Tag: Kegel Exercises

P-waves and sensations when not using aneros?

Hi guys,

Little background – I’ve been dabbling in prostate specific play the last 12 months or so. I’m gay, so anal play wasn’t something I was unfamiliar with, but rewiring and focus on the prostate was. Last January I ordered the njoy wand and really enjoyed it, reaching pgasm manually without much trouble.

Probably 2 months ago got my first aneros (heilix-syn). I always smoke a little before my sessions. At first I was sort of let down by the aneros… or at least thought I was… until I involved nipple play (I now have suckers and clamps) and it pushed me right over the edge. The sensations I got were unlike anything I’ve ever felt, and even if im playing with my nips sans aneros I still feel p-waves.

Now I’m home for the holidays and didn’t bring any of my toys. But I’ve been noticing that I get some surprisingly strong p waves just brushing my nipples or doing kegels. I laid in bed last night and felt myself spasm and shake just from these two simple actions (I also haven’t cum since the 24th).

Is this a common experience and does anyone have some suggestions on where to read up on this phenomenon? I feel like it isn’t a placebo effect, but could it be? Regardless, I’m certainly enjoying the ride, but would love to have a better understanding of my rewiring. Personal experiences and resources appreciated!

The delights of nipple diddling Xmas night in bed!

Hi guys,

After a full day of activities on Christmas Day, I retired early Christmas night for some hours of much needed slumber. However last night, I awoke up with my body hungering for nipple diddling activities!

In many of previous blog posts, the delights of nipple diddling happened soon after my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. A month before in mid August 2016, I devised a regimen of Kegel Exercises which actually made the Kegels a very pleasurable activity. Right now I post this regimen for your perusal:

Forum

I had being doing the Kegels since September 2011 when I first heard about the Aneros, Super-O’s, and MMO’s from a guy elsewhere in sex chat. The Kegels are good for strengthen the pelvic floor in both women and men. They are recommended when you work with the Aneros.

My Kegel regimen which I devised in August 2016 not only made this sort of exercise feel real good, but it launched me to the achievement of my Super-O and MMO’s breakthroughs a month later.

Levator Prostatae Muscle Contractions.

In my quest for a better way to strengthen my pelvic floor ie. kegel exercises, a few weeks ago, I stumbled across an article about the Levator Prostatae Muscle. In males it’s the most medial fibers of the levator ani (pubococcygeus) muscle. It extends from the pubis into the fascia of the prostate. Yes!

With a little practice and attention to the sensation, have learned how to isolate this muscle and contract it while relaxing all other muscles in my pelvic aria.

Levator Prostatae Muscle Contractions, LPMC as I’m calling it, is when this muscle is repetitively contracted or “pulled”, my pelvis rotates ever so slightly and I can feel my prostate being lifted just a bit. Along with proper breathing, the feeling I get is like a pair of small, silk gloved hands caressing the sides of my prostate. Oh, Yes! And with this imagery in mind, the white gloves, after a while, I “come” to an incredibly sweet and trembling orgasm. Possibly the best ever. And then comes the wave of dopamine that completely washes over my body. Oh, yees! And now I need a nap.

The beauty of this is that it’s hands free, no ejaculation, no clean up, no cover up and no refractory period. All the fun, no baggage. My only draw back, at this point, is like any other muscle, it gets exhausted after a while and I need a little rest. However, I’ve been able to orgasm seven times in a three day period, so… Read more »

Mixed signals

I got a Helix Syn a few weeks back. The first night I used it I was doing basic experimenting, not trying best practice. You know, various kegel exercises, mostly focusing on comfort and discomfort.

That first night I found that when I flexed in a way to make it go deep, I felt a point where it felt really good and practiced rubbing this spot. I was at near 100% flex and I swear I almost came a few times, but the muscles were too fatigued by this point. Over the next several sessions I was trying various positions, duration, and strengths but always came back to this deep one and always kept feeling close to orgasm.

Finally feeling comfortable with the amount of lube, position, and kegel practice, I decided it was time to follow best practice. I feel nothing at all. After a 1.5 hour session I decided just to try doing it deeper again, and again it felt great but I was ready to stop.

I wonder if the Helix model is right for me. It just feels so great just a bit deeper, but I have to flex 100% to reach.

Feels like 1 step forward, 10 steps back. I can sit on a chair and feel more from my prostate. I’ve “almost” had a cargasm a few times now. Tingling all over, felt great.

Another try : some thoughts, etc.

Hi guys,

Here is another try at posting at my Aneros blog. It seems to me that not as many guys post entries in the blog section these days. I am not sure if they are encountering difficulties in posting entries as I did on Thanksgiving Day just past over a week ago. As I said, I do not have Aneros sessions often now since I am fully wired.

Doing the Kegel Exercises come naturally now. I certainly Kegel some in bed at night when I diddle my nipples. I am glad to read recent posts in Aneros Forum that there a few guys who enjoy diddling their nipples when they have Aneros sessions. However I am sure that they carry on that practice in bed at night. Take care!

