Tag: Kegel Exercises

One-One chat (narrate our sessions)

Hey guys, I’m looking for a guy or two who is sexually uninhibited and wanting to talk about progasms together. We could count down the hours from our 9-5 until we can lube up and let it take control. We could remind each other to do kegels and talk about skills, tips, tricks, struggles, and how horny we are to ride the O’s.

I’d like to play together and/or separately (catch me up on your session and progress). In my mind I see it go down like this: We stick it in at the same time, do a few exercises together to warm up, talk about how we are feeling, and then branch off. If you or I are switching toys or having a lull catch me up on your session. i.e., let me know how many orgasms you’re having, what toy you’re using, and cheer each other on.

Pictures, videos, or audio calls are not mandatory we could work up to that if you’d like. But for now, I like the idea of being anonymous. Let’s face it, prostate play has a lot of stigma surrounding it. So this would be an outlet for me to just enjoy. Read more »

Infrequent use, am I wasting my time or undoing process?

I got a toy late in october but I’m current in a stressful situation and I never feel in the mood. I’ve been doing kegels and stuff on the side, but even that I’ve been too distracted by work.

Best analogy I could give is it’s kind of like going to the gym and I feel really bad not working out, but I’ve just been too tired and not in the mood at all.

It might not really be pleasurable at all for me given my current mental state but should I still be doing it just for the sake of rewiring?

Technique issues on first use

Just had my first go at it. Wasn’t really planning to have a proper sesh. I was just trying to see if I could get it in place and maybe get any sensation out of my prostate at all.

I’ve got the Helix Trident Syn. Surprisingly no trouble getting it in as deep as it could go, but unfortunately it slips out very pretty often thereafter. Am I supposed to hold it in the whole time with my anus muscles? Do I just have a huge rectum? D:

Haven’t been able to find the “sweet spot” for the P-Tab. 🙁 Feels pretty much the same all the way up and down the perineum.

Not sure if I had the head at the correct depth. Surely everyone’s prostate isn’t at the same depth? I wasn’t able to feel much of internally. Most of the sensation was coming from the anus, even when doing Kegels.

Gotta admit though it’s kinda novel just sitting there even if I’m doing it wrong lol

Just had a full body orgasm – several infact – here are concrete steps that worked for me

Ok, so I’m not gonna go into backstory or yadda yadda, this will just be a step-by-step of what happened to me and maybe what might happen to you. I’ll go into some grody details, but I think they’re necessary, read at your leisure:

**So, step one**: Make sure you eat food that won’t gove you the “runs”. Stay away from prunes and beans and stuff like that. I ate cereal for dinner – because that’s how I roll – and a rye sourdough bread sandwich. (Grody details ahead) I went to the bathroom right before going to bed and I felt like I didn’t get all of it out, but it felt solid, plus it actually kind of already pushed on my prostate (Grody details over).

**Step two:** Get a LOT of Lube and insert your toy of choice. I used an Aneros Helix Syn Trident, but use what you have, or get the toy I used.

**Step three:** Relax. And I know you’re thinking “yeah I’ve tried that, it doesn’t work”. No no no, you need to RELAX.
Personally I have a Really hard time to just “stop thinking about things, but I relaxed my body, and then – because I’ve been watching Sexplenations on youtube – I decided to use a trick Dr. Doe is telling women: Distract yourself – read a book or something. I actually found that it helped me relax More counterintuitively enough.
I think it’s like when you’re trying to remember a dream; if you think about the dream, you’re pushing the dream away. Instead if you try to think of basically **Anything else**, the dream might return to you.
Personally I thought about a story I’m thinking about writing; I thought about the characters, their relationships, their height, what kind of pet they would have, what the city they live in is like. Think about something pleasant that makes you feel good and content. Read more »

Don’t feel anything. Any advice?

So got my Helix Syn Trident last week and just had my second session. But I am not really feeling anything yet.. I know you got this list of milestones to reach for and I think I am at the point where the Aneros feels comfortably all around. I actually sometimes Don’t even feel it’s inside.. is this normal?

Anyway I tried it for about an hour. Just trying to relax, doing some kegel exercises etc. But it doesn’t feel like it’s going anywhere. I am dripping some precum but that’s it. After an hour I got bored and just finished it the normal way. 😛

so howw long does it take to actually feel some form of pleasure from it? Am I doing something wrong?

