The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 2

The Inflation Cycles

Over time, Mrs. a and I found that we really enjoy taking the M/F Energies Balancing experience further and in a counter-intuitive direction. As we began to experience the energies exchanges more clearly and quickly, we also felt my flaccid penis taking that stimulus back to an ejaculatory circuit, or more frequently, a mixed circuits response and starting to erect, at least to semi-soft or slightly firmer state, what I have earlier here described as the "leatherman".

As this happens we do some "old fashioned" higher speed humping, until we have teased up anticipatory pleasures and more aroused excitement. This too does not take as long as it used to. Sounds a bit like premature ejac about to go off, yet Mrs. a is also getting this more rapid buildup. There is even a hint of edging to it sometimes. Very delightful for both!!

Right about then my body says: "Hold it!" (in every sense)! And wanting a great chain of Super-Os before anything ending in ejac, and wanting the mounting and distracting pains from earlier injuries to ease off, and having the ED timer run out of buzz; my penis deflates and we both are thrilled!

My First Two Super Sessions

Here are two entries from the first sessions that took me to Super O Land. Both are from August 2009, only three months after receiving my Helix and only a few sessions. These were from my first Aneros screen name. I no longer use that account. Rather lengthy, but descriptive.
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Three and a Half Hours –

I had today off. My wife and kids went to school and work. I was given a whole day alone. Perfect time to take a LONG stride on my journey.

I'm in my early fifties, married to a wonderful woman who is so supportive of my explorations with my Helix. Usually I put the Aneros in when I go to bed, it does its magic, then my wife does her magic and I have multiple, dry orgasms. We pleasure each other and I have a huge, tremendous traditional orgasm. We continue to cuddle and she knows what to do to make my mini-orgasms continue. Her touch is amazing. Well, you'd think that was amazing enough. Oh, no…

Back to today.

I took my son to school and returned home about 7:30 AM. My wife was just about to leave for work and my daughter was spending a few days with a friend. I had the house to myself. Carpe diem.

Morning Super-O

Howdy. Been away from here for a while. I noticed the last time I wrote here was last May. In the months since then, I've had a few good sessions, and a long dry spell in which I was ill and had absolutely no libidinal desires whatsoever. That has changed in the last few weeks, culminating in a session this week that was bar none the hottest one yet.

This was a morning session, and the first time I've ever had a super-o in the daytime. My prostate had been going crazy in the days leading up to it. It was in the kind of heightened state where you could summon up wild p-waves at will. Really bizarre, and exciting. Still, I wasn't expecting a lot when I decided to sit down with the MGX inserted that morning. Within minutes, I was getting p-waves. It surprised me, getting such strong feelings so soon. A few minutes later, the sensations escalated into mini-os. I was alternating between rubbing the "sweet spot" near the base of my penis and the penis itself, coaxing out stronger and stronger feelings. As the mini-os escalated into a more consistent dry-o sensation, I vaguely thought "hmm, interesting" as I let myself go and surrendered to the feelings, wherever they led. Pretty soon I was moaning and squirming around. And then the super-o came. Wow. Best one ever. I was able to ride it along for who knows how long. The sensations were so incredible that, when it came to finishing off with a traditional orgasm, it literally was an anticlimax.

Session 3

Thanks all for the comments, you make me feel that I am a member of a special group. Please make more, I need the support

I just completed my third session and I continue to make progress. I still have a lot twitching and shaking, and have several dry orgaisms of varying intensity. I feel that I am getting very close to a super O and my have even past it. There are times when I can cannot stop stimulating my nipples and I am thrashing around and I feel I need a release and it comes. Once I was on my knees and I just collapsed. Such pleasure!

The greatest thing are the contractions and orgaisms the following day. It first started at the gym in the shower. The warm water relaxes me and I just had wave after wave of pleasure.This continued at the office where every hour I had to close my door and grasp the desk and let the waves of pleasure come. They are truly orgaisms in that I feel so relieved and weak afterwards

I wish I had known about Aneros earlier in my life.

Update August 09

Since late June, almost exactly two months ago, I have had altogether, about three dozen sessions, which have involved all models of Aneros devices with the exception of any of the Peredise models. About four of these sessions have involved the Progasm Ice, but my preferred model seems to be the Helix, which was used in about half of all sessions.

I have now achieved a level of experience where I can reliably experience P waves in every session, usually coming in groups of half a dozen or so, continuing without a break for periods of about half an hour. Nowadays, I manage two or three such groups in each session. On a couple of occasions, I have experienced what I would believe was a mini O, during which my whole body seemed to shake almost uncontrollably, but these experiences have been rare. All sessions involving P waves have been with the Helix or SGX, but I am still experimenting and look forward to similar effects with the others. I still live in hope that one day I will experience a full-blown Super O.

