Tag: Involuntaries

Experiences of a Self Deluded Fool

So. I decided it's time to tell my story.

I am 18 years old, I feel young in this community, most of what I've read has been from older gentlemen. Anyhow. I have a very high sex drive, as I imagine most 18 year old men do, and I quickly found masturbation became stagnant and boring. The first time I experimented with anal stimulation was a couple years ago. I used my fingers at first, then an old dildo I'd found in a box of old stuff in our garage. I imagine it was my mother's. (don't worry, I washed the thing like 20 times by hand, then ran it through the dishwasher twice.) It was okay, but nothing great. I messed around and explored my anal cavity for about three months, but then gave it up from lack of explosive feelings. I never told anyone about this.

About a month ago, I told my girlfriend. She's the most amazing person.. She's what I live for. I knew she wouldn't judge. I knew she'd not even bat an eye. The only reason I hadn't brought it up sooner was simply because it didn't occur to me. So we had a talk. Then she offered to give me a prostate massage. I eagerly accepted. And I mean eagerly! So we got naked, and she proceeded to give me a blowjob. She then inserted a lubed finger, and got to work. It was, up til then, the most intense orgasm I've ever experienced. We did that a few more times, had sex afterwords once or twice, and during this process I was researching online. I came across this site almost immediately, and was impressed. I read about 100 testimonials before I came to the decision I'd buy a Helix. So me and my girlfriend went down to the local sex store! "Castle: Knights and Damsels welcome!" Read more »

A New Decade

At the start of a new decade I find myself wavering between two extremes to understand the Aneros Effect (1). Is but a catalyst, eventually this phenomenon of increasing / developing levels of body / mind bliss becomes self-sustaining without the catalyst – which begs the question what exactly is happening – is the prostate and the complexity of nerve endings once massaged by Aneros appropriately or eventually a learned set of subtle muscle contractions (analogous to riding a bike, kind of muscle memory auto-take over) doing the equivalent of sticking probes in the brain at the appropriate location and feeling you've encountered Universal mind – the prostate being in Artform's sense some kind of centre to a second brain and the probe being literally the Aneros. This is the perspective of a kind of pragmatic biology explanation.
(2). Is the Aneros a technological amplifier, a tuner in for the human being to a Universally accessible continuous orgasmic / bliss energy frequency and represents some kind of physic breakthrough for everyone on the planet?

Perhaps best just to go on the journey 🙂

So Artform suggested blogging about my experience of combining attempts to "click amygdalae forward" and usage of Aneros (focussed at present on use of Peridise advanced set, just ordered Eupho). This started on early morning of 30th December 2009 – along with the combination two other factors may have been playing a part here – approaching full moon and having a soup at lunchtime with corriander (Tiphereth tip on increasing libido here – http://www.aneros.com/forum/tips-to-increase-libido-t4207.html – ingestion of a few corriander seeds I have felt in the past amplifies orgasmic activity). Read more »

Ten sessions, two dry-O, variation and kitchen appliances

I now have had myself ten sessions with an Aneros over a period of 52 days. At least I think it is 10… There has been mostly Helix but also mixed in some Beginner Peridise; once with the larger and twice with the smaller. Each session has lasted 3 to 5 hours and they seem to play out differently each time. Many have been nice but calm. Some sessions I have fallen asleep with the toy (and always wake up cold), many times I have a bathroom break.

The eight session was a week ago during the night starting at one o'clock and not ending before six (sex, we say) in the morning. I prepared myself watching some good porn for quite a while seated in the armchair and then lubed for a moment with my faithful rod of beads. Having tried watching porn during one earlier session, I found out in the forum that I could try a slideshow of more or less naked women instead, giving more room for my aroused mind. I also added some relaxing 1-hour CD music, which I restarted three times during the night.

