So I Aneros got delivered yesterday, I got too excited and used it ASAP, And I got my first P wave but it lasted only for 2 seconds, after that I got nothing, and I tried a second session today and I didn’t get any. My dick is twitching involuntary when I contract sometimes, and I continue and It will intensify, is that good?. Give me tips (I’m Asian sorry for my bad Engurlish)
Tag: Involuntaries
Was I close?
Never had a super o but I think I just got close, Im very new to this or 4 or 5 sessions. I was using my aneros trident and about 10 min in I started involuntary shaking, about 10 min after I realized I wasn’t controling the massager anymore. Then I physically felt my heart pound and my face and chest felt really warm… Then I immediately came out of it and couldn’t get that feeling again. Kind of discouraged I think I was overthinking it in the moment but I’m not sure,
advice would be very appreciated
“Sometimes A Guy Just Gets Horny!”
[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]
Background
So I wake up around 3 AM with a steel-hard erection. I know it will take about 40-45 minutes to subside before I can even think about getting back to sleep. In the meantime, I try my best to keep my hands to myself. But just a little touch on my frenulum through my short PJ bottoms sends a ‘horny shock’ throughout my body and makes me wish I could have a wet dream or at least a somewhat involuntary ejaculation. But alas, neither is happening.
The combination of semen retention (SR) (Day 8) and NoFap PMO (Day 64) means that I have really scaled-back my ejaculation frequency. I now have them only to control my blue-balls; there is no prolonged pleasure. An edging session is out of the question!
But then I starting thinking about this some more……
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Do We Guys Have To Get Horny?
I suppose some guys would say “NO!” But upon closer inspection, these things come to mind. First, all ‘normal’ males MUST HAVE night-time erections (called NPTs). These will come whether the guy wants them or not. They are designed to keep a male’s penis healthy. With the regular ‘up-and-down’ of each erection (perhaps 5-7 each night), the penis is invigorated with new blood and thus is always ready for its primary mission: ejaculation.
Can we lose the magic?
I’ve started the journey there is about 3 months. The beginning was very encouraging, I started to have super pleasant feelings after 3 sessions.
I got to the point where I had amazing, super sweet, very long (like 3 to 5 min) orgasms every sessions. I don’t know if it’s what you guys refer as a super O but anyway I was very happy with it. I tried things like thrusting and touching very slowly my cock and I got some of the best penile orgasms of my life (like crying intense).
The things is all sensations started to fade away at a point where each sessions were less intense than the one before. I’ve read forums and all and learned that thrusting, touching my cock and watching porn could be detrimental. So I stop all of this and tried techniques like the relaxing a lot and “do nothing”, I tried to lower my expectations and enjoying the present moment. It is most of the time kind of enjoyable, I have involuntary contractions and trembling very quickly, but nothing comparable to what I had before and I feel quite frustrated.
Did anybody go through a similar situation? If so, how did you get the magic back?
“It’s All For Prostate Health!”
[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]
Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……
Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)
I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage.
“The Amazing Little 950!”
Introduction/Background
My recent “MO” streak ended at Day 8 of SR (“P” continues at Day 41). Sure enough, I felt the blue-balls coming on and since I would be active the next day, I decided to end the streak with a therapeutic ejaculation. This one was a little different. Let me explain. I started with a completely limp dick; then gradually began to stroke. All the while, I began light massage on my perineum and my balls. Eventually, when I was erect, I discontinued stroking near the frenulum and only concentrated on the bottom of the shaft. Well, it was an amazing feeling and I was able to “delay” the ejaculation but not indefinitely. Even with stroking near the base, only a “light” touch on the frenulum caused an immediate ejaculation. I could only imagine how this effect is also manifested during sexual intercourse. That “touch” on the frenulum would be enough to positively stimulate an ejaculation. Farewell DE (Delayed Ejaculation)!