I can also report that a few days ago, I had my Helix inserted during intercourse with my beloved J. This resulted in a most memorable and intense lovemaking session and created one of the most powerful orgasms I have ever enjoyed. (Although J does know that I am using Aneros devices, she was not aware of the presence of the Helix the other day)! I am hoping to involve her more fully in my use of Aneros devices but am aware that she is a bit sensitive about it thus far.

Second Session

First thank you all for the feedback and encouragement you have given me.I feel that I am a member of a very special group.

Now on to the second session, I could not wait so early this morning I had my second session with the MGX and it was unbelievably prleasurable. As with the first session very easy insertion; 15 min of relaxation and then gentle contractions while stimulating my nipples. Arousal came very quickly and I started feeling many pleasurable sensations. I had more quaking than in the first session. I worked up to a dry organism that was extremely intense. The post organismic contractions were the strongest I ever had and went on a long time.

I believe I am getting closer to the super O in that I am now get the beginnings of an erection during the session.

The greatest thing is that I am still aroused. I went to the health club this morning and felt good feelings the whole time. But what comes next was pure pleasure. Relaxing in the hot tub, I sarted having involuntary contractions and throwing P-waves. Such pleasure! By the time I got to the shower the contractions had intensified. I had to hold to the shower bar as the P waves went through my body. I got a spontaneous erection.
WOW! I am still feeling light contractions.

fourth session

yesterday I had my fourth session…and again no peace to concentrate properly. this time I locked up myself in the bathroom and had no disturbances, however I discovered that a small bathroom is not a very comfortable place to try the aneros..but sitting in the toilet makes it easier to get inside you 😛 jojojojo

anyway I managed to produce again some precum…but sometimes precum and piss came out simultaneously…that sucks a lot and was very disspointing 🙁

I still haven't found the right position or found my "sweet spot" :S that sucks too

and I still have problems getting horny without touching me….

I need an advice from the expert users: first you relax and insert the aneros, then relax again to let your butt get used to it….then what???

I manage to get to that part of relaxing and being comfortable with the aneros inside me but afetr that I'm kinda lost :S what's next? contractions?
how many of them? how frequent should they be? and what next?

I still haven't felt any p-wave or anything like that..

I finish my sessions wanking and my orgasms seem to be stronger than normal wanking 😀

I think what I need is more concentration, which is awfuly hard when you are never alone for at least an hour 🙁

please I need your advice! thanks

See you 🙂

Continued Progress

I know I might be getting ahead of myself a bit here, but yesterday, I received a Progasm Ice (which my retailer had told me I should have bought in the first place)!
This would have to be the most sensuous piece of kit I have ever laid eyes on. I could hardly wait to give it a try out, even though there was only a window of a few minutes available!

In Southeast Australia, we are currently suffering a drought, so water conservation is high on our priority list. Accordingly, because of the type of hot water service we have, to save water, my wife J. and I have an arrangement whereby she showers first and I follow immediately while it is still running. As J. announced she was about to start her shower, I knew I had just a few minutes to play with my new friend.

I injected (by means of the eye dropper) about 3ml lube into my rectum and then liberally covered the PI with lube. I tried to insert the PI from the crouching position but it was obvious that would be too painful. So, I lay on my left side on the floor with my left leg straight and my right leg bent and pointing upwards. In this position, taking it very slowly, I began to insert the PI, using the recommended Spooning technique. Was surprised to find that it went in quite easily. After some seconds, I received a call from J. summoning me for my shower. I eased the PI out and was again surprised, this time to find out how far it had gone in!. By this time I had at least three quarters of an erection and there was a considerable flow of precum from my penis. I also noticed that on completing my shower, my penis was still producing precum! This exercise has taught me that I will need some practice in insertion to become acquainted with the PI before attempting a session with it.

Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4096&start=15.

>>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond… anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<<

Grinding Away

I haven’t really had a bad session since starting the KSMO. One thing the KSMO really helps with is with the discipline to only use the Aneros three times a week. The Peridise is my weapon of choice since it produces results with a minimum of effort and a maximum of mobility.

I have 4 different kinds of sessions 1) Aneros 2) KSMO 3) The session I like to have when I lay down in bed at night and my prostate starts throbbing and I just relax and focus without either Aneros or KSMO and 4) My favorite, but least frequent, sessions with my SO. Not included are general spousal sex sessions which end in ejaculation and kick off another cycle of arousal building.

All these sessions result in intense sensations that I don’t know how they can keep going without release. And oh how sensitive my nipples have become! The general cycle of orgasm starts out with arousal building with session types 1, 2 and 3 and end when the wife wants it to or I need a good nights sleep – ‘cause otherwise, as the days pass by, the little walnut keeps me awake longer and longer.

Still, despite the constant cycle of arousal building, intense sensations and p-waves there have been no breakthrough moments of mini-o’s, dry-o’s or super-o’s.