This was the first session after my Peridise debut, and the improvement was very noticeable. My involuntaries with the Helix had been rare before Peridise, but now they came way easier and also returned over and over during the entire session. After laying on my back for an hour enjoying these, I restarted the CD and turned on my left side instead, with my legs in a more restful position. Read more »

My current 'Journey' session

rook: 6 ft. / 180lb / 45gm prostate / MBTI=ESTJ / 7 mo. into journey

First off guys and gals — there's no Super-O at the end of this tunnel but some pretty intense scenes along the path. I've attempted eight of these sessions during the last two months Five have yielded multiple waves and those have ended in one or two mini-Os. So, I'd call it repeatable for me.

This session avoids direct voluntary anal contractions. I build arousal with my hands and trigger from my foot. I've borrowed from popo's foot stim technique: – http://www.aneros.com/forum/on-stomach-bottom-up-t4489.html –

It took five months for the experts J4, artform, Arctic Wolves, Love-is, rummel, and others to get the idea across that 'trying' isn't the way to get there.

Coaching new Super-O candidates must be like shepherding a bunch of neophyte flight students — when the instructors get together they drink and ponder why all newbies make and then repeat the same mistakes. Upfront, coaches and instructors can tell a newbie that they must avoid 'forcing it.' The newbie then says, "I understand" then marches off smartly and 'forces it.'

The Forum recently addressed the idea that there were other trigger points on our bodies that may be 'cultivated' to improve our sensual experience.

The same week the Forum was considering alternate stim locations I attended a business client's seasonal marketing kick-off. The motivational speaker opened her pitch with some 'touch point' examples — specifically the sensuality of fingertips. We were told to 'touch' our inner self via our fingertips. — got me thinking. Read more »

Updating

Just to bring you up to date. I’m not ready yet to declare what I make of all this or what my theories are of how to provoke what I’ve experienced, so I’m just going to lay out what’s been happening.

I did order the Helix, and found a good price ($45) on Amazon.com. The problem is that it took a week for the seller to ship it, and after almost another week, it’s still not here. If you have patience and price is a big factor, a reseller may be a good choice, but if your need is urgent, maybe you should order directly from the manufacturer.

I lost a few days after my last post because of some personal difficulties that took away any incentive for pursuing pleasure for a while. But after a few days, things returned to normal and I resumed my interest in the Aneros.

My next couple of tries with the device were kind of disappointing. I could get the involuntaries and some P-waves, but they easily faded. It was fun trying, but I didn’t pick up where I left off. Read more »

Less is More

Session 2 – Thurs 29 Oct

Began with the primary aim of exploring movement of the Helix and Progasm – any other experiences that came bye would be a bonus.

Firstly with Helix and laying on tummy. Trying to push it out and then draw it back in – used a little manual assistance to get the feel of it moving out and, in particular, firstly how far it had moved
and secondly how far it could be pushed out and still be pulled in again (ie where was the point of no return). I found this point when the Helix was rather explosively expelled!!

After this exercise and some practice at moving the device aroud and experiencing a range of prostate stimulation I rested for awhile and started contracting my buttock muscles. This began some involuntary contractions – a new experience and it stopped after a short time, but was enough to wet my appetite to try again a little later. Well WOW, it progressed from involuntary buttock activity to include involuntary thrusting like motions and as the involuntary muscular activity came to a fairly abrupt end there was pulsing of the perineum region like that of an ejaculation, but I did NOT ejaculate. I guess this was my first dry-O – a very pleasant and unexpected at this eary stage of using the aneros. New experience 1 for the session!! Read more »

On Your Marks …

Session 1 – pm Wed 28 Oct and am 29 Oct

Progasm and Helix arrived today. Session began with wife in attendance. Used Helix, 1cc KY liquid inserted rectum and liberal coating of KY jelly on Helix. Easy entry and little uncomfortable feeling. Breathing for about 10min then introduced contraction with each (most) breaths. On back and then RHS. Pleasant feelings prostate and perineum area.

