienced such intense heart pounding, in fact it's a little bit distracting during the session. I haven't seen much about this here but wanted to see if it happens to others or if it might go away as I get more used to it.

-Tips to maintain focus during the waves? I try hard to keep my mind clear and focus on my body during the waves and build ups but frequently random unrelated thoughts pop into my head and throw me off. Any tips to avoiding this? I smoke weed before the session which seems to help me go to 'another world' during my sessions.

-I don't feel the P-tab much. I've found that using my finger to put pressure on the perineum has helped a ton and increases the force that the Aneros puts on the prostate. I can feel the contractions very easily here, and try to respond to them but I wasn't sure if this is a best practice. Could this mean that I might need to upgrade to a progasm? I like the stronger force much more but would love to keep my hands away from the area.

Would it be a noticeable ‘upgrade,’ to move from the Aneros “Helix” to the “Helix Syn?”

Is there any value in upgrading from the Aneros "Helix" to the "Helix Syn?"

A bit of background; I've never yet experienced what I would call a "Super-O" or a "Hands-Free O" (despite spending a fortune on prostate toys of varying intensity and size). I am still holding out hope for 'someday,' and trying to remain patient and positive.

That said, I do like to change things up, once in a while! Variety is the spice of life. In that regard; is the Helix Syn noticeably better or more comfortable than the "classic" Helix, or would it not make a noticeable difference?

10+ orgasms in one session (follow-up)

I didn’t count them, but I just had more than 10 orgasms in one session with my Aneros Helix SYN and it was awesome!

This is a follow-up to my first post and my second post.

Experiments with coconut oil

After my last post I started to experiment with coconut butter but I didn’t like it very much and soon returned to water based lube. I may try coconut oil again in the future. This tip from anerothon was helpful. I can recommend to prepare some scoops in the fridge or freezer. Keeps the fingers from getting too sticky. Using the freezer may be too cold, be careful!

No progress

Since my last post I tried multiple sources for audio stimulation. I tried some moaning from /r/gonewildaudio because I like to hear moaning (even though I don’t really moan myself). But at some point I always lost my horniness. I also listened to different binaural beats. The ones with deep bass worked best. But sometimes it didn’t work at all. I often got a bit frustrated and changed the audio in the middle of my session. This didn’t help at all. I decided to start over with the do nothing technique and this time I would do it right. I needed to relax.

back in action

As expected the holidays meant a full house and little time or privacy for a session. I also learned that alcohol is a deal buster. The one or two times I was able to try a session was after a night of partying, not excessive but enough. Sessions usually started out good but quickly faded and often I fell asleep. In fact i made myself sore after falling asleep with the helix in and removing it about 4 hours later. I had to give it a rest for a week. Had the chance to be alone and sober the other afternoon and lubed up and relaxed for a session. Still no big O for me but learning along the way.The first 30 min. are the most pleasurable for me at this point. I am now experiencing multiple pulsating sensations in my prostate as my body adjust to the Aneros being in. After about thirty min. it subsides and not much else happens. I then try different positions and some contractions to try and get something going. Last time around I tried just relaxing not thinking about the Aneros at all and gently rubbed my nipples they got erect and it felt pretty good. I then noticed my prostate woke up again and started the faint pulsing I usually get in the beginning of a session. My heartrate was increasing and it felt like some pleasure was about to happen and then it faded away. I had been at it for about one and a half hours and decided to stop because I had to be somewhere soon, but I am encouraged for the next session. Hopefully I will have a more exciting and interesting post the next time around.