Tag: Involuntaries

I think I was close, was I close?

so I started to become intrested in prostate stuff, I’ve never seen anyone say they hated their prostate orgasm, so I told myself why the hell not. So I got the helix syn trident, prograsm, recently the new vibrating one. It’s been a fun journey, the Helix syn is fun to use with the wife.

Today happened, I’m like 2 weeks with no orgasm (on purpose), wife is taking a nap, I had that feeling, so I went and got my V, and SAT IN MY CHAIR. I noticed a difference right away, since I’m normally always on my back or side. I had so much more forceful control with just being able to grind my hips. Fastforward like 50 mins into it, and I get my first ever involuntary muscle contractions ( I think ).

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It felt like a balloon filling and then it would suddenly pop with a very fast but intense flood of pressure. The filling part lasted like a min, while the pop was a fraction of a second. Not what I thought muscle contractions would feel like, hence why I’m questioning it.

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I’m at this point, focusing on staying relaxed (really fucking hard at this point ) and…….. my battery dies. But not all is lost, I sit in my chair for half an hour just processing what happened, and as I stood up, I felt like I was going to fall over any moment. I felt super light and my body was shaking. So I felt like I was really close, like am I on the right track here???

Eupho and do-nothing? Also general questions…

Does using the Eupho to the highest degree possible require voluntary contractions and clenching, e.g. kegels? In other words, does it work well with the do-nothing approach? I’m asking because I read the following somewhere: *”The design
means that the Eupho will move the most of all our models. Therefore the user needs to have highly developed PC muscles in order to control the Eupho. The thin head will “dance” all-around the prostate providing subtler sensations than the other models.”* Does that mean the Eupho only works if you actively make it work via muscle contraction? Would it work if I just sit with it in and chill? Not actively and or aggressively stimulating or arousing myself, but just chilling. Of course, involuntary contractions would probably happen once in a while and get things going occasionally, but would those be enough? Would the Eupho work in that situation?

Also, and just in general. How is the Eupho? The Aneros website puts in an ‘advanced’ category, above all other models apparently. Sure, maybe it takes high level skill, but does that also mean the pleasure and peek that one can go to is also high level, above what the other models have to offer?

Any pros and fans of the Eupho that can share what they think?

Thank you in advance for any input, I really appreciate it! =)

First Experience with Involuntaries

I’ve (21 m) been using the Helix Syn Trident for about half a year and had my first experience with involuntary contractions today and I want to make a post about it.

I was feeling kind of passively aroused so I decided to go for it just with the intention of experiencing some nice feelings and relaxing for a little bit. I feel like this might have had something to do with what happened, me going into it horny but with an intention to relax.

It started normal for me, just some nice feelings, feeling a little bit like I was floating/relaxing. I normally play around with different contractions while occasionally using the do nothing method and I try to let my body do what feels right. *Normally I lay on my back with my knees bent, feet on the bed, but this time I was fully flat on the bed with just my head on a pillow*.

I started to do a few contractions and the slowly, on and off, became rhythmic with occasional bursts or holds. Every once in a while, I would halfway or one-quarter clench and the helix would “buzz” against my prostate like a vibrator for a moment and when it did I would release a little precum. I have occasionally leaked a tiny bit in the past but never before like this, where I could feel it flow out just a bit. Read more »

Helix or progasm?

I need some help choosing between the helix trident and progasm ( or ice).

I am no stranger to anal play so the size would not be an issue. I have used dildos and plugs for years and have always been interested in the elusive super O. I have an njoy pure wand but just couldn’t get it to do much other than force precum out. I was definitely going too hard.

I recently went through mindgasm for about a month and am finally realizing the muscles and sensation I should be looking for. I have had a lot of success after reading posts on the aneros sub. The do nothing method works great to get movement started. I have a knockoff toy that is similar to shape of the helix but larger. I can get involuntaries to start very regulary and now have full body shakes but not a whole lot of pleasure. I think the toy is just too long. I am relatively short just under 5’7″ (170cm). My main worry with the progasm is that it won’t hit the right spot. Would the helix be a better first choice? I can really only get one right now but eventually I’d like to have both.

I’d appreciate any suggestions or input.

Losing control

Update at the bottom.

Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.

Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.

Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.

I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.

Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?

I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF? Read more »

Not sure what happened

Last night I decided to give the aneros another shot. For background, I’ve been at this for about 3 years with mixed results. Ive have had plenty of great experiences with prostate stimulation so I truly believe in this journey! Because I’ve been so busy, I hadn’t ejaculated in 6 days. I was feeling particularly horny and decided to give it a shot, this time with absolutely no expectations, some weed, and the mindgasm audio. This was the first time I used the audio, and at first I wasn’t sure but then I really fell into it. I realized that after all these years, I had been doing contractions completely wrong! After a little bit I started to feel a warm, almost tingly sensation in my prostate region. My dick varied between a semi and completely soft for the majority of the time. After a while, I started getting involuntary contractions and my dick became rock hard. I could feel the pressure building, almost like I had to pee. All of a sudden I just start leaking cum, and have a hands free orgasm. It was a massive load, felt incredible and I felt like I could probably have another orgasm. I tried for a little but no results. Am I on the right path? I wanted to achieve the multiple dry orgasms that I see people talking about here, and while I’m satisfied with the results of my session I’m not sure why It was wet

Involuntary contractions happens on its own without me manually clench my muscle.