After 1 hr 10min changed to Progasm with the aim of finding out how it would fit and would it be uncomfortable (not experienced anal user). It was obviously tighter but entry was not difficult and after 10 minutes or so began mild anal contractions similar to sequence above. Much stronger stimulation, especially of prostate. Dropped to sleep, probably 20min to half an hour, awoke to VERY pleasant feelings – prostate area like a small centre of warmth. Tried several positions and then on back with knees up put the B brothers and William between legs and then closed legs and put down flat so flaccid penis and scrotum tensioned. With some movement of hips and contracting anal and PC muscles became very aroused – only 30seconds or so.

Wife arrived in bed, cuddled her with Progasm still in place. Progasm effects very much happening in background to normal feelings.

Continued in isolation – tried various positions and speeds of contraction. Finally tried tensioned penis position (as above) but this time continued too long and fell over the cliff with a very pleasant hands-free ejaculation. Removed Progasm, end 3hr session Read more »

The Driving Force

Last night I had an experience, which was new, although I’m sure I have been close to this on a few occasions before.

For most of the past month I have been experimenting with the use of the Eupho and the Maximus, so last night’s session was the first with the Helix since the end of last month. By way of preparation, I inserted a small plug of unrefined Shea Butter into my anus and followed that with an eye-dropper filled with ‘Wet Stuff’. I also covered the Helix with a thin coating of Shea butter.

Soon after beginning my session, and having rested for about a quarter of an hour after insertion, I became aware that the Helix was driving muscles deep inside my rectum, that were pulling quite forcibly on the device and literally pushing it into my prostate. There was almost no effort on my part, but within seconds, I could feel what I am now sure was a prostate orgasm that continued without variation for about two minutes. A conscious effort was required to come down from that state, but as soon as I relaxed, the process began again. This happened repeatedly over the next half hour.

I had been lying on my right side, so decided to take a break by rolling over onto my left side. Within about three or four minutes, the whole process began again. If anything, the orgasms seemed even stronger than before. Following about half an hour on my left side, I moved again, this time onto my back. Lo and behold, within a few minutes, it started up again, although this time the orgasms didn’t feel quite as strong. Read more »

Where I'm coming from

10/24/2009 3:20:35 PM

Ten years ago I bought an Aneros. At the time, I believe they had only one model, what’s now called the “Classic.” I read the directions and experimented with it over a period of weeks, but I had no success. It was trouble to fool with, since you had preparation and clean-up time involved, and that had always steered me away from any kind of anal play, so I eventually left it in the nightstand drawer. Every couple of years I’d pull it out and try it again, but I never made any progross toward the special sexual thrills it was supposed to convey.

In the past year, however, I’ve begun to enjoy anal play more and more. I’ve gotten over some of my aversion to it on hygienic grounds, and I’ve begun to add light touching or insertion of fingers to my masturbation routine fairly often. Then something I read somewhere made me think that prostate massage just might be beneficial for my erratic PSA scores. No looming health crisis, thankfully, but a urologist who worries about me (bless his heart). And I remembered the massage therapist who once told me I carried a lot of tension around my anus. So I thought again of the long-disused Aneros, and I fished it out and went to the web to read about it again, since I’d long ago lost the directions. Read more »

big one!!

well i usually try and have 2 sessions a week just to appease my body cravings, but since i have a family its dfficult at times. so i had gone over my 4 day wait and on the 7th day which was the following monday i was really in the mood. i didnt have to pick up my sisters kids so i even had time for a nap. so what i decided to do was to take my nap with my aneros just to get things really going. once iwas in bed iwas able to relax and have some really nice involuntary contraction, not hard ones but very subtle . i was able to sleep for about 30 min before i had real strong contraction that woke me up. i got on my back and started my breathing and before i knew it i was moaning and groaning. it was by far my best session i have had since i got my progasm. i went to the tub, because i like to prop my legs up, and then i had the best O i ever had. its only been 3 days but i am trying to refrain as long as possible so i can get that craving once again. talk about torture, man i might have to tie myself up to hold out another 4 days!!