Difficulty relaxing, not feeling much

So I have had about 6 sessions so far. I have been trying deep breathing and kegels with the Helix syn. I can feel it touching my prostate if i play with my muscles but nothing comes from that. If i focus more on relaxing, the only passive feelings I get are my heartbeat felt through the toy. Every time something starts up, I get distracted thinking of something completely unrelated or I hear a noise that gets me off track. I just can’t get my mind to STOP doing that. I have tried sleeping with it in as well which was fully comfortable, but didn’t lead to anything pleasurable.

Does anyone have tips to relax for someone who is wayyyy too active and can’t focus. I can’t use weed as others have suggested due to my job either.

Three entirely different experiences in a week? How do you guys get in the mood?

So I’ve been playing with the aneros helix syn trident for about a week now, and

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Session 1

Wow, what an introduction. I was nervous but excited. The toy was probably the smallest thing I’ve put in my ass besides my fingers, so it slid right in. I laid down on my side and just gently breathed in and out, doing weak kegels with the toy inside.

It felt…interesting, but I started to shake. I shook HARD. I started to get pretty emotional, and I just shook a lot. It was a weird feeling because I wasn’t feeling definite pleasure, but I was shaking and I did feel a rush of warm emotions and stuff. It’s like I felt an orgasm without the pleasure, if that makes any sense at all.

I went at it again, and again until my body gave out. I started to slow down and contract my muscles. I started to shake less, and instead I started to feel a bit of pleasure mixed with the urge to pee. I did this until I calmed down and washed up.

I still liked it, and I’m like…VERY excited to experience what a real orgasm is like. It only made my desire stronger.

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Session 2 Read more »

What I did during the two week Aneros blog section outage?

Hi guys,

What did I do during the two week Aneros blog section outage?

Well I had several Aneros sessions with my favorite Aneros models: Helix Classic, Helix Syn Classic, Maximus Classic, Progasm ICE, Eupho Syn Classic. The few Aneros sessions I had during the two weeks were one or two these models in the standing position which I discovered that twenty minutes were sufficient, but also gave me stupendous Aless nonetheless.

It was really during night in bed that my Aless and how I interacted with it really took off. Wearing a jock and cup to bed provided the stimulus and inducement to hours of delight in bed at night. Diddling my nipples and throwing some Kegels fueled this delight which resulted in Super O’s, at least several a night.

For the last several years, I knew that I had the capability to induce Super-O’s and just heightened sexual awareness just by diddling my nipples.

This sexual practice continues most nights now.

Take care!

Made a great progress last night – I believe there are 2 important factors to this

I bought aneros eupho couple of months ago and played around. Had some pleasurable feeling but nothing major. Last night I had what I believe a clear pathway to a super O, so I thought I’d share what I learned and what worked well. There are 2 factors which helped me.

First – lately I realized I could separate muscle groups while doing kegel exercises. There are 2 major groups – muscles near the anus and muscles surounding base of the penis. That’s the one I started focusing on. I learned to only activate that part of muscles. It feels like pulling muscles down (direction from penis base to anus) while activating anus muscles feels like you pull in. I lay on my back, pillow under the butt and legs bent and feet close to the butt.

Second – I didn’t ejaculate for 5 days. I always felt my progress was stalled because I was always ejaculating and was not horny enough. I think going longer without ejaculation helps to feel sexual energy and easier to recognize good sensations.

So last night I wasn’t particularly horny but I thought I’d still do a session. I laid on my back and started doing exercise I mentioned above. Very quickly I felt gradual pleasure in prostate region and it became very good after a while. Made me breathe more actively. Then it subsided a bit and for the first time involuntaries started which felt like beginnings of orgasm. The whole session was the best I ever had and I think I am very close to a super O. Read more »

Feel the exquisite pleasure (The intimate nipple diddling Kegeling experience) Plus athletic cups

[This blog is directed to @goldenboy and other interested guys]

Hi guys,

It is an early Sunday morning here in DC. The weather is warm and muggy outdoors a couple hours before dawn. My AC is running on low. I am seated at my PC typing this blog entry. I am buck naked wearing my favorite BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no.85 men’s medium.

An hour ago I woke up from a curious dream feeling refreshed. I went to bed just after 9:30 p.m. Saturday night, my usual hour after a day of intellectual activities. I needed my rest. I wore nothing but a pair of Jockey pouch briefs.

After I woke up earlier this morning in the 3 o’clock hour and processed my curious dream, I touched myself sexually. Sexual touch for me, a 70 yo man is several light flicks across my nipples. This sexual touch is at the heart of my nipple diddling activities. Nipple diddling is an outgrowth of my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. Like I said now when I touch my nipples sexually, I am off to the races in sexual awareness and activities. Read more »