Eupho and do-nothing? Also general questions…

Does using the Eupho to the highest degree possible require voluntary contractions and clenching, e.g. kegels? In other words, does it work well with the do-nothing approach? I’m asking because I read the following somewhere: *”The design
means that the Eupho will move the most of all our models. Therefore the user needs to have highly developed PC muscles in order to control the Eupho. The thin head will “dance” all-around the prostate providing subtler sensations than the other models.”* Does that mean the Eupho only works if you actively make it work via muscle contraction? Would it work if I just sit with it in and chill? Not actively and or aggressively stimulating or arousing myself, but just chilling. Of course, involuntary contractions would probably happen once in a while and get things going occasionally, but would those be enough? Would the Eupho work in that situation?

Also, and just in general. How is the Eupho? The Aneros website puts in an ‘advanced’ category, above all other models apparently. Sure, maybe it takes high level skill, but does that also mean the pleasure and peek that one can go to is also high level, above what the other models have to offer?

Any pros and fans of the Eupho that can share what they think?

Thank you in advance for any input, I really appreciate it! =)

fantasy

Been playing for awhile. But last week, with the Jr, something happened. I’m hesitant to share as its a little embarrassing but we’re men and adults.

I wanted a fuller feel but not ready for a girthy toy. From
the Aneros suggestions, I bought the Jr
I cleaned up, locked the door and just laid there enjoying my nudity, my dick and the anticipation of this new toy.

It seemed to be sucked into my rectum as it was waiting for it. I shifted on to my back. And started just relaxing, breathing and letting my mind wander.

I began to fantasize about another man,men, entering me and my resistance was futile. I could feel my P spot contracting in the guy pleasure we seek. My dick, not hard, was dripping heavy. I let the fantasy go where it wanted. Things I would never do creeped into my brain. I let my muscles guide the Jr as I thought about co workers nude , playing Aneros games with them. Took everything not to stroke. Read more »

Discovered a new method and had HFWOs nonstop for an hour.

Tonight I had the most mindblowing orgasm of my life. I’ve been an avid user of prostate massagers for the past 10 years, elusively chasing the Super O but never getting involuntaries (despite good feelings.) Nonetheless I still enjoyed my sessions – I would always finish off by edging until I had an explosive orgasm even if I couldn’t cum from my ass directly with the massager still inside. I highly recommend this by the way, I felt my ability to last during sex and stay rock hard the whole time increased to the point where I could avoid ejaculating during sex if I had the mind to do so. I was having a regular session with a Progasm Jr and about 20 mg of sativa edible, and wore a cage to avoid touching myself in a lapse of judgement. My favorite position is on my back, with knees in the air and feet either up over my stomach, or on the bed, since it made for a relaxing experience and I could browse porn or listen to hypnosis or music. I began doing kegels and after a while, I noticed I could feel a hint of pleasure from bearing down slightly – by squeezing and pushing out the same muscles you would normally use when taking a shit. The problem with this for me is that it always pushes the massager out slightly and the whole massager rotates into an odd (worse) angle. I then had the idea to wrap a rubber band between the perineal tab (the ball at the end of the tab kept it in place) and the front of my cage. What ensued was hours of just bearing down on the massager while it was persistently held in place by the rubber band. I would alternate in 10 second intervals of pushing out the massager or relaxing so the rubber band would pull it back in. This went on for a while before I realized that I was having a harder time telling the difference between when the massager was going in and when it was being pushed out. I’ve never had experience with a male partner but I felt that this would be close to the experience of getting fucked hard and was able to fantasize with my eyes closed. Then it hit me – I could feel precum being pushed out of my cock each time the massager was pulled back in. For the next few hours I was drooling, crying, toes curled and I felt myself cumming repeatedly – every time it felt like I was coming down and I was able to relax, I involuntarily squeezed as hard as I could and set off another orgasm. I could feel an endless stream of precum being pushed out, and the weed made the experience that much more intense. After the session I still felt my prostate swelling up with precum and was able to clench and squirt precum while flaccid. Read more »

I finally struck gold.

I post this in equal parts to pay it forward, hoping that my account might help someone else who’s still trying to figure this stuff out as I’ve been helped by so many posts here, and to assure myself that it actually happened.

I started my adventure in August this year with the purchase of Helix Syn. I was a complete newbie with no prior experience but for a few years I’d had the itch to try Aneros. Eventually I had to pull the trigger on it because it became apparent that it wasn’t something that would go away if I ignored it.

My first session wasn’t anything to speak of. I did feel something but I wasn’t sure what and if I hadn’t imagined it. To put it short, I was flying blind. Frustration began to mount and on a whim I ordered the Progasm. I was looking for anything that would give me direction. And boy, did it ever.

Its prodigious size was astoundingly helpful. Whereas with the Helix I was fumbling around, unsure what I should be doing, with the Progasm it was basically impossible to “miss”. Any muscle contraction would result in my prostate getting worked which pointed me to the exact sensations I should look for and showed me what movements were required. Read more »