Overnight Erections/Aneros Session
Even with an ejaculation yesterday, my night-time erections last night were (surprisingly) just as strong as ever! In fact, they were so strong and plentiful that I needed to put-on my “anti-MO” Mueller cup to discourage me from ejaculation again!
Not a TO but I came
I have been working on my aneros for about 5 months. With family and kids I usually get 1, maybe 2 sessions a week in. I’ve been making progress. Definitely have an “awakening”. I can feel every inch of the aneros. I can control it pretty good. I have decent control of anal and pc muscles and can get a good pleasurable push pull together. I’ve had mini pleasure waves that leave me panting but they aren’t very long. However all in all I feel every session is getting better and better. I feel good about my progress.
However. Something happened yesterday and I’m confused about it.
I did NOT touch my penis.
I repeat, I did not touch my penis ever during my session. I was doing some PV and anal contractions. Laying on my back. Knees up. Holding. Feeling a nice Rub on my prostate. And very quickly it got more and more intense. I went from limp to rock hard in .00002 seconds. I started involuntary shaking. Then bucking. Breathing heavy. Omg. It was amazing. I had that feeling of before you cum for a good 90seconds. My body was flopping around like a fish. Then all of the sudden it hit a peak and full squirts of cum came out. It left me gasping and exhausted in bed. But. Mentally I was done.
Possible Super O Pro tip: Cut/shorten the handle off the helix syn
This is based purely off of personal experience and I won’t claim that this is a guaranteed method to get you to super o land, but it worked for me on the first try. I’ve only been exploring aneros for about 3 months now.
First off if you search for “remove handle helix syn,” you’ll see lots of posts on the official forum about other users that have done this modification. It’s particularly effective for use while laying on your back.
Modification:
* Used a hack saw to remove the red curl, leaving about .75 – 1 inch of the red plastic.
* used a high grain sandpaper (2000-3000 grit) to smooth out the cut tip
Without that pesky red curly handle, the helix moves around on a completely different level. Let me tell you, the super o is everything others mention (involuntary lip biting, full body pulsating pleasure, uncontrollable back arching, moaning, and more.) I actually had to take it out because I was actually a bit scared of the feeling. Even without the toy, I felt the aftershocks every 20-30 seconds and a hot glowing warmth in the groin area where the leg connects to the pelvis. This lasted about 15-20 minutes after removal.
disclaimers:
1. You’re responsible for your own modifications.
2. A little bit of indica MJ was involved which may have contributed to the success.
Feel like I’m getting so close to a super-o, but always tense up and lose it
Hiya again everyone! Basically as the title says, I’ve been getting super relaxed and just having my Aneros Helix Sym inside me until I get he involuntary contractions, and they do feel incredible. Just as they build I become overwhelmed and tense up, I just cant seem to stay relaxed when the pleasure and contractions build.. So any tips on that really would be incredible. Thanks!
Coming back after almost 4 years
For a whole multitude of reasons I hadn’t used my aneros toys for almost 4 years. However, a little while ago I finally delved in to the depths of my wardrobe and freed them from their boxes. I prepped myself, had a shower and turned up the heating so I was nice and cosy. In front of me were my helix, eupho and progasm. I opted for the helix since it’s been a while, and got myself nice and relaxed before inserting. And after an hour… nothing. The feeling of having it inserted was nice, but there were no pleasurable feelings anywhere else, no buzz, no excitement.
I tried it again the next day. More of the same (nothing!) I remembered having trouble with it before, so did a bit of research and wondered if it was too small for me, or if it didn’t quite ‘fit’ right. The best feelings used to come from my progasm but it was looking a little intimidating after such a long time away. So I hopped online and bought a Progasm Jr. Best. Decision. Ever.
As soon as I got it I was incredibly excited. I’d already prepped myself and my room before it arrived in the post, I tore open the package, gave it a good clean and jumped in to bed. This toy is beautiful, black, shiny and elegant, in my opinion it’s much more attractive than any other Aneros toys I’ve had. Any of the prostate toys in fact.