Last night, involuntary contractions happens on its own. I didnt manually clench my pc muscle or my spinchter muscle at all last night. I totally didnt do anything except focusing on being relax and calm, enjoying every little pressure or pleasureble feeling coming from my penis and being horny by fantasizing about my girl. It totally works for me. I even didnt play with my nipple at all and my penis keep on being hard and feeling dripping with pre cum. I can feel it drip from the tip of my penis and it feels so good. At one time, my ass clenched very hard on its own. I thought it gonna poke a hole through my anal wall but instead i feel something coming on my penis and it is pre cum. Not ejaculation last night, only dry orgasm but still it is very good session. My aneros being clenched or squeeze very hard involuntary, it feels like my prostate being stroke slowly and it comes waves after waves. Its not rapid clenching movement but as i keep relaxing and focus, it comes again later. So good to share this in this sub. Feels very horny and cannot wait for my next session.

I don’t feel anything unless I clench

My sessions in the last few months have been nothing short of amazing, and I would say that what I’m experiencing are orgasms. But with each one I’m always in a state where I never really feel like I’ve gone “over the edge” like in a traditional orgasm. I get intense pleasure, a hard involuntary clench that can least for 30s or so and build into another one, but I never have that same feeling of satisfaction I get from a normal penile orgasm or that feeling of going passed the point-of-no-return. And I don’t really get the pulsing feeling that I get when I ejaculate (I keep reading that people feel like they are cumming even though they aren’t). I get some pulsing but it’s not the same. At best it “almost” feels like I’m cumming but not quite.

So I did some reading and what I keep hearing is that people are staying relaxed and not clenching, and that’s what gets them over the edge. But in my experience I don’t feel anything at all unless I clench a bit. And then once the pleasure starts I start clenching even more. It’s almost involuntary. I can force myself not to clench if I try, but it’s not what my body is telling me to do. My body wants to clench harder and harder as the pleasure builds. I’ve tried forcing myself to relax and let go of the clench in these moments but as soon as I do the pleasure stops. Read more »

A milestone!

I’ve been on the anal exploration wagon for a long time, but have been more seriously on the prostate pleasure path for 14 months now thanks to lots of different changing circumstances. I’m 34.

A couple of days ago I had a breakthrough moment.

My girl went to the office for the first time in months leaving me for a whole day of me time. I think I used it wisely: I spent the early morning with a coffee and a spliff of c13 haze.

I then made sure i had no distractions or interruptions, post morning bowel movement, for a few hours.

I prepped my bedroom with extra cushions, towels, lube, Noise cancelling headphones, near total darkness and mindgasm. I also hadn’t had sex or touched myself for 3 days.

On my back with knees bent and a cushion under my back/arse, I had the aneros progasm in for about 30 minutes before I focussed my thoughts on it. And then I registered it was there but did nothing and got some very pleasurable sensations after another 20 minutes or so, then it all disappeared. That’s kind of where I’ve been with the aneros for a year. So I took the aneros out, smoked a little more weed and poked around gently with my njoy wand. I found a very pleasurable position but felt like I was forcing it so I went back to the aneros and did some very gentle contractions on my side for about 10 minutes and all of a sudden I was rock hard, starting to feel some very rhythmic involuntary contractions, then I had an amazing dry orgasm. Read more »

Discovered a new method and had HFWOs nonstop for an hour.

Tonight I had the most mindblowing orgasm of my life. I’ve been an avid user of prostate massagers for the past 10 years, elusively chasing the Super O but never getting involuntaries (despite good feelings.) Nonetheless I still enjoyed my sessions – I would always finish off by edging until I had an explosive orgasm even if I couldn’t cum from my ass directly with the massager still inside. I highly recommend this by the way, I felt my ability to last during sex and stay rock hard the whole time increased to the point where I could avoid ejaculating during sex if I had the mind to do so. I was having a regular session with a Progasm Jr and about 20 mg of sativa edible, and wore a cage to avoid touching myself in a lapse of judgement. My favorite position is on my back, with knees in the air and feet either up over my stomach, or on the bed, since it made for a relaxing experience and I could browse porn or listen to hypnosis or music. I began doing kegels and after a while, I noticed I could feel a hint of pleasure from bearing down slightly – by squeezing and pushing out the same muscles you would normally use when taking a shit. The problem with this for me is that it always pushes the massager out slightly and the whole massager rotates into an odd (worse) angle. I then had the idea to wrap a rubber band between the perineal tab (the ball at the end of the tab kept it in place) and the front of my cage. What ensued was hours of just bearing down on the massager while it was persistently held in place by the rubber band. I would alternate in 10 second intervals of pushing out the massager or relaxing so the rubber band would pull it back in. This went on for a while before I realized that I was having a harder time telling the difference between when the massager was going in and when it was being pushed out. I’ve never had experience with a male partner but I felt that this would be close to the experience of getting fucked hard and was able to fantasize with my eyes closed. Then it hit me – I could feel precum being pushed out of my cock each time the massager was pulled back in. For the next few hours I was drooling, crying, toes curled and I felt myself cumming repeatedly – every time it felt like I was coming down and I was able to relax, I involuntarily squeezed as hard as I could and set off another orgasm. I could feel an endless stream of precum being pushed out, and the weed made the experience that much more intense. After the session I still felt my prostate swelling up with precum and was able to clench and squirt precum while flaccid